Amagambo agufi agamije imyifatire myiza yabagore batwite no gukemura neza umutwaro. Abadamu bahuye n'ingorane zo gusama barashobora kandi gukoresha ubu buhanga.
Amafaranga yihariye
Igihe cyose, abantu babarirwa muri za miriyoni bakomeje gushimishwa n'Imana bafite icyifuzo cyo gusama no kuvuka umwana muzima. Abakurambere bacu bahimbye amasengesho atandukanye yo kugaragara k'umwana ukomeye kandi mwiza mu muryango. Amagambo yo gusenga ntiyagenze nta kwitabwaho - umuryango wazuwe na bluer nziza.
Dushingiye ku masengesho mu kinyejana cya makumyabiri, interuro nziza zikoreshwa mu mpinduka nziza mu buzima zavumbuwe.
Uyu washushanyije witwa "Kwemeza". Ubuhinduzi busanzwe bwijambo kuva kurutonde rwikilatini "kwemerwa".
Muri laconique, umufasha kandi wunvikana, kwishyiriraho bihuye bigomba kuba byiza. Bitandukanye no gusenga gutekereza, kwemerwa bivugwa imashini. Amarangamutima agomba kuba adahari. Mugihe cyo gutangaza ibyifuzo bigomba kuba byiza cyane ibyiyumvo byose.
Gukoresha imvugo ngufi ikosora ishusho yifuzwa, kwishyiriraho bisabwa gushyirwaho muburyo bwumuntu. Kubaka birashobora guhindura cyane ubuzima bwumuntu bwiza. Ubu ni tekinike itekanye. Ntabwo bisaba ubumenyi bwihariye, kwiga. Irashobora kwifashishwa muminota ya deposterncy, umunaniro, guhangayika.
Birasabwa kwandika ibyifuzo bikwiye, bisome buri munsi umunsi wose, vuga ibyawe cyangwa hejuru. Imiterere iteganijwe nigice cyo gukandamizwa byinshi.
Mugihe cyo gusoma wemeza, ugomba guhakana gushidikanya nibitekerezo bibi. Ibyifuzo byiza bigira ingaruka nziza muburyo bwiza. Amagambo magufi yashyizweho kubikorwa byatekerejweho hamwe namarangamutima yifuzwa.
Akazi keza hamwe no kwemeza:
Gushiraho imyifatire myiza bibaho nkibisubizo byihutirwa mu buryo busanzwe bwo kwishyiriraho mubyiciro;
Gusubiramo interuro nyinshi bigomba gukorwa buri munsi murugo, munzira yo gukora, gutembera, mubwikorezi;
Mugihe usoma cyangwa kwandika impinduramatwara, imvugo igomba kwibanda ku kwishyiriraho;
Nibyiza kuvuga imvugo n'ijwi rirenga, igaragara neza ishusho yicyifuzo gisama;
Kubaka bigizwe numuntu wa mbere;
Buri jambo rigomba kugira intego imwe, ntushobora gushora imari mu nteruro imwe yifuza;
Ibishushanyo byose byakurikiyeho bigomba gutwara uburambe bushya kandi busobanura gato;
Imvugo nziza yihariye ntigomba kuba irimo uduce mbi;
Impinduka zose zakozwe mugihe cyubu, nkaho ibikorwa bibaye;
Bikwiye kwandikwa ibitekerezo byiza bya buri munsi bigaragara mumutwe kumunsi.
Icyemezo
Biragoye gusama no kubyara mugihe umugore atangiye gutanga gushidikanya nubwoba. Abagore bakunze kubona impungenge mbere yo gutwita biteganijwe, kubyara. Abadamu bumva bafite inshingano zikomeye. Ibitekerezo biteye ubwoba bitangira kugaragara: Kandi mu buryo butunguranye sinshobora kubyara umwana wumurwayi azavuka. Umukobwa benshi bakiri bato bahujwe ni akaga gapfa. Umugore azi ko crumb ihuye nibibazo byinshi, bigatuma habaho igitondo cyiza.
Kurandura Duma nibibazo bisa, hari ibyemezo byihariye kubagore batwite. Nibyiza gushiraho neza manda yibitekerezo wifuza. Birasabwa kwandika byumwihariko: "Ndashaka gusama muri Gicurasi."
Amagambo yo gusama ku mwana agira inama yo gusoma buri munsi mu munsi wa 21. Byifuzwa gusoma buri nteruro guherekeza neza. Ugomba gutangira gusoma inshuro 2-3 kumunsi, gahoro gahoro.
Mugihe cyo kuvuga amagambo meza, abahanga mu bya psychologue basaba gushyira mu muziki mwiza wa kera wa Beethoven, Mozart, Bach, Vivaldi, Glitch n'abandi bahimbye.
Umwana arashobora kubona amarangamutima meza munda.
Buri wese, umubyeyi uzaza ni interuro kugiti cye cyo gutwita. Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze batanga uburyo bugereranijwe:
Ku gusama no gutwita
Ndutse rwose kandi ndigirira icyizere muri njye.
Mfite imyaka iboneye cyane yo gusama umwana ufite ubuzima bwiza, mwiza, ufite impano.
Aho ujya ni ugukomeza ubwoko bwabantu.
Ndatwite byoroshye.
Nafashe gutwita igihe kirekire nurukundo.
Ni ibisanzwe kuba mama.
Umubiri wanjye wateguwe kwambara umugabo muto.
Nkeneye gutwita, ni byiza kuri njye nabandi.
Nkwiriye gutwita gutera imbere.
Inda ryanjye ni umutekano rwose kuri njye naho umwana uzaza.
Mfite ubwenge bwinshi, kuburyo mu mwanya wo kubyara umwana mwiza.
Umubiri wanjye witeguye gutwita no kuvuka k'umwana.
- Mfite ibintu byose byo kugira umwana muto mwiza.
Ibisekuruza byanjye byiza bigira uruhare mu kugaragara k'umuntu muzima.
Mfite ubuzima bwiza, bwubwenge kandi bwiza.
Mfite isura nziza kuburyo ubutunzi bwanjye bwugwa.
Ndi kumwe nurukundo rugaragaza ubwiza bwimbere.
Ndashoboye kurera umuntu wiyubashye.
Nkwiriye rwose izina ryubaha nyina.
Kubyara nigihe cyiza cyane mubuzima bwanjye.
Mugutegereza kuvuka
Ndi umugore ukomeye kandi ufite ubuzima bwiza.
Nibyiza cyane-gushimangirwa neza inzira nziza yo gutwita.
Ndatoroka gutuza impinduka zose z'umubiri wanjye.
Ibisubizo byiza byikizamini byerekana ubuzima bwanjye bwiza.
- Inda yanjye irakomeza.
Numva mu mutekano wuzuye.
Hafi yanjye gukunda abantu.
Nkikijwe nisi nziza.
Umwana wanjye yishimira kwita kubabyeyi kuri we.
Hafi yanjye umunezero, umunezero kandi ukomeye.
Umwana wanjye yuzuye umubiri wanjye.
Mboherereje umwana imbaraga z'urukundo.
Ubutunzi bwanjye buranyizera rwose.
Nhaye abana umutekano no gutuza.
Ndumva imbere ubwanjye kandi uruhinja rwinshi.
- Imbere mu mubiri wanjye ukura umwana muzima.
Umwana wanjye afite ubuzima bwiza kumubiri no mubitekerezo.
Umwana wanjye ni umunezero mwinshi kuri njye, nishimiye kumva kugenda.
Ndanyunyuza uruhinja n'ibyishimo ku mwana.
Ubushobozi bwo kubabyeyi bumvaga selile y'ibinyabuzima byanjye.
Ku mana zoroheje
Niteguye neza kubyara.
Ndi urukundo rwitegura kuba mama.
Kuvuka kuri njye ni inzira karemano.
Narinze cyane akaga kose.
Imirambo yanjye yose yiteguye kwitabira imyanya itagira amacandwe.
Nkwiriye kuvuka vuba nta bubabare.
Buri gihe mfite urumuri rworoshye gusa.
Niteguye byimazeyo kugaragara k'umwana ufite ubuzima bwiza kandi mwiza.
Nemeye kubyara nta bwoba.
Ntegereje ihuriro ryateye imbere.
Kuvuka bizatangira mugihe gikwiye.
Imibiri yanjye ikora neza kandi ikomeye.
Nshobora guhora nkurikiza guhumeka.
Guhumeka neza mugihe cyo kubyara biroroshye kuri njye.
Buri gihe mpumura mugihe.
Nishimiye kurwana. Bazana inama yanjye n'umwana.
Niteguye gufata umwana mwisi yanjye.
Amaherezo dushobora kureba umwana nkunda mumaso.
Ndi mama mwiza.
Umunsi wo kugaragara k'umwana kumucyo ni umunsi mukuru mwiza mubuzima bwanjye.
Gukoresha buri gihe tekinike yo kwemeza irinda uburambe bwinyongera mugihe cyo gutwita no mugihe cyo kubyara, yemeza imyifatire myiza yuruhererekane.
