Kumenyana numugabo mubucuti bukomeye - hano ni kimwe mubibazo nyamukuru byumugore wigunze. Umuntu wese arashaka kumenya aho ushobora kujya gushaka iherezo ryawe. Kandi bidafite akamaro rwose, nyuma yimyaka 30, nyuma yimyaka 40 cyangwa nyuma yimyaka 50 ushakisha abashakanye cyangwa ushaka kumenyana numusore wimyaka nyayo - hari amategeko yoroshye, biroroshye kwirinda amakosa menshi.
Uyu munsi ubuzima bwumunsi agomba kwihaza , Ariko, ikibazo aho kujya guhura numuntu usanzwe, wishimye, ukomeye, wirinde abagabo badafite ikibazo, badafite ingaruka, bakomeje gufungura.
Kuri enterineti
Gutangira, ntushobora kujya ahantu hose - ibikoresho bifatika byatewe byumwihariko kurambagiza byoroshye kandi byiza kugirango ubone abashakanye. Turi mu kinyejana cy'imbuga rusange na interineti, kureka ibi, bisobanura gucika. Nubwo utari umukoresha ukora cyane wa enterineti, birakenewe kugerageza. Ntiwibagirwe ikintu kimwe: Kurundi ruhande rwa ecran birashobora kuba umuntu uwo ari we wese, kandi aba ni abantu bamwe badukikije mubuzima busanzwe.
Knight, Intwari, ibikomangoma biboneka aho bidakunze kubaho nko gushaka muri supermarket yegereye.
Kuri enterineti rwose kugirango tumenye umuntu wuruziga utumva. Birashobora kuba imiterere yo guhanga, umuyobozi, umucuruzi, ariko afite intsinzi imwe uzamenyana numunyeshuri, umunyeciya cyangwa Zhisalo. By the way, niba usuzumye interineti ahantu hadakwiye kugirango umenyere, uzi neza ko ibyago no gukora ikibazo kurubuga rwo gukundana. Nuburyo bwo gushyikirana mubintu byinshi bizakwigisha, bizaburira kuri byinshi, kandi ingenzi cyane, bizatera kwihesha agaciro. Internet ukoresha hasi hasi ntizashyirwaho ikimenyetso kugirango ishimwe, kandi uzahita wumva ko umwamikazi.
Kandi iyo amaso yawe afashe amaso, kwigirira icyizere aziyongera, kumva ko ibyo basabye bizamura imigabane yawe mumaso yabantu nyabo.
Nyuma ya byose, byagaragaye igihe kirekire - ukimara kwisanga umufana, undi ahita agaragara.
Kumenya mubuzima busanzwe
Amateraniro agaragara ntagusaba isura nziza, urashobora kubandikira neza muri Pajama. Biroroshye kohereza umufana wamafoto ye yakozwe numufotozi wabigize umwuga. Ubuzima nyabwo butegeka amategeko yayo, hano avatar nziza ntizafasha. Guhitamo, buri gitondo kugirango ugire amabara akomeye kandi akarwanira amabara, ariko umugore wijimye uhora atanga ibitekerezo byiza kuruta ubuso.
Kubwibyo, dukora mugihe cya micucure, umusatsi, umusatsi, kutita ku mucyo wa buri munsi.
Usibye kwitabwaho, ni ngombwa kurema n'ishusho nziza. Mbere ya byose, ukuyemo imyenda utagiye, nto cyangwa ukomeye - uzumva utamerewe nabi, bityo rero utazi neza. Noneho dukuraho imyambaro yubushotoranyi: kurera cyane, imyenda iboneye, Frank Mini. Uzatanga rero igitekerezo cyuko ugeraho, cyangwa ukurura ubwoko bwibeshya rwose bashaka. Ntugomba guhindura uburyo bwawe hanyuma ugasubira, ahubwo ntugomba uburyo bukomeye kuri wardrobe yawe bizaguha amahirwe yo kutagira agahinda, ariko birashimishije.
Ni ngombwa cyane gufata imyenda muburyo bwamashusho, bihisha amakosa kandi ashimangira icyubahiro. Ntukabeho uburebure bwuburebure, bwa mbere, imyizerere mubuzima bwa buri munsi isa nkidasanzwe, naho kabiri, ntabwo ari ibintu bitoroshye. Cyane witonze hamwe naka umuriro, niba gukura kwawe kari hejuru yikigereranyo.
Ni he ushobora kubona?
Ubuzima bwa none bwihuse, ariko urashobora kumenyana numuntu wiyubashye ahantu hose, udakoresheje imbaraga za titanic. Mbere ya byose, reba hirya no hino. Niba ukunda kuzerera amasaha, kuki utaboho inyungu? Kuzenguruka guhaha insanganyamatsiko zabagabo gusa, ureba umubano n'amashati, ibikoresho byo kuroba cyangwa kuroba.
Ariko kwigana imyenda ni byiza kwirinda, uzareba ko nkumugore ugura amasogisi abiri.
Niba ubajije inama, menya ubufasha, kandi ushimishijwe nuburyo bwiza bwo guhamagarira itumanaho. Baza Inama Njyanama nawe, niba umuntu yaguteye, kuki udatekereza kuri data cyangwa shobuja hamwe. Usibye amaduka yimyenda, urubuga runini rwo guhura numugabo ufite umutekano - amaduka yimodoka na bacuruza imodoka. Hano urashobora kubaza inama ubuziraso, saba ubufasha muguhitamo no kugaragara neza kandi ufite igitsina. Niba udafite imodoka, mbwira ko urota kugura, ariko ntamuntu numwe ugomba gufata amasomo yo gutwara.
Abagabo bakunda gukiza no gufasha, ugomba gusa kubaha amahirwe nkaya. Ibi birashobora kugerwaho byoroshye mumashami yubwubatsi, salo ya mudasobwa, salo. Reba supermarket, cyane cyane mumashami, aho ibiryo byarangiye, igice cyarangiye kandi inzoga ziragurishwa. Mu bihe byanyuma, urashobora kubaza neza Inama Njyanama yo guhitamo whisky nziza nkimpano yumuvandimwe.
Guhaha ntabwo aribwo buryo bwonyine bwo guhura numuntu winzozi zawe. Amahirwe meza atanga imurikagurisha ryihariye. Ntabwo bishoboka ko Van Gogh azatanga amahirwe meza, ariko mubwubatsi, mudasobwa, imurikagurisha cyangwa imurikagurisha cyangwa imodoka uzamenyana nta kibazo.
Restaurants na Cafes
Kenshi na kenshi, ikintu cya mbere kiza mubitekerezo mugihe ikibazo kivuka aho guhurira - Iri ni ishyirwaho ryo kugaburira. Nibyo, mubyukuri nibyo, biroroshye rwose guhura aho, kandi amahirwe yinama numuntu ukomeye harimo kandi muremure. Ntugashyire ibyiringiro bikomeye byo gukundana muri ccubs, resitora n'utubari. Ariko ifunguro rya sasita cyangwa iduka rya kawa kumunsi wo ku cyumweru ni amahitamo meza.
Ikintu nyamukuru nuguha umugabo kurya mbere yo gutangira gukurura ibitekerezo.
Ku kazi
Uku buryo butavugwaho rumwe, cyane cyane niba rusange ari igitsina gore, kandi ntabwo buri gihe ibitabo biganisha kubisubizo nyabyo. Kandi nyamara ijanisha ryubukwe bwasojwe hagati ya bagenziga ni hejuru cyane. N'ubundi kandi, abantu bahuriza hamwe ihuriro ry'inyungu zabo, hiyongereyeho, inshuro z'inama n'itumanaho akenshi zitanga impuhwe z'iterambere ryihuse. Kubwibyo, ntibishoboka kugabanya burundu ibi bishoboka.
Siporo
Kwiyandikisha kuri siporo nicyaha cyiza cyo gushakisha gukundana. Byongeye kandi, ni ingirakamaro kumibare yombi, ubuzima no kwihesha agaciro. Niba udakunda kwigana, jya kuri pisine, utangire kwiruka muri parike, niba ukunda igare - hashingiwe ku nyungu nk'izo biroroshye kwisanga mugenzi wawe. Niba igishushanyo cyiza, mugihe cyimpeshyi mara umwanya muremure ku mucanga, imikino hamwe numupira nundi myidagaduro begereye cyane abantu.
ibikorwa
Ihuriro, amahugurwa, amahugurwa - ahantu atari abagabo gusa, ahubwo ababahagarariye bashaka gutera imbere. Mumurikagurisha ryamafoto yaho uzahura rwose na bagenzi be benshi. Cyamunara yo kubagiraneza igufasha kwinjiza mu kirere cy'abagabo bakomeye kandi bafite umutekano.
Ntugomba kwiruka mubyabaye kurindi, usobanure ubwoko bwabagabo bashishikajwe na priori, bakayihindura.
Ibyifuzo bya psychologue
Kubwamahirwe, ukurikije imibare, ibirenze kimwe cya kabiri cyo gukundana ntabwo gihinduka kuko umugore yitwaye nabi. Nigute Kutajya muri ibi bihe?
- Ntugahindukire umuhigi ufite isura nziza, impongo, intego yawe igomba kumenyekana gusa. Ntacyo bitwaye aho uri, witwaza ko aha hantu hari intego yawe, ariko ntabwo ari umutego kumugabo. Niba ushimishijwe ninyungu, witware mubisanzwe, ntukishime kandi ntugahagarike ubukonje. Ikinyabupfura nubucuti ni abafasha beza. Kandi ntamuntu ukeneye igikombe, ibyo ndemeranya numunota wambere.
- Kubwibyo, kubushake bwo guhunga muri cafe, uyu munota ntabwo buri gihe inzira nziza yo guhambirana. Nibyiza guhana terefone no kwemeranya mu nama kumunsi. Niba utarandiriye guhamagara, ntugomba kurakara, birashoboka cyane, umuntu ntiyagiye gukomeza kumenyera mu ntangiriro. Umugabo ushimishijwe azahora agera wenyine.
- Nubwo waba ushize amanga kandi ukora, ntabwo ari ngombwa kubigaragaza wishimye kumunsi wambere, kandi impungenge zirenze urugero zitanga ibitekerezo bibi. Nta reaction mugusubiza - ntukomeze gutera, ntabwo ari umuntu wawe.
- Ntukihute, utange inama kugirango utere imbere mu kumenyera neza, no kumenya ikintu cyigenga. Umugabo ukeneye igihe cyo kukureba.
Inama za psychologue kubijyanye no guhura numuntu, reba muri videwo hepfo.