Ukungcatshwa kunye nobuxoki bomntu othandekayo bawukhupha umhlaba phantsi kweenyawo kwaye kubangela ukuba ukhangele iindlela zokubuyisela ubulungisa. Kukho umnqweno wokusebenzisa iklasi "ye-khonoxup", ukunyanzela ukuba uve amava obuhlungu. Yibambe kwi-puchin ye-Salessss ebusuku, ekhala imiqamelo, ukusela iibbhu ze-valerian kunye neencoko ezingapheliyo kunye neentombi zengqondo. Kodwa nayiphi na i-hysteria iza kuphela, kwaye iyayixabisa iminyhadala yexesha elidlulileyo, uyaqonda ukuba bazibonakalisa kwingozi.
Kutheni amadoda athandayo aguqukayo atshintsha? Indlela yokuphumeza icebo "lasebukhosini" lokuziphindezela kunye nendlela yokwenza ukuba utshintsho luzisole ngesenzo?
Ukuziphindezela njani ngokuvukela ububi nokuzithemba?
Iinethiwekhi zentlalo kunye neengcebiso zamantombazana ezifana neforum zinobunkunkqele ngeendlela zokuziphindezela kwilungu lemoto ethandekayo, iglasi kwibhiya, zibuya ngethontsi legazi, umtshayelo okanye ityuwa ethengwa kwindawo ethile ngexesha elithile ...
Akunakulindeleka ukuba umfazi ohlonitshwayo uya kubona icebiso njengesikhokelo sentshukumo, endaweni yoko, njengommangaliso weqhayiya elihlanyiweyo. Rhoqo, amabali malunga nokuziphindezela ngobuchule kunye neqabane elingalunganga lihlala lingamaphupha angazalisekanga, kwaye ukuqatshelwa kweforamu-indlela yokuxela ububi bakho bendalo yonke.
Ngaphambi kokuphuhlisa isicwangciso sempindezelo ye projence, kufanelekile ukuhlalutya izenzo zabo kunye nokuphendula okunokwenzeka kutshaba. Ukuba usathatha isigqibo sezenzo ezisebenzayo, kufanelekile ukuba ujonge amaqhinga okuziphatha kwakho, phuhlisa isicwangciso sokucaphukisa. Qhagamshela i-Allies kwaye ucinge ngaphezulu kwesicwangciso sokunikezela ukuba kukho into engahambanga kakuhle.
Iingcali zengqondo ezikhokelayo zosapho zibiza isizathu somnqweno onjalo wokufumana imeko yempembelelo ecaphukiwe ziimeko zobuqu. Esi sisiphumo esifutshane sexesha elifutshane, esingafaniyo nemeko yomzimba okanye yeemvakalelo, ayinakulawulwa. Kwangelo xesha, iingcali zicebisa ukutshintsha imeko, ukutshintshela kolunye uhlobo lomsebenzi, ukudlala imidlalo, imbonakalo, ndwendwela i-SPA. Yenza okuncedayo ukufumana iMivisini yobuqu kwaye kukwenze ulungelelene kwaye wonwabe.
Ityala losapho okanye Kutheni le nto amadoda etshintsha?
Amadoda ngemvelo iPolygamans athatyathwa ekufumaneni iimpembelelo ezintsha kunye neyantlukwano kubomi obusondeleyo. Nditsho neyona ndoda ithembekileyo ngamanye amaxesha ijika intloko yakhe iguqula intloko yakhe ukuba ibe buhle, inandipha i-charms yakhe. Njengommiselo, amadoda atyhalela ukuvutha kwengxaki yezindlu, i-monotony, ubomi obuqhelekileyo obulingayo. I-monotony yenza ukuba ujonge ukubonakaliswa kunye neemvakalelo ezintsha ecaleni, ukuba akaziva wonwabile kwindlela eqhelekileyo yosapho.
Ukunyamekela usapho kunye nabantwana, i-hassyade engapheliyo yekhaya ithathe onke amaqabane akho. Ungenamkhosi wokuzibandakanya ngokwawo, kwaye ugqithiso olutsha lusoyisa ukusebenza kwalo, ukugqobhoza, inda kwihlabathi le-adventment engafakwanga. Kodwa esona sizathu siphambili se-monotony yobomi obusondeleyo, ukungoneliseki kunye nokuqina kweqabane. Ambalwa abantu abatshatileyo banokuthetha nemiphefumlo kwaye bafumane yonke into malunga nemigibe ebhedini yabo, kwaye unxano lweemvakalelo ezintsha, iimvakalelo eziqaqambileyo zityhalela inoveli entsha.
Imvakalelo yomfazi okhohlisayo inokuqonda kuphela umntu osindileyo ezinjalo. Into yokuqala eza engqondweni kukuqengqeleka kukuqubisana ne-spredial eyoyikisayo kunye ne-spruce, i-sniffs kunye nokudibanisa ubugcisa obunzima ngohlobo lukanina. Kukho umnqweno wokohlwaya umntu osikelelekileyo neliphi impi enelinye icala kakhulu. Kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, ezi mvakalelo zitshintshwa kukungakhathali ngokomoya kunye nokudana. Ukuba iqala ukujamelana neemvakalelo zokuqala, iya kunokwenzeka ukuba ize nendawo yokuziphindezela, kwaye ukuba ifunwa, ibuyisele iqabane lakho ebhedini yakho.
Ukuziphindezela "iRoyal" kuhlala kusebenza ukubanda
Ukukhumbula imbali kubomi babahlobo bakhe okanye ngabahlobo, wena, kunjalo, uyaqonda ukuba impindezelo yokuziphilisa ivela kwinani lentsomi. Ukuze ndikwazi ukuziphindezela kwingcambu yakhe ukuba iphinde ivukele, ityhilwe, isipho seminyaka eqhubekayo kwaye uninzi lwamabinzana aqhubekayo kule nto, kwaye uphume emanzini, ugcine, imvakalelo yokuzithemba kuya kufuneka ize nayo izimvo ezimbalwa zokuyila.
Impindezelo "yasebukhosini yasebukhosini egqibeleleyo" yeRoyal "ingenziwa kwintloko ebandayo, ukugcina ubalo olukhethekileyo. Susa iimvakalelo ezizonwabisayo: Bayayithanda i-turing tures, engakwenzi ukuba ikhuphe emva kokuhamba ngehlathi lase-Autumn, xa ukonwabela indalo ifuna ingxaki engalunganga.
Umnqweno wokwenza umthengisi kwangoko, uziphindezela kwi-pestress enxulumene nobuntwana bakhe bonke umntu oselula okanye ukufikisa phantsi kwempembelelo yentlalo, imfundo, ubudlelwane nabazali. Njengomthetho, amantombazana abona ulwaphulo-mthetho lwabazali, iingxaki zabo zobuqu okanye ukucacisa ubudlelwane nomntwana ophule i-psyches kwaye yenzelwa i-stereotypes ngobomi bentsapho.
Amaqhinga okugcina ukulwa
Ujamelene nengxaki yokuvukela, kufuneka yamkelwe i-win win win-win-win-win: ukuya ezantsi, ukubonisa ukungakhathalelwa ngokupheleleyo koko kwenzekileyo. Iya kufuna umonde, ukoyisa ityala labo, ingqumbo, ubukrakra. Kodwa, njengamava aboniswayo, le yenye yeendlela ezisebenzayo zokubonisa ukungakhathali nokuhlwaya iinkozo ngentloko yeklasi.
Ukuthatha amaqhinga ahlukileyo, abafazi abaninzi benza impazamo engalunganga. Umnqweno wokubiza iqabane kwincoko engenabudala, fumana ubudlelwane kwaye ufumanise, "le nto ilunge kunam," ungaze uyitshintshe imeko, kwaye, ingenele imeko. Rhoqo, iintshukumo ezinjalo zenza umntu acinge ukuba wenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo. Iskimu esiqinisekileyo senziwa, esiqinisekisa imbono esekwe 'ngumfazi wesikali, okuthetha ukuba ilungelo elifanelekileyo, ukuba alitshintshile, lishiywe, laphosa enye into ... "
Zama ukungayishiyi isizathu esincinci seengcinga kunye neenkcazo. Ke, uya kwenza impendulo ethembekileyo ngezenzo zakho kwaye ube noxanduva lwento eyenzekayo. Kwilinge lokuzama ukuzithethelela, iqabane linokukhuthaza kwizenzo ezizenzekelayo kunye nezenzo ezikhawulezayo.
Uninzi lwabasetyhini, i-Advingter yindawo yokungabuyisi, kodwa ngesizathu esithile sibe yindoda emva koko kuyimfuneko ukuba siziva siyimfuneko kwaye simfaneleke kumfazi. Imizamo yokuvuselela ingxabano okanye ibangela isaqhwithi seemvakalelo-kuphela yindlela yokubonisa ukubaluleka kunye nokuzibandakanya. Oku kunzima kuzo zombini ixesha, kubalulekile ukuba umntu aqonde indoda ukuba iqonde ukuba ayilosiseko yendalo yonke kunye nentsingiselo yobukho bakho. Ukuhlala umtsalane, wonwabile, ufune, ebonisa ukuzimela, unikwa uloyiso lobuchwephesha.
Iingcebiso ngogqirha wezengqondo
Kodwa wenza ntoni ngeemvakalelo ezigqithayo ezigqitha ukuqonda okuqhelekileyo, musa ukuvumela ukuba uphefumle amabele apheleleyo kwaye ufune imbuyekezo? Unokwenza ukulungela ukulungela okungenakulungelwa: Guqula amava omnyango, ukubala ikhadi leqabane kwikhabhathi yejuba okanye iphunga nomhlobo wakhe osenyongweni. Yiyo loo nto inabathandekayo, kuba ulwazi olukuyo kufuneka luza kuqala. Ukuba uqengqesha umnqweno onamandla wokwaphula ipleyiti okanye i-pilute esitratweni somlilo, uphosa iifoto zakho zomtshato kuyo - musa ukunqanda iigusha zakho. Ixesha liya kudlula, kwaye uthenga izitya kwaye u-oda iifoto ezintsha, kodwa ngalo mzuzu ufuna ukuphosa i-goremen kufuneka yaneliseke, kungenjalo iguqulwa ibe luxinzelelo, uxinzelelo olungapheliyo kunye nokugula okungapheliyo.
Iinethiwekhi zentlalo zinokuba noncedo olungenakuphikwa kwindawo encinci kwabo bathembekileyo. Yiya kwiphepha lakhe phantsi kwegama lomnye umntu kwaye uqalise inoveli ebonakalayo. Imibuzo exhasayo, ii-farts zokukhanya ziya kunceda ekufumaneni isimo sengqondo sokwenene ngobomi kunye neemeko ezimiselweyo. Funda ukufunda phakathi kwemigca - iya kunceda ekufumaniseni ukuba yintoni intanda emva kokuhlukaniswa.
Zama ukujikeleza ngeemvakalelo ezintle, yenza i-yoga, iinkqubo zeTaooist zeTaio, ziye kwiiklasi zenkosi kwaye zandise isangqa sonxibelelwano. Oku kuyakunceda ukuziqhelanisa nemeko kwaye kuzenzele umbono wobuntu obuqinisekileyo. Eyona nto iphambili kukuqaqambisa ubomi ngokubalulekileyo, lixabise ixesha kwaye lizame ukusebenzisa amatye akho. Le yeyona mpindezelo enobunkunkqele emntwini ojonga uthando lwakho.
Malunga nokuba kufanelekile ukuba impindezelo ngengcambu, yabona ividiyo elandelayo.