Ukuqhelanisa nendoda ngobudlelwane obubi-nantsi enye yeengxaki zomfazi onesizungu zanamhlanje. Wonke umntu ufuna ukwazi iindawo apho ungaya khona kwaye ufumane ikamva lakho. Kwaye ingabalulekanga ngokupheleleyo, emva kweminyaka engama-30, emva kweminyaka engama-40 okanye emva kweminyaka engama-50 ukhangela isibini okanye ufuna ukwaziwa ngeminyaka embalwa, sisazi ukuba, kulula ukuphepha iimpazamo ezininzi kakhulu.
Inkazana yanamhlanje yokuphila kufuneka isebenze Nangona kunjalo, umbuzo apho uza kudibana khona nomntu oqhelekileyo, onesidima, oqinileyo, uphephe amadoda anxaxhileyo, obomeleleyo, uhlala evulekile.
Kwi-Intanethi
Ukuqala, awunakuya naphi na, ngaphandle kwezixhobo ezibonakalayo ezenziweyo ngokukodwa ukuthandana kunendlela elula nesebenzayo yokufumana isibini. Siphila kwinkulungwane yenethiwekhi kunye ne-Intanethi, ukulahla oku, kuthetha ukuqhekeza. Nokuba awunguye umsebenzili osebenzayo wezinto ze-Intanethi, kuyafuneka ukuzama. Ungalibali into enye: Kwelinye icala lesikrini kunokuba ngubani, kwaye aba ngabantu abafanayo abasingqongileyo ebomini bokwenyani.
I-knights, amaqhawe, iinkosana zifunyanwa apho kunqabile ukuba ihambe i-fupermarket ekufuphi.
Kwi-Intanethi ukuze uqhelene nendoda yesangqa apho ungazivanga khona. Kungabubuntu bokuyila, igosa, ishishini, kodwa ngempumelelo efanayo uya kuqhelana nomfundi, i-slacker okanye iZhigalo. Ngendlela, ukuba uqwalasela indawo engafanelekanga kwi-Intanethi ukuze uqhelane, qiniseka ukuba umngcipheko kwaye wenze iphepha lemibuzo kwindawo yokuthandana. Luhlobo olunjalo lonxibelelwano kwizinto ezininzi luya kukufundisa, luya kulumkisa kakhulu, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kuya kukhusela ukuzithemba. Abasebenzisi be-Intanethi kumgangatho oqinileyo abayi kutywinwa ngenxa yokuncoma, kwaye kungekudala uya kuziva ngukumkani.
Kwaye xa amehlo akho athabatha amehlo akho, ukuzithemba kuya kukhula, imvakalelo yemfuno yabo ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuphakamisa izabelo zakho emehlweni amadoda okwenyani.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, iqinisekisiwe ixesha elide - kamsinya nje ukuba ufumene fan, enye ivela kwangoko.
Ukuqhelana nobomi bokwenyani
Iintlanganiso ze-Virys azifuni ukuba uvele, ungahambelani ngokukhuselekileyo kwi-pajamas. Kulula ukuthumela ifoto yakhe eyenziwe ngumfoti oqeqeshiweyo. Ubomi benene buyamema imithetho yayo, apha i-Avatar entle ayiyi kunceda. Ngokukhethekileyo, qho kusasa ukwenza isitayile esibuhlungu kunye nokulwa nemibala, kodwa umfazi ophumeleleyo uhlala evelisa uphawu oluhle ngakumbi kunoxesha.
Ke ngoko, senza ixesha kwi-Manicure, iinwele, isitayile, ukungahoyi ukukhanya kwemihla ngemihla.
Ukongeza kukhathalelo, kubalulekile ukuba wenze kunye nomfanekiso ochanekileyo. Okokuqala, ngaphandle kwengubo ongayi, encinci okanye enkulu - uya kuziva ungakhululekanga kuyo, kwaye ngenxa yoko ungaqinisekanga. Emva koko sisusa iimpahla ezivuselelekileyo: ezona ntlobo zinzulu, ifanitshala ebonakalayo, iFrank Mini. Ke uya kuvelisa umbono wokuba ufezekisa, okanye utsala uhlobo olungalunganga lwamadoda afunekayo. Awudingi ukutshintsha isitayile sakho uze uphinde wenze isitayile sakho, kodwa indlela ebaluleke kakhulu kwiwadi yakho iya kukunika ithuba lokuba ingaqhelekanga, kodwa inomtsalane.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha iimpahla ngohlobo lwenani, elifihla iintsilelo kwaye ugxininisa isidima. Musa ukugoba ubude obungaphezulu, okokuqala, ii-studs kubomi bemihla ngemihla zikhangeleka zingaqhelekanga, kwaye okwesibini, azisebenzi. Ngokukodwa ngononophelo ngezithende, ukuba ukukhula kwakho kungaphezulu komndilili.
Ungafumana phi?
Ubomi bale mihla bukhawuleze kakhulu, kodwa ungaqhelanisa nomntu ofanelekileyo, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa iinzame zeTitanic. Okokuqala, jonga kuwe. Ukuba uyathanda ukujikeleza iiwotshi zewotshi, kutheni ungakhuphi isibonelelo kuyo? Zulalela imixholo yamadoda enkumbulo, ujonge amatye kunye nehempe, imoto okanye igiya yokuloba.
Kodwa ukuphambuka kweempahla zangaphantsi kungcono ukuphepha, uya kujonga apho njengomfazi othenga iisokisi ezimbalwa.
Ukuba uyakucela, qiniseka ukuba uyanceda, kwaye unomdla yindlela entle yokubonisa unxibelelwano. Buza iBhunga kwaye wena, ukuba umntu okuthandayo, kutheni ungacingi ngotata okanye ngotata kunye. Ukongeza kwivenkile yempahla, iqonga elihle lentlanganiso kunye nendoda ekhuselweyo - iivenkile zemoto kunye nempahla yemoto. Apho unokubuza ngenkani, cela uncedo ekukhetheni kwaye ujongeke umhle kwaye ungumntu obhinqileyo. Ukuba awunayo imoto, ndixelele ukuba uphupha ngokuthenga, kodwa akukho mntu kufuneka athathe izifundo zokuqhuba.
Amadoda ayakuthanda ukusindisa nokunceda, kufuneka ubanike ithuba elinjalo. Oku kunokufezekiswa ngokulula kumasebe okwakha, iiSalon zekhompyuter, iiselons. Jonga iivenkile ezinkulu, ngakumbi kumasebe, apho ukutya okuphelileyo, iimveliso ezigqityiweyo kunye notywala ziyathengiswa. Kule lokugqibela, unokucela ngokukhuselekileyo iBhunga malunga nokukhetha i-whiskey elungileyo njengesipho somzalwana.
Ukuthenga ayisiyiyo kuphela ithuba lokudibana nendoda yamaphupha akho. Ithuba elihle elinika imiboniso. Akunakulindeleka ukuba i-van gogh iza kunika amathuba afanelekileyo, kodwa kulwakhiwo, ikhompyuter, umboniso wasemkhosini okanye emkhosini uya kuqhelana naye ngaphandle kobunzima.
Iivenkile zokutyela kunye neekhefu
Uninzi lwazo, into yokuqala eza engqondweni xa umbuzo uphakama apho uza kudibana khona - oku kukusekwa kwendawo yokutya. Ewe kunjalo, kunjalo, kunokuba lula ukudibana apho, kwaye amathuba entlanganiso nomntu oqatha kuphakamileyo. Musa ukubeka ithemba elikhulu lokuthandana kwiiklabhu zasebusuku, iivenkile zokutyela kunye nemivalo. Kodwa isidlo sasemini seshishini okanye ivenkile yekofu ngoSuku lwangeCawa lukhetho oluhle.
Eyona nto iphambili kukunika indoda ukuba itye ngaphambi kokuqala ukutsala umdla.
Emsebenzini
Le ndlela yempikiswano, ngakumbi ukuba i-quatneng yibhinqa, kwaye ayisoloko ineempawu zenoveli ezikhokelela kwisiphumo esichanekileyo. Ukanti ipesenti yemitshato egqityiweyo phakathi koogxa bakhona kakhulu. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abantu banxibelelanisa ukuhlangana kwezilangazelelo zabo, ukongeza, imvana yeentlanganiso kunye nonxibelelwano zihlala zivela uvelwano lophuhliso olukhawulezileyo. Ke ngoko, akunakwenzeka ukuba iphinde ikwenze ngokupheleleyo le nto.
Ezemidlalo
Ubhaliso kwindawo yokuzivocavoca sisisombululo esihle sokufumana ukuthandana. Ukongeza, luncedo kuwo onke amanani, impilo kunye nokuzithemba. Ukuba awuthandi ukuba abatoliki, yiya echibini, qala ukubaleka epakini, ukuba uyathanda ibhayisekile- ngenxa yomdla onjalo kulula kakhulu ukufumana umntu ohamba naye. Ukuba umzobo ulungile, ehlotyeni chitha ixesha elide elunxwemeni, imidlalo ngebhola kunye nezinye iindlela zokuzonwabisa zisondele kakhulu ebantwini.
Umsebenzi
Iingqungquthela, ukuQeqeshelwa, iisemina-Iindawo ezihamba apho zihamba khona, kodwa abameli bawo abafuna ukuphuhlisa. Kumboniso womfanekiso oqingqiweyo wasekhaya ngokuqinisekileyo uya kudibana nabantu osebenza nabo abaninzi. I-aurication aurtiction ivumela ukuba uphose kwimozulu yamadoda aqinileyo namadoda akhuselekileyo.
Awudingi ukuba usebenze ukusuka kwelinye icala uye kwelinye, chaza uhlobo lwamadoda anomdla kwi-Meriveli, kwaye uyenze.
Iingcebiso zoochwephesha beengqondo
Ngelishwa, ngokweenkcukacha-manani, ngaphezulu kwesiqingatha sokuthandana akuveli kuba umfazi uziphathe kakubi. Ungangeni njani kule meko?
- Musa ukuguqukela kumzingeli onokukhangela olijongekayo, ukujonga kwangaphambili, injongo yakho kufuneka yaziwa kuwe kuphela. Ayinamsebenzi apho ukhoyo, yenza ngathi le ndawo yinjongo yakho, kodwa hayi umgibe wendoda. Ukuba unomdla othile, uziphatha ngokwemvelo, ungabe nemihlali kwaye ungaphindi ukubanda. Intlonelo kunye nobuhlobo ngoyena mncedisi ababalaseleyo. Kwaye akukho mntu ufuna indebe, endivumelana nomzuzu wokuqala.
- Ke ngoko, ngokuzithandela ubaleka kakhulu kwi-cafe, le ngcaciso imfutshane ayisoloko iyona ndlela ilungileyo yokubopha umntu omaziyo. Kungcono ukutshintshiselana ngefowuni kwaye uvumelane ngentlanganiso ngolunye usuku. Ukuba awuzange ulinde umnxeba, akufuneki ucaphuke, kunokuba umntu ebengayi kuqhubeka nokuqhubeka nokwazi kwabo ekuqaleni. Indoda enomdla iya kuhlala ifezekisa eyakhe.
- Nokuba unenkalipho kwaye usebenza kakhulu, akuyimfuneko ukuyibonisa ngovuyo ngosuku lokuqala, kwaye inkcitho egqithisileyo ivelisa umbono ombi. Akukho kuphendula ngokuphendula-musa ukuqhubeka nokukhubekisa, hayi umntu wakho.
- Musa ukukhawuleza, nikeza intlanganiso ukuba ikhule ibe yinto entle yokwandamkela, kunye nokwazi into ngakumbi ngokuzimeleyo. Indoda idinga ixesha lokujonga.
Iingcebiso zezengqondo malunga nendlela yokudibana nendoda, jonga kwividiyo engezantsi.