Mubuvuzi bugezweho, ubwoko butandukanye bwibitabo bya psychologiya byasobanuwe muburyo burambuye, niyihe cyangwa undi muntu ashobora guhura nabyo. Iyi ntumwa harimo na Narcissism. Leta iyo umuntu atabonye umuntu, usibye we ubwe, rimwe na rimwe ashobora kurenga urwego kandi, muriki gihe, birashobora gufatwa nkubutaka. Gusuzuma iyi ndwara yo mumitekerereze iragoye, kuko bidashoboka guha umuntu kwisuzumisha, nta bumenyi bujyanye na pschologiya na psycleatry. Iyi ngingo izasobanura ibiranga iyi ndwara, ibimenyetso nuburyo bwo kuvurwa.
Amafaranga yihariye
Fervice Narcissism nindwara yihariye nimyitwarire runaka, ishobora kwigaragaza mubururu bumwe mubagore, no mubagabo. Abantu babantu bafite ikibazo nk'iki bita "Narcissus". Ariko, umuntu ntabwo akwiriye kwitirirwa kuri buri muntu ukunda cyane, kuko iyi ndwara igoye kumenya, utari umuganga wabigize umwuga. Byongeye kandi, iyi ndwara ifite uburyo butandukanye iyo umuntu urwaye iyi kigo nta kaga gafite akaga. Ubusanzwe kwa Narcissism iringaniye nayo ikubiyemo:
- imico yo hejuru idahwitse yihesha agaciro;
- kubura kumva kwicuza cyangwa uburambe kubandi bantu;
- Kumva ko uruta abandi bantu bose ba societe.
Kuvuga umugabo "Narcisse", urwaye indwara ya patologiya, urashobora kuvuga ko abantu nkabo "mumikino" yabo badahuje igitsina. Niki, nacyo, akenshi kigira ingaruka mbi ku isegonda. Abagore batangira kubabazwa no kwiheba, kandi rimwe na rimwe ibikomere bikomeye bya psychologiya nabyo byakiriwe.
Umusebyi wa muntu ufite ikibazo cyihariye ndetse nimyitwarire yihariye itanga mumwaka umwe. Abantu nkabo bakunze guhakana cyane ibikorwa byabo kandi akenshi ntibakora ibyo basezerana. Aba bantu bahora bagerageza kugandukira ubushake bwabo bwo gutangaza cyangwa mugenzi wabo.
Dafodis yigeze yihangana gukunda gukoresha ibyiyumvo byabandi utabonye ibyabaye mubyukuri. Birasanzwe kuri bo. Abantu nkabo ntibigera bitazirikana ibitekerezo byabandi. Abaganga benshi bemeza ko abantu bafite patologiya batangije bakonje rwose kandi batumva.
Impamvu zo kugaragara no gushiraho pathologiya
Kugeza ubu, nta gisubizo kigaragara kiva mu nzobere, impamvu iyi mvururu zivuka. Ariko, kimwe nabandi mico myinshi nibibazo, birashobora kugira imizi mubana. Uyu arashobora kandi guhuzwa nikibazo cyo hasi, kinyuzwe nuburyo bwo kugaragara cyangwa umwanya muri societe. Ubushotoranyi bwiyi ndwara burashobora guterwa nuburere butari bwo cyangwa ibitekerezo bidahagije bishyuye umwana.
Rimwe na rimwe, inzobere zikanavuga ku mwanya wa genetike y'ubwo bwoko bw'indwara. Kandi rimwe na rimwe iyi ndwara irashobora kuba ikimenyetso cyindwara ziteje akaga, kurugero, birashobora kuba schizofrenia.
Ibimenyetso
Biragoye rwose gutondekanya ibimenyetso byose bya "Narcissa", kuko buri muntu ari umuntu ku giti cye, bityo indwara irashobora kuba muburyo bumwe cyangwa ubundi muburyo butandukanye. Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, kubihe bikomeye byingenzi, bitewe nuwashobora kumenya Narcissus, reba:
- Ibitekerezo bikomeye cyane kubyerekeye gutsinda cyane, bivugwa ko Daffiodil ihora ibamara;
- Kubaho kwibyifuzo bijyanye no kubaha abantu numuntu muri rusange muri rusange;
- Ubwibone no kwifuza cyane, ntabwo bishyigikiwe nibikorwa byose;
- Hanze mbi ku kunegura kwe kunegura;
- ubwoko bwose bwo kwiyoberanya;
- Koresha abandi bantu kubwintego zabo bwite.
Abagabo n'abagore bafite iyi pathologiya ntibashishikajwe no gutsinda kw'abandi bantu, harimo n'abo bene. Bakunze kuvuga ibigirwamana, hanyuma barabiyama muri byose. Hariho ibimenyetso bimwe bifite imiterere yuburinganire. Noneho, abagabo-dafdods bahora biyemera cyane, bifuza kuba umukire cyane kandi uzwi cyane mubintu byose.
Abo bagabo, nk'ubutegetsi, ntugange ubwabo, kabone niyo batabemerera. Bakunze kwirengagizwa n'imyitwarire y'abahagarariye igitsina cyiza. Byongeye kandi, abagabo barasaba cyane kandi bishimye. Abagabo basanzwe ba Daffilodusu bashingiye kumafaranga kubabyeyi babo cyangwa bagore b'umutima. Nk'ubutegetsi, umuryango utekereza kumwanya wanyuma cyangwa ntutekereze rwose, wishyire imbere. Naho abagore, bafite patologiya ya perelogy Narcissism yigaragaza muri ibi bikurikira:
- Bakurikije barenze isura yabo, bagera ku bitagaragara;
- Gushakisha abakire kandi bafite umutekano, nubwo basobanukiwe ko atari abashakanye;
- shimishwa na buri kintu, muburyo bwose bwaka;
- Kenshi cyane, mubyifuzo byumusaruro mwiza, abagore-Narcissus Cally kubikorwa bya plastike, ibindi bikorwa byo kubaga no gukoresha cyane kwisiga bishushanyije.
Nubwo umudamu ashobora kuba afite patologiya yubu bwoko, biragoye rwose kubimenya. Bigaragara ko abo bantu bakundana basaga nkaho atari byiza mumutwe no gushaka inyungu zabo, bitandukanye, akenshi barashimwa. Abakobwa nkabo, nkabagabo, Narcissus, ntibahitamo kubona yigenga, akenshi baba barimo gutera inkunga ababyeyi. Ibyo ari byo byose, abantu bamwe bashobora kugira kwihesha agaciro cyane kandi ntibisobanura ko barwaye.
Kubwibyo, birakwiye ko tumenya ko byoroshye gusuzuma umuturanyi wawe, umuvandimwe cyangwa umuntu runaka udasanzwe, nubwo hari ibintu bimwe na bimwe biranga iyi pathologue.
Gutezimbere umubano na Daffodil
Abantu benshi, bahamagara ikiganiro hamwe nabanyekuruza, ntibashobora guhita bamenya Narcissa. Biragoye kandi kubihishura, kumureba. Abantu bafite patologiya ni gahoro cyane kandi akenshi batanze ibitekerezo byiza bareba mbere, nkibisubizo nibyiza cyane kuvugana nabo. Ntibishoboka gushidikanya kugeza igihe runaka.
Ibyiciro byambere byimibanire numugabo cyangwa umugore urwaye injyana aho ihamye birashobora gusa nkaho "biryoshye." Abashakashatsi benshi bitwa "ukwezi kwa buki", ariko rero bose mumico n'imibanire itangira rwose gutandukana rwose. Kubera ko abantu bafite ibigo birimo imibumbe bafite ikibazo gikomeye kimuntu, bakunze kumva ko batanyuzwe, nubwo batabigaragaza. Ariko iyo umufatanyabikorwa wabo arambiweho, bareka kubihisha, kwerekana ishingiro ryabo. Noneho umubano muburyo busanzwe birashobora guhinduka inzozi nyazo.
Nta bucuti bwa gicuti nabantu nkabo - biragoye kuvuga, byose biterwa nuburyo bwindwara nuburyo imyitwarire ubwayo ari. Ariko niba tuvuga kubyerekeye patologiya zikomeye kandi kubyerekeye isano ya bombi, noneho iyi mibanire ni iherezo ryapfuye. Niba bakura mugihe runaka kandi bazana umunezero, noneho ejo hazaza ntacyo bazazanira ikintu cyiza.
Birumvikana ko hashobora kubaho ibintu bibiri, cyane cyane niba "kamere ya Narcissistique" izakomeza kugira icyifuzo cyo gukira.
Ubuhanga buranga ihohoterwa rishingiye ku mico
Nubwo imyitwarire ya Narcissa igoye guhanura, abahanga bandika ikadiri runaka nubuhanga bwihariye abantu bafite iyi pathologiya bakoresha ubuhanga. Rero, abakira bavugwa.
- Gukabya ibibazo byose, gumbaza mubihe muburyo bwabo.
- Kudashaka kumva uwo bakundana, gusobanukirwa ibyiyumvo n'amarangamutima. Kenshi "guhinduranya" kwitondera ubwayo, mugihe umukunzi aganira kukintu cyingenzi kandi cyihutirwa. Muri icyo gihe, Narcissus arashobora gukoresha urwenya, ahindura cyane ingingo yo kuganira.
- Inzogera ihangayitse irashobora kuba iby'igice-kuri-Narcissus cyohereza amagambo y'uruganiro rwe.
- Nanone, abantu bafite uburwayi nk'ubwo barashobora gusabaza gusa abo bavugana batabasobanuriye impamvu zabo.
- Hanyuma, barashobora kwerekana ibitero bitunguranye byo kwiba, ndetse no mubusabane nabakunzi. Bashobora cyane kuba muburakari, mugihe hari ibitagenze neza.
Perevosny Narcissus azahora agerageza kurimbura undi muntu kugirango arengereho imbaraga zose. Kandi abantu benshi badafite intege nke, ikibabaje, ntiruboneka kubwibyo.
Uburyo bwo kuvura
Gusuzuma n'ingamba zose zo kuvura zigomba gushyirwaho n'umwuga. Iyi ndwara, nk'itegeko, ntabwo imenyekana mu ntangiriro yabyo, bityo ikaba karande, kubera iyo mivu yo kuvura ishobora guhabwa ikibazo. Nk'itegeko, abahanga batezimbere inzira runaka yo kuvura, bagerageza gushimisha umurwayi no kuyisunika kwihesha agaciro. Ibipimo byiza muri Cure byerekana ko amasomo ya psychotherapi, kandi ntavurwe nibiyobyabwenge byubuvuzi. Nibyiza gushyiraho ibya nyuma niba, usibye ikibazo kimwe, umuntu afite ibitero byihebye, ubwoba cyangwa Phosiasi iyo ari yo yose, ibyo byose bisaba guhinduka guteganijwe.
Mu bihe byose hamwe n'indwara zivanze, inzobere zirashobora kwandika ihangane zo mu kwihangana, kurwanya abarwayi, izindi migambi n'abiteguye. Ariko, ibiyobyabwenge byubuvuzi biratangira ibimenyetso byindi cyangwa ikindi kibazo, utirengagije indwara. Kugirango tugere ku bisubizo byiza, kuvura byuzuye bigomba gukoreshwa, byanze bikunze birimo inama na psychotherapiste.
Impanuro
Nibyo, amahitamo meza yo kwirinda ibibazo ntabwo ari uguhura nabantu nkamba, kuko bigoye cyane kubirwanya. Daflied dafdones nkaho igaburira imbaraga z'abo bagamije, biragoye kubikora. Nk'itegeko, niba umugabo - Narcissus yita cyane cyane umugore we mu buzima bwa buri munsi ndetse no mu bintu byinshi, ku bijyanye n'umuryango, biragoye gukora ikintu hano. Kenshi na kenshi, inzobere hamwe naba psychologue mumuryango bakemuye ibibazo byoroshye bijyanye no gutongana.
Ariko niba turimo tuvuga kuri Narcissa, ntazongera kuvuka, cyangwa abantu bagomba gutatana . Rimwe na rimwe, abagore bahitamo kwicisha bugufi, ariko na none, barabuze igihe kirekire. Bikwiye kumenyekana ko iyo byaratumye umuntu watoranije arwaye muri patologiya kandi akaba umunyagitugu, ntabwo ari amakosa ye. Byarabaye rero. Ariko ibi ntabwo arimpamvu yose yo kwihangana no kukwemerera kwishinyagura muburyo bwose.
Mubibazo bidasanzwe, gukosora imyitwarire hamwe ninzobere bitanga imbuto, ariko iyo abanyetsikotse gusa niba bagorekeranye bashimishijwe nibi, ntabwo ari uwahohotewe. Birakwiye kandi gusobanukirwa ko abantu - Narcissus akenshi bahura cyane nibitekerezo bibivana imbere. Bamwe muribo ndetse bababazwa no kwigunga, kuko badashobora kwihanganira ubwabo.
Nibihe bintu nibimenyetso bya Narcissism yemewe, reba videwo ikurikira.