Umukino uri mu gipupe uzwi na buri wese ukomoka mu bihe by'abana. Bakina abakobwa n'abahungu. Ndetse n'abakuze, bahinduka abantu bigenga, bakomeje kwishora muri ibi bikinisho. Hariho abantu bakusanya ingero nziza kandi zishaje.
Ariko, muri societe yacu hariho abantu nkabo badakunda gusa ibipupe gusa, ariko barabatinya cyane. Abahanga bavuga ko bari muburyo bumwe cyangwa undi mubabaro kuri pediophobia.
Niki?
Iyi ndwara irangwa Gutinya ibipupe bitandukanye (mannequins, robo) guhera ubwiza bwa porcelain bihenze cyane no kurangiza hamwe nibibwana bisanzwe . Phobia yigaragaza hamwe nigihe gito kubintu byose bigana umuntu cyangwa ikindi kiremwa kizima.
Gutinya ibipupe nindwara yo mumutwe. Iruhande rwe ni indwara nk'iyi yitwa Gylanefobia. Bigaragazwa no guceceka kw'igipupe. Abantu bafite indwara zitandukanye zo mu mutwe basa nkaho baremeza ko igifu gikurikirana kugenda k'umuntu.
Iyi miterere itangaje yabantu batandukanye igaragara ukundi. Umuntu ntabwo atyaza ibitekerezo kuri iki kibazo na gato, umuntu afite ubwoba rwose ibipupe byose, kandi umuntu agwa mu bwoba, abona igikinisho cyiza "ijisho rimwe". Mugihe inzobere zidashobora gusubiza neza ikibazo impamvu iyi ndwara ibaho.
Icyakora, Sigmund w'icyamamare wa psychologue yagerageje gutoranya ibitekerezo: Abana babonye isi y'ibipupe nk'ukuri, kandi wenda harahinduka cyane kubera ko hatangiye guhangayikishwa cyane kubera gutinya ibyo bintu.
Ibi byose ni ukubera ko umwana yanduye kuguruka. Kubera ibyo yitiranya isi nyayo nisi y'ibikinisho. Birasa nkaho ibipupe bishobora kubaho mugihe buriwese asinziriye.
Ijoro nigihe cyo kubyuka kwabo. Kandi nijoro, nkuko bisanzwe, ubwoba bwinshi bwimbitse burashyirwa mubikorwa. Noneho, ubwoba bworoshye bukura muri phobiya idashikamye.
Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bavuga ko bidakenewe guhitamo abana b'ibipupe, amaso yabo arasa cyane n'abantu.
Ingingo yumukino ntigomba kuba isura nziza. Niba kandi waguze kubana bawe, noneho urebe imyitwarire ye. Niba umugabo muto yirinze ibipupe, noneho aratinya. Ntazashobora gusobanura uko byari bimeze. Kubwibyo, abantu bakuru bagomba kumenya impungenge.
Niba ubwoba bwumwana bugaragara, ni ngombwa rero kubikuraho kuburyo bukurikira:
- Kuraho igikinisho uhereye kumaso ya;
- Nta rubanza, ntukitabe imurikagurisha ry'ibishashara;
- Gerageza kugirango umwana ave mu mannequine mu iduka.
Ibuka – Abana barashimangirwa. Umwana uwo ari we wese arashobora kwitegereza mannequin cyangwa igipupe gikura kidasanzwe, imyumvire ye idasanzwe, imyumvire ye idasanzwe ibangamira ubwenge mubitekerezo, kandi muriki gihe birashobora kuba intangiriro yiterambere ryindwara ikomeye.
Nta rubanza rudashobora kwemererwa ibintu nk'ibi iyo umwana atunguranye avuga ko igipupe kinini kiva imbere mbere yo kureba. Cyane cyane abana n'abakuru batera ubwoba clown mumyambarire myiza hamwe n'umunwa munini, basa n'ibipupe.
Uburambe bubi buzaganisha ku mwana kugira ngo atezimbere Phobia.
Ibikurikira, umwana wawe azakura, kandi irashobora gufata bike. Ibi byose bizaba biterwa nuko ashobora kuba afite izindi nyungu. Niba kandi ubuzima bwe buzatemba butuje kandi nta shidikanyaga, phobia ntazagaragara mugihe kizaza. Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, ubuzima bukuze buri gihe bwuzuyemo ibintu byiza, muribo hashobora kubaho ababi.
Kurugero, umugabo yabaye akababaro kiteye ubwoba cyangwa yahuye nububabare bukabije bukomeye. Noneho umuntu ku giti cye arashobora gutangira neurose. Kandi aya maco hafi ya buri gihe akanguka mubitekerezo byumuntu wangiza.
Bahita bagaragaza kandi basohoka. Noneho umuntu ku giti cye kurinda imiterere yawe, agerageza kwirinda guhura nibipupe. Bityo Mubantu bakuru, inzitizi yo kurinda iratere.
Niyo mpamvu abagabo n'abagore bakuze hafi kutareba firime, aho umugambi ukubiyemo ubukana butunguranye, amaraso yabo ajyanye numuntu. Twabibutsa ko Abantu bafite imitekerereze myiza rwose ntibakeneye gushimishwa no gushushanya no gukurura abana bato bafite imitekerereze yihuta.
Mubyiciro, ingingo zimwe zizaganisha kuri fobiya nto irashobora kuguma. Kandi guhangayikishwa guke birashobora kuba binini cyane.
Ibimenyetso by'ibanze
Phobiya burigihe buvuka kubwimpamvu zitandukanye. Kandi rwose mubantu bose nkizo, bigaragarira muburyo butandukanye. PEDIONOPS zimwe zemeza ko kurema umuntu ubisa na plastiki ntabwo ari byiza mubisanzwe, kandi barabatera ubwoba. Iyi reaction reaction ni nkibyifuzo bisanzwe, rero ntibisaba gukosorwa bidasanzwe.
Ariko niba umuntu afite ubwoba bwinshi cyangwa akanagira ubwoba bwo gukora ibipupe cyangwa ku mannequine, kandi ubwoba ntabwo ari byiza gukuraho vuba, noneho bigomba gufatwa nkibigaragaza indwara yo mumutwe. Umuntu urwaye Phobia yiyongeraho amarangamutima ye nundi bwoba . Atangira gutinya ko umutima we ushobora guhunga kubera gukangurwa cyane, kandi azarimbuka. Kubwibyo, kimwe gusa nigitungi nikintu kibabaje cyingaruka zubwoba bitera igitero cya pediofoba.
Mubisanzwe, iyo umuntu afite ubwoba, umubiri we wibakira, hanyuma ibimenyetso bikurikira bitangira kwigaragaza:
- Umurwayi arashobora kugira ibibazo yo kwiyuhagira no kwimurwa;
- Arashobora gutangira kwitinda ku mpande zose;
- Kugaragara kw'ibitandukanya na salusiyo ni ikindi kintu cy'ingenzi;
- Imyumvire y'ukuri irashobora kubaho;
- Ahari indwara ya Vision ndetse no kunanga;
- Hamwe n'ubwoba bukomeye, hashobora kubaho ikuzimu;
- Guhumeka guhumeka, kurenga ku giciro cy'umutima, kwihuta cyane - ibi byose ni ikindi kwigaragaza kwa fobia.
Ukimara kubona cyangwa uwo ukunda ufite ibimenyetso nkibi, birakenewe gufata ingamba zo gukuraho phobiya kugirango tutabura igihe.
Nigute wakuraho?
Abantu bafite imico ikabije hafi ntibibabazwa na Phobiya. Ariko, barashobora gukorerwa iyi leta kubera guhangayika bikabije cyangwa imitekerereze ya psycho-amarangamutima. Mubisanzwe, umuntu ukomeye wumwuka azashobora gutsinda ubwoba bwe bwose. Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, ugomba kwibuka ibyo Kuva mu bihugu bikabije, ndetse birenze kuri Pediophobiya, ntibishoboka rwose kwikuramo. Gusa birashobora guhagarikwa Hifashishijwe ubushake.
Niba kandi ubikora buri gihe, noneho kwirundanya kwubwoba mumatsinda, kandi bizagaruka bifite imbaraga nshya, mugihe igishusho cyigipupe icyo ari cyo cyose gifite imbere y'amaso. Kandi ikintu kibabaje kidakwiye kigomba kuba kinini cyane nkigipupe cyo gukura, kurugero. Kuri uwukangura amarangamutima, azareba bihagije abapaki nto, bizatungurwa nibibazo bikomeye.
Kubwibyo, birakenewe gushaka ubufasha kuri abo bahanga bigaragariza uruhande rwiza. Inzobere izatangira gukorana nawe.
- Mbere ya byose, ugomba kubyemera ko hari ikibazo nk'iki - Pediophobia. Ibikurikira bigomba kumenya kumenya ko ari ngombwa kurwanya indwara.
- Leta ikomeye - Ubu ni uburwayi bwo mumutwe, hamwe na psychologue hano ntishobora guhangana. Kubwibyo, hamwe nibibazo bikomeye, birakenewe ko dushakira inama no kuvurwa numuganga wumuganga windwara zo mu mutwe.
- Urubanza rutoroshye Bisobanura ikibazo kirekire cyo kwirengagiza. Nkibisubizo nkibi, imiterere irakabije, hanyuma kuvura ibiyobyabwenge birasabwa nkindi masomo yinyongera kuri psychotherapi. Kuvura bikorwa hifashishijwe Neuroleptique, abadakurikirana na bantidepression.
- Umuganga wenyine arashobora gutanga ubuvuzi Ibisate, rero kwakirwa kwigenga ntibyemewe.
- Inzira yo kuvura imiti Irashobora kumara amezi 12. Muri kiriya gihe, umurwayi azamenyera muri leta ituje.
BYIZA, UKENEYE ubufasha kuri psychologue. Gusa nkeneye guhindukirira inzobere nkuyu, Ikorana n'abantu barwaye Phobiya.
- Kugerageza imitekerereze ya psychologue ikora muburyo bwo kuganira . Nicyo gihe ikibazo kiboneka. Gufungura umuntu bizafasha kumenya ibintu byose bitwikiriye intangiriro ya Phobia. Noneho rero, ntutinye ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, ntutihishe, ntutindiganye.
- Nk'ibiriza Inzobere irashobora gutanga inama zo mu rugo. Bazafasha kunoza leta.
Niba uhisemo gukuraho ubwoba bwawe, hanyuma urebe ibikorwa nkibi Kuruhuka no Gutekereza . Amasomo yoga, asura Sainas hamwe na massage yoroheje, aromatherapy izagufasha guhangana na leta itemewe.
Muri videwo ikurikira urashobora kumenyera neza ibimenyetso no gusuzuma PEDILophobia.