Kunzima ukumangalisa umntu ngamagama athi "i-interpoest" kunye "ne-tsorpoever". Kodwa ukuba le miba yengqondo yangena ngaphakathi kwabantu abaninzi, ke ulwazi lwama-Ambipers aluqhelekanga. Ngeli xesha, eli qela liqhelekile kunokuba lingabonakala.
Ixabiso lekota
IGAMA Elihlaziyiweyo "i-ankaverter" inombono wengqondo enzima. Abantu abaninzi bayazi, ewe, ukuba "imbuyekezo" ibizwa ngokuba yintoni amaxabiso amabini aphikisayo anokuba nento ngaxeshanye. "I-AmbalaDekstrami" ibhekisa kubantu abaninzi ngokulinganayo. Ngokufanayo, kwi-psychology, igama elithi "Ambiurnsia" lithetha ubukho beempawu zangaphambilana kwimvelo kwi-introvers kunye ne-extoets. Indiba elikhethekileyo elikhethekileyo linika uhlengahlengiso oluhle kuluntu oluhlukileyo lwabantu. Inkcazo yomlondolozo ibonisa ukuba umntu onjalo uziva uthandana ngokuvisisanayo kwinkampani yabantu abatsha, nakwindlela eqhelekileyo eqhelekileyo.
Isenokubonakala ngathi oku kuthetha ukufezekiswa kwegolide embindini. Abantu abazivalelwa ngokwabo, kodwa nabo abanangxaki yokungabikho konxibelelwano nesangqa sangaphandle. Nangona kunjalo, oku akunjalo: Icandelwana eliphezulu lonxibelelwano kunye nokugcina abantu abaqhelileyo banokuba nexesha elifutshane. Ii-Abroll zinokukhathaza iingxelo ezithile zabantu ababangqongileyo. Yintoni ebalulekileyo, imbono enjalo ngamanye amaxesha igcinwe nokuba noxolo lwangaphandle olupheleleyo lwengqondo.
Iimpawu zohlobo lobuntu
Ukuziqhelanisa okuphezulu kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, amandla okukhetha eyona ndlela ifanelekileyo yokuziphatha yindawo yokuziphatha komlo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba kwinyani yokwenyani "yokucoceka ngokucocekileyo" kunye neewroversions azifumaneki. Philayo abantu, hayi kwii-psychotips ezichazwe kuncwadi olukhethekileyo, imiqondiso ye-extoverpover kunye neentlobo ezingenamsebenzi zixubeneyo. Kwaye ke umntu ongubani, ngumntu onjalo, onobunzima obukhulu, nkqu neengcali zinokubona amandla eempawu ezithile. Ubuntu ngamanye amaxesha banemfuno yokuthula.
Kodwa lo mnqweno uphela kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, itshintshwe kancinci ngumnqweno wokunxibelelana nabanye abantu ubuncinci ngefowuni. Ii-abrols zinokwazi ukuzibona kwaye zepropathi enjalo: Ukuba banyanzelekile ukuba bahlale beseweni okanye banxibelelane neemeko ezingaxhomekekanga kubo, baya kuyidlulisela ngokuzolileyo imeko enjalo.
Enye into uphawu lomndilili phakathi kwe-intervoti kunye nohlobo lwe-extover-Potu kukungabikho kweengxaki ezibonakalayo xa uqhelanisa. Nditsho nokunxibelelana nomntu owayengaziwayo, i-ambulelo iqonda kwangoko ukuba umnxibelelanisi ufuna apho i-lkavit, nalapho ayithethayo inyani. Umxube wezinto ezahlukeneyo zomntu oququzelela uvelwano kunye nokwamkelwa kwaphela kwiimvakalelo ezifihliweyo.
Ii-abribls ziziva kakuhle ngathi zibukele kwaye ziyinkokeli. Ezi mpawu zinokutshintsha ngokulula, kuba kwezinye iingongoma ngexesha, imvakalelo yokukhupha isidangazeli ibaluleke ngakumbi, nakwabanye - umboniso wokubaluleka kwabo. Inqanaba eliphakathi lomsebenzi wengqondo alibalili iqhekeza elaziwayo lekratshi, kodwa kunqabile ukuba lilawule. Ii-abrirls azifane zingene kwimfazwe evulekileyo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, abantu abanjalo kunye nabanye bazama ukuqhubeka bebutshaba.
Ubuntu obufanayo busebenza kwaye njengeyunithi ye-autonomomous, kunye nenxalenye yomthetho osemthethweni okanye ongekho sesikweni. Xa ukhetha umgca wokunxibelelana nabanye abantu, inyula kuphela eyona inkulu, kodwa nesona sicwangciso sikhuselekileyo. Lowo uvumela indlela yokufezekisa iziphumo ezinzulu kwimpumelelo kunye nonxibelelwano oluphazamisayo, intsebenziswano, ukuba kukho ukusilela ukuba elinye icala liziphethe kakubi. Ukhetho olunjalo kwenzeka ngokungazi, ngokungathi lulo. Akukho sidingo sokufunda uncwadi olukhethekileyo, uqeqesho oluthile okanye ukubonakaliswa kobuhlungu.
I-abhirensi yenziwe kakhulu kwinqanaba lendalo. Lo ngumyinge othile wokuntywila kunye nothintelo lokuqhawula. Kufanele ukuba ukhunjulwe ukuba ngaphandle kwengcaciso ebonakalayo kunye nenjongo yokuguquguquka kwengqondo, inokuhlengahlengiswa, nangona kunzima ukulungiswa. Qaphela ukuba ungowenu uhlobo lobuntu lwamabhongo lunokuba nakho ngaphandle kwesibongozo kwiingcali zengqondo.
Kwanele ukuba uqonde ukuba amaxesha aneleyo ebantwini:
- ukuncipha kwamaxesha ophuculo emsebenzini ngenguqulelo ukuya kwisikhundla se "mbongo";
- Ukubonakaliswa kobunkokeli obubalaseleyo kunye neempawu zentlangano, kodwa kuphela kwimeko ethile, ngamanye amaxesha ngamathub 'athile;
- Umahluko ekumiselweni kokuziphatha (umntu ugxininisa utyekelo lwenkokeli, abanye baphantse bangaboni);
- Isakhono sokuhlala sizolile phantse kuyo nayiphi na imeko-moya;
- Iziphumo ezifanayo zeqela kwaye ngokwahlukana nayo.
Ngamanye amaxesha, ama-Ambiars achanekile ngakumbi kwi-waddrovers. Abantu abanjalo banokuseka abafowunelwa obutsha ngaphandle kobunzima obungafunekiyo nangona babengena kwisangqa sonxibelelwano, ukusuka kwenye indawo yobungcali, ubuhlanga okanye inkcubeko. Ukukwazi ukwabelana ngokulula ngeengcinga zabo kunye neembono zabo malunga neengxaki ezahlukeneyo, ukuvuma ukuveza amava abo kwihlabathi elingaphandle. Nangona kunjalo, amaxesha ngamaxesha, onke amalungu afanayo anciphisa umsebenzi kwaye aye kwi "cwaka ethulekileyo". Apho babuyisela amandla abo engqondo onceda emva koko aphinda anxibelelane kwaye amisele ukusebenzisana.
Ukuba iyasilela ukuthula kwaye iphumle, ukupheliswa kwamandla engqondo, ukudinwa kwengqondo kunye nokukhathazeka kwengqondo kwenzeka ngaphambili kunangaphambili. Ngenxa yokuba iholide, impelaveki, ngamanye amaxesha ngokuhlwa kunye neeholide zizama ukuthwala kude nabantu okanye ngamanani amancinci. Ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba uye ebhankini yomlambo, ukuya ehlathini, ukuba uthathe umhlala-phantsi kwigumbi okanye endlwini - indlu - hamba nje ezitratweni, uzama ukuba kude neendawo apho abantu abasebenza khona okanye abaqhelene khona.
Kodwa kukho nohlobo oluphiseko: umntu ongxengxweni, 'okwinto engaphezulu. " Umntu onjalo ukhetha isizungu ngakumbi, uziva uqobo siyimfuneko. Umsebenzi woluntu unokuzibonakalisa, kodwa kunqabile kwaye imfutshane. Okwangoku, "Yiya ebhodini" esikolweni okanye eyunivesithi, biza ingxelo kwintlanganiso yonyaka okanye kwintlanganiso yeveki yonke, kodwa i-therima iya kuphuma ngobunzima obukhulu. Kufuneka iqatshelwe ukuba umxube onjalo weempawu zobuqu unokufihliwe ngononophelo. Phakathi kwenkampani enkulu-kwisidlo, kwiqela eliphambili lokusebenza, kwiqela elijikelezileyo linokwazisa ukungangqinelani nobubele bomntu, ukubonakaliswa kwakhe ingqalelo yakhe kwinxalenye yakhe. Nangona kunjalo, kufanelekile ukusetyenziswa okukhulu kwamandla engqondo, ngamanye amaxesha ihambisa ukungalunganga ngaphakathi.
I-AMBICTATTATTE YENKQUBO YOKUQWALASELWA NGAYO IXESHA LOKUZIPHATHA NGOKWAZI UKUFUNDA, cinga malunga nokucwangcisa ngokucacileyo isenzo sabo. Umntu uyayazi kakhulu ukuba yintoni amandla ayo kunye nobuthathaka kwimeko ethile. Kuyenzeka ukuba ucinge ngaphezulu kwesicwangciso esiliqili sesenzo, lungisa njengoko kufuneka. Ukusilela okwahlukileyo kunye neengxaki kunokuthathelwa ingqalelo kunokuba kunjalo, kodwa kwabanye, ngaphandle kokuba kufutshane, akusoloko kucaca.
Kodwa akukho bungozi bokuntywiliselwa kuxinzelelo, kuba amava anzulu ahlala ixesha nje elincinci, kwaye ukuba kukho imfuneko, yenza into ityelwe ngokukhawuleza; Inceda kwaye ukhetho lwentuthuzelo yobuqu.
Izibonelelo kunye nokungancedi
Ulwazi lweempawu ngokubanzi ze-ambifiskerts azivumeli ukuba zifikelele esiphelweni, zithini izibonelelo zabo kunye nezinto ezingalunganga. Esi sihloko sifanelwe kukuqwalaselwa ngononophelo. I-ambores ifikeleleka yintlungu, esebenze ixesha elide. Isiphumo senqanaba elahlukileyo asicacanga, kodwa ukugqitywa okuqaqambileyo kweprojekthi ethile ngokwazo, i-Eboding yesiCwangciso inikela indoda. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba injongo ichazwe ngokucacileyo, yaza yaba yeyokwenyani kwaye ibaluleke kakhulu.
Ukuba ezi meko ziyaqwalaselwa, amabhotile asebenza ngokucwangcisiweyo kwaye ngempumelelo nokuba "yidlula" kwaye uyeke ubunzima babantu bezinye iindidi zengqondo. Umgama kwiingxabano kunye nokukwazi ukuzicima kuvumela ukunciphisa inqanaba lokujongana kwiqela kwaye kusondele. Ke ngoko, ukubandakanyeka kwee-ambiverts kuhlala kunciphisa iinkanuko zenkanuko kunye nokonyusa imveliso yemisebenzi yeqela. Nokuba wonke umntu onokubandakanyeka kwisikali, alibale malunga nentsebenzo yamatyala asemthethweni. Ulawulo olucacileyo lweemvakalelo:
- ukhusela kwizisombululo ze-rash;
- Ikuvumela ukuba usasaze ingqalelo kunye nenzame yesicelo ngokusisigxina;
- Inceda ukuphelisa iinzame ze-maxipilators ukutshintsha izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka, ngokuchaseneyo.
Ii-abrirls zibonisa ingqwalaselo kwaye zikhathalele abanye abantu. Kuyakhululeka ukunxibelelana nabo, nokuba imeko ayithandeki, kwaye imood ichithe kakhulu. Kwangelo xesha, ipropathi esebenzisekayo kukwakhona ukugcina umgama. Ibhloka imvakalelo yoxinzelelo lwengqondo, ukongeza inza lula iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ze-proimilting. Kumbungu ukhuselwe ukonakala kakhulu kunye nenguqu yokunxibelelana ngokungacwangciswanga kwiqela lesixhobo sezinto ezithile kunye nequla.
Ii-abribl zaziwa kwangaphambili ukuba ingayizalisa njani intsilelo yamandla engqondo kunye namandla eemvakalelo, indlela yokufumana ukuphefumlelwa. Ezo bantu, ukuqalisa iprojekthi entsha ngokwayo, ngakumbi kwindawo engaqhelekanga yomsebenzi, kwindawo entsha okanye kwiimeko ezingekho mthethweni, ungaze uzame "isitampu" sezikhundla zobunkokeli. Basebenza ngokucwangcisiweyo. Kwaye ngeli xesha, abanye abaninzi bazama ukubandakanyeka kwinkoliseko yabo, bangavumi ukudityaniswa kobuqili. Kungenxa yokuba kufutshane nasekupheleni kweprojekthi kuya kucacile ukuba ngabalulekileyo ababhinqileyo ezenza isininzi somsebenzi kwaye baphumelele impumelelo eqaqambileyo.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ii-alusms zimbini zimbi kakhulu kunezinto eziguqulweyo zilungelelaniswe ukwenza umsebenzi omde. Ewe, imfuneko yenkonzo kunye neempawu zenkonzo, ezinye iimeko zangaphandle zinokwenza loo nto. Kodwa imveliso iyonke iya kuba incinci kakhulu. Umntu onebhotile ufanele asoyike ukuba abingelele kakhulu kwaye afune ukunikela ngobomi bakhe komnye umntu. Enye into engalunganga yolu hlobo lomlinganiswa uzithembe rhoqo, uphinda usebenzise amandla ayo; Ziqhagamshelwe kwinto yokuba ihlala ilungile kakhulu.
Uluhlu lweengcali ezifanelekileyo
Oku kungasentla nangawuphi na umsebenzi. Kungenxa yokuba yonke indawo kukho ubuqhetseba, i-manipulators, abapakishe abafuna ukumelana, ukuchasa iipropathi zomlinganiswa kunye nesiphumo senjongo. Kodwa kusekho iindawo zomsebenzi apho i-ale afanele ibandakanyeke kwindawo yokuqala. Kubo, imisebenzi ifanelekile ngokwahlukeneyo kumaqela amakhulu, kunye nazo zonke iindawo ezibonisa unxibelelwano oluqhubekayo nabanye abantu. Olu hlobo lomsebenzi, ukuba kuya kufuneka uyenze ngalo lonke ixesha, khawuleza usebenzise imikhosi ye-AM Amome kwaye ayibavumeli ukuba banelise izibonelelo zabo.
Kodwa kumsebenzi okude okanye kwindawo encinci yokuhlangana, baziva bebhetele kwaye bazithemba ngakumbi. Abantu bohlobo lwengqondo kufuneka babonakalise imisebenzi yabo, susa umsebenzi kangangexesha elithile. Bayakwazi ukufezekisa iziphumo ezilungileyo kumsebenzi wokuyila, kwimisebenzi yengqondo yohlobo olwahlukileyo, apho kungekho grafu engqongqo kunye nenkqubo ecacileyo. Ii-abriorl zinokuba ngamagcisa amahle, ababhali; Kumboniso wonyaka okanye kwinkcazo yencwadi entsha, bayakhanya, nayo yonke enye into isebenza ngokuthula kwaye iphumle.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba okokuqala ngenxa yomntu onjalo kukuzithemba, impilo-ntle kunye nentuthuzelo. Iinkokheli ze-Smart zithathela ingqalelo umzuzu onjalo xa useke izikhundla, xa usasaza ii-odolo. Ii-abribl zinokunikwa inkcazo yamabakala alo projekthi, basebenze ixesha elide. Aba bantu baya kuba belungile kwaye bangenile abancedisi abatsha, abasebenzi abongezelelweyo ebantwini. Kodwa zonke iintlobo zemisebenzi yobunkokeli azifanelanga.
Ii-abries zinokuba zithengi ezisebenzayo zabacebisi kunye nabasebenzi bomboniso. I-Excecks isebenza ngakumbi, kodwa ubukhulu beenzame zabo, ngamanye amaxesha ukukhula, buguqukele kukungathembani, abathengi okanye abathengi. Ngenxa yezi zizathu, kuluncedo ukutsala abantu ngohlobo lwamabhongo lobuntu kwinqanaba lentengiso kunye nentengiso, njengabaxhasi, abathengisi kunye noluntu. Baziqonda nzulu iinjongo kunye nendlela yokucinga yabanye abantu, bayazi indlela yokufumana indlela yabo efanelekileyo kubo.
Kwangelo xesha, akuyomfuneko ukubiza umsebenzi wobuqu, ocetyiswayo ngentshumayelo.
Ii-Abroll ziziva zilungile njengomatshini wokushicilela, abaqeqeshiweyo kunye nabahleli. Umsebenzi ofanayo wexesha xa eyona nto iphambili kukukwazi ukuqhubela phambili umsebenzi omtsha, ngakumbi isitayile esifunayo, kunye nokuziqeqesha okucacileyo ngexesha kunye nokulandelelana komsebenzi, kubo bakhulu. Kodwa ukuba awuqwalaseli ukusebenza nezicatshulwa, kufuneka unikele ingqalelo kwimisebenzi yokuzinikela. Xa umntu onjalo enxibelelana nemfuno yothando, ubonakalisa uvelwano. Ekulungiseleleni iingxelo, ukusombulula iingxaki zemali kunye nokucwangciswa kwemisebenzi, omnye umkhwa ofanelekileyo ubandakanyiwe - obizwa ngokuba yi-ratition.
Le dini likhankanywe apha ngasentla libaluleke kakhulu:
- oonontlalontle;
- Abasindisi kunye nabacimi-mlilo;
- amapolisa;
- oonogada;
- Oogqirha nabagqirha bezilwanyana.
Bonke aba bantu kufuneka babonakalise ububele, kodwa ukuba kukho imfuneko, ukutshintshela ngokukhawuleza kwi "Poitional Fortical". Isakhono sokuqonda enye i-right kunye nokukhuseleka ukusuka kwi-Marseclions ekuvumela ukuba unikezele kwinkonzo yabasebenzi, kwiNkonzo yeKhuseleka kwiShishini. Ingxelo ekhathazwa malunga nokuma abanye kunye nokukwazi ukuqonda ezona njongo zomchasi zibalulekile kwezopolitiko kunye namanani oluntu, kwiidiplomats kunye nabaxolisi.
Unganxibelelana njani ne-Aloves?
Ubomi, nangona kunjalo, abuphelelwa ngumsebenzi. Kwaye bonke - amadoda namantombazana amancinci, abantu abadala kunye nabantu abalupheleyo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukwakha ubuhlobo bakho kunye ne-ambiwrtes. Eyona ndlela ilula kwabo baqala ukubhekisa kuhlobo lobuntu. Kodwa okuseleyo kunokusombulula lo msebenzi ukuba ucinga imigaqo elula. Okokuqala, akuyomfuneko ukunyanzela ama-Ambin ukuba anxibelelane yonke imihla, kubalulekile ukuba ngamanye amaxesha mabathathe ingqalelo.
Olu hlobo lobuntu luchaza isimo sengqondo esihlwempuzekileyo kubo bonke ababesikhalaza kunye "ne-Whitewash." I-Grimimpal, kwanomcelisi oqinileyo, athanwa ngokukhawuleza, kwaye anqunyulwe ngokufanelekileyo ... kunye ne-matliclators. Ukulungelelanisa nokucinezelwa kunye noxinzelelo lweemvakalelo, ukuzama ukucinezelwa kwengqondo. Ngamanye amaxesha umlambo uphantsi, kodwa ngokukhawuleza uya kwaphula ubudlelwane, ukuze unganikezeli. Ayifanelekanga ukuba inyanzele abantu abanjalo ukuba babe liziko lokunikela ingqalelo, thatha izigqibo ezisebenzayo.
Kukho ezinye iingcebiso ezininzi xa unxibelelana ne-ambiverts:
- Akukho sidingo sokubonisa ubundlobongela;
- Kufanelekile ukuphepha ukucamngca kunye nokuba krwada;
- Kucetyiswa ukuba unikezele ngongenelelo ukuba athethe ngaphandle kokubeka i-monologue;
- qalisa ukunxibelelana nezinto zakho zomntu kwaye zinomdla zomntu;
- Ukubonisa ingqalelo amaxesha ngamaxesha kwinguqu kwiSigaba esingevayo (nangona ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukuhamba sodwa, yonke into sele ixhomekeke kubuntununtunu kunye nemeko ethile).
Iimpawu ezongeziweyo ukuba i-Ambinch ikwividiyo engezantsi.