Umwaka mushya kumazuru, na entiment - zeru. Amagambo nkayo ntabwo adasanzwe kumurongo wiminsi mikuru. Iyi ntabwo arimpamvu yo kugerageza gutsindira ibikorikori no kwinezeza, ahubwo ni impamvu yo kuyitondekanya no kugerageza gukosora ibintu.
Kuki nta misaruzi?
Ugomba gutangirana nuko Kandra ndetse no kwiheba umwaka mushya nikibazo cyumubare munini wabantu.
Niba bisa naho ari umuntu ubabaye muri iki gihe, mugihe abandi bagenda bafite imitwe yabo mu iduka ry'iminsi mikuru, kandi barimbisha urugo, inzu yibeshye.
Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze basobanura ingingo eshatu z'ingenzi zijyanye no kubura umwaka mushya.
- Irungu. Ku mugoroba wo munsi y'ibiruhuko, kumva ufite irungu birakabije. Hariho ishyirahamwe risobanutse (ariko ni stereotype) ko umwaka mushya ni ibiruhuko byumuryango ukeneye guhura inyuma yimeza nini hanyuma iruhande rwabakunzi gusa. Ariko iyi ni imwe mumigenzo, isanzwe, nziza, ariko ntabwo ari ukuri kwose kurugero rwanyuma. Niba irungu rugaragara cyane muminsi mikuru, ugomba kongera gusuzuma urutonde rwibiteganijwe nibisobanuro byibinyoma, kandi no kumenyana ninkuru zabantu bakunda kwizihiza umwaka mushya hanze kandi babikore bishimishije.
- IBIKORWA. Ibiruhuko byose biri gukuramo umubare runaka uri mu gikapu. Kandi nkumwaka nk'uwo, nk'umunyeshuri mushya, bizasuzugura rwose imyanda inyuma yabo. Ntabwo bitangaje kuba ufite umwuka wabuze niyo mpamvu imwe yo gukoresha ibikoresho biri imbere. Kandi hano, nawe ugomba kongera gutekereza ku mpano zawe, agaciro kazo n'icyifuzo cyo gushimisha abantu bose, kutababaza umuntu uwo ari we wese. Urashobora guhora ubyemeranya kubiganiro byikigereranyo (cyangwa ukayatererana na gato, kandi umare nimugoroba gusa kugirango uryame).
- Incamake. Guhindura umwaka nkaho ari itegeko umuntu kuvuga muri make. Kandi birasa nkaho umwaka utagenze neza, ntabwo byagenze neza, byateje aho hantu, nibindi bibaho ntabwo ari kure gusa. Ariko no ku mubabaro, abahanga mu by'imitekerereze basaba kuvuga neza: umuntu akeneye amarangamutima kuri palette yose. Kandi birababaje, guhangayika, gutenguha - ibi nibisanzwe. Kubonwa ibi bikurikira nkibisobanuro. Bisobanura ko ikintu kidakozwe, ugomba gushakisha ubundi buryo bwo kwimuka kuntego.
Niba hari ibirori byabaye ahantu - ni kwibizwa neza. Ubwa mbere, ntabwo abantu bose bashobora kubabara igihe kirekire. Mubisanzwe, umubiri ufata muriyi miterere yabo (rimwe na rimwe agahinda harakenewe kugirango ushimangire ibyiyumvo), icya kabiri, ni ingirakamaro. Sauce ifasha kuvugisha ukuri, humura, kurangaza ndetse no birinda kurwanya rimwe na rimwe umwaka mushya utari ngombwa.
Ibimenyetso by'ukuri
Nta mpuhwe z'umwaka mushya - inkuru ni kenshi. Ibi bibaho hamwe nabatangiye kumutegurira kare kuri we barazitwikwa. Imyumvire ibabaje irashobora kubaho kubashyize gahunda zidasanzwe kurubuga rwubumaji, ukwezi guhinduka uko bimeze.
Nigute wamenya umwaka mushya ukuboko:
- Kubura ibikorwa muri rusange - sinshaka kujya mu ishyaka rireba, sinshaka guhitamo impano, nta cyifuzo kidasanzwe cyo gushyira mu kwambara igiti cya Noheri;
- Nta gutegereza ibiruhuko - ndetse n'ubwiza buhebuje bw'umuhanda wo mu mijyi ntabwo bishinzwe igishushanyo cyayo cy'ubumaji;
- Ibitekerezo bijyanye no kwizihiza ibizaza bitera kurakara gusa;
- Irari ribi, irinda ibiganiro kubyerekeye ibiruhuko hamwe ninshuti, kubura icyifuzo cyo kubamo ubutabera bwumwaka mushya.
Ibi bimenyetso byose (kandi birashobora kandi kongerwaho kandi umuntu ku giti cye) ntibisobanura ko byihutirwa guhindura ikintu. Niba ubugingo busaba kwibizwa, urashobora kubyumva. Niba kandi ushaka kubabara murugo munsi yigituba, ntabwo ari bibi. Niba kandi ushaka kugenda gusa - rwose ni iterambere.
Niba umuntu ubwe yumva ko ikibazo nk'iki kirababaje gusa, ntabwo yorohewe na we, ugomba gufata ibintu mu biganza byanjye. Kubwamahirwe, hari inzira nyinshi zifatika zo kuzamura umwaka mushya.
Inzira zo Kuzamuka
Urashobora kubona umwuka murugo kandi mubyukuri mumunsi umwe. Niba inzira imwe itazamutse, ukeneye gusa kujya mubindi hanyuma ugerageze.
Reba inzira 10 zo kuzamura umwaka mushya.
- Teka umuziki. Gusa, benshi bazatenguha, ariko rwose birakora. Kandi ntabwo ari ngombwa gukuramo indirimbo nini ya Noheri. Urashobora gukora urutonde rwibikunda rwose, uhindura hagati y'ibihimbano ukunda n'iminsi mikuru. Kandi ubikore ufite akamenyero: Gutegura isupu - Amajwi ya Frank Sinatra (urugero). Niba adakora kuva kumunsi wambere, noneho uhereye ku muntu wa kabiri uhanitse ku gikundiro cy'umuziki kandi kimaze gutangira kwitotomba ikintu kiri mu mwuka.
- Reba Ibice bya Noheri bya TV Yuzuye. Niba "ibinini bya Fete" n "" Urukundo nyarwo "bimaze kugaburirwa, noneho urashobora kuguma kuri ibice byihariye byuruhererekane, wigeze gutanga ibitekerezo. Noneho urukurikirane rwihariye rwa Noheri rwakuweho kenshi, nimpamvu yo kubona amarangamutima ashimishije muri serivise ukunda kuri TV, ndetse no murwego rwibiruhuko.
- Kora ibyo a. Biroroshye kubikora: Hagomba kuba hari plywood cyangwa traffic jam. Muri make, iyi ni iyindi nzego iharanira inyungu, aho ushobora kwegeranya amakuru yibirori byiza hamwe. Kurugero, shyiramo ikarita yumwaka mushya, shakisha cambes "itumanaho rya Reddy mumajyaruguru" hamwe nigitekerezo cyo kwihuta mububiko. Amashusho hamwe nimbeho nziza yimbeho, umudugudu wa alpine (kandi wenda umwaka mushya wa Rio) urashobora kuzamura byihuse niba hari igihe mbere y'amaso yawe.
- Tegura pome muri Caramel. Barasa neza, kandi barashobora gufitanye isano no kwibuka abana. Dukeneye pome, irangi (niba ushaka ko bahinduka isukari nziza, isukari, amazi n'amato). Kubisobanuro byose bikwiye ugomba guteka Caramel, shaka pome muri yo, kugirango uhindure skewer hanyuma ugende kugirango uhagarike kuri bkoni. Nibyiza cyane kandi biraryoshye! Itandukaniro rikomeye rirakaza neza (shokora, imbuto, chip ya cocout, nibindi).
- Shyira amakarita ya posita hanyuma ubashyikirize amabahasha meza. Ibintu byose ni gakondo, nukuboko (urashobora no gufata amashusho abiri yimyandikire ya videwo). Inzira ubwayo yashizeho inzira nziza, icyarimwe n'inshuti birashobora kwishimira.
- Gusohoza inzozi nto. Umukinnyi Natalia Fateeva hari ukuntu yasobanuwe mu kiganiro kimwe mu kwizihiza umunsi mukuru w'umwaka mushya yari kuri we icyo aricyo. Yashoboye kubona igitabo Boris Paspak "Dr. ZHIvago" (igihe kinini nticyari byoroshye), nuko azamuka akoresheje igitabo mu ntebe akagisoma amasaha. Ndetse na nyuma yintambara ya cimes. Bidacogora, ariko ntibishimye cyane? Ahari ibyo byashishikarije undi urugero nk'urwo rugomba gusubirwamo.
- Tangira kwiyemeza gukorera ameza, udategereje umwaka mushya. Buji hamwe na aroma ishimishije, umufuka wibanze, igikombe hamwe numwaka mushya - kuburyo umwuka ugaragara rimwe na rimwe ukeneye gusa "intangiriro" yo mubuzima. Ifunguro ubwaryo rishobora kuba ryoroshye rishoboka.
- Subiramo ikintu kiva murukurikirane "nko mu bwana". Ahari ni amaboko yawe gusa yo kuzamura urubura kuva mumodoka cyangwa gukora urunigi rwimyanda yimpapuro. Urwikekwe, nkaho imitako nkiyi idafite akamaro muri iki gihe. Mubyukuri ibintu byose bisharira, bitanga amashyirahamwe ashimishije, "ubuzima". Urugero, muri imwe mu masoko ya radiyo, ikomezwa n'umuhanga mu by'imitekerereze, abamwumva babwiye ko umwaka mushya udakunda igihe kirekire. Yamusanze hamwe n'umukobwa muto, burigihe kimwe. Rimwe mu "isi y'abana" yabonye igipupe, kimwe, mubyara we mu bwana, naho ahorora inzozi rwihishwa. Yaguze igipupe, kandi ibyo bitunguranye byabaye uburyo bwo gutangira. Gura kwishima byazamuye umwuka, washakaga gushushanya inzu, kugarura ibintu byayo byabereye mu masahani yo mu bwana, inzira yo kubahiriza! Ukeneye gusa kumva wenyine.
- Kurambura igiti cya Noheri ntabwo ari ibisanzwe. Tekereza imyambarire mubara cyangwa vintage, gusa biva mubikinisho bishya cyangwa ibinyuranye, kuva kera, uboneka ku kazu. Mu ijambo, fata nk'ishingiro igitekerezo kandi utwarwe nacyo. Gushiraho igiti cyihariye cya Noheri ni ugushakisha, kandi ni umwaka mushya rwose.
- Kora ibirori bya mini nshya muri mini ya shestt. Ntakindi gihenze: Inzarugero, icyayi (cyangwa champagne, cyangwa vino idasanzwe), guteka murugo. Hamagara inshuti kumwanya wambere wikiruhuko, saba gufasha gutondeka inzu. Kandi kugirango tutibagiwe nimpano, urashobora kugura ibintu bito byose (bihendutse, ariko bikenewe) hanyuma ubishyire mu gitebo. Irashobora kuba paki, isura, isabune ihumura, igikinisho cya Noheri, chokora nziza, igikombe cyiza, nibindi, ni ibintu byinshi bizaba mubirori). No gutanga abantu bose guhitamo impano wenyine. Ntabwo bishoboka ko abantu bakuru bazarwana kubera impano, kandi ibyiringiro byo guhitamo ubwabyo bimaze kwishimira.
Nibyiza, urashobora kwiyongera muburyo bworoshye: kwita inshuti nubutumire gusura icyayi hamwe na carti "jya ku kwiyuhagira, koresha umwuka wawe wibirori, fata a Igitabo kuva mu bwana mu isomero, tegura KinoSteans hamwe na kashe ya popcorn na kakapumutwe nziza murugo. Hamagara imyumvire yawe ntabwo ari ngombwa kuko ari imihembarire (urugero, isaha foto yumwaka mushya ntabwo ari inshingano nziza, ariko ntabwo arikintu cyose cyateganijwe), ariko uko ukunda.
Kugirango usubize umwuka, ugomba kuva mubipimo ngenderwaho, birambiranye, gusubiramo. Ibikorwa, birumvikana, ariko turabarema wenyine. Turashobora no kubatsemba.
Ibyifuzo
Birashoboka ko rimwe na rimwe ari ukugira umwaka mushya ikintu kidashimishije, wenda ndetse gikababaje. Kandi ubwonko bwinangiye iki gikorwa hamwe numwaka mushya, bifitanye isano muburyo butaziguye. Kubwibyo kutavuga, Kandra, ndetse no kumwanya wihebuje kumunsi wibiruhuko.
Abantu bahuye nibi bagomba kumva ibyifuzo byaba psychologue.
- Ntukubake ibyateganijwe, inzara ibintu byukuri nijoro. Mu mwaka mushya, bagomba gukinwa, kwibuka ko niba ibintu bimeze, ntakintu kibi kizabera.
- Birakenewe guhindura amashyirahamwe, kubaka amasano mashya mubwonko. Kurugero, urashobora kureka bustle hamwe no kugura ibicuruzwa, kugura byibuze kandi hafi yikiruhuko (kare mugitondo cyangwa bitinze nimugoroba mbere). Gato, ariko ukunda cyane. Hanyuma utererane ibirori byo gusangira nimugoroba.
- Igihe kirageze cyo kugenzura amarangamutima yawe. Buri gihe bahitamo guhitamo, nubwo umuntu yari atoze ko adashobora gukora ikintu. Niba ibi atari uguhungabana k'amavuriro, ariko kandra, kubura imyumvire, umuntu wenyine ni we wenyine wahisemo icyo gukorana nabo. Ategeka uko ibintu bimeze.
Niba biteye ubwoba, niba ntashobora kwizera ko bizakora, ugomba gukurikiza amategeko yintambwe nto. Tangira no "Kumuboko" no gukora ibisabwa, hanyuma bizagaragara.
