Umhla wokuzalwa yiholide eyodwa wonke umntu. Ngokukodwa, kubantwana abakwiminyaka. Wonke umntu onesidima ulinde ukungavuyisi kunye neminqweno efudumeleyo, kodwa kunye nezipho ezingalibalekiyo. Ndingamnika ntoni ngenkwenkwe eneminyaka eli-12 ubudala? Zonke izimvo zantlandlolo zikulindile kwizinto zethu ezikhethekileyo.
Ndingenza ntoni unyana wam?
Xa inkwenkwana iphawula iminyaka eli-12 ubudala, ithi sele ude nomntwana, kodwa umntu okwishumi elivisayo. Ukusukela esi sigaba, abantwana abaninzi, ngakumbi amakhwenkwe, baqala ukutshintsha umlinganiswa. Kweli xesha, kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye ngokuqonda ukunyanga zonke izinto zokuzonwabisa kunye nezinto onomdla kumntwana okwishumi elivisayo. Ukwazi ukuba nezinto azithandayo kunye nezinto azithandayo, abazali baya kuba nakho ukukhetha ngokulula unyana onomdla kunyana oneminyaka eli-12 ubudala usuku lokuzalwa. Sinezimvo ezinomdla eziza kuza kubazali bonke.
Oomatshini banamhlanje kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zegajethi - Yile nto kanye inkwenkwe yonke kweli xesha leminyaka.
Ke ngoko, abazali bazisondela kakhulu kwizipho kwaye bathathe ukhetho olufanelekileyo kuluhlu lwabo.
Njengommiselo, abantwana beli xesha balinde kubazali bezipho zosuku lokuzalwa olungaqhelekanga. Upopu kunye noomma bazama ukuhlehlisa isixa semali esijikelezileyo kwangaphambili ukuhambisa isipho esinjalo kwisiqendu sabo, esiya kuba luncedo ixesha elide. Kuba abazali abazithengi izipho kwaye kwangaxeshanye bafuna into ebonisiweyo kwaye iluncedo, kufanelekile ukuba kuthathelwe ingqalelo Iitafile kunye neenombolo zefowuni.
Ukuba uNyana sele enefowuni yanamhlanje, ke kungcono ukuveza ithebhulethi elungileyo njengesipho somhla wokuzalwa. Kwelinye icala, lelinye nje igajethi, kodwa kwelinye icala, isixhobo esiluncedo kakhulu. Ngokuqala kwethebhulethi yanamhla, umntwana okwishumi elivisayo akasayi kuchitha ixesha kwi-Intanethi xa efuna ulwazi oluluncedo kwaye anxibelelane noontanga kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo, kodwa nokukwazi ukukhuphela iinkqubo ezifanelekileyo, iincwadi ezinomdla. Ngokuthenga isipho esinjalo kuNyana, sinyamekele izinto ezongeziweyo. Umzekelo, unokuthenga imeko ye-stackroof ye-stackprooty yegajethi entsha.
Unyana oneminyaka elishumi elinambini uya konwaba kakhulu ukuba afumane njengesipho Umdlali odityanisiweyo wanamhlanje enokuthathwa nawe ngokuhamba okanye kusasa intsasa. Ukongeza, cinga ngolu khetho njenge-headsets ezingenazingcingo. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, onke amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana aphupha ngegajethi yanamhlanje, eya kuthi ifumane amandla.
Ukuba uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali losapho luvumela ukuba uthenge unyana njengesipho incwadi yencwadi, eyona iluncedo kufundo. Kwaye ukuba inkwenkwe ayinamdla kuyo yonke into entle ijikeleze kwaye ibonisa umdla kwindlela yale mihla, unokuzisa ikhamera yale mihla kuye. Amakhwenkwe zanamhlanje, ukongeza kufundo esikolweni, anezinto ezininzi zokuzonwabisa kwaye rhoqo Ukuya kumacandelo emidlalo ngamandla okanye kwiiklasi ezinomdla. Ishumi elivisayo ngeli xesha lingathanda kakhulu isipho esiza kubonisa izinto azithandayo.
Qiniseka ukuba uthathele ingqalelo iimfuno zomntwana xa ukhetha isipho.
Kwimeko apho uNyana ebandakanyeke kwezemidlalo, unganika into kwi-Inimentri yezeMidlalo. Umzekelo, inokuba njalo I-Boarng Peary Pear, i-racket esemgangathweni ephezulu ye-tennis enkulu, i-hockey yeHockey yeHockey, ifomu entsha yebhola. Ukuba inkwenkwe ingakhethanga omnye okanye omnye umdlalo ngokwakhe, unokumnika Ibhayisekile yanamhlanje, isikhuseli sentsusa okanye iirollers. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ukhethe isipho esifanayo, qiniseka ukuba unxibelelana nonyana wakho ukuze ufumanise uluvo lwakhe.
Ubudala obuneminyaka elishumi elinambini ayithethi ukuba sele umntu omdala kunye nomfana ozimeleyo. Kwezi zinto, amakhwenkwe amaninzi asahleli ehleli eneendlela abazithandayo.
Ukuba unyana wakho uqokelela iimoto okanye iinqwelomoya, emva koko wamnika imodeli entsha eya kuthatha indawo efanelekileyo ekuqokeleleni kwakhe.
Inkwenkwe eyilayo njengeeseti ezikhoyo, iiseti zentsusa yeeklasi ezahlukeneyo zilungile. Umzekelo, unokukhetha Iseti yentambo okanye ivutha emthini, iseti yodongwe olukhethekileyo lokwenza ubumba okanye izikhumbuzo. Kwaye ungathenga I-easel yokwenene kunye neseti yeepeyinti zeoyile, Ukuba uNyana uyakuthanda ukupeyinta.
Kukho udidi olunjalo lwamakhwenkwe akwelo xesha ubudala sele bezama ukujonga isitayile nefashoni ukuba onke amantombazana kule ndawo. Ke ngoko, abazali banokukhetha izipho ezinesidima kunye nezingaqhelekanga zonyana wabo oya kunceda ukubambelela kumnandi kwaye ufumane isitayela sabo.
Njengomntu omncinci onokuthi uthathe Ihempe kunye ne-stylie tie. Kodwa eso sipho simele ukhethwe kuphela ukuba uyazi kakuhle into eza kwenziwa nguNyana. Ngokuphathelele kwizicelo zale mihla kumakhwenkwe ala makhwenkwe, anikele ingqalelo Izihlwitha ezinesitayile, i-supillas kunye nee-bracelets zenziwe ngesikhumba sokwenyani usebenzisa iintsimbi ezixabisekileyo.
Nesipho esigqibeleleyo sinokuba Ibukela . Phakathi kweentlobo ezahlukeneyo zokhetho, khetha ngqo iimodeli ezilungele inkwenkwe eneminyaka eli-12. Nika ingqalelo kwiiwotshi ze-elektroniki ezinezindlu zothutho kunye nokusebenza okwahlukileyo.
Ukuba ikhaya lakho alisekho izilwanyana zasekhaya, Kodwa uNyana ude waphuphe inja okanye intlanzi, ke ixesha elifanelekileyo lize kuzalisekisa iphupha lakhe. Kweli xesha, abantwana sele belwazi ngokupheleleyo uxanduva kwaye bakulungele ukhathalelo ngokuzimeleyo kwizilwanyana zasekhaya.
Njengesongezelelo, qiniseka ukuba uthenge yonke into esilwanyana esichongiweyo ukuba ihlale ilungele ekhaya.
Iingcamango zabahlobo
Isikhumbuzo sakhe se-12, onke amaphupha akwishumi elivisayo ebhiyozela abafundi afunda nabo kunye nabahlobo kwisangqa. Kweli xesha, amakhwenkwe kufuneka avumele ucwangciso lweqela elincinci lokuhlonipha umhla wokuzalwa kwakho. Ewe, ngenxa yeholide kumlingane ofunda naye okanye umhlobo onezandla ezingenanto awuyi kuhamba, ngoko kufuneka unyamekele isipho kwangaphambili. Yintoni onokumnika umntu abahlobo bakhe?
Abahlobo abafunda kwigumbi lokuzalwa kwisikolo esinye okanye baphila kwiyadi enye, mhlawumbi bayazi ngazo zonke izinto ozonwabisa ngazo kwaye sele bekuqonda ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwesipho asithandayo. Kufanelekile ukushiya izipho ezisemgangathweni kunye nezo ezingafezekisi uhlobo lwegumbi lokuzalwa. Umzekelo, ukunika incwadi inkwenkwe enomdla kwimidlalo kwaye ayithandi ukufunda konke konke, ayinantsingiselo. Ke isipho sakho siya kuba uthuli kwishalofini.
Okwangoku umhlobo kufuneka ube mncinci, kodwa ulungile kwaye upholile.
Ewe kunjalo, ekwiminyaka enje, yimfuneko ukuyeka iphulo lokunika ubugcisa owenziwe ngezandla zakho. Kuyinyani, kukho okwahlukileyo kwimigaqo. Umzekelo, ukuba umhlobo unokuvelisa umntu ongumntu oqinileyo okanye abhale umfanekiso, emva koko unokufanele ukuba sisipho seholide.
Ukusukela oko ukuba bonke abantwana abakwishumi elivisayo banomdla kwiikhompyuter, intombazana yosuku lokuzalwa iya konwaba ukuba ifumane omnye komnye njengesipho Umdlalo omtsha wekhompyuter. Ukuba uyazi kakuhle into enandiphilileyo umhlobo wakho, unganika i-souverier eya kumkhumbuza ngezinto azithandayo. Inkwenkwe yokuyila inomdla malunga nobugcisa inoku-odolwa I-stroloette yobuqu okanye idiploma yaseburhulumenteni, njengomculi ongcono okanye umlingisi. Umhlobo, i-enterbast Ibhola ekhatywayo, unganika Ikomityi ngohlobo lwebhola, itshokholethi ekhoyo ngendlela yebhola yebhola okanye i-T-shirt ngomfanekiso wakhe owuthandayo webhola.
Ukuba umhlobo uyakonwabela ukufundela ihlabathi elijikelezileyo, ilungele njengesipho sokuqala nesingaqhelekanga. Ifama. Enkosi kwesi sipho esingaqhelekanga esivela kumhlobo wakho, inkanuko entsha enomdla inokuvela.
Imidlalo eyahlukeneyo yeBhodi ihlala ifanelekile njengesipho ngayo nayiphi na iholide. Unokufunda kwangaphambili kumhlobo, yeyiphi imidlalo esele inayo ekhaya, ukuze inganikeli iseti yesibini yomdlalo owuthandayo. Njengalo hlobo lohlobo lomdlalo, ke kufanelekile ukubonisa i-fantasy encinci. Hlaziya i-checkers checkers kunye neLotto. Khetha ezi ndlela zokudlala eziza kuhlala zinomdla.
Umzekelo, inokuba "yinyani", umdlalo we-adventure nge-pirates yaselwandle, i-hockey yetafile okanye i-miniiards.
Abahlobo banokunika iimvakalelo ezintle. Umzekelo, unokuhlanganisana inkampani echwayitile kwaye uye apho, apho ungonwaba khona nonke. Abafana bezemidlalo banokukhetha I-clutter, ukugoba okanye ukuthambisa . Kwaye ungahamba nje nonke I-cinema.
Ukuba umhlobo wakho akakhathali kwiincwadi kwaye uyathanda ukufunda, uqiniseke ukuba umenza isipho esinjalo. Incwadi ayifanelanga ukuba yiyo kwaye inomdla, kufanele ukuba ibangele umdla kumhlobo wakho. Umzekelo, ukuba umhlobo uphakanyiswe ziinqwelo moya, iitanki okanye oomatshini, ungayinika i-encyclopedia enomdla ye-encyclopedia okanye ikopi edityanelweyo yokupapashwa. Kwabo bangakhathaliyo kwiintsomi, unokukhetha incwadi entsha yombhali odumileyo, obhala koluhlobo.
Kwakhona amakhwenkwe amaninzi njengongabo abacuphi, iincwadi zembali okanye iinoveli.
Yintoni onokumnika umzalwana?
Umntu wakhe womthonyama nomnyezo uhlala efuna ukunika into engaqhelekanga kwiholide. Ke ngoko, isipho somzalwana kufuneka sisekuqaleni kwaye siluncedo. Yintoni onokuyinika umntakwethu oneminyaka eyi-elinanye?
Ukuba ufuna isipho sakho singaqhelekanga, sukungasa nje nexabiso elifanelekileyo, kodwa iimvakalelo ezingalibalekiyo. Umntu ngamnye ngeli xesha ubudala sele uziva ezimele kwaye ezama ukoyisa igunya emehlweni oontanga. Ke ngoko, nayiphi na iholide sisizathu esibalaseleyo sokumema abahlobo kwenye indawo. Nika umntakwenu Isatifikethi sesipho sokuhamba kwenani elithile elimnandi. Uya kuba nako ukuya apho kunye nabahlobo bakhe, apho bonwaba khona kwaye iimvakalelo ezintle ziya kwanela enye ixesha elide.
Ukuba umzalwana kudala ukuphupha ukuya kwi-aerotrub okanye ukukhwela ihashe, unokuwufezekisa ngokulula umnqweno wakhe wathanda kakhulu. Thenga izatifikethi ezizodwa zokundwendwela i-hippodrome okanye iziko lokuzonwabisa. Ungaya apho kunye kwaye wonwabe ukuchitha namhlanje. Kwimeko apho uMzalwana ebengade aphupha ukuba abhalise kwicandelo lezemidlalo okanye ukuqalisa ukutyelelwa Umthambo kunye ne-silators kunye nephuli yokuqubha , Unokuthenga kwangaphambili ubhaliso kuyo.
Njengesipho esongezelelweyo, unokubonisa ubumfanelo obunesidima kunye ne-sneabrs yale mihla.
Uninzi lwabafana beli xesha bathanda imbali kunye neemoto, kodwa nakwindawo. Kule meko, unganika umzalwana Iteleskopu okanye iplanethi yasekhaya. Ngendlela, ngenxa yeteleskopu, inkwenkwe iya kuba nakho ukuphindisa zombini iinkwenkwezi zombini kunye nedolophu kunye nelizwe. I-helikopta enerediyo - Kulungile ukuba yinkwenkwe yenkwenkwe. Isipho esinjalo siya kuba sinomdla kungekuphela kumntwana oneminyaka eli-12 ubudala, kodwa kunye nabantakwabo, kwanotata.
Ungayalela umyili wokuqala ngokuzukisa usuku lokuzalwa lomzalwana. Eyona nto iphambili kumyili onjalo kukuba inamalungu adliwayo. Njengomthetho, zonke iinkcukacha zenziwe ngeMarmalala.
Isibakala sokuba usamnika inkwenkwe iminyaka eli-12, jonga ividiyo elandelayo.