Kumva urwenya bishobora kwitwa impano nziza y'ibihe, kuko abantu bose bo muri kamere bafite ireme. Kandi byinshi cyane ndashaka kwiga urwenya. N'ubundi kandi, umuntu ufite urwenya ahora ashingiye ku kwitabwaho, biramworohera kubona abandi, kugirango ugere ku mpuhwe z'abahuje igitsina. Ariko niba hari icyifuzo gikomeye cyo kuba gisekeje, byibuze kubakunzi bawe ninshuti zawe, ugomba kwiga byinshi, uburyo bwo gutsimbataza urugwiro no kwingika no kwiga urwenya.
Amategeko y'ibanze
Ako kanya birakwiye ko tumenya ko kwiga uburyo urwenya rwuzuye kumunsi umwe ntacyo uzakora. Uyu ni akazi kera gasaba uburyo bwuzuye. Kugira ngo utere imbere urwenya, ugomba guhindura imyifatire yawe n'isi igukikije, mbere ya byose byongera kwihesha agaciro. Bizafata igihe, kwihangana, imyitozo. Reba ibintu bigomba kubamo impinduka.
- Niba uri umuntu usabana, umaze kuba mwiza. Bitabaye ibyo, ugomba gutangira guteza imbere ubushobozi bwo kuvugana nabantu. Bitabifite muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose. Ugomba kwiga uburyo bwo kubaza, gushyigikira ibiganiro, ntutinye kwifatanya nikiganiro, nturinde ibigo. Ugomba kumva ibintu byabandi, kugirango wumve, kubyitwara neza hanyuma ugerageze kumenya uko abandi bagufata - byaba byiza kuvugana cyangwa kuba byiza cyane. Ibintu byose bifite akamaro kanini. Buhoro buhoro ugera kunoza imico yabo yo gushyikirana.
- Buri urwenya ntabwo ari amagambo yubupfu yarekuwe mumwanya. Bisobanura byanze bikunze. Urashobora gusetsa kandi ukeneye kugira ingingo zitandukanye, mugihe amagambo yose agomba kuba akwiye, gusa urwenya ruzaba twoza kandi ugashaka igisubizo kiva mubiganiro. Kubwibi ugomba kuba umuntu wa erdite. Rero, birakenewe gusoma byinshi (bizagira uruhare mu kwagura amagambo), sura ikinamico, imurikagurisha nibindi bintu byindi mico, vugana nabantu bashimishije.
- Ushaka kurwanya amajwi akikije urwenya agomba kubanza guseka wenyine. Inkuru zerekeye ibihe bisekeje uhereye kuburambe bwawe burigihe bigaragara neza, ubu ni inzira yizewe yo gutabara wenyine no gutsinda ibitekerezo byikigo cyose. Niba uri umutako, udakunda kwerekana isura ye n'amarangamutima ye, bizakemurwa. Iyi bariyeri ya psychologiya igomba gutsinda.
- Ugomba kuba ushobora kubona isura hagati yurwenya rusekeje kandi rwubucucu. Bibaho ko urwenya rushobora kumva umwanya wo kubabaza umuntu cyangwa gusuka. Ugomba kuba ushobora kumva akanya mugihe ushobora gusetsa, kandi mugihe bidakwiye gukora ibi. Byongeye kandi, uko abantu bakwiye gufatwa, kumva ubushishozi. Urwenya urwenya, ariko ntamuntu wahagaritse imyitwarire itagira amakenga kandi gikwiye. Birahagije gusetsa bihagije kugirango nyuma yaho hamwe numuntu nkuyu atabona ko adashoboye kwitwara neza.
- Kugirango ubone uburambe, ugomba kugaragara neza urwenya ruhebuje rwa gahunda itandukanye - ku miyoboro ya tereviziyo, kuri interineti, soma ibitabo, reba ibitsina. Ibi byose bizagirira akamaro rwose. Ibi bizagufasha kumenya uburyo bwo gusobanukirwa aho urwenya rwiza, kandi aho kuba.
- Kureka urwenya mubuzima bwawe, ugomba kuba mwiza, mubihe byose kugirango ubone ibihe byiza. Ndetse no ku bibazo ureba mu bushishozi bwo gusetsa. Ugomba kumwenyura kenshi kandi ushobora kurangaza ibibazo. Birumvikana ko bidahita bikora, ariko mugihe, hamwe namahugurwa ahoraho, inzira izagenda neza neza.
- Hariho indi ngingo yingenzi - ntugomba kwigana umuntu uwo ari we wese kandi ukoporore umuntu. Agaciro ni ukwemera umuntu ku giti cye, gukora uburyo bwawe. Ariko ibi ntibisobanura ko ubanza, ndetse na nyuma, urwenya rwumuntu ntirushobora gucuruza. Nibyo. Gusa ukeneye kugerageza kubikora rwose kandi ntutangaje wowe ubwawe numwanditsi winkuru yundi.
- Ntuzigere wiheba kunanirwa kwambere. Niba utekereza ko urwenya rusekeje, ariko ntamuntu usetsa, ntibisobanura ko urwenya rwawe rudakwiriye ahantu hose.
Ahari uyumunsi inshuti zawe ntizifite cyangwa uri muri sosiyete abantu bafite kumva urwenya. N'ubundi kandi, byose biratandukanye.
Urwenya ruri rute?
Urwenya ntabwo ari amagambo gusa. Hariho abantu basezeranye kwandika monologies bisekeje, kandi igihe cyose haravutse gusa kose urwenya. Ariko ni impano nubunararibonye runaka. Gutangira, bigomba kumvikana ko urwenya na rwo ruto cyane, ariko akazi k'ubuvanganzo. Kubwibyo, ifite kandi karuvati, iterambere ryumugambi no gusiba, nubwo bibaho vuba cyane. Ariko ikintu cyingenzi muri urwenya ni impinduka zitunguranye. Kuva nibi kandi bibaho bisekeje. Urwenya rushobora kugabanywamo ibintu nk'ibi:
- zinc, code ni ibisobanuro byibihe;
- Yitwa umutego, ihatira abateze amatwi kwitegura iterambere ryibyabaye;
- Gutungurwa ni uguhinduka gutunguranye hamwe no kurangiza gutunguranye, ntamuntu numwe watekereza.
Ubusobanuro nuko bisa nkibihe bisanzwe umuntu wese mubuzima ashobora guhura nacyo, afite ihuriro ridasanzwe, ntamuntu numwe witeguye kandi adategereje kumva. Kubwibyo, bitera reaction muburyo bwo guseka.
Abakira
Wit - Imico ifite agaciro mubuzima bwa buri munsi. Mu bihe byose, urashobora gusubiza urwenya rubi, amakimbirane yoroshye, kurangiza ikibazo. Ariko ntabwo abantu bose batangwa kugira impano nkiyi, bityo bagomba gutangira guhera, biga ko bakonje kugirango basubize ibitero byose, gushobora kwiyegurira muri societe, gushobora kwiyegurira muri societe, gushobora kwiyegurira muri societe, gushobora kwiyegurira muri societe, gushobora kwiyegurira muri societe, gushobora kwiyegurira muri societe, gushobora kwiyegurira muri societe, gushobora kwiyegurira muri societe, gushobora kwigumya muri societe, gushimisha no gutera abantu bakuru ndetse nabana.Ugomba gushaka uburyo bwawe kandi ugakora imyitozo buri munsi, jyange ingero zisuka yabandi, guhimba interuro zisekeje. Gusa rero bizashoboka gukora urwenya rwawe bwite rwo gusetsa no kwigirira icyizere. Gutezimbere ubushobozi bwayo ni ugutangira gutekereza kubirego bibaho mugihe urwenya.
Kurwanya ibinyoma
Ihame ryiyubakwa ry'urwenya ni uko iherezo ry'urwenya ritigeze rihurira mu ntangiriro, ariko ibi nibyo rwose ni ugukomeza. Nkurugero, hano urashobora kuzana interuro nkiyi kuva kumurimo wa ch. Dickens: "Yari afite ibara ry'umuhondo-ibara ry'umuhondo, yishyurwa mu mazuru." Ibisobanuro nkibi biha umwanditsi wumukobwa, kandi ibintu byose byaba byiza niba ibara ryijimye ryishyurwa kumusaya, ariko izuru rivuka muburyo butunguranye, kandi rimaze gusetsa.
Byongerewe
Muri iki gihe, ibintu byose byubakiye ku buryo imperuka ari icyemezo cyo gutangira, ariko ibi birareba mbere. Mubyukuri, gukomeza gukomeza kuvugururwa. Nkurugero, urashobora gusuzuma ikibazo iyo Heine yasangiye igitekerezo inshuti imwe, agereranya umudamu hamwe na Veus Milos, ariko icyarimwe abonye ko yari umusaza kandi udafite amenyo. Rero, kubera iherezo nkiyi, ibisobanuro byiyi nteruro biratandukanye rwose.Menyesha Aburd
Izina rivugira. Amagambo yose arashobora kuzanwa kuri abusd. Ikintu nyamukuru nugusubiza neza ninsanganyamatsiko. Kurugero, umuntu wagaragaje igitekerezo, umuntu arashobora kwitwaza ko yemeranya na we, ariko akabihindura kugirango ibisobanuro bizahindukira. Mu kwakirwa, amahitamo atandukanye yo kwerekana uburyo bwo kwerekana, gukabya cyangwa kudasinzira bikoreshwa kenshi. Urugero, nk'urugero, ntibumvikana kugereranya no kugereranya: "Umucyo, umeze nijoro."
Urashobora kwitoza mugikorwa cyo gutumanaho buri munsi.
Kugereranya gutunguranye
Ubu buhanga buroroshye cyane. Urashobora guhitamo rwose amagambo ayo ari yo yose akayaryaho nibintu bitateganijwe muri uru rubanza. Urashobora, kurugero, vuga, amaboko arakonje, nkamavuza akonje, cyangwa ibitekerezo byatejwe imbere, nkigiti. Biragaragaza rero ibintu bitandukanye hamwe nibintu, urashobora kuzana ikintu gisekeje rwose.
Kwiringirwa
Muri iki kibazo, ugomba gukoresha ibitekerezo byihariye bitagira logique bizahuza hamwe. Urugero ni igihano: "Mu bwami bumwe, leta hari umwamikazi wapfuye." Cyangwa urashobora gukoresha ijambo mu gaciro kamwe, hanyuma mu rundi: "Umuhanga umwe yavuze ko isi itazengurutse, ari umukara n'umwanda."Imiterere yo kuvanga
Ubu buhanga bukubiyemo guhuza nibyiciro byingenzi, hejuru hamwe na buri munsi. Koresha bikwiye mubihe byose muruziga rwinshuti. Nkurugero, "ibiryo bya Harch" imvugo irashobora kuzanwa.
Igitekerezo
Igisobanuro nuko kutagaragaza imyumvire yawe muburyo bugaragara, ariko ubifashijwemo n'andi magambo, ariko kugirango bisobanuke. Urashobora gusuzuma iki kibazo. Abantu babiri bicaye kumeza, mu buryo butunguranye, umwe muri bo ashyira ku meza y'ibirenge. Undi arashobora kubivugaho ati: "Witondere gushyira amaguru ane kumeza", bityo rero ukoreshe umuntu ufite umugabo numugabo ninyamaswa irangi.
Gusobanura kabiri Ijambo
Ubu buryo bushingiye ku gukoresha homonyms. Ijambo rimwe rishobora kugira indangagaciro nyinshi. Kurugero, amacandwe ni imisatsi nigikoresho cyumurimo, ikiganza nicyo cyo kwandika, fire yumuryango nuburyo bugabanuka bwijambo "ukuboko". Kandi hariho amagambo menshi nkaya mu kirusiya.Icyuma
Dukoresha urwenya kenshi. Noneho, urashobora guhamagara igikorwa cyubupfu cyitwa Smart, umuntu wubwoba bwitwa ashize amanga, umwanda - afite isuku. Ukurikije iri hame, biroroshye guhimba urwenya.
Kugereranya n'ikimenyetso kidasanzwe
Kugereranya gutya bibaho hagati yibintu bidafitanye isano muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose cyangwa bufitanye isano kure cyane. Kurugero, nigute nshobora guhuza amategeko ninyandiko. Birasa nkaho bishoboka. Ariko nubwo bimeze bityo, ntibishoboka kurenga, ariko urashobora kuzenguruka.Paradox
Ni ngombwa gukusanya hamwe ibintu bivuguruzanya ukabikora kugirango bisekeje. Kurugero, turashobora kuvuga ko isi ikomeye iryamye kuri sofa nubusa. Na paradoxique, no gusetsa. Uburyo ubwo aribwo bwose bwo gusetsa bwatoranijwe, bugomba guhora bubukwa ko gusetsa bigomba kuba ahantu. Ntabwo abantu bose babona, urugero, urwenya rwumukara.
Byongeye kandi, birakwiye gusobanukirwa ko rimwe na rimwe gusetsa amakosa yabantu cyangwa ibihe bishobora kuba bidakwiye. Ugomba kugerageza iyi mbaraga yoroheje gufata.
Imyitozo
Kugira ngo umenye urwenya, ugomba gutoza imyumvire yawe yo gusetsa, nubwo atari byinshi. Urashobora kuvoma urwenya icyo aricyo cyose urwenya cyangwa ugasubiza gusa inshuti ibabaje ikintu runaka, umwuka mwiza. Gerageza gushimisha umugore, uzamure umwuka - Aya ni imyitozo myiza yose, izafasha kongera amahirwe yo gutsinda. Gutangira, birasabwa gukoresha imyitozo imwe.
- Ugomba kuzana amagambo menshi ashoboka ku rwandiko rumwe, hanyuma muri aya magambo kugirango ushushanye ibyifuzo. Imyitozo nkiyi yaguka amagambo (kandi ibi ni ngombwa cyane), biragufasha gutekereza ibitekerezo byoroshye buri munsi. Kurugero, yafashe ibaruwa "b". Amagambo yahimbwe: Fork, Wizard, yagumye, yafashe, Collar, nyirabayazana. Urashobora gukora icyifuzo: "Umupfumu yafashe umucoma, agumane kuri cola."
- Mugihe gito ukeneye gufata amashyirahamwe menshi ashoboka. Ibidasanzwe kandi bizamurika, nibyiza. Byongeye kandi, urashobora kuzana amagambo nkaya, kubinyuranye, ntibishobora guhuzwa nibi bitekerezo. Ibi byose biratoza neza gutekereza. Kurugero, dufata ijambo "icyi". Amashyirahamwe ni ayahe? Inyanja, izuba, inyoni, indabyo, urugwiro, ibiruhuko, kuruhuka. Kandi ni iki kidashobora kuba gifitanye isano rwose n'impeshyi? Agahinda, inkonyanga, skate, urubura, kurambirwa.
- Turashaka amagambo afite ibisobanuro byinshi. Turagerageza kubikora vuba no guhimba amagambo menshi bishoboka. Kurugero, urufunguzo ni umuryango, urufunguzo rwagaciro rwumugezi, urufunguzo rwagaciro ko "gutanya".
- Shakisha ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, kurugero, ikibindi, uzane inzira icumi kugirango ziyikoreshe.
- Ibuka ibintu bibiri bidafitanye isano. Gerageza gushaka ibyo bisa.
- Ongera uremo gusebanya, gerageza gushyira urwenya rwose: paradox, ibyuma, kubitekereza nibindi.
- Fungura ikinyamakuru icyo ari cyo cyose cyangwa ikinyamakuru, uzane amafoto yose umukono wawe.
Iyi myitozo yose izafasha gukora umuvuduko wimyitwarire, guteza imbere kumva ibintu byumvikana, bigatuma gutekereza. Ibi nibyo bikenewe kugirango utere imbere urwenya kandi wige uburyo urwenya rusekeje kandi rwinshi.
