Umona yimvakalelo embi. Kodwa kwiimeko ezinzima, inokuba luncedo. Umzekelo, xa ubudlelwane bupholisa okanye bungacaci ngokubanzi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni phakathi kwabantu ababini kwaye bangomnye.
Ungawubiza njani Unobukhwele?
Kwintombazana yangoku
Ukuba udibana ixesha elide kakhulu, uyakuqaphela ukuba ekuhambeni kwexesha ufumene inkqubo yeSwamp. Akusekho kwaphela kwangaphambili i-azart, imeko yokuzingela yanyamalala kwenye indawo, kwaye wathatyathelwa indawo ngongcelele nobuthathaka. Okanye, inenekazi lakho livela kwindalo umntu onesifo se-hlegmatic, kwaye utsala isaqhwithi, imibane kunye nezinye iingxaki zendalo. Kule meko, ikhwele ikukukhanya okunokuzisola nge-bonnere yothando kwakhona. Into ephambili ayizukugcina ngaphezulu, kungenjalo umngcipheko wedwa.
Ukwenza intombazana ikhwele, idinga, eneneni, into yekhwele. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, ukuba imbambano iyintsomi, kuba awufanele uphinde ukufaka abanye abantu. Yiza kwaye uxelele ibali lentlanganiso xa wayekujonga kuwe, ethatha iinkcukacha zenkangeleko yakhe etsalela ingqalelo yakho kwaye, kunjalo, uyathanda kakhulu. Yiza naliphi na ibali apho elinye ibhinqa libeka iliso kuwe.
Ukuba ingcinga yakho iphazamisekile, emva koko isixelele ngomntu wokwenene, umzekelo, imbali yomntu osebenza naye evela emsebenzini, obekiweyo, okanye umhle, okanye weza nento eyakho. Akufanelanga ukuba uvelise umntu okhethiweyo kunye nazo zonke iimpawu zomfazi ogqibeleleyo. Okokuqala, intombi yakho iza kuba nombuzo wokuba kutheni usekunye naye, kwaye ungabaleki ukuba woyise ofanelekileyo. Okwesibini, awufuni ukuba umntu othandanayo avakalelwe kukuba ayilunganga ngokwaneleyo kuwe. Inokubangela ukuba uninzi lweentsomi- ungabubulali ukuzithemba komntu esimthandayo.
Cela umntu ukuba akubize kwaye uthethe imizuzu embalwa. Ngexesha lengxoxo, zikhokele ukuze intombi yakho iyayiqonda into yokuba. Okanye ungaya kwelinye igumbi, kwaye ubuye kwilungiselelo elihle lomoya, uncumo kunye namehlo amnyama. Kodwa ungalibali ukucoca iifowuni, kuba ukuba uya kuba kwi-Shyword yesixhenxe ukusuka kulonwabo emva kothi "uLehi kwivenkile yokulungisa imoto", uya kubangela imibuzo ethile.
Kubalulekile: ukuba isiqingatha sakho sesibini singenamona, emva koko silungiselele isikrelemnqa esincinci.
Inketho yabafana abayingozi ngakumbi: Zama ukulingisa intombazana oyiya kwenye indawo yokutyela okanye kwi-opera (naphina). Inketho ethambileyo kukubiza igama elidibeneyo nomnye umfazi intlanganiso yeshishini okanye intlanganiso emsebenzini, njengoko inokwenzeka ebomini.
Kukwakhona ukhetho oluncinci oluluqilima, umzekelo, ukuba luvela emsebenzini emva kwexesha elininzi okanye ukubeka ipaswedi kuzo zonke iifowuni kunye neefowuni zabo, kodwa ziya kuthi ziyijongela phantsi ukuthembana phakathi kwakho, kwaye kuya kusilela kakhulu into ebaluleke kakhulu.
Inyathelo elilandelayo elilandelayo kukuya kwenye indawo inkampani enkulu apho kukho amantombazana asimahla. Zinikele ingqalelo kubo, kodwa musa ukuwela imida evunyelweyo, ukuze ingabeki iqabane lakho kwindawo engathandekiyo. Ndixelele nje isibini - phezulu kwezincomo, mamela ngononophelo, hlawula yonke ingqalelo yesiqingatha sabasetyhini. Sukukhetha injongo ethile, ukhathalela wonke umntu. Ke intombi yakho iya kuyiqonda indlela onokuthi umangalise ngayo.
Eyona ndlela ifanelekileyo yethuba elivulekileyo kwaye ibonisa imbalelwano kwinethiwekhi yentlalo nenye intombazana. Abantu abaninzi babhala amaphepha angeyonyani, ngenxa yoko ungaphoswa ithuba lakho lokuqinisekisa ukuba nenenekazi lakho onomdla kakhulu kwabanye abantu basetyhini. Ukuba neenyani azibhali, le phepha lingadalwa, lifihle kwelinye icala lentombazana yakho okanye wena.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba wena kwaye kuphela owazi isiqingatha sakho sesibini kwaye kuphela uyazi ukuba ilungele ukubulala umnxeba okanye i-cauna ivumela i-sauna kunye nomntu owayefundwayo. Ke kugqitywa ngumgangatho wokuvezwa kunye nenkohlakalo yeendlela.
Akufanele uzame ukubangela ikhwele kwintombazana enenjongo nenenjongo yakhe - unokucinga nzulu into engathethekiyo, kodwa amathandabuzo kunye neemvakalelo ezingathandekiyo. Ngomfazi onjalo, kulula kakhulu ukuhlala phantsi kwaye uxoxe ngemeko yangoku.
Kwintombazana yangaphambili
Ukuba wena kunye nentombazana yakho yangaphambili inemijikelezo eqhelekileyo yokuvezwa okanye yokudibana amaxesha ngamaxesha, ke kuqala kufuneka unxibelelane kwaye uthandabuze emehlweni akhe kwelinye. Ukuba yonke into ihamba kude, ungaqala ubudlelwane kunye nale ntombazana, kwakhona, ulwazi lwamva nje kwi-Ex yakho. Ungalibali ukuthintela inenekazi elitsha malunga neenjongo zakho.
Musa ukukhawuleza ukucima inani lenkanuko yangaphambili kwaye ibhloka - ungayiphosa "umyalezo ohle, kwaye emva koko, thumela owesibini imizuzu (eyaneleyo yokucela uxolo ngokucaphuka ukungaqondi.
Omnye umncedisi kweli shishini yinethiwekhi yentlalo. Ewe, amanye amantombazana ayakuthanda ukukhangela amaphepha abo bangaphambili kwaye bajonge imiqondiso ebonisa indlela abahluphekayo. Songa imeko yakho kwinkoliseko yakho - ulonwabo ngakumbi, izithuba ezimnandi malunga neemvakalelo ezintsha kunye neefoto kunye namanye amantombazana.
Ngoku malunga nokuba kutheni ungafanele ukuthinteli onke amaphepha entombi yakho. Ukuba uyalungiswa ukuba unomona, nxibelelana naye ngengcebiso, umzekelo, unokubuza ukuba sisiphi isiphi isithandwa esitsha. Zama ukugcwalisa umyalezo wakho kwithenda ngokunxulumene nomfazi omtsha.
Yazi: Ukuba uyaqhekeka kuba intombazana ilahlekile kuwe, ezi ndlela zisenokungasebenzi. Unokuvuya nawe. Kule meko, kufanelekile ukucinga ngesizathu sokupholisa iimvakalelo kwaye ucinge, kwaye mhlawumbi ingxaki ikuwe?
Kumgama
Kwenzeka ukuba ubudlelwane bakho kuphela nge-Intanethi kunye neefowuni. Akukho nto imbi ukuba uswele ukukhanya komona, oko kwanele, ngakumbi ubudlelwane kumgama.
Inokusebenza ngeendlela ezifanayo nobudlelwane obuqhelekileyo: Isibini esincomekayo kunye nenye intombazana ebaluleke ngokungacwangciswanga, ixesha elichithwe kwinkampani yabanye abafazi (kunye nemifanekiso!). Kwangelo xesha, akunyanzelekanga ukuba kubekho ubukho bokwenyani bokuthandwa okanye intlanganiso yentlanganiso-khankanya oku kwimbalelwano. Zonke ezinye ziya kwenza i-fantasy yesiqingatha sakho sesibini.
Iinethiwekhi zentlalo yinto enamandla kakhulu. Yenza iphepha lobuhle olungaziwayo, ukongeza kubahlobo bakho ngokwakho kwaye ushiye izimvo ezimbalwa ezigudileyo kwaye uthanda iphepha lakho. Umsebenzi onjalo awuyi kuhlala ungabonwa. Ukuba unqwenela, ungathatha indawo yephepha eliyinyani, kodwa uyenze ngomngcipheko wakho.
Ungathumela ifoto yentombazana ngokupheleleyo, vavanya idatha yayo yangaphandle okanye ilizwe elingaphakathi, kwaye ekugqibeleni kuthi ga ngoku umntu osebenza naye omtsha. Inketho yokuqhubeka-wabeka ifoto apho unale ntombazana. Ewe, ukuba ayisebenzi nale nto, emva koko ivela kwenye into.
Ukuba intombi yakho isetyenziselwa ukuba uvele emsebenzini wesixhenxe ngokuhlwa, kwaye kwiindawo ezisibhozo ezantsi kwikhompyuter yakho kwaye uthumela iintliziyo zayo - tshintsha izicwangciso kwaye uzame ukubhala kakhulu kamva. Ukulibaziseka kwakho okungalindelekanga kuya kwenza ukuba inenekazi lentliziyo alinakuphatha, kodwa unjani umntu onobomi bakhe onomdla kwaye ngaphandle kwawo. Ixabiso lakho kunye nokubaluleka kokubaluleka kuya kunyuka kuphela.
Yongeza amanenekazi amatsha ambalwa kubahlobo, kwangaxeshanye akhanyise ukuba omnye wabo, kodwa ungachazi ukuba ngubani kanye, umzamo wokufumana imbangi yakho ixabise amandla kunye nobuthathaka bayo, kwaye ukuba Ukuphela kovavanyo kuya kukuxelela isiqingatha sesibini, oko kuyamangalisa kwaye umthanda kangakanani, impendulo impendulo elungileyo iya kuba namandla ngakumbi.
Zonke iingcebiso zolwalamano oluqhelekileyo Umsebenzi wolwalamano lwembalelwano. Into ephambili kukubandakanya i-fantasy kwaye ayilungelelanisi.
Yiba nomntu othanda
Kule meko, ikhwele ayisiyonto yako kwaye inokusebenza ngemeko apho intombazana ifihla imvakalelo yayo kuwe, okanye iyabazi. Ukuba uzame yonke into (kwaye unesikhwele), kwaye awuzange uziqwalasele ngakumbi kuwe, uze wamkele - awuyithandi le ntombazana, kwaye eyona nto intle onokuyenza kukuyihlonipha intshutshiso.
Ukudumisa enye intombazana, ngakumbi ukuba into ethengiswayo isetyenziselwa ukuncoma kwakho kwidilesi yakho. Iya kuba ngequbuliso, kwaye ukuba le ntombazana inovelwano ngawe, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba nomdla kwenye intombazana kwaye luhlobo luni lobuhlobo bakho.
Yiza kwindawo enabantu abaninzi kwaye uqalise ukunikela ingqalelo kwamanye amanenekazi. Le nto ibonakala ingenatyala iyakwazi ukuveza iimvakalelo zokwenyani ngokukhawuleza. Kwakhona, zonke iingcebiso zisebenza apha, ngokungathi ubunobudlelwane - kuphela uvunyelwe ngakumbi xa udlala ngothando kunye nokunxibelelana nabanye.
Ukunciphisa inani lonxibelelwano. Yonke imibuzo iyakroba okanye iphendule kwiingcebiso eziya kwenza ukuba ifune ukuba unexesha elincinci ngenxa yokuba kuthatha enye intombazana. Okanye ulinde iintsuku ezimbalwa kwaye ungaphenduli iifowuni. Emva kokubuya okuthe tye, nxibelelana kwakhona namacebiso, abonisa iintsuku zothando ngokupheleleyo kwelinye. Ukunqongophala okunjalo-inenekazi lakho elinokubakho liza kudidekile kwaye liqonde ukuba akwanele ngaye.
Ukuba intanda yakho ikwangumhlobo wakho, emva koko sizame ukubonisa imbalelwano nenye intombazana, buza iBhunga, sisixelele ngento esiyithandayo yomhlobo.
Amandla okulahlekelwa ngumntu ovelwano kuyakwenza ukuba le ntombazana ityhile isimo sengqondo sokwenyani ngaye nxamnye naye ngokuchasene naye ngokuchasene naye. Ngequbuliso imozulu ikhutshiwe (eboyikisayo emva kweZicwangciso zakho), lusizi - ezi ziimpawu ezibonisa iimvakalelo eziyinyani. Okanye uzame ukuvavanya intombazana entsha ibenobuhlobo kwaye yabelane ngezinto ozibonakalisayo.
Ungayenza njani intombi yakho, jonga le vidiyo ilandelayo.