eyi 10 - isikhumbuzo ngqa ebomini bomntwana. Ungeno yobomi yokuqala xa inkwenkwe ihambisa ukususela ebuntwaneni ukuya kwishumi elivisayo. Kule minyaka, nangoku uhlala umntwana, kodwa sele ufuna naye apha kobu bomi. Abantwana abakule minyaka yobudala babekuthanda into entsha, ukuphuhlisa, ufunde kwaye ngokubonakalayo ingqalelo kubantu abadala. A isipho kufuneka ibe isiko nje. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wonwabile ukuwufumana. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuba sisondela uhlaziywe ukhetho yangoku
Unakho ukuthenga izipho kwaye ngokuzenzekelayo, ngenxa yokuba umntwana nokuba nemihlali kwiseti eqhelekileyo yeelekese. Ke izipho, xa zikhetwa, kuthathelwa ingqalelo izinto ozithandayo kunye neminqweno inkwenkwe, uya kuzisa uvuyo kakhulu.
Yintoni endifanele ndiyenze?
Ngaphambi kokuba ukhethe isipho nenkwenkwe kangangeminyaka eli-10, kufuneka wenze isigqibo kwezinye criteria. Baya kunceda ngokukhetha.
- Izilangazelelo zomntwana. Umfana lowo ezinomdla iindlela nakancane ukuba incasa, umzekelo, incwadi malunga iintyatyambo. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba zibe umdla ingqalelo xa ukhetha. Esi siqinisekiso sokuba umntwana uza kufumana iimvakalelo HIV isipho.
- Kuba lowo isipho senzelwe. Ngubani na lo mntwana exhasanayo? Best umhlobo, mzalwana, nonyana, nomzukulwana - kwimeko nganye iya kuba izipho zabo khona.
- Isizathu isipho Ngokuba isipho kufuneka efanelekileyo. Kubalulekile ukuqonda xa isipho kunokuba fanekisela, yaye xa kufuneka ukhethe into ezimandundu. Lokuzalwa na isizathu ingcono ukuyinika umntwana uhlobo oluthile bauble cute. izipho ezinjalo nofaneleke ngakumbi ukuba ushiye yeziganeko kangako.
- Gift njongo. Kucacile ukuba eyona njongo iphambili ukukholisa umntwana. Kodwa injongo isenokuba ukuzonwabisa, ngokukhuthaza ngemisetyenzana, umzekelo, uphuhliso umntwana.
- Budget isipho lokuthenga . Inkcazo ichatshazelweyo ukwazi ukubala xa uthenga isipho kuya kunceda kakhulu ekunciphiseni isangqa ukukhetha.
Kukho into ndobunikela ukuba bube engama-nyaka elishumi.
- izinto Dear Kubonakala ngathi ngemixokelelwane, namacici, izacholo kunye neeyure imali eninzi. Le isimo izinto ukuba unyaka-elishumi inkwenkwe nangoku akufuneki. Kule minyaka, lo gama umntwana kwaye uphila ubomi asebenzayo kakhulu. wandiyolisayo izacholo ayeleleneyo elichithwe umdlalo imidlalo okanye kuvuna lo mfana.
- Soft kunye nezinye izinto zokudlala. Ngeminyaka-10, umntwana uya uvuma ukulwela inkululeko kunye imeko ngokwaso ibe omdala. isipho Loo akakwazi nje ukumkholisa inkwenkwe, kodwa ndikhubeke mna.
Ukukhetha unyana isipho okanye abazukulwana
Abazali kunye oomakhulu nootatomkhulu ngokuqhelekileyo ufuna ukunika umntwana into luncedo. Kuba abadala, kubalulekile ukuba isipho ikhuselekile ukuba umntwana and practical. Omama kanye abazali musa ngathi izipho ukuba kuyekwa lembombo kude. Kubo kubaluleke ngokwenene ukuba le nkwenkwe usebenzisa isipho ubuncinane okwethutyana. Kodwa ke oku akuthethi ukuba ukukhetha isipho esivela kubo kuphela iikawusi ezinithiweyo okanye incwadi kuyimfuneko kakhulu. I-Unyaka ezilishumi namakhwenkwe amaninzi zisoloko lowo wengcibi yokuluka, imifuziselo ezilawulwa irediyo-(iimoto, "drones", izikhephe ezincinane), imidlalo ezifana ichess kunye Checkers. Kusenokuba ukhetho elihle ukuba umntwana uwuthandayo oku.
Xa kweminyaka elishumi, amakhwenkwe, ukuba babekuthanda ezemidlalo, sele abanye uhlobo imbonakalo ozithandayo okanye benze ezithile candelo. Ngoko ke, isisombululo enkulu iza kuba izipho kwizifundo ezemidlalo. Ezo izipho ziya zilungele nje kuphela midlalo encinane, kodwa abafana abathanda ukudlala ibhola ekhatywayo esitratweni, ukuqhuba ibhayisekile.
izipho Sports ziya kuba ngaxeshanye kuluncedo kwaye elithozamisayo umntwana, kuba ikhuthaza uthando lwakhe.
Kuxhomekeka mdlalo ozithandayo, oko kungaba:
- ibhola - lebhola okanye omnye umdlalo, imibala standard okanye iisimboli ezisemthethweni kukhuphiswano zakho ozithandayo okanye iklabhu (umzekelo, iNdebe yeHlabathi);
- Uphawu ifomu ezemidlalo Ntanda Club okanye Mbaleki - Kungaba T-shirt, iibhulukhwe ezimfutshane, ibhulukhwe okanye iisuti yonke;
- irola okanye ice azifake, nasemkhenkceni, ibhayisekile, skate;
- ibaleka - i "abadala" yokwenene, hayi umntwana iikomityi sokufunxa;
- Enye uluhlu ezemidlalo - iiglavu wamanqindi ukuba andilociko yamanqindi, intonga ibe engahlawulwayo hockey.
Plus izipho zemidlalo kwakhona kwi yokuba ichukumisa ngenkuthalo ukuchitha ixesha. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo na ukuba umntwana bamangaliswa. Nakuba kunjalo, kufuneka ukucinga kunye eyilwayo le ncwadi. Azisoloko uyadika kwaye buthuntu yaye ube sipho yokuqala kakuhle.
Ukuze umntwana othanda ukufunda, kuya kuba ukhetho win-win. Inkwenkwe eneminyaka elishumi ubudala liye landa ukusuka iincwadi zabantwana malunga Kolobka kunye Soroki-Beloboku.
Lixesha lomvuzo ingqalelo iinketho for "abadala" ngaphezulu, kuxhomekeke obonelela umntwana.
- Kubalandeli fantasy La manqaku malunga Harry Potter kunye nucleoside Russian malunga Tanya Grotter okanye Methodius Buslaeva. Umntwana kunye nothotho iincwadi L. Beson ngokufanelekileyo adventures Arthur kunye nabahlobo bakhe okanye Fantasy kaYona Colver "uArtemis Faul". Unga cinga njenge inguqulelo isipho incwadi J Tolkina malunga Mediterranean okanye K. S. Lewis malunga Narnia.
- Ukuze abathandi fiction Le trilogy of F. Pulman "Dark Liqala", iincwadi malunga adventures Alice K. Bulychev okanye "Knights iziqithi mane" S. Lukyanenko.
- Works J. Verna, D. Defo, K. Doyle ingqalelo zakudala efanelekileyo ebantwaneni. "Journey ukuya embindini Umhlaba", "uCaptain Nemo", "Robinson Cruzo", "Sherlock Holmes" iya kuba iinketho kakhulu.
- abacuphi Abantwana Umzekelo, i "intshontsho black" series okanye nayiphi na enye. Abecuphi uyakuthanda kunye amathuba abo bali nokwenza umntwana ucinga ukuba sizame ukubona ngaphandle lilinono.
- encyclopedia Abantwana Iingqokelela amacebiso aluncedo, iimbekiselo emxinwa uya kuba isipho esilungileyo zamakhwenkwe uphande okanye abo naziphi zokuzonwabisa ezithile ezifana Wahlanganisa imifuziselo, ukuqokelela, ukufunda imbali, njalo-njalo.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba xa ukhetha incwadi njengesipho - ukuqinisekisa ukuba Inkwenkwe ukufunda kuyo. Abantu abadala naka ekuphuhliseni izipho ndlela ilungileyo. Kodwa kudla ngokwenzeka ungquzulwano encinane umdla. Yintoni ebonakala omdala asakhasayo, kubonakala ngathi abantwana uyadika. Noko ke, oku akuthethi ukuba izipho ezifanayo kufuneka bungaveli iinketho. Ukukhetha izipho ezinokuthi ukwandisa imimango umntwana simncede kunye zokufumana ulwazi olutsha, olunzulu. Ingaba:
- khulu ukuba umntwana nomdla eziphilayo;
- yerediyo Ukuba uyakuthanda inkwenkwe ukufunda iinkwenkwezi;
- World Globe okanye Map Ngokuba kwendawo engahlawulwayo, kuquka ikhadi ekuqaleni zamakhwenkwe abo banethuba yokuhamba nothando ngayo;
- Imisa ngokuba amalinge ngokwasemzimbeni okanye kwemichiza;
- Imidlalo yebhodi - ezinye iinguqulelo zikhula ukucinga nabaqiqayo;
- Iimodeli moya, iinqanawa kunye nezinto ezilolo hlobo;
- Imisa Ukusebenza iinkuni njalo njalo.
Oku akuphelelanga apho. Ungakhetha nantoni na, ukuba uyazi ukuba yintoni kanye umntwana uthanda. Isikhumbuzo 10 isizathu elihle ukunika umbono abancinci alibaleke. Akukho ulawulo ezinyanzelekileyo apho into ebonakalayo kuphela inokuba isipho. Umntwana anganika into yokuba akazange wazama, okanye into ayithandayo kakhulu kunene. Le iifoto apho umntwana uza kuba obonwabisayo kusala iimemori. Njengoko isipho-bacinge ngokuba le nkwenkwe iya kuba efanelekileyo:
- Interesting master yeklasi iimfuno zomntwana - ukwenza chocolate, ngumzekelo, umsebenzi emva isangqa zomdongwe kwaye kakhulu ngakumbi;
- ngeenyawo kumbindi karting phezu eweni, epakini emanzini;
- Ukutyelela nokufuna-igumbi - Kukho kumagumbi abantwana apho abantwana kufuneka nokusombulula amaqhina kunye iiphazili;
- imifuniselo laboratory yabantwana uya kuba isipho elihle kakhulu yasekhemesti abatsha kunye physics engahlawulwayo;
- atyelele Museum, zoo contact, iziko;
- uhlanga Koomatshini ezilawulwa radio-nokunye okuninzi.
Ukuba abazali bakulungele ukwenza umntwana isipho dear, unako ukuthenga i console umdlalo okanye ezinye igajethi mobile - ikloko okanye iwotshi smart. Ukulungela umntwana abazali isipho efanayo kufuneka amisele ngokwabo. Kufuneka ikhunjulwa into yokuba kwiminyaka 10 ubudala xa umntwana ngokukodwa lula ulikhoboka bonke abatsha.
Omnye wakhe, nto leyo ngabazali kuphela - isilwanyana njengesipho. Kufuneka unike umntwana isilwanyana kuba nje ufuna.
Ngaphambi kokuba bakwenze oku, kufuneka siqonde ukuba inkwenkwe ilungele imbopheleleko enjalo. Ngapha koko, le isilwanyana ayikho into yokudlala kwaye ifuna unakekelo care.
Yintoni ndinikela umzalwana?
Bazalwane noodade, ingakumbi xa kukho umahluko omncinane ngeminyaka, basoloko kulinganiselwe mali. Ngoko ke, uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali ukuba umzalwana isipho angacuthwa kakhulu. Kodwa phantsi kwezi meko, ungakhetha ukhetho engcono. Kuba iminyaka elishumi inkwenkwe ungenza isipho ngezandla zakho. isipho ezinjalo esiyenzayo nangoku nomtsalane abalahlekelwanga kuye. Lokuposa siyindlela zakudala. Kodwa umdla kwakhona ukuba enze into banal ezifana imagi okanye ikepusi, endowing kuzo iziqalelo umdla ekhaya kunye lokubhalela. ikhono lakho zingasetyenziswa ukwenza isipho ekhaya. Ukuba umntu azi ukuba ezivumelana ngayo, isikhafu lobuqu okanye mittens kungenziwa ukuba yokuzalwa kwenkwenkwe. Popular abahlobo Izipho zizipho for ukuzenza. Cool khetho kuba izipho kunye zamaqhawe ozithandayo. Kunokuba kuwubona abalinganiswa, neekomityi kunye neesimboli, t-shirt, imisesane ezingundoqo, njengencwadana yokuthatha njalo njalo.
Phantse bonke abantwana abathanda amnandi. Ngoko ke, isipho emnandi isoloko ukhetho win-win. Ukhetho elihle. mibalabala ipowusta 'elimnandi' kunye neqela amashwamshwam abaziintanda kunye neminqweno. Nkqu candy abaqhelekileyo kuba beat uze uhombise ukuze umntwana uya endithandile. Ukukhetha, ukuthenga iilekese. Sweet isipho nayo kuba okuzithandelayo. Akukho mntwana uya kukunika up ikeyiki emnandi, zosiwe kwaye ihonjiswe ngezandla zabo. Oku kuzakususa isipho amanqaku zothando nenyameko, iya kubonisa ukuba senzelwe umntwana.
Indlela Siyavuyisana ngumtshana okanye gosson?
Le nto elula ukubuza abazali enkwenkwe, yintoni kanye ufuna umntwana okanye yintoni na okona akuthandayo. Kodwa kukho oothixo abazali okanye uyisekazi no-anti, andifuni ukuba ukuhamba ngendlela ezilu-, uyakwazi ukuza nayo into ngokwakho. Ukususela malume, umakazi kunye godparents zezona abadala ezifanayo, ngathi abazali noomawokhulu, iikhrayitheriya ngokukhetha isipho esivela kubo ziyafana: iinzuzo, ukhuseleko, ukuba nokusebenziseka.
Xa abantu abadala bayazi ukuba bayawuthanda umtshana wabo okanye i-satell, kulunge kakhulu ngumsebenzi. Kuyasebenza, kodwa akukho mnandi ukuba yilinen yebhedi kunye namaqhawe athandayo kwindalo iphela indalo ithandekayo. Kwaye unokuthatha i-backpack okanye ibhayisekile ngomfanekiso weqhawe. Uthando lomntwana kwiikhathuni, iimovie okanye imidlalo inika indawo enkulu yokukhetha iimveliso ngemifanekiso yazo.
Kuxhomekeka kwizinto zokuzonwabisa zomtshana okanye umnquba, izipho ezilungileyo ziya kuba zizipho zezemidlalo kunye nezihloko zemfundo: ifom yezemidlalo okanye imodeli yenqwelomoya.
Iingcamango zomhlobo
Abantwana phakathi kwabo bayakuthanda ukutshintshiselana ngezipho ezingaqhelekanga nezinomdla. Rhoqo eso sipho singabizi kakhulu ngenxa yezithintelo kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali oluvela ekhaya. Kubahlobo bahlala befuna ukuba isipho sabo sibe le ntle, ngoko bahlala bekhetha oko ngoku kwi-wave yokuthandwa ngabantu abancinci. Abantwana bahlala besukele usukelo lokwenza ukuba izipho zabo zikhanya kwaye azilibaleki, maningabizi.
Umntu ofunda naye unokunika i-chain eqinileyo epholileyo, i-mug enendlela engaqhelekanga eprintiweyo, ethandekayo. Ithandwa phakathi kwezipho zesikolo ngokuzonwabisa. I-Pilmer Perf, ukoyikeka kombane, ukubetha kwedesktop, iwotshi ye-alamu, iwotshi epholileyo eludongeni - intsingiselo yokufumana iimvakalelo ezintle kwaye zibambe ukuhleka.
Akunakwenzeka ukuba unike umhlobo wezilwanyana ngaphandle kokulungelelanisa la manani nabazali. Isenokubonakala ngathi le yeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo, kodwa abantu abadala banokuba nombono wabo ngale nto.
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