Umhla wokuzalwa komama wakhe amthandayo sisizathu esimangalisayo sokujikeleza inkathalo kunye nengqwalaselo yakhe. Ewe kunjalo, musa ukwenza ngaphandle kwezipho ezimnandi, ngakumbi kwisikhumbuzo seminyaka engama-65. Umhla onjalo kufuneka lube yimini engalibalekiyo ye-zuzare, kuwo onke amalungu osapho. Ke ngoko, kuyimfuneko ukukhetha ukukhetha izipho zoxanduva olupheleleyo. Isibakala sokuba unganika umama iminyaka engama-65, kwaye uya kuxutyushwa kwinqaku.
Yintoni endifanele ndiyenze?
Iingcamango zezipho kufuneka zixhomekeke kumanqaku athile abalulekileyo. Kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba yeyiphi indlela yobomi ekhokelayo, loluphi uhlobo ngezinto ezinomdla kunye nezinto ozithandayo.
Okwangoku kungabikho ndlela yakukhumbuza i-ntlokoilege kwiminyaka yobudala. Nokuba umfazi akanikeli umahluko omkhulu, umntu akafanele ukhumbuze kwakhona ukuba ujike iminyaka engama-65 ubudala.
Ukwala ukuthenga izilwanyana kunye neeposikhadi ezinola manani.
Suku-odola ikhekhe lomthendeleko kunye nokukhankanywa kweminyaka yobudala bedijithali.
Ukuvuselela i-cosmetics kunye nesatifikethi se-cosmetologist sikwabizwa ngokuba kukhetho olungafunekiyo. Umfazi makave emncinci kwaye emhle ngalo mhla. Myeke ajikeleze imbonakalo enomdla yabantu obathandayo, amagama othando avakalayo.
Ukuba lo mfazi uyasebenza, kwaye kunzima kuye ukukholisa, kuyaceba ukucela kwangaphambili into angayithanda.
Ngamanye amaxesha isipho esamkelekileyo singcono kunokumangalisa. Ukuba ufuna ukumangalisa umama, kwaye ukhethe isipho ngokwakho, ungakhuthaza ukhetho olunikelwe ngezantsi.
Yezempilo
Ebudeni, umbuzo wezempilo ufanelekile. Khathalela umama wam, umnika ithuba lokwandisa imeko yovuyo kunye nokuba yimpilo-ntle.
- Ikhosi ye-Massage. Isatifikethi sokutyelela i-masseur yengcali kuya kuvumela umfazi ukuba aphumle izihlunu, susa iikliki kwaye uyonwabisa.
- Isatifikethi kwi-SPA. Olu khetho ludibanisa i-massage kunye neenkqubo zokushiya ezimnandi. Nawuphi na umfazi uya kuvuya kwisipho eso.
- Ubhaliso lwezemidlalo. Nokuba umama wakho akayithandi imidlalo, Akayi kwenzakalisa umsebenzi. Ii-hluko zininzi. Ukuqubha, i-yoga, uhambo oluhambahamba, ukulunga kwiqela elithile yobudala. Oku kunokuthatha umdaniso. Mhlawumbi, kukubulela kuwe umfazi uya kufumana isifundo somphefumlo oya kuyixhasa ngemo ebalaseleyo.
- Izixhobo zoqeqesho. Ukuba i-ntlokoile yindlu okanye iqhubeka nokusebenza, ngenxa yokuba ingenalo ixesha lokutyelela i-Club yezemidlalo, ungamnika ithuba lokuzigcina kwithoni ekhaya. Ukuhamba kuka-Simulator-ukhetho olukhulu lwemihla ngemihla.
- I-massager . Abavelisi bale mihla banikezela ngoluhlu olubanzi lwezixhobo zombane. Ezi zixhobo ezisenzelwe ukuthambisa iinyawo, intamo, umva. Kukho ukhetho lwendalo. Esi sisixhobo esiluncedo kakhulu kwimpilo entle.
- I-pug kwi-sanatorium. Ukukwazi ukuphefumla umoya omtsha, kwaye uphumelele iinkqubo zokuqinisa umzimba - isipho esimangalisayo. Qiniseka ukuba umbulelo kaMama awuyi kuba ngumda, kuba yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokukhathalela impilo yakhe.
Ngomphefumlo
Ukuba umama uthanda i-ART, unokunika umbono onomdla.
- Umnyhadala wenkcubeko. Isipho-siphoso sinokuba ngumfazi ukuba uqikelela ukukhetha. I-Artimes Connoisseur inokunikwa amatikiti kumboniso okanye yethiyetha. Mhlawumbi umama wakho uyakuthanda ikhonsathi yomculo weklasikhi okanye imvumi oyithandayo. Amatikiti kufuneka abe kwisibini ukuze umfazi akwazi ukonwaba nomntu osondeleyo kuye (nomyeni wakhe, umhlobo wakhe, okanye mhlawumbi nawe).
- Iklasi enkulu. Ukuba umama akakhathali kubuchule, uya kuthanda itikiti kwiklasi enkulu kwinaliti okanye ukupeyinta. Eli lithuba elihle lokufumana inkanuko entsha okanye ukuphucula izakhono ezikhoyo, uqhelene nabantu abanomdla, fumana abahlobo ngomdla.
- Ukuhamba. Ukuba ezemali zikuvumela ukuba wazise umama ngelizwe elitsha. Mhlawumbi wayesoloko ephupha ngeeparis okanye eLondon. Amatikiti olwandle sisipho esimangalisayo. Uhambo olunjalo lunokuba sesinye sezona ziganeko zichukumisayo ebomini bomfazi.
Izipho ezibonakalayo
Akukho mntu urhoxisiweyo kwaye unexabiso elibonakalayo.
- Ukuhonjiswa. Uninzi lwabasetyhini babukele nakweyiphi na iminyaka kwaye bagxininisa umfanekiso wabo ngeenkcukacha ezimangalisayo. Intetho entle yomama evela kuNyana iya kuba lubutyebi. Xa ukhetha umhlobiso, kuya kufuneka uqwalasele incasa yomfazi. Mhlawumbi uthanda igolide okanye isilivere, kwaye mhlawumbi uyaphambana malunga namatye emvelo. Olona khetho lubalaseleyo kweli tyala luya kuba zii-accelets, amakhonkco, imigexo, amacici. Ukuba uyathandabuza uhlobo loyilo oluza kuyithanda i-ntlokobile, inike iimveliso ezimfutshane nezintle.
- Izixhobo. Lo mfazi unjalo uya kukuvuyela ukuvela kwintombi yakhe. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukwazi amathanda amnandi noomama abaphambili. Ungayithenga ingxowa entle nelehle okanye i-wallet enobungozi. Ungayonwabisa umfazi onesifo se-beontin esifudumeleyo ye-belantin okanye isikhafu sesilika. Khetha imibala emitsha eguqulwe kwi-ntlokobile kwaye iya kuyenza ngokomfanekiso wayo i-notch ye-France Chic.
- Izinto ezinxulumene nokuzonwabisa. I-Connewoman iyakuvuyela konke okunxulumene ne-hobby yakhe oyithandayo. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, kuyimfuneko ukuqinisekisa ukuba amanye amalungu osapho kunye nabahlobo akazukubonisa njengesipho ngokufanayo. Seta ukubeka i-scraplocle phend, isipho soMbhali othandekayo, izixhobo zokungena okanye ukuqhutywa-izinto ezinokukhetha kuzo.
- Izixhobo. Isipho esiluncedo sinokuba mnandi kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphambi kokuba uye kwivenkile, kuya kufuneka ufumanise ukuba yintoni kanye kanye umama wakho. Mhlawumbi icebo aliphumelelanga okanye liphelelwe lixesha. Emva koko endaweni yoko kuyimfuneko. Olunye ukhetho kukuthenga oko abazali bakho abangazange babe nalo. Umzekelo, umntu uza kwenza isitya sokuhlambela, kwaye umntu uya kuvuya nge-yogurt hit okanye uMenzi wezonka.
- Igajethi. Kukho i-stereotype into yokuba abantu besizukulwana sesidala abangenamdla kubugcisa bezobuchwephesha. Nangona kunjalo, oku akusebenzi kubo bonke. Mhlawumbi unyoko uya kuvuya kwicwecwe okanye encwadini. Eyona nto iphambili ukubonisa i-ntlokoile, indlela yokusebenzisa igajethi kwaye uqiniseke ukuba yonke into icacile kuye.
- Izinto ezenza intuthuzelo. UProuffy oPhila uza kuvutha ngokuhlwa. Umthombo wokuhombisa uya kuthoba ngamanzi azolileyo. I-Bonsnai okanye esinye isityalo esiluhlaza siya kuphakama ioksijini ye-acynin kwaye ihonjise igumbi.
- Umzobo. Umfanekiso kwi-canvas, ukutsalwa kwifoto-isipho se chic. Oku kunokuba ngumfanekiso wosapho lonke okanye umzobo wobuqu weNtlokoma. Unoku-odola umsebenzi onesitayile oya kuvela kuye, umama wakho, ngokomfanekiso wegazi. Isimangalo esinjalo siya kuba mnandi kakhulu.
- I-pilmey yobyikitya kunye neefoto. Olunye ukhetho loyilo olungaqhelekanga lwefoto yosapho yi-cushion ethambileyo. Kwimveliso unokucwangcisa ifoto enye okanye imifanekiso emininzi engalibalekiyo. Inketho yoyilo iseti enkulu.
- Imveliso kunye negama lokuhombisa. I-terry ye-terry inesipho esihle. Kwaye ukuba kubhaliwe igama le-ntlokoile, ibinzana elithi "amabinzana amnandi" okanye amanye amagama amamnandi, ngoku uya kuba mnandi kakhulu.
- Iintyatyambo. Olu luphawu olubalulekileyo lwayo nayiphi na iholide yabasetyhini. Inokuba sisityalo esinefuthere okanye isityalo esineentyatyambo embizeni. Ngayiphi na imeko, iintyatyambo ziya kuba yinto efanelekileyo kwintshayelelo ephambili.
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Izipho ezenziwe ngezandla zakho
Ukuba unokuthunga, yenza i-tact entle yetephu. Ukuba uKhulisa, ungamkholisa umama onomzimba ofudumeleyo, u-scarf okanye verbges.
Ukuba ubuncinci ubuchule bokuhlela kwevidiyo yevidiyo, awuyi kuba nzima ukwenza i-visi yevidiyo echukumisayo kwiifoto.
Gqibezela ukudalwa komculo owuthandayo kwaye uyijonge ngosapho lonke.
Isikhumbuzo-iholide enkulu. Phawula njengoko efuna ukuqinisekiswa kombhiyozo. Mnike ulwandle lovuyo nothando, ulivakalise kwizipho ozithandayo ngomphefumlo wonke. Ke umama wakho uyakukhumbula lo mhla ixesha elide, kwaye uya konwaba kuba wawukwazi ukukholisa umntu othandekayo.
Ezinye izimvo zesipho zinokufumaneka kwividiyo engezantsi.