Ikinyabupfura (amafoto 80): Icyo aricyo, ubwoko bw'amategeko rusange agezweho, igitekerezo no kugena ikibuza

Umuntu ugezweho buri gihe ahura nibibazo bitandukanye kandi bigoye bisaba ako kanya, kandi niko mbere - reaction ikwiye. Umuryango, Imibereho, Ubucuruzi, Imibanire ya politiki, Imibanire ya politiki iterwa nubumenyi bwimyitwarire yemewe muri rusange. Niba umuntu atazi kwitwara neza, ukurikije ubujiji, yaba nkana - izina rye ryubucuruzi rifite imbaraga zidafite aho zishingiye ku nyanja.

Ikimenyetso ni amabwiriza yimyitwarire igira ingaruka kumiti itandukanye yimibanire yabantu (Gushyikirana, umuco wimyenda, imigenzo yigihugu, itumanaho ryubucuruzi).

Niki?

Ikimenyetso nkibintu byamateka bihuza uruhande rwimyitwarire kandi rwerekana rwo kubaho kwacu.

Nkumuryango wa primive, habaye amahame afatika yimyitwarire ya buri tsinda ryabaturage: Abagabo bikubise abanzi, bakinga abana, abagore barera abana, bakusanya ubumenyi, bakusanya ubumenyi kandi bakusanya ubumenyi kandi bakusanya ubumenyi kandi bakusanya ubumenyi. Amategeko ya kera yimyitwarire arashobora kwitwa Igishinwa "Igitabo cy'amateka" ivuga ku mico nyamukuru y'abantu: Ubutwari, ubudahemuka, ubwenge, abantu, gusenga abakuru.

Twakoze ibinyejana byinshi, imigenzo yose mishya irahaguruka, imico mishya yarahindutse. Ibi byose byahujwe mu gitekerezo kimwe cya "ikinyabupfura". Hariho ibisobanuro byinshi bitandukanye byiki gitekerezo. Ibitekerezo byinshi byerekana ko ikinyabupfura ari urutonde rwamategeko yimyitwarire muri societe.

Igishimishije, kumyitwarire myinshi "na" etiquette "birasa. Muri rusange, ibi nukuri, ibisobanuro byamagambo bifitanye isano rya bugufi. Ariko, ijambo "ikinyabupfura" (ikinyabupfura) - inkomoko yubufaransa, n "imyitwarire" (Ethika muri Ethos ni akamenyero, umujinya) - Ikigereki. "Ikinyabupfura" cyahinduwe nk "inyandiko, label". Mu Bufaransa, iri jambo ryerekanaga inyandiko - protocole y'ibikorwa by'imihango.

Mu Burusiya, ubuyobozi bwa mbere kuri ikinyabute bwagaragaye munsi ya Petero i, watwitse idirishya i Burayi. Yararyoshe, ntabwo yari umuhango wo mu bahungu, bityo gukusanya amategeko yimyitwarire mu gikari cyerekanwe ahubwo amabwiriza atagira ikinyabupfura. Mu kwimenyekanisha imyitwarire y'iburengerazuba, imiterere y'imyambarire, isura, umwami ubwayo kandi rwose yakomeje gukurikiza ishyirwa mu bikorwa ry'aya mategeko.

Birahagije kwibuka amategeko ye akomeye kubyerekeye ubwanwa. Kandi mu 1709, Peter natanze itegeko, ukurikije iki kinyabupfura cyamenetse cyahanwe. Nyuma yaho, umusomyi Elizabeth na Catherine II guhitamo kwirema ikipe y'urukiko, hitamo ayo mategeko yegerejwe n'inzira nyabagendwa ry'Uburusiya. Kubera ko iyi nyaba nini itwikiriye Eurasia, itandukaniro ryo mu burengerazuba n'iburasirazuba ryagize akamaro. Hariho ibinyejana birenga bitatu, kandi itandukaniro risigaye kugeza na nubu.

Ikinyabuho kigezweho ni symiose yimigenzo yamahanga yose afite ibihe bya kera uyumunsi. Noneho ko dufite amahirwe yo kuvugana nabanyamahanga cyangwa kuba mumahanga, ntabwo ari ngombwa gutunga ururimi rwigihugu gusa, kugirango tuyobore imigenzo yigihugu, kugirango tujye mumwanya wigihugu, kugirango tujye mumwanya wubucucu kandi ntukagire uburemere gutukwa kubura ubujiji.

Ni ngombwa kwibuka ubwenge hamwe no kwerekana ko twubaha abandi, tutitaye ku ibara ry'uruhu cyangwa ubusokazi.

Amafaranga yihariye

Ikimenyetso kigezweho nikintu cyingenzi mumico yo hanze yimiterere yihariye na societe muri rusange. Ariko, hariho imyuba yiki gitekerezo cyiganje. Ibi cyane cyane ku bakozi ba serivisi ya diplomasi, abanyapolitiki, abakozi b'umuco, kimwe n'abacuruzi, abahanga.

Uyu munsi mwisi yubuhanga bugezweho hamwe nibitangazamakuru bisanzwe, amagambo yose atari yo cyangwa imyitwarire yananiwe irashobora guhita iba igihugu rusange atari igihugu gusa, ahubwo n'isi.

Kubwibyo, ni ngombwa cyane kuzamura urwego rwawe rwumuco no gusobanukirwa neza ikibute.

Amategeko menshi yo mu kinyabuzima dukora mu buryo bwikora. Umuntu, buri segonda, atekereza ku buryo bwo gukora igikwiye, azaba mu bihe by'umusaza, wigeze kubaza ikibazo ati: "Ni hehe uhishe ubwanwa iyo usinziriye? " Ntuzigere ubabazwa n'iki kibazo dotolo, ikibabaje cyo gusinziriye, gihitamo, aho nhisha ubwanwa. Kubwibyo, ntabwo ari ngombwa kwibuka buri munota kubyerekeye amategeko yikizanate, ahubwo ni ukumenya neza kugirango tuvugane utatekereje kubikorwa byabo n'amagambo.

Ikimenyetso gifite ibintu bimwe na bimwe:

• Irimo amategeko rusange yimyitwarire yatangwa mu kinyejana. Kandi umuti wizewe uzi amategeko asanzwe yubupfura.
• Ikimenyetso cyerekana ibiranga Amoko ayo ari yo yose: imigenzo, imigenzo, imihango.
• Ikimenyetso nikintu gigoye cyibimenyetso n'ibimenyetso bisabwa byohereza amakuru hanyuma ugaragaze adresse ya aderesi. Urashobora kubakurura ku rutugu inshuti nziza, ariko ntabwo ari umuyobozi wo mu rwego rwo hejuru. Umugabo arabyuka aramutse yinjiye, amugaragariza. Ibimenyetso, imitwe yumutwe, amaso nibyingenzi mugihe c'ubucuruzi cyangwa gusurwa na diplomasi.
• Amategeko yimyitwarire yateje imbere amateka, ntabwo ari umwihariko, ahubwo ni hafi ya kure muri kamere. Niba mu gihugu kimwe, mu nama itazi, yemerwa mu bupfumu kugira ngo yunama, hanyuma ijya ahandi - gusomana vuba. Byombi bizafatwa nkibisanzwe byemejwe muriki kibazo.

• Ikimenyetso kiranga agaciro k'indangagaciro muri iki gihugu. Hamwe na hamwe, birashoboka kumenya isano iri hagati yabantu (hafi kandi ntabwo ari urugwiro cyangwa umwanzi). Aho abantu mugihe cyibintu bitandukanye (bikomeye, icyunamo) gitanga igitekerezo cyuburinganire (cyangwa ubwinshi). Kurugero, abantu bahenze cyane bari bicaye kuri "Hejuru" (nziza). "Hasi" yabonye abashyitsi bato cyane. Birahagije kwibuka inama iyo ari yo yose, inama: Abashyitsi b'ingenzi bakora umwanya wabo muri Presidium, bicaye mu maso.

Ariko umuco wakusanyirijwe kumeza azengurutse, ako kanya itera kwishyira hamwe numwami Artur nu Kworoha, ni tekinike yo mumitekerereze yerekana uburinganire kubantu bose bahari mu mahugurwa, inama, inama.

• Ikimenyetso nicyo gisabwa, amahame yacyo atanga inzira nkiyi ishobora gutegura itumanaho ritanga umusaruro no kongera ubwenge. Byongeye kandi, ibi ni uburyo bwo kwigaragaza kwabantu. Isi y'imbere y'umuntu ifite ibice byiza, ntibitangaje: "Imvugo nziza, ibimenyetso byiza."

Ntabwo ari ngombwa gusa gukoresha amategeko yimyitwarire mubikorwa, ariko birashoboka, kubera ko byoroshye kuri wewe no kubandi.

Ikinyabupfura cyahinduwe mugikorwa cyigihe gishya, ibisabwa bishya. Ntabwo bidashoboka kwibuka amategeko yose yimyitwarire, ariko, kubwamahirwe, ibi ntibisabwa. Ni ngombwa gusobanukirwa amahame yingenzi yikirere akabishyira mubikorwa:

• Ihame ry'ubumuntu.
• Ihame ryo kuba ibikorwa.
• Imyitwarire myiza.
• Wubahe imigenzo y'igihugu cyabo no mu bindi bihugu.

Ihame ry'ubumuntu rikubiyemo uruhande rw'imyitwarire rw'ibitabo kandi rukubiyemo ibisabwa n'umuco wo gutumanaho havuga neza: ikinyabupfura, kwiyoroshya, kwihanganirana, kwihangana.

Ikinyabupfura - Igitekerezo cya mallepited hamwe nigicucu kinini: Ibi kandi ni ukuri ubuvumo, kandi uburyohe, tuyikesha. Ati: "Ukuri kuba ufite ikinyabupfura w'abami", kimwe n'ingenzi biranga ikibi cyibihugu byinshi.

Ihame rikurikira riranga ubushobozi bwo kwitwara nukuri mubibazo bishya, bitamenyerewe cyangwa ibintu bidasanzwe. Umuntu wese arashobora kuba mubihe atazi gusa amategeko yimyitwarire. Hano ku binjira bizaza umunyeshuri, umuco wimyitwarire, urwenya, ubushobozi bwo kwihanganira ubumenyi buboneka mubihe bishya byitumanaho.

Igomba kwibukwa ko bidakwiye kuba byiza kuri wewe, ahubwo ni nabandi.

Imyitwarire myiza nubundi hame ryingenzi kuri kiriya kilometero gishingiye. Mu buryo butunguranye, umugabo wambaye inzoga, ufite inzoga nyinshi, afite isura nziza yo mu maso cyangwa itagira ingano.

Buriwese atuma imigenzo yabo yakozwe mu binyejana byinshi, kandi ifite akamaro kubahiriza. Ibitekerezo byiza cyane kandi bigaragara ko hatagaragara gucirwaho iteka k'umuntu udahagarika ibihano, bitangwa na slave, cyangwa bizakomeza gufata isura y'abayisilamu.

Byongeye kandi, hari andi mahame ameze ajyanye nurwego runini rwibiti byubucuruzi, ariko ubumenyi budabuza umuntu:

• Ihame ryo kuganduka ritegeka imyitwarire y'abakozi kuko bagomba kuvugana n'abayobozi bakuru, bakabara. Mu myaka yashize, yaroroshye cyane kurwanya inyuma yuburyo bushya bwubuyobozi - gutandukanya (kuva mucyongereza abigiramo uruhare - kwitabira);
• Ihame ry'ubuririri ni ukugera ku buringanire bw'imyanya, tutitaye ku nyandiko, uburambe.

Reba

Ubwoko butandukanye bwibitabo bigezweho birashimishije. Dore bimwe muribi:

Jenerali ni urutonde rw'amategeko abaturage bagomba kubahiriza, kuvugana. Igabanyijemo igabanijwemo:

• Ijambo;
• Ibirori;
• Ikiganiro;
• ameza;
• umwuga.

• Idini - ryerekana uburyo bwo kwitwara mu bigo by'amadini no kuvugana na ba minisitiri b'amadini.
• Icyumweru cya "weekend" - igenga imyigaragambyo yimyitwarire mubice rusange: Inzu ndangamurage, Ikinamico, Restaurant, imurikagurisha, imurikagurisha, cinema.
• Amategeko ya buri munsi (idasanzwe) yerekana uburyo bwo kwitwara mubuzima busanzwe, tuvugana nabantu kumuhanda, mubwikorezi.
• Ubukwe - Amategeko ajyanye no mu birori by'ubukwe, imyenda, ubutumire, imitako, amabara, ibirori. Umugeni n'abatangabuhamya bahora bayoborwa na videwo na kamera, bityo bakeneye kureba no kwitwara neza. Ariko abashyitsi bagomba kubahiriza amategeko yimyitwarire inyuma yubukwe.

• UMURYANGO - Byerekeje umubano mwiza hagati yabashakanye, abana, abavandimwe ba hafi.
• Icyunamo (birababaje) - Imigenzo n'imigenzo yumuhango wo gusezera hamwe nabapfuye. Muri ubu buryo bwo kutitanya, hari umubare munini wibintu, kandi buriwese afite imigenzo yihariye. Icyunamo cya Slave gifatwa nk'irabura, kandi Abayapani bafite umweru. Tatars yashyinguye abantu muri tapi cyangwa umwenda, mugihe Abanyaburayi benshi bari mu isanduku.
• Imikino - Amategeko yimyitwarire yabatoza, abakinnyi, abafana, hamwe nubusabane imbere mu itsinda no hagati yamakipe.
• Ikimenyetso cyabagenzi nicyo gitabo cyimyitwarire yubukerarugendo mumahanga, aho cyemeza ko umutekano wacyo, kubungabunga ishusho nziza yigihugu cyayo no kwerekana ko yubaha imigenzo yigihugu yigihugu cyakiriye.

• Ikimenyetso cyisi ni amategeko yerekana imyitwarire yabanyamuryango yikinyabupfura, kubaha abandi, byerekana ibyiza byumuntu.
• Urukiko - rugenga imyitwarire mu rukiko rw'umwami mu bihugu bya cyayo.
• Igisirikare nicyegeranyo cy'amategeko agenga amategeko n'abakozi bashinzwe imirimo mu nzego zose z'ibikorwa byabo n'ahantu, igice, umwanya rusange.
• Uburinganire bumenya amategeko yimyitwarire kubera gutandukana muri societe yinshingano zabagabo nabagore.

• Ikimenyetso cyubucuruzi gisuzuma Ibyingenzi byimyitwarire yubucuruzi: Gutegura amanama yubucuruzi, kwerekana amakarita yubucuruzi, ibintu biranga inzandiko zubucuruzi no kuganira kuri terefone, impano zimpano.
• Ikimenyetso corporate gitanga urutonde rwamategeko rwabahijwe nabakozi b'ikigo kimwe mu mibanire hagati yabo no mu yandi mashyirahamwe.
• Dipolomasi. Akazi k'Umudilomate 90% igizwe n'ubumenyi bw'ikinyabupfura, agomba kumenya kwitwara neza mu bwanga butandukanye, ibyabaye mu buryo bwemewe, imishyikirano, inama, bikagenda neza imigenzo y'igihugu iherereye.

• Serivisi. Kugena imyitwarire yabatabira mumirenge ya serivisi: ababitanga, nabakira.
• Umuyoboro (Neticket cyangwa Netiquette) - Amategeko agenga imyitwarire abitabiriye itumanaho bakoresheje ibikoresho bya elegitoroniki kumurongo. Hariho amategeko menshi ya zahabu yo gushyikirana urusobe, byibagirwa ko kuvugana numuntu muzima, ugomba rero kubahiriza amahame amwe nkukuri. Kurugero, ntukandike ibyo ntashobora kuvuga mumaso. Kutagira uruhare mu makimbirane no kutayirema - buri gihe akenshi ihungabanye n'abitwa "troll", ariko umuntu wazanywe ntazabikora.
• Kubwibyo amategeko amenyesheje inzandiko za elegitoronike - ubucuruzi numwikorera.

Isoko irashaka gushyira igihangano cya knight n'umupira. Aba bayoboye batejwe imbere mu binyejana byinshi bishize, ntibahindutse cyane, ariko mu isi ya none bakoreshwa mu ruziga rugufi.

Knighthood, yagaragaye mu kinyejana cya Xi, yagize ingaruka zikomeye ku buzima bw'Uburayi n'indaro. Abasore bazwi beguriwe abutanyi, bakubiswe imihango myinshi yihariye: Guhitamo abadamu b'umutima no kumusenga, Gutanga, Kwiyegurira amarushanwa, kwiyegurira amarushanwa, kwemeza ibirwani. Kode y'ikineri yasabye ko ikurikiza cyane amategeko yose, kuko n'umuhondo wagabanutse muri bo wateye ubwoba gutakaza icyubahiro. Ntibitangaje kubona intego ya Knight Hariho amagambo: "Ubuzima - Umwami ... Icyubahiro - Umuntu wese! "

Indyo ya Knight yagombaga kurinda abanyantege nke, kubaha abandi bose, kurwana gusa n'umuhanga murwanya, kubuza ubugwari no mu bitekerezo, kugira icyuma. Ubu mu mikino itandukanye yo gukina no kwiyubaka no kwiyubaka, abitabiriye, yo gushaka ibihe byo hagati, na bo babwirwa mu kimenyetso cya Knight.

Ikimenyetso cya Gupakira ni amategeko yihariye adahindutse ibinyejana byinshi. Ntabwo ikubiyemo imyambaro yumupira gusa (umwambaro muremure hamwe nibitugu bifunguye kubadamu, tuxedo (frak) ninkweto z'umukara ku mupira, ubumenyi bwimyitwarire yose, ariko nanone igishushanyo mbonera cyumupira, buffet. Ibikoresho byingenzi byafatwagaho uturindantoki twuzuye urubura tutigeze twanywa, kubadamu - ubudodo, hejuru yinkokora, kubagabo - nka cyangwa kure.

Ibisobanuro byingenzi byumusarani wari numufana. Ndetse nururimi rwibanga rwibimenyetso kubakundana rwahimbwe, ibimenyetso byatanzwe n'abo majwi meza. Kurugero, umudamu wubatse yanditseho ati: "Ndashyingirwa! Ati: ", kubahisha abafana kandi ndabatakambiye uchar ikiruhuko. Abafana bahuje barangije: "Muri ikigirwamana cyanjye! "

Imikorere

Ikinyabupfura gikora amategeko gikora imirimo imwe n'imwe:

• Contactor - ishishikariza abantu gushyikirana.
• Kugumana umubano - umuntu wazanywe umuntu azahora abona, kugirango avugane mumuryango runaka, usibye ikirere. Ingingo zabujijwe kugirango ziganire nabatazi: Imiryango nubukungu, ibitekerezo bya politiki n'amadini, ibibi byumubiri, ibibi byumubiri byumuvugizi.
• Gukora umwuka wubaha kandi mwiza witumanaho.
• Imikorere yo kugenzura, cyangwa gutandukana na Caustam, ibipimo bitwawe numwanya muri societe. By'umwihariko byakoreye agenga ayo mategeko mu burasirazuba.
• Gukumira - kubahiriza amategeko yivabuhanga biragufasha gukumira amakimbirane.
• Amakuru - Amategeko yimyitwarire yerekana abantu uburyo bwo kwitwara mubihe runaka.
• Ibipimo ngenderwaho - iyi mikorere irakwiye cyane mububiko bwubucuruzi kandi ni uko urutonde rwamategeko ruteganya imyitwarire yabantu bose bagize itsinda.
• Indangamuntu ihari - izi uburyo umubare munini uzakora mubihe runaka uzabikora, umuntu ntabwo yitiranyije kandi ntazumva ko atazi.
• Amashuri - gutanga imico myiza ku bana no mu rubyiruko.
• Kwegeranya no kwanduza ubumenyi - umuntu wiga kandi yiheruka mu gisekuru kugera mu kinyuranyo cyumvikanyweho.

Amategeko y'ibanze

Umugani Jack Nicholson muri kimwe mu babajijwe yavuze ko byari byiza cyane kuzuza amategeko atabarika, kubera ko intego yabo nyamukuru ari yo yoroheye ubuzima bwacu.

Mubyukuri, umuntu uzamuwe asa neza cyane nuwahanaguyeho izuru rifite agafuni, yirukanye cyane kumugaragaro cyangwa kuvugana kuri terefone mubitabo.

Hamwe ninzitizi zayo zigaragara, amategeko yikirenga ariroroshye rwose: Bareba isura nziza, imyitwarire yubupfura, imvugo yumuco nubushobozi bwo gutunga.

Reba amategeko shingiro yijwi ryiza mu Burusiya, hamwe nibihugu byamahanga:

• Kuva mu bwato, abantu bose bigisha itegeko ryingenzi - ntibababara mumazuru, ntukavunike cyane, ntugomba gukubitwa.
• Menyesha abantu batamenyereye kuri "Wowe".
• Koresha mumagambo yo kuvuga yubupfura.
• Ntukarebe interlocutor witonze cyangwa ngo iteze imbere.
• Ntukavuge ibyo bintu inyuma yumuntu udashobora kuvuga mumaso.
• Kubahiriza igihe.
• Ushobora kwirinda no kwishimira umuyaga, no guteka.
• Buri gihe kora abasezeranijwe.

• Imyenda n'inkweto bigomba guhora bafite isuku kandi zifite isuku.
• Ntabwo gamenyerewe kwirukana imyambarire, niba ufite ibyago bisa nkibicucu kandi byumvikana.
• Ntushobora gushyira terefone igendanwa kumeza ahantu rusange - bityo ugaragaze ko utubaha abandi, werekane akamaro iyi Gadget ari ngombwa kuri wewe.
• Wibuke amayobera ya inzandiko! Nubwo waba umubyeyi, ntabwo ufite uburenganzira bwimyitwarire bwo gusoma inyandiko z'umuntu ku giti cye. Ni nako bigenda kuri abashakanye.
• Muri cinema, sirusi burigihe ihindura imbonankubone yicaye, yinjira mu mwanya wayo.
• Twahisemo gusura inshuti - menya neza guhamagara! By'umwihariko ayo mategeko yubahirizwa mu Burayi bw'i Burengerazuba. Kurugero, mubudage ukeneye guhamagara icyumweru, utangaze uruzinduko rwawe. Kandi ntugomba kubara kumeza yuzuye (nkuko bisanzwe natwe, Slavs) - Crackers na Kanape bifatwa nkigitume gikwiye kubadage.
• Nujyana na mugenzi wawe, maze asuhuza umunyamahanga, ugomba rero kubasuhuza.

• Hamwe no kumenyana, imfura irambura ukuboko kubatoye. Hamwe numudamu mukiganza ntusuhuze, gusa niba atatangije ibi.
• Kwinjira mucyumba, burigihe usuhuze uwambere.
• Umugabo ahora yubaha umugore.
• Itegereze amategeko yimyitwarire kumeza.

Ingero z'imyitwarire

Kubera ko ikinyabupfura gigenga amategeko yimyitwarire n'itumanaho, ni ngombwa cyane kumenya kumenyera. Umugabo ahagarariwe numugore wambere, abato bahagarariye mukuru. Niba umenyereye ubu, ugomba gutanga ubwabo kugiti cye.

Mugihe uhuye nababyeyi, ugomba kwerekana ko tuziranye.

Amategeko yimyitwarire hagati yumugabo numugore agomba kumenya no kureba uburinganire bwa:

• Umwanya wa Kavalera kumuhanda - ibumoso bwa mugenzi wawe. Igisirikare cyonyine cyemerewe kujya iburyo, kugirango ashobore guha icyubahiro igihe icyo aricyo cyose. Umufuka wumugore uri wenyine.
• Iya mbere muri resitora ikubiyemo umugabo, itanga kumva ibyuma biziga ko azishyura.
• Umugabo agomba kwihagararaho aramutse avuye mumeza.
• Umugabo ahora afasha umugore wicaye kumeza, mumodoka.
• Niba wifuza kunywa itabi imbere yumudamu, ugomba kubasaba uruhushya.
• Umugabo abura mugenzi we imbere. Ibidasanzwe ni amano ku ngazi, lift, munsi yo hasi.

Imyitwarire yameza yerekana ko yubahiriza amategeko akurikira:

• Icara kumeza neza kandi ntukamushyireho ibiganza. Byemewe kugirango usibe kuboko kwumye.
• Birakenewe n'umunwa ufunze, ntabwo ari itsinda.
• Ibiganiro birakwiriye gusa kuruhuka hagati yo kurya.
• Gusa umutsima urya amaboko, uyimena mugihe cyibice bito.
• Koresha icyuma na fork, icyuma kimuhindukirira ukuboko kw'iburyo kugirango ugabanye ibicuruzwa. Ntukagabanye n'icyuma gifatika gusa, omelet.
• Niba utumiwe mubintu byose, ntabwo byemewe rwose.

• Amategeko yimyitwarire muri kamere avuga: Witondere gukuraho imyanda, kimwe nimyambaro yabandi, niba hari imwe hafi. Itegereze amategeko yo korora umuriro, nturimbure ibyari byinyoni, anhills, ntukavunike amashami kandi ntugasohoze indabyo. Muri make, urimo gusura kamere, kumwitaho!

Amahame mpuzamahanga

Utitaye ku gihugu wahageze, amategeko akurikira yose agomba gukurikizwa:

• Kubaha idini, ubuyobozi bwigihugu, imigenzo, guteka.
• Nta mpamvu yo gushushanya hamwe nigihugu cyawe.
• Nta kunegura.
• Igihe ntarengwa.
• Birakwiye kwiga ibimenyetso by'ifaranga mu gihugu bagiye, kimwe no kudasingiza imari yabo.
• Buri gihe uhaguruke ku majwi y'indirimbo y'igihugu. Nibyiza gusubiramo ibikorwa byabaturage baho.
• Ntukambare imyambarire yigihugu, utamenyereye agaciro kabo.
• Tegereza amazina neza.

• Buri gihe ugaragaze ko wubaha imfura.
• Mugihe ufashe ibiryo bitamenyerewe, ntabwo bimenyerewe kwanga no kumenya icyo aricyo. Nibyiza kugwiza umugabane hanyuma ugerageze.
• Ntukoreshe ibimenyetso bimenyerewe (urugero, byazamuye igikumwe), mu kindi gihugu barashobora gusobanura ibintu bibabaje.

Imiterere yikibi cyigihugu ifite umwihariko mubihugu bitandukanye - imigenzo, amategeko yihariye yimyitwarire muri societe. Mbega imbaraga ukeneye kumenya muri:

• Ubwongereza. Abanditsi b'Amazina bahisemo kwihanganira intera iri hagati yabanyamuryango kandi bareba byimazeyo ikibindi.
• Amerika . Ishingiro ry'Abanyamerika ni gufungura n'ubucuti. Kumwenyura kenshi kandi buri gihe uramutse, nubwo wakiriye umuntu hashize iminota 15.
• Ubufaransa. Abenegihugu ntibahanwa cyane kandi bagaragaza, bagaragaza byinshi. Madame, Monsieur - Ubujurire bwemejwe kubantu batamenyereye.
• Espanye. Siesta - Imyidagaduro ya nyuma ya saa sita - igenga injyana y'ubuzima bw'Abanyesipanyoli: Bafite ifunguro rya mu gitondo nyuma y'amasaha 13. Ubutumire bwo kugabanuka kabiri, gusa ku nshuro ya gatatu byemewe. Komeza Espagnard - hejuru yo gusuzugura.
• Ibihugu by'Abarabu . Abarabu bakunda inama ndende kandi amaboko amwe, ariko inzoga n'ingurube ntibitotomba. Ntabwo bisanzwe bihimbaza ibintu mu nzu, kuko n'imigenzo, nyirayo agomba kubiha umushyitsi.

• Ubuhinde . Nkikimenyetso cyo gusuhuza, umuhindu yunamye ahagarara ukuboko kw'ibumoso kumutima. Ntabwo gamenyerewe gukoraho interineti. Mu nama zubucuruzi ugomba kwambara ibintu byiza.
• Ubushinwa . Impano kubashinwa zishyikirijwe mbere yo kugenda, kandi zambutse amakori yo kurya ni ijwi ribi. Kwiyoroshya birashimwa hano, karuvati irakwiriye gusa mubyabaye.
• Ubuyapani . Byemewe hano no gushyira hamwe no gusangira amaboko yoroheje mukubara indamutso. Ntuzigere utinda kandi ntukarebe imvugo ituje mumaso! Buri gihe ukureho inkweto, ziza gusura cyangwa resitora. Ni ngombwa kumenya ko niba Abayapani bemeranye mumagambo, ntibisobanura ko mubyukuri ari.

Iyo ugiye gusura igihugu cyo mu mahanga, ntukaba umunebwe kumenya byinshi kuri gasutamo ye. Ibi bizagukiza mubihe byinshi bibi.

Itumanaho ritari mu magambo

Imvugo n'itumanaho ni amagambo (kuvuga, kumva, ibaruwa, gusoma) hamwe nibidasanzwe (byo mumaso, ibimenyetso, ibimenyetso). Abahanga bamenye ko ubutumwa bwoherejwe mu rurimi rwingendo bujijutse cyane. Kurugero, niba umuntu amwenyuye kuminwa gusa, akanga isura hamwe nurubura imbere, biratangaje ko ari ibyiringiro bye abikuye ku mutima.

Niba utavuga amategeko shingiro yo gutumanaho kutavuga, kubangamira ntibishobora kuba byokumva, gushidikanyaho imigambi myiza cyangwa gutukwa (Ibi bireba abahagarariye ibihugu by'iburasirazuba).

Nkuko mubizi, ntuzaba ufite amahirwe ya kabiri yo gutanga ibitekerezo bya mbere. Abavuga mu mitekerereze yo mu mutwe babaze ko gukora igitekerezo runaka ku muntu utazi, birahagije kuri twe kuva mu minota ibiri cyangwa ine. Kubwibyo, amategeko menshi yingenzi agomba kumenyekana ko uhora ureka wowe ubwawe, utanavuze ijambo:

• Iyo uganiriye numuntu, cyane cyane umunyamahanga, gerageza ibimenyetso bito. Birashoboka ko Abataliya na Espasitide bazishimira ingendo zifatika, ariko baracyakenewe kwirekura.
• Ntukabure amaboko ku gituza kandi ntukambure amaguru - ubu nuburyo bwo kurinda imitekerereze, kugerageza gufunga abandi. INTEGO AMASOKO, ibitugu bimanuwe hamwe nintoki zikomeye, intoki, intoki, zifunzwe, nazo zirimo ibimenyetso.

• Kugenda bigomba kuba byoroshye kandi byizeye, inyuma - neza.
• Uhereye kumwenyura bizahinduka sveley byose - nawe, hamwe nabanyamuryango bawe. Kubwamahirwe, kubijyanye no mu gihugu cyacu, inseko ireba umuntu utazi yubahirizwa nka miri. No kubanyaburayi cyane cyane Abanyamerika ni ikintu giteganijwe.
• Kugirango ushyireho interlocist we, ni uguhimba gato umuyobozi wubutumwa, uyikoporore.
• Kwicara ku ntebe, ntushobora gutandukana, gukurura intwaro, zirisha amaguru. Ntabwo gamenyerewe guta ikirenge ku kuguru, kubagore igihagararo gikwiye - amaguru yambutse amaguru.

• Menya-Nigute Kubanyeshuri nabakozi basanzwe: Guhungabana cyangwa Boss, Kuyobora Ntamagambo ye. Vuba, uzasangamo kuvuga. Ubu buhanga bufasha neza guhagarara neza mu bandi bateze amatwi.
• Amaso - Indorerwamo roho, kimwe nigice kigaragaza cyane mumaso. Umwana arashobora kwerekana ibirenze amagambo. Ndetse nabanyeshuri bashoboye kuvuga byinshi kubyerekeye ibyiyumvo nubunararibonye: kwaguka ufite umunezero ushimishije, inyungu, bigufi - hamwe na plamombe yijimye, ugerageza kubeshya.
• Imvugo y'amagambo ahuza imvugo mu magambo kandi idahwitse kandi yerekana imyifatire y'abavuga amakuru ivuga ko ivuga.

Umuco w'imyenda

Umuco wimyenda ningirakamaro nkumuco wimyitwarire. Itegeko ryingenzi ryerekeye imyambarire rigomba kuba rifite isuku kandi rifite isuku. Mugihe uhisemo imyenda, umuntu ayoborwa nibyifuzo byawe bwite, ubushobozi bwibikoresho hamwe ninzira nziza.

Imyambarire ifite ingaruka zikomeye guhitamo imyenda, ariko ntigomba kuyikurikiza buhumyi. Birasa neza bisobanura kwambara ubwiza kandi buryoshye, ariko ntabwo byanze bikunze. Kurugero, umukobwa asa numukobwa mwiza cyane, wambaye ikoti hamwe nikoti rya la Chanel nijipo muri "Paire yo mu cyumba" kuruta uko ikondo.

Guhitamo imyenda, reba amahitamo abereye abantu bari bateruye.

Mw'imyambarire y'abagabo, umubare munini wibisabwa ushyizwe imbere mubijyanye na jacket. Ikirego cyose kigomba kuba cyicaye neza ku gishushanyo. Witondere ubuziranenge bwibikoresho, kandi ntabwo ari imyambarire, kuko rwose igikomangoma cyiza ni igihe. Mu bihe byemewe, imyambarire buri gihe ihambiriwe kuri buto zose, yemerewe kutavubiho, kurugero, kumeza.

Mugihe uhitamo ibara, witondere kubandi mabara adakomeye cyangwa selile nini. Ishati igomba kureba cm 1.5 kuva munsi yikoti. Ikirangantego kigomba guhora ari ishati yijimye, ariko ibara ryoroshye ryimyambarire. SOCKS YATORANYWE N'ISOKO Y'IMBARA, ariko nta rubanza rutarimo umweru.

Ijwi ribi nukuzuza imifuka ipantaro kugirango bazasuzugure. Hashyire igitambaro, urufunguzo, ikarita y'inguzanyo. Ahantu hasigaye ibintu byingenzi biboneka mu mufuka winyuma yinyuma hamwe nigikapu kidasanzwe cyumugabo.

Mubuzima bwa buri munsi, ibisabwa byitandukaniro ntabwo bikomeye, gukoresha igice-cyo kwikunda kubarimu, abayobozi baremewe. Urubyiruko ruyobowe nuburyohe bwumuntu kandi rwumuco runaka.

Ariko, burigihe birakwiye kwibuka kubyerekeye gushyira mu gaciro no kugereranya. Nibyiza kwambara gukomeye kuruta kwiyuhagira kurenza uko byaba ari.

Abagore batanze umudendezo mwinshi muguhitamo imyenda, imiterere. Ariko, imyambarire igomba guhora ihuye nikibazo! Umutegarugori usekeje cyane areba umutsima mu iduka ryegereye mu mwenda hamwe na scoothes ku gitsinsino. Kimwe numukobwa ukiri muto, wari muri opera mumikino ya siporo na snickers.

Amategeko rusange ahitamo amategeko asaba gusuzuma ubwoko bwisura hamwe nibara ryimisatsi, Imirongo kumyenda ntabwo ikwiriye kuri buri wese . Ku mugore wubucuruzi (umukozi wibiro, mwarimu, umunyeshuri), mwarimu ntiyemerewe gushonga cyane kandi akinira silhouettes. Amabara akwiye guhitamo pastel, igomba kuba igizwe nibice byinshi - ijipo + vest + blouse, ipantaro + ikoti.

Inkweto zoroshye, elegant, ahantu hake. Ikirangantego gisabwa mugihe icyo aricyo cyose cyumwaka! Imisatsi na maquillage igomba gushimangira ubwiza nyaburanga, parufe - kureka fleur, ntabwo yerekanaga iduka rya parufe.

Ibyo ari byo byose, imyenda igomba kuba nziza kandi isa neza kumuntu, ishimangira umuco wacyo.

Ikiganiro

Ikiganiro ntabwo ari ibiganiro byoroshye. Ubu ni bwo buryo bwo guhanahana ibitekerezo hagati y'abitabira itumanaho, bisaba ubuhanga bwihariye. Thebeeed ni ihumure kandi rikabarwa, mugihe ikibazo runaka cyaganiriweho mbere.

Mubuhanga bwa Oratory, birakenewe kwitoza, kugirango wegere ishusho yumuntu mwiza uzi kumva no kuvuga kuriyi ngingo.

Itegeko rya mbere ryo gukora ibiganiro ni imyifatire yo kubaha ku bavugire. Abantu bose batamenyerewe barengeje imyaka 18 jya kuri "wowe", nubwo uyu muntu akiri muto. Kuri "wowe" urashobora kumenyera umenyerewe.

Amategeko yintoki meza asaba kutagaragaza muburyo bwo kuvuga "i", nubwo waba uhanga mu nganda zawe. Bikurikiraho kwitondera abitabiriye itumanaho bose, kugirango batange umwanya wo kuvuga buri wese.

Witondere imvugo yawe, imitekerereze ya tempo. Kwihuta cyane ntigishobora kumvikana, bituma byoroshye kunoza amakuru akenewe mu ijambo ryihuse. IJAMBO RICIRO NA BONGER RISFISHI BYISHIJE KANDI BITANDUKANYE. Birakenewe gukomera kuri zahabu yo hagati: Vuga neza, biragaragara, ijwi rihagije. Igishimishije, abongereza bavuga neza nubunini kugirango umuntu umwe mucyumba ashobora kubabumva:

• Ntabwo gamenyerewe kuganira kubintu byinsanganyamatsiko, bitujuje ibyinshi, kimwe na commuone gusa na kirazira.
• Ntukitwaze cyangwa ngo wirinde uwo ukunda, ugerageza gutandukanya ikiganiro - Nubwo hari urufatiro.
• Nubwo ingingo yikiganiro idashimishije, ntabwo ari ngombwa kubigaragaza n'imbaraga zose: Igihuru mu gikapu, cyahanaguyeho ku mpande, tekereza kuri terefone igendanwa.
• Ntushobora guhagarika umwanditsi kuvuga ibitekerezo bibi. Umuntu yazamuye azumva imperuka, nubwo yumva inkuru kunshuro ijana.
• Nibyiza gutangira ikiganiro ku ngingo zoroshye: kubyerekeye ikirere, nko mu biruhuko, ku cyubahiro cyakusanyirijwe, tubwire inkuru ishimishije (ntabwo ari urwenya!) Cyangwa Umugani wo kwigisha.
• Kandi urangize ikiganiro kirakenewe muburyo bwiza bwo gukomeza kwera.

Ubushobozi bwo kuyobora ibintu byingenzi byamategeko yibinyabuzima ntibizagaragaza ko imico yawe gusa, ahubwo izagufasha rwose kumva ufite ikizere mubihe byose.

Icyiciro cya Master kuri Etiquette kuva muri Tartess Marie d, reba videwo ikurikira.