Kumyanya yibyabaye nkibyingenzi, nkubukwe, abasore benshi bategura ibirori bihanitse. Iyi ngingo izavuga ku muntu ugomba gutegura ibirori no kwishyura amafaranga yose, nk'ishyaka rihanishwa ubusanzwe rikorwa, kandi ni iki cyahawe umukwe.
Niki?
Mbere yubukwe, ugomba kugira umukunzi - abasore benshi ba kijyambere bakurikiza iki gitekerezo. Gutegura ibirori mu cyubahiro cyumukwe - ubu ni ubwoko bwimigenzo ihendutse mu bihugu byinshi byisi. Nkingingo, ibintu nkibi birashimishije rwose. Isosiyete y'inshuti iyobowe n'Umukwe iragenda, kandi abantu bose bishimira iminsi yanyuma yubuzima bwa bachelor.
Mubisanzwe ibirori bihanitse bikozwe kugirango umukwe, hamwe nabandi nshuti bose, cyari ikintu cyo kwibuka. Ibinezeza byose byubuzima bwabagometse, bashya bwumukwe bukiri bato bugomba kumva muri uru ruburanyi rwateguwe mu cyubahiro cye.
Hariho imyumvire nk'iyi ishyaka rihanitse rigomba kuzamura uruzi rutandukanye rw'inzuzi, hagomba kubaho imbaga y'ababyinnyi biteguye kuri byose, nibindi. Mubisanzwe, iki gitekerezo gikurikiza abageni, buri gihe kirwanya amashyaka nkabo. Ariko kenshi cyane, imbabazi zibera na gato nkuko bigaragara nabakobwa. Ibirori birashobora kuba bishimishije, byishimo kandi bihuye neza nuduce tw'ubupfura. Reba ibitekerezo bimwe muburyo bwo gutegura ibirori bya bachelor. Ariko kubijyanye nyuma gato.
Ninde utegura kandi wishyura?
Ku migenzo yashyizweho yo gutegura ibyabaye nk'ibyo, nk'ishyaka rihanitse, Umutangabuhamya afatwa n'umutangabuhamya.
Mubisanzwe, nkumuhamya wubukwe, abasore batumira ibyiza nabavandimwe cyangwa umuntu kuva bene wabo ba hafi. Kubwibyo, umutangabuhamya niko uburyohe bwose kandi akunda umukwe bugomba kumenya, burashobora gutunganya ibirori bitazibagirana.
Akenshi, ibiciro byose byamafaranga ubwabo bisaba ubuhamya bwumukwe. Ariko birashoboka rwose guhuza imbaraga nabazitabira ibirori. Muri uru rubanza, ibitsina byose bitandukanije kimwe n'abitabiriye umuhungu bose. Bibaho kandi ko fiance ubwayo nayo ishora mu birori bizaza. Ibibazo nkibi byake byakemuwe hakiri kare, hamwe hagati yinshuti nabagenzi bizahita biboneka kumuhungu.
Birakwiye ko tumenya ko Kenshi na kenshi, inshuti ziyobowe numutangabuhamya gutegura rwihishwa rwihishwa ikintu nk'icyo kumukwe no kumutegurira cyane. Kandi ikibazo cyamafaranga kizakemuka gute, kandi ninde uzishyura ibyabaye, bifitanye isano nubushobozi bwihariye bwa buri umwe.
Ni ryari bikorwa?
Nk'ubutegetsi, nyuma yo gusezerana no kugeza ku munsi w'ubukwe, urubyiruko ruguma byibuze ukwezi. Kubwibyo, ibirori bihanitse birashobora kuba byoroshye gutegura umunsi uwo ariwo wose mbere yo kwizihiza. Nibyo, nibyiza kudategura ibintu bisa neza kumunsi cyangwa bibiri kugeza mubukwe ubwabwo. Nyuma ya byose, icyumweru gishize mbere yibintu byingenzi bihora bikarangisho, kandi haracyari ibintu byinshi bigomba gukorwa kugirango ukore mbere yubukwe. Kubwibyo, igihe cyiza cyo gufata umukunzi nugutegura ibyumweru bibiri mbere yubukwe.
Niba igihe gikomeza kuba gito, urashobora gutunganya ibirori kumukwe nibura iminsi itanu mbere yubukwe. Iki gihe kirahagije kugira ngo abitabiriye umukunzi wabo bigeze bo ubwabo nyuma y'Ishyaka kandi bitabira ubukwe mu buzima bwuzuye.
Nigute?
Birashoboka rwose kujya sosiyete nini kandi yuzuye yumugabo mu kabari hafi, kandi harishimisha kumara umwanya. Ariko mubyukuri abantu bose bifuza ko umuburanyi nkuyu yagiye ku buryo adasanzwe kandi yibuka umukwe n'inshuti ze kuva kera. Hariho ibitekerezo byinshi bizakoresha abantu bose bateganya gutegura ibirori bya bachelor mugihe cya vuba.
Emera ko buri mugabo akunda cyane kandi yihuta. Kubwibyo, urashobora gutunganya abahungu ahantu hadasanzwe, kurugero, gutunganya amarushanwa nyayo kuri karting. Abasore bose bakunda gutwara ku mashini, naho Karting nuburyo bwiza.
Ngaho, birashoboka rwose gutegura buffet ntoya, noneho kugirango wishimire intsinzi imwe mubagenzi hamwe. Byongeye kandi, urashobora kubanza gutegeka impamyabumenyi yumwimerere kandi itazibagirana kuri buri wese witabiriye iri rushanwa ryatezimbere. Birumvikana ko impamyabumenyi nyamukuru igomba kubona umukwe.
Niba umukwe adakunda amakarita, ariko akunda umuvuduko, birashoboka rwose kurenga umujyi kugirango habeho gutwara kumutima kuri gare ya Quad. Kandi niba igihe kimaze gutangira, birashoboka kuri shelegi. Kuba muri kamere, birashoboka rwose gutunganya ubwoko bwubushakashatsi. Urashobora gutunganya ibintu byose mbere, kandi uzafashwa gukora amakarita afite imirimo ishimishije. Bizaba bishimishije gutwara ibidukikije, unyuze mu mbogamizi zitandukanye, hanyuma ushake igihembo kinini. Iyo ubushakashatsi burangiye, urashobora kwerekana umukwe mbere yimpano yateguwe, cyangwa gutegura ibirori munzu yishyamba. Umukunzi nkuyu azakunda umusore.
Ibirori bihanitse ni ibirori kubakwe. Kandi rero bizaba byumvikana niba inzozi ze ndende zabaye impamo mugihe nkiki. Kurugero, niba uzi neza uko umukwe amaze igihe kinini arota indege muri Aerotrub cyangwa ku isi yose, impamvu abantu bose batazasohoza inzozi ndende za nyirubwite. Kandi nyuma yo gutangira umukunzi wawe cyane, birashoboka kujya muri club cyangwa mukabari hafi cyangwa akabari, kandi haracyariho gukomeza kwishimisha.
Mugihe ibirori biteganijwe mugihe cyitumba, nibyiza kujya kumusozi. Ngaho urashobora gukuraho akazu keza kubintu bishimishije. Kugirango bishoboka kugendera nyuma ya saa sita, urashobora gutwara ibibaho cyangwa skisi. Nyuma yo kwidagadura, bizaba bishimishije cyane gukomeza nimugoroba mu kazu keza kandi utuje, kugirango ushyukire hamwe nikirahure gifite ikirahuri cya vino kibangamiye, hanyuma uteganya ibirori byumvikana cyane.
Ahantu hose utegura umukunzi, kugirango ajya kwinezeza kandi atazibagirana, ni ngombwa gutegura amarushanwa atandukanye hakiri kare. Kurugero, indahiro yumukwe yiyemeje kutibagirwa inshuti no guhura nabo byibuze rimwe mu kwezi, yamaze kuba igice gakondo kandi kitigeze gihinduka igice kinini kandi cyingenzi cyishyaka rihanitse.
Reba byinshi.
Ni iki ku mpano?
Mugihe umukunzi nibintu bimwe byingenzi mubuzima bwumusore, nkubukwe, akenshi inshuti ziha umukwe mu birori bya kachelor mu birori byumwimerere kandi bibuka. Birumvikana ko imitunganyirize y'ibirori ubwayo ari impano, ariko buri gihe nshaka kwerekana ikintu kizibutsa umukwe kuri iyi nyungu nimugoroba.
Iki gihe ntigomba kuba kihenze, kuko uzakomeza gutanga impano zubukwe. Kandi nk'impano yo guha icyubahiro ishyaka rihanitse, kwerekana gato kandi bisomise birakwiriye.
Kurugero, urashobora guha umutererane umwanya mwiza hamwe nanditse umwimerere, urwenya runaka, aho uzi gusa. Kandi kandi nkiki gihe, t-shirt hamwe no kwandika kwibuka kubyerekeye umukunzi washize arakwiriye.
Umuntu wese azishimira gutanga impano nkicupa ryakunzwe ibinyobwa bisindisha. Nkuko, iyi mpano irashobora guherekezwa nipadiri isekeje, kandi nyuma yo kurahira umukwe mwese hamwe tuzayimena, kurugero, nyuma yumwaka.
Niba uzi neza ko ibyo ukunda no kwishimisha kwa nyirabayazana, urashobora guha ibikoresho cyangwa ibikoresho bizamera neza. Kurugero, irashobora kuzunguruka amateur kuroba, igiceri gikunzwe kumibare, yoroshye yoroheje kubafana, ingofero nshya kuri moto ya amateur nibindi. Iyi mpano kumukwe rwose izishima.
Byongeye kandi, urashobora kumuha impano nkiyi, gukoresha amafaranga ashobora kubana nuwo bashakanye. Kurugero, iyi ni itike yiminsi myinshi munzu yindege, icyemezo cyo gusimbuka hamwe na parafute kuri bibiri, kugirango ufate amafoto, kugendera kumafoto, kugendera ku mafarashi. Kwita ku nshuti ntizishimira ko hari umurinzi ubwawo, ahubwo unavugamo umugeni we. Umukobwa ako kanya azumva inshuti nziza kandi yita ku bashakanye, kandi azishima kumureka akajya mu nama hamwe nabagenzi.
