Nigute kandi aho batumira umukobwa kumunsi? Nigute ushobora guhamagara itariki ya mbere, kugirango adashobora kwanga? Ni ayahe magambo meza kandi yumwimerere ashobora kuvugwa kuri terefone?

Saba umukobwa ukunda kumunsi - iki nikikorwa kitarimo ibihaha. Nyuma ya byose, byinshi biterwa niyi nama. Uburyo bwo Gutegura inama yingenzi kandi aho ari byiza kumarana na mbere - Biboneka kuri ibyo bivugwa mubintu byacu.

Nigute ushobora gutsinda ubwoba?

Abasore benshi bahura nubwoba iyo babonye umuntu umwe kuri horizon nkabo. Kugirango utumire umukobwa ukunda itariki, ugomba gutsinda icyemezo no kubigiramo wizeye. Ariko ntakibazo gusa kitazasa nkamwiringira. Kwigirira icyizere akenshi bizana ibihe nkibi, kubera ko benshi batabonye nkubwibone.

Byongeye kandi, ni ngombwa gutsinda ubwoba na mbere yinama yambere, mugihe igisubizo cyiza kimaze kwakirwa, kandi ugiye gukundana. Nigute ushobora guhangana numva udashimishije ufite ubwoba bushobora kwangiza ibintu byose?

Guhangana n'ubwoba, ugomba kugerageza kumva impamvu zayo. Kurugero, arashobora kuvuka kubitekerezo ko uzabona kwanga gutanga inama. Kandi, niba utizeye cyane muri wowe ubwawe bityo ukaba utameze mbere yuko utazamushimisha.

Ibitekerezo n'ubwoba birasanzwe. Byongeye kandi, umukobwa, kujya kumunsi wambere, nawo arahangayitse kandi akagira ubwoba nk'umwe nkawe. Urugero, atinya ibyo umusore adashobora gukunda ikintu. Cyangwa usanga atari imbaraga zihagije kandi nziza, kandi ntabwo ari umunyabwenge nka we.

Nkuko mubibona, abantu beza ntibabaho. Iki gitekerezo kigomba guhora mumutwe wawe. Ugomba kwitondera wowe ubwawe ko buri muntu afite ibyiza byayo nibibi. Kubwibyo, ntugerageze gusa nkaho ari byiza cyangwa ushimishije, ube uko umeze. Wibuke ko amakosa yawe nubwoba bidashishikajwe numuntu, ariko hariho impamvu ikomeye yo kwerekana imico yabo myiza kumukobwa.

Kujya umunsi cyangwa kubona ubutwari bwo kumutumira guhura, guta gushidikanya kwawe. Ntabwo hagomba kubaho ibitekerezo bibi mumutwe wawe, ntugomba kwitegura mbere yo gutsindwa. Ibinyuranye nibyo, iyi gahunda wowe ubwawe kugirango utsinde, utuze, ubare kugeza ku icumi no gukora. Mugihe ukinze icyizere cyo gutera intambwe yambere kumusanganira, noneho uzasobanukirwa ko byoroshye kuruta uko bigaragara.

Akamaro ko guhugura

Cyane cyane ubwoba bwawe, ugomba kwimukira kuruhande rukurikira. Mbere ya byose, ugomba gutekereza aho umukobwa ashobora gutumirwa. N'ubundi kandi, mu butumire, arashobora kukubaza. Niba uhisemo cafe, noneho witondere kumenya mbere kubyerekeye izina ryikigo, ibiciro, igikoni, nibindi. Ndahamagarira umukobwa ahantu runaka, ugomba kumenya neza ko azayikunda ko hari umwuka ushimishije, urashobora kuvuga utuje, ifunguro rishobora kuvuga, ifunguro rya nimugoroba kandi ko ufite amafaranga ahagije yo kwishyura konti.

Mubyongeyeho, ugomba gutegura amahitamo menshi mbere. Kurugero, kubutumire bwawe bwo kujya muri cafe, arashobora gusubiza ko atarya nimugoroba. Kugirango tutitiranya mugihe nkiki, menya neza kubika ubundi buryo bumwe.

Kwinjira kumunsi, gerageza kwirinda interuro y'ibisare ndetse niyo zasonewe kurushaho kuri enterineti. Gerageza kuba wenyine kandi uvuge wizeye. Mugihe cyingenzi cyane, iyo mumutumiye kumunsi, ntugomba kwigirira icyizere gusa, ahubwo ugomba kuba mumeze neza. Niba ufite sullen reba, uzaba ikintu cyo kubyimba munsi yizuru, ntibishoboka ko umusore nkuyu azashimishwa numukobwa mwiza kandi wubwenge.

Ubutumire

Hamagara umukobwa kumunsi - biroroshye. Ikintu nyamukuru ni ikizere muri wewe no mubyiyumvo byawe. Birumvikana ko byoroshye gutumira umunyeshuri mwigana, umunyeshuri twigana cyangwa mugenzi wawe. Muri make, umenyereye, ibyo usanzwe utazi umunsi wambere. Urashobora guhamagara byoroshye inshuti ndende kumunsi, nkuko usanzwe usaba kuvugana utuje igihe kirekire.

Ariko gutumira umukobwa utamenyereye mu nama aragoye gato. Ni ngombwa guhitamo uburenganzira bwo guhitamo amagambo, ubatumire hari ukuntu ari mwiza kandi wumwimerere. Kuvuga ukundi, gukora ibishoboka byose kugirango adashobora kukwanga.

Mu nama

Saba umukobwa kumunsi munama yawe - ibi ntabwo ari umurimo woroshye. Ku ruhande rumwe, biragoye cyane gutsinda inzigamizi kandi ubwoba, ariko, kurundi ruhande, aya ni amahirwe menshi yo kubona igisubizo cyiza. Niba uza kumusanga ku giti cye, noneho umukobwa azashima byimazeyo ubutwari bwawe. Byongeye kandi, mu nama y'umuntu ku giti cye, uzashobora gukurikiza reaction ye no kumva amahirwe yawe yo gutsinda. Mugihe cyo kuganira, gerageza kumureba mumaso hanyuma uzasobanukirwa mugihe ikintu cyiza kizazira ubutumire. Ibuka amategeko yoroshye agomba kubahirizwa mugihe gito - iyi ni inseko, reba, isura nziza numurava wawe.

Imiyoboro rusange

Saba umukobwa ukunda kumunsi kurubuga rusange nicyo gikorwa cyoroshye kumusore uwo ari we wese. Gushyikirana VKONTAKTE cyangwa mubanyeshuri mwigana, abasore benshi bumva ko bakunzwe cyane bishoboka. Tangira hamwe nimbaraga rusange. Nukuri umukobwa afite amafoto menshi cyangwa inyandiko kumiyoboro rusange. Tanga igitekerezo munsi yifoto ye, hanyuma nyuma yo kubyandika. Ni ngombwa kutarenza inkoni kandi ntukandike imiryango. Ishimwe rigomba kuba inyangamugayo, gusa noneho umukobwa azagushimisha.

Mugihe cyo kwandikirana, koresha amashusho, kumwenyura, gukomera. Gusa wibuke ko batagomba kuba igitekerezo cyo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, bigomba kuba imyifatire yoroheje kandi nziza izatera ibyiyumvo byiza. Nyuma yo kwandikirana gato, bizashoboka kwandika kubyo ushaka gutumira ku munsi.

SMS

Kandi birashoboka kandi kwandika ubutumwa bwa SMS. Ubutumwa bwawe bugomba kwandikwa imbonankubone. Ntugomba gukoresha inyandikorugero zakozwe ninteruro nziza ubu ari byinshi kuri enterineti. Birashobora kubaho ko umuntu yamaze kugerageza kumutumira ku munsi muburyo bubi. Niba abonye ubutumwa busa busa, birashoboka cyane, uzabona gutsindwa.

Andika kugirango utangire ubutumwa busanzwe kugirango umenye uko afite ubucuruzi, ibishya nibindi. Kandi ukimara kwakira ibisubizo kuri SMS yawe yose, urashobora kumutumira neza guhura.

Guhamagara kuri terefone

Nibyo, biroroshye cyane gutumira umukobwa bakundana kumurimo wawe hamwe na SMS cyangwa imbuga nkoranyambaga. Byongeye kandi, ubu hariho inama nyinshi, interuro ziteguye zamufasha kumutumira kumunsi cyangwa ko ari byiza. Ariko kubakobwa ni ngombwa cyane kumva ijwi ryuwashaka kumusanganira. Ntutinye, umuhamagare ku giti cye kandi utumire. Ni ngombwa kwibuka amategeko menshi, tubikesha ushobora kubikora neza.

Mugihe cyo kuganira, ugomba kuvuga neza kugirango umukobwa ahite yumva icyo uhamagaye, kandi ntukubaze ijambo ryose. Mu gutora kwawe, agomba kumva umeze neza. Gerageza kuvuga kugirango yumve kure nkawe kumwenyura.

Tangira kuganira utabishaka hanyuma ujye kubibazo nyamukuru. Kurugero, urashobora kuvuga gusa kubintu runaka, kandi amaherezo kugirango utange guhura nimugoroba hanyuma ukomeze ikiganiro hejuru yikawa. Nta gushidikanya ko bizanakatirwa igihano nk'iki.

Nihehe gutwara umukobwa mugihe hahuye?

Mugihe itariki yawe yambere iteganijwe kugwa mugwa cyangwa mu gihe cy'itumba, noneho ni ngombwa gutekereza neza byose kandi utumire kubakunzi kandi utumire aho bizaba byiza cyane, kwishimisha, kwishimisha no gushyuha. Kurugero, inkongoro ziratunganye kuri urwo rubanza. Iki kigo burigihe umwuka udasanzwe ugomba kwishima no gushyikirana. Ndashimira ikirere nk'iki, mwembi muzumva uruhutse kandi bizagufasha kuyobora ikiganiro cyoroheje.

Niba wizeye udashidikanya ko umukobwa ameze neza kuri skate kandi akunda kumara umwanya kumurongo, noneho ugomba kujya kumurongo. Mu gihe cy'itumba, urashobora kujya mu ruzingu, kandi mu cyi - kuri gufunga, ubu ubu mu bigo bitandukanye by'imyidagaduro. By the way, niba wowe ubwawe utazi kugenda neza, urashobora kubaza umukobwa kubyerekeye yagufasha muri ibi. Aya ni amahirwe akomeye ntabwo yo kuganira no kwinezeza, ahubwo ahinduka hafi gato.

Niba itariki ibaye mugihe gishyushye, noneho hariho amahirwe menshi kandi ahantu hashimishije ushobora gutumira imwe muri rusange kwisi yose. Kurugero, urashobora kujya kuri picnic. Urashobora kuyitegura muri parike yumujyi numujyi. Picnic ihora verisiyo itsinda, kuko uzabona bibiri gusa, kandi aya ni amahirwe akomeye yo kumenyana neza. Gusa ntuzibagirwe kubuza umukobwa kugirango bishobore kwambara nkuko byoroshye kuri iyo tariki.

Ihitamo risanzwe kumunsi wambere ni cafe. Kugirango uyitangaje, gerageza guhitamo umwimerere, inline. Niba ukunda umukobwa, birashoboka ko warashoboye kwiga inyungu ze kandi ukamenya ibyo yishora mugihe cyubusa. Kurugero, niba ari umuntu uhanga, none kuki utajya muri kafe. Niba bidatitaye kubitabo, noneho cafe yubuvanganzo irakwiriye.

Ahantu heza ho gukurikira inama

Mugihe inama yawe yambere yabereye kurwego rukwiye, kandi nyuma yitariki yambere ukomeje gushyikirana, noneho ibi byerekana ko igihe kiza guhura ninama byahindutse burundu.

Mumaze kubona ngo ushakishe inama ya kabiri n'iya gatatu, bityo urashobora gushira amanga hanyuma ugahitamo izindi myanya. Witondere kutumira aho azashimishwa. Niba yaravuze uko sinema igezweho ikunda, ubuhanzi, ibitaramo, noneho urashobora kuyitumira kuri sinema, ikinamico cyangwa kumurongo wa kijyambere.

Kandi bikwiranye neza na resitora itaha, Dolphinarium, imurikagurisha rishimishije, igitaramo cyangwa urashobora gutunganya ifunguro ryurukundo.

Ni iki nakwirinda?

Kugirango itariki itsinze ibishoboka, ntugomba kumenya amategeko yuburyo bwo kwitwara no gutumira umukobwa. Ugomba kumenya icyo ugomba kwirinda muri iyo nama kandi neza cyane kugirango utatumire umuntu ukunda.

Niba iyi ari itariki yawe yambere, noneho ntugomba kuyatumiye ahantu nyaburanga cyangwa bihenze cyane. Amahitamo nkaya aratunganye mugihe hasanzwe umubano wa hafi hagati yawe, bitabaye ibyo umukobwa azumva atameze nabi.

Gutumira umukobwa kumunsi, gerageza ntutegure ibitunguranye. Kurugero, uzi neza icyo uzajya kunyeganyega cyangwa uzagenda ubwato, kandi kuri we bigomba gutungurwa. Ariko, ntubizi, umukobwa arashobora kuza kumwanya uri mumyambarire itazahuza umwanya wahisemo guhura. Kugirango utabishyira mumwanya mubi, menya neza ko uburira mbere aho uteganya kuba inkuru.

Wibuke ko itariki yawe yambere ari amahirwe akomeye yo kwishimira umukobwa kandi yerekana umurava wamarangamutima yawe. Abasore benshi bakora ikosa rikabije iyo mu nama yambere kugirango bakore igitekerezo ntarengwa, gerageza kwerekana uko ubukungu bwabo cyangwa imiterere yabo. Imyitwarire nkiyi yumusore irashobora gutera ubwoba umukobwa, kandi nkigisubizo, ibisubizo byitariki ntibizaba nkibintu byarose.

Mugihe cyitariki, gerageza kuvugana nayo bishoboka. Ariko ibi ntibisobanura ko ari ngombwa kuvuga udahagaritse wowe ubwawe, ibyo akunda, umurimo we, nibindi. Itumanaho rigomba kuba rihuriweho, riruhutse kandi ryoroshye. Kandi, ntugomba gutumira kumunsi wambere ugana ikinamico cyangwa firime. Hamwe na hamwe uzakoresha byibuze amasaha umwe nigice, ariko kuvuga no kumenya neza muri iki gihe ntabwo bizabigeraho.

Ingero zinteruro nziza

Hanyuma, ndashaka gutanga urugero interuro nyinshi zizagufasha kuyitumirira kumunsi ukurikira.

• "Ibintu byose byari byinshi. Ntabwo rwose tugomba kongera kubona. Nzaguhamagara "- Imvugo nkiyi izatera imbere kumukobwa uwo ari we wese.
• "Mbega umugoroba mwiza! Tugomba kubisubiramo! Nizere ko nawe wakundaga ... "
• "Wibuke, wavuze ko ukunda gushushanya bigezweho? Reka tujye muri imurikagurisha hamwe "- tubikesheje iyi nteruro, azasobanukirwa ko wateze amatwi witonze.

Ihitamo rishobora guhora rikosorwa mubihe nyabyo.

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