Mumushonga wemazuva ano, marudzi akasiyana siyana ezvekushushikana kwepfungwa anotsanangurwa zvakadzama, uyo mumwe munhu kana mumwe munhu anogona kusangana nawo. Izvi zvinetso zvinosanganisira kudzokorora narcissism. Iyo mamiriro kana munhu asingaone chero munhu, kunze kwega, dzimwe nguva anogona kuenda kupfuura chiyero uye, mune ino kesi, inogona kutoonekwa sechipatara. Ngwarira ichi chirwere chirwere chakaoma, nekuti hazvigoneke kupa munhu kuongororwa, pasina ruzivo rwakakodzera mune psychology uye chirwere chepfungwa. Ichi chinyorwa chichatsanangura chimiro chechirwere ichi, zviratidzo zvaro uye nzira dzekurapwa.
Zveshuwa
Pervice narcissism inyaya yehunhu kusagadzikana uye neimwe nzira maitiro, ayo anogona kuzviratidza mune iyo vhoriyamu yakaenzana muvakadzi, uye muvanhu. Vanhu vevanhu vane chirwere chakadai vanonzi "Narcissus". Nekudaro, munhu wacho haana kukosha kutumidzwa mushure meumwe neumwe wemunhu anonyanya kuda, nekuti chirwere ichi chakaoma kuona, pasina chiremba ane hunyanzvi. Uyezve, chirwere ichi chine mafomu akasiyana kana munhu achitambura nehurwere iyi haatakuri panjodzi munharaunda. Icho chidimbu cheFaarmaritable Narcissism zvakare zvinosanganisira:
- zvisina musoro hunhu hwakakwirira kuzvivimba;
- kusavapo kwepfungwa yekuzvidemba kana ruzivo kune vamwe vanhu;
- Kunzwa kwekukakavara pamusoro pedzimwe nhengo dzese munharaunda.
Achitaura nezvemurume ", narcissue", iyo inotambura nezvipenga zvakanyanya, unogona kutaura kuti vanhu vakadaro "vanotamba" mumitambo yavo pachavo vachirwisa murume kana musikana. Zvakadiniko, kazhinji, kazhinji zvinokanganisa wechipiri. Vakadzi vanotanga kutambudzika nekushungurudzika, uye dzimwe nguva kukuvara kwakanyanya kwepfungwa kunogamuchirwa.
Persongenic Daffodils ine ceculiar uye kunyange chaiyo maitiro maitiro avanenge avakaburitsa mugore rimwe. Vanhu vakadaro vanowanzoramba zviito zvavo uye kazhinji havaite zvavanovimbisa. Vanhu ava vanenge vachigara vachiedza kudzora kuda kwavo kwekutaura kwavo kana mukwikwidzi.
Akaratidza Dafffodils anoda kunyengera manzwiro evamwe vasina kusangana nezviitiko zvechokwadi. Ivo havana kujairika kwavari. Vanhu vakadaro havambofaniri kufunga nezve mafungiro evamwe. Vanachiremba vazhinji vanotenda kuti vanhu vane vakatanga pathology vanotonhora zvachose-ropa uye vasina hanya.
Zvinokonzeresa zvinokonzerwa nekubuda uye kuumbwa kweapatidziro
Kusvika parizvino, hapana mhinduro yakajeka kubva kunyanzvi, nei kusagadzikana uku kwamuka. Asi, semamwe akawanda kusagadzikana uye akaomarara, zvinogona kuve nemidzi muhuduku. Iyi inogona zvakare kubatana neine kuderera yakaoma, kusagutsikana nechitarisiko charo kana chinzvimbo munharaunda. Kutsamwiswa kwechirwere ichi kunogona kukonzerwa nedzidzo isiriyo kana kusakwana zvisina kufanira kwakabhadharwa kumwana.
Dzimwe nguva nyanzvi dzinoti tinotaura nezve genetic kufungidzirwa kwerudzi urwu rwekutambudzika. Uye dzimwe nguva kusagadzikana uku kunogona kuva chiratidzo chechirwere chine njodzi, semuenzaniso, zvinogona kunge zvakanaka schizophrenia.
Zviratidzo
Zvakaoma kunyora zvese zviratidzo zve "Narcissa", nekuti munhu wese ari munhu chaiye ane chimiro, uye saka chirwere ichi chinogona kunge chiri munzira kana imwe nenzira dzakasiyana. Zvakangodaro, kune iyo yakakosha nguva zhinji nguva, nekuda kwekuti iwe unogona kuziva narcissus, zvinoreva:
- Zvekufungidzira zvakasimba kwazvo nezvebudiriro huru, iyo iyo yakanzi DafFodol Daf inogara ichishandiswa;
- Kuvapo kwechido pamusoro pekuremekedza kubva kuvanhu uye nzanga yakazara;
- Kuzvishingisa uye kunyanyisa kushamisika, kusatsigirwa nezviito chero zvipi zvacho;
- Kunze kwekutadza pane chero kutsoropodza munzira yako;
- marudzi ese ekuzvivanza akaomarara;
- Shandisa vamwe vanhu nekuda kwavo kwega mercen.
Varume nevakadzi vane izvi pathology havatombofariri kubudirira kwevamwe vanhu, kusanganisira hama idzodzo. Ivo vanowanzo kutaura nezvezvifananidzo, uye shure kwekuneta kwavanoita maanonetsa munzira dzose. Pane zvimwe zviratidzo zvine hunhu hwevakadzi. Saka, varume-daffods vanogara vachizvikudza, vane zvido zvekuve vakapfuma kwazvo uye vakakurumbira mune chero.
Varume vakadaro, somutongi, havazvirambe, kunyangwe kana vasingavatenderi. Ivo vanowanzo kuregeredzwa nemafungiro evamiriri vevamiriri vevasikana vakanaka. Uyezve, varume vanonyanya kuda uye vanozvikudza. Chaizvoizvo vana vefofodolous mune zvemari zvinoenderana nevabereki vavo kana vakadzi vemwoyo. Semutemo, mhuri inofunga panguva yekupedzisira kana kuti usafunge zvachose, kuzvishandisa iwe pamberi. Kana vari vakadzi, ivo vane tateguru wePervery Narcissism vanozviratidza mune zvinotevera:
- Ivo vanonyanya kutevedzera chitarisiko chavo, vachisvika vasina musoro;
- Kutsvaga vakapfuma uye vakachengetedzwa vanobatana, kunyangwe kana vachinzwisisa kuti havasi vaviri vaviri;
- Kuyemura mukana wega wega, munzira dzose dzinozvipenya;
- Kazhinji, mukuda kwechitarisiko chakanakira chitarisiko, vakadzi-narcissus vanoshanduka kumisangano yepurasitiki, kumwe kupindira kwekuvhiya uye kushandiswa kwakawanda kwekushongedza kweshambadziro yekushongedza.
Pasinei nenyaya yekuti mukadzi anogona kuve nehasha rerudzi urwu, zvakaoma chaizvo kuzviziva. Zvinoita sekuti vanhu vakanyatso nyurika vanoita kunge vasina hutano uye vachitsvaga makomborero avo, pane kudaro, vanowanzo kuyemurwa. Vasikana vakadaro, sevanhurume, Narcissus, havadi kuwana vakazvimirira, kazhinji ivo vari vabereki vemari. Chero zvazvingaitika, vamwe vanhu vanogona kungozvivimba zvakanyanya uye hazvireve zvese zvavanenge vachirwara.
Naizvozvo, zvakakodzera kucherechedza kuti zviri nyore kuongorora muvakidzani wako, hama kana mumwe munhu anoshamisa, kunyangwe zvisinei neruzivo rwezvimwe zvinhu zvechitendero ichi.
Kusimudzira kwehukama neDafFodil
Hunhu hwakawanda, vachidana hurukuro nevanotaurirana, havagone kungoziva Narcissa. Zvakanyanya kuoma kuzvizivisa, uchingomutarisa. Vanhu vane pathology vane gallant zvakanyanya uye kazhinji vanoburitsa fungidziro yakanaka pakutanga kutarisa, nekuda kwekuti ivo vakanaka kutaura navo. Izvo zvinenge zvisingagone kufungidzira chero chinhu kusvika imwe nguva.
Matanho ekutanga ehukama nemurume kana mukadzi ari kutambudzika nehukama hwema narcism angaita senge "anotapira." Vazhinji vaongorori vanotodaidzwa kutodaidzwa kuti "uchi" huchi, asizve zvese zvinochinjika uye hukama hunotanga kuve hwakasiyana zvachose. Sezvo vanhu vane narcissistics kutsvaira vane hunhu hwakakomba hunhu, vanowanzo kunzwa kusagutsikana, kunyangwe ivo vasingaratidze. Asi kana mumwe wavo achibikana navo, ivo vanorega kuzvivanza, vachiratidza hunhu hwavo chaihwo. Ipapo hukama nenzira chaiyo inogona kushanduka kuva husiku chaihwo.
Iko hakuna hukama hushamwari nevanhu vakadaro - zvakaoma kutaura, zvese zvinoenderana nechimiro chechirwere uye pane sei maitiro asiri iwo maitiro. Asi kana tikataura nezvezvakakomba pategariro uye zvakananga nezvehukama hwevaviri ava, saka hukama uhu huri mugumo wakafa. Kana vari kukudziridza imwe nguva uye vanounza mafaro, ipapo mune ramangwana havazounge chero chinhu chakanaka.
Ehe, panogona kunge paine kusiana vaviri vaviri, kunyanya kana "Natcissistic zvisikwa" zvichange zvichine chishuvo chekurapa.
Maitiro ehunhu hweMhirizhonga yetsika
Pasinei nenyaya yekuti maitiro aNarcissa akaoma kufanotaura, nyanzvi nyanzvi dzinocherekedza mamwe maClines uye nzira dzakananga iyo vanhu vane dzidziso iyi nehunyanzvi. Saka, kugamuchira kunotaurwa nezvazvo.
- Kuwedzeredza chero matambudziko, kusungirwa kwemamiriro ezvinhu avanzwirwe tsitsi navo.
- Kusada kuteerera kune mumwe wako, nzwisisa manzwiro ayo uye manzwiro ayo. Kazhinji "kuchinja" kwekuzvitarisisa pachezvako, murume waairamba achikurukura chimwe chinhu chakakosha uye chinokurumidzira. Panguva imwecheteyo, Narcissus anogona kushandisa kusekwa, zvinoshamisa kuchinja musoro wekutaura.
- Bell shungu inogona kuve chokwadi chekuti chikamu-kune-narcissus chinoendesa mazwi emupauro wake.
- Zvakare, vanhu vane chirwere chakadai chinogona kungototarisa avo vavanotaurirana vasingatarise zvikonzero zvacho.
- Uye pakupedzisira, vanogona kuratidzira kamwe kamwe kurwisidzira, kunyangwe maererano nevadiwa nehama. Vanogona kazhinji kazhinji mukutsamwa, kana chimwe chinhu chikatadza.
Perevosny Narcissus anogara achiedza kuparadza mumwe munhu kuti awane pamusoro payo simba rese. Uye hunhu huzhinji husina husina husina hushamwari, zvinosuruvarisa, zvinorwadza kune pesvedzero yakadaro.
Nzira dzekurwisa
Iko kuongororwa uye chero matanho ekurapa anofanirwa kugadzwa neunyanzvi. Ichi chirwere, sematehwe, haaonekwe pakutanga chaiko kwenguva yayo, uye saka zvinonyanya kuita, semhedzisiro iyo marapirwo ekurapa anogona kupihwa dambudziko. Semutemo, nyanzvi dzinovandudza imwe nzira yekurapa, kuyedza kufarira murwere uye kusundira kuzvivimba. Iwo ma paramita akanakisa pakurapa anoratidza kuti zvikamu zve psychotherapy zvinoratidzwa, uye kwete kurapwa nemishonga yekurapa. Zvinokurudzirwa kugadza iyo yekupedzisira kana, kuwedzera kune imwe kusagadzikana, munhu akaora mwoyo, kutya kana chero phobias, izvi zvese zvinoda kugadziriswa.
Mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu mamwe matambudziko akasanganiswa, nyanzvi nyanzvi inogona kunyora tranquilizers muridzi, antidepressants, mamwe masipiresi uye pytiprations. Nekudaro, zvinodhaka zvekurapa zvinodomisa zviratidzo zveimwe kana imwe kusagadzikana, pasina kuregera chirwere. Kuti uwane mhedzisiro yakanakisa, kurapa kwakazara kunofanirwa kuiswa, izvo zvinosanganisira misangano ne psychotherapist.
Mazano ekubaya
Ehe, sarudzo yakanakisa yekudzivirira matambudziko hakusi kusangana nevanhu vakadaro zvachose, nekuti zvakaoma kwazvo kuzvidzivirira. Inosimbisa Daffodils sekunge kufudza simba revaifunga nezvazvo, zvakaoma kuita nazvo. Semutemo, kana murume - Narcisss asingatauriri mukadzi wake muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva uye mune zvakawanda zvinhu, kana ari mhuri, zvakaoma kuita chero chinhu pano. Kazhinji, nyanzvi uye nyanzvi dzemhuri dzepfungwa dzinogadzirisa matambudziko akanyanya ane hukama nemakakava eimba.
Asi kana tiri kutaura nezve narcissa, ipapo hakuchazovi nekurapa, kana vanhu vanofanira kuparadzira . Dzimwe nguva vakadzi vanosarudza kuzvininipisa, asi zvakare, ivo vanoshaya kwenguva yakareba. Izvo zvinofanirwa kuzivikanwa kuti kana zvakaitika kuti akasarudzwa wake ane chirwere ichi uye anodzvinyirira, saka ichi hachisi mhosva yake. Saka zvatoitika kare. Asi izvi hazvisi pakufunga kwese kwekutsungirira nekukutendera kuti uzvidzime munzira dzose.
Muzviitiko zvisingawanzo, kururamisa kwemaitiro ane nyanzvi kunopa chibereko, asi chete kana iyo numbiissistic inozvipira iye anofarira izvi, uye kwete mukadzi wake. Izvo zvakare zvakafanira kunzwisisa kuti vanhu - Narcissus inonyanya kutambudzika neenzwano yakavaparadza kubva mukati. Vamwe vacho vanotambura nekusurukirwa, nekuti havagone kutsungirira.
Ndezvipi zvinhu uye zviratidzo zveMvumo Narcissism, ona vhidhiyo inotevera.