Imitekerereze igena imitekerereze ibiri nyamukuru yabantu: Intore n'ebyiri za extrovert. Nyuma yo gukora ubushakashatsi butandukanye, kwitegereza nubushakashatsi, ibitekerezo byateje imbere ko benshi mu baturage b'isi yacu.
Ariko muri iyi ngingo ntabwo tuvuga ibyabo, mu buryo, tuzavuga ku mato, tuzakorana n'ababagabo. Tuziga kubamenya, tuziga imico, imyitwarire, tuzasobanukirwa uburyo bwo guhitamo, kandi tuzi neza ko twize ibyo bakundana.
Rusange
Ubwa mbere, birakenewe kumenya uwatontoma, duhereye kuri psychologiya. Uyu ni umuntu wibanze ku isi yimbere kandi yoherejwe neza. Kuburyo bwihariye, ibitekerezo byabo nibibazo ni ngombwa, ntibakunze gusohoka mukarere keza, bizera abantu bake kandi bahitamo irungu.
Introvert ifite ibintu bikurikira byimiterere:
- Ibikorwa byayo byose bitekereza muburyo burambuye;
- Itumanaho Ni gake cyane rigenda, bishoboka cyane, akurikirana intego runaka, bityo ikiganiro na we gishobora gusaga;
- Ntabwo akeneye itumanaho rihoraho;
- Ibintu bidashimishije bisiga inzira nini ku marangamutima kandi igihe kirekire ntareka ibitekerezo bye;
- Fantasy yateye imbere neza;
- imico ifite intego;
- Buri gihe kugenzura amarangamutima yayo, kandi gake ubereke;
- Ihangane, witegereje, ukunda gusesengura ibyabaye byose.
Insanganyamatsiko yumubano hagati yumugabo numugore ningirakamaro kwisi yose. Turakunze gutongana kuburyo dutandukanye kandi tudashidikanywaho ninyuguti ziba intandaro yubusabane nibibazo bitandukanye bibabaza. Nibyiza mugihe umugore azi ubwoko bwumuntu bubereye - intore cyangwa ihindagurika, ibyo ni byo kugirango ubashe kubimenya muri rubanda, kugirango utabimenye neza!
Ibimenyetso by'abagabo-intore:
- gukunda igihe gituje kandi cyamahoro;
- ingwate mubitekerezo n'imanza;
- Benshi batobora abagabo bakunda ibitabo kandi basuzume impano nziza;
- Gushimira kwe kugaragazwa n'ibikorwa, amagambo kuri bo ntacyo bivuze;
- Enthivert Umugabo - Ikintu cyose gishobora kwifuza gusa, ntaho bihwanye mubuzima bwabashakanye;
- gukunda kwerekana no kuvuga ku ngingo zimbitse;
- Ibiganiro byubusa ntabwo aribyo, mubiganiro muri make kandi bigufi;
- Bisobanura kwigaragaza amarangamutima.
Nigute wubaka itumanaho?
Ubwoko nk'ubwo bwa buntu bwafunzwe cyane, bwihishe, aba mu isi ye, kandi ahitamo ntawe uhari. Mugihe uvugana nuyu mugabo, ntushobora gushobora kumukomanga no kwitiranya, kuko yizeye wenyine kandi nimbaraga zayo.
Ibi bintu byose birashobora no gutera ubwoba umugore. Iyo uhuye na Intore, ugomba gukora neza kandi uzi amategeko yibanze azafasha guhura agatangira gushyikirana.
- Intore ntizikunda ibinyoma kandi bihendutse. Kuba indakere cyane kandi ubikuye ku mutima.
- Witondere kumva umugabo, barabikunda.
- Ntugire ingaruka mugihe uganira kubishobora kwibutsa intore kubyo batsinzwe.
- Fasha no kumushyigikira mu nyigisho. Umugabo-intore Ibi bizabishima.
- Ntukemure cyane. Intore uko ukeneye igihe cyo kukumenya no gusuzuma imico yawe myiza.
- Wibagirwe umuvuduko wimyitwarire. Ntabwo bizaganisha kuri ikintu cyiza. Erekana ubwitonzi n'ikinyabupfura, noneho azagusubiza kimwe. Kandi ntugashyire igitekerezo cyawe. Urashobora kumugaragaza, ariko niba ashaka kuguma wenyine, nubwo bizaba.
Komeza aya mategeko, kandi birashoboka cyane, ikindi kiganiro kizakurikira.
Ibiranga umubano
Tumaze gutondekanya ko iyi psychotype yabagabo iragoye rwose. Kimwe nabo mubucuti, no mu rukundo. Kenshi cyane, ibanga ryayo no kutitonda birashobora kuba umusazi no gutera ibitekerezo bishimishije cyane.
Niba satelite yawe ivuga ubwoko nk'ubwo, witegure ku myitwarire runaka mubucuti, kandi wige uburyo bwo gutuza bifata ibibera. Reka twibande ku bintu nyamukuru, kimwe nibibazo byubusabane.
- Wirengagize umuhamagaro wawe. Ntibakunda ibiganiro kuri terefone. Uyu mugabo azabona impamvu nyinshi zo kudasubiza. Ba umunyabwenge - andika ubutumwa.
- Akazi no gukora gusa. Rimwe na rimwe, impression ivuka ko ariho mbere yabyo. Ibi ntabwo aribyo, gusa niba hari ikintu cyatangiye gukora, ugomba noneho kuzana imperuka. Ntutekereze no kuguhitamo hagati y'akazi nawe. Gusobanukirwa kandi wemere uko ibintu bimeze. Kubwibi, ntagushidikanya, azagororerwa.
- Ashinzwe mumagambo abiri. Ntabwo akunda ibiganiro birebire kandi bidafite ishingiro, bigufi cyane mubiganiro.
- Gutakaza mu masosiyete avuga. Isosiyete y'abatazi, amashyaka - ntabwo ari intore. Yahitamo irungu. Mumufashe kuyandika.
- Ntabwo ikoreshwa mubibazo byayo. Yahisemo ibibazo bye akibwira. Ntazigera akubwira ibyabo. Niba ubona ko umugabo wawe yabaye agahinda kandi akabyumva, ntugerageze gukuramo amakuru. Baza niba ari ngombwa, azibwira.
- Akunda inyamaswa. Niba kandi usuye, kandi umugabo wawe ahisemo gukina nimbwa, ahubwo yicare hamwe nabantu bose kumeza, ntukamutemeze, reka akine.
- Kutitabira. Urashobora gutegura ibirori igihe kirekire, kandi mugihe cyanyuma ashaka guhagarika ibintu byose no kuryama kuri sofa. Itegereze gutuza. Tanga kwimurira byose kugeza wundi munsi.
- Gutinda. Gukomeretsa cyane mugufata ibyemezo, gukora ibikorwa. Uzakenera rimwe na rimwe gufata iyambere. Ariko ntiwibagirwe kubaza igitekerezo cye.
- Gutinya kunegura. Ntuzigere unegura abagabo bawe, ntugereranye nabandi. Ararakaye cyane, ariko kugirango agire umusore nkumusore nkuyu.
Witondere, kuko intambwe iyo ari yo yose cyangwa ijambo ryihuse rishobora gusunika umukunzi wawe kandi rikatuma agushidikanya.
Mu rukundo
Twese twishimiye kumenya no kumva ibyo badukunda. Uragerageza cyane gukundana numugabo, kandi ibintu byose bisa nkaho bimeze neza, ariko nigute twabyumva, ari mu rukundo cyangwa ntabwo? Ukurikije imico yimiterere namakuba muburyo bwo kwerekana amarangamutima, biragoye cyane kumenya imyifatire yintagondwa.
Reka turebe uko abatavuga rumwe na bo bitwara ubwabo.
- Niba kugirango umarane nawe, intore zisiga zone ihumure, bivuze ikintu neza. Arashobora kujya muri club, mu birori, picnic kuri wewe, byibuze mbere ntabwo yashyigikiye iyo myidagaduro.
- Acecetse igihe cyose, ntabwo asubiza ibibazo, kandi utangira gutekereza ko adashimishijwe. Ntabwo aribyo rwose. Indorerezi nto kandi yubaha, kandi ni wowe wabaye uwatsindiye uburenganzira bwo kuyigabanyamo.
- Intore zifite urwenya rwiza, ariko ntabwo bose babigaragaza. Ahubwo, kubinyuranye, bahisemo gusa nkaho gusebanya. Niba kandi asetsa nawe, aseka, ntukiri umuntu utazi.
- Niba usanzwe ufitanye isano nintoki, ntacyo ufite cyo guhangayika. Mbere yo kwemera umubano ukomeye, intore zizatekereza igihe kirekire, ibitekerezo, kugirango usuzume ibintu ubwawo, bikaba bikaba igice cyisi ye.
Ikintu kidashimishije cyane ushobora no kutabona ko ibyiyumvo byasenyutse kandi ibintu byose ntibimeze mbere. Introvert ntitigera ivuga kandi ntabwo ikoreshwa ko nta rukundo ruhari, izashira. Kandi azajya kugenda, kandi ntasubizwe.
Reba byinshi.