Inzira zifatika ziterwa nimikorere yo gusabana akiri muto. Abana bashoboye kwibonera uburambe bwabandi no kumusubiza.
Niki?
Ubushobozi bwo gusobanukirwa amarangamutima nubunararibonye bwundi muntu byitwa impuhwe. Ibisabwa birashobora kwigaragaza muburyo bwimpuhwe, impuhwe nubufasha. Kubabarana mubana byakozwe muburyo bwo kumenya isi ikikije, ubwayo nabandi bantu. Bibaho kuva akiri muto. KROCHA amwenyura mugusubiza kumwenyura, yerekana reaction kuri kurira cyangwa gutangaza abandi bana. Kugeza ku myaka 10, umuntu arimo kubona uburambe bwiza, bikaba bigaragazwa no gusubiza amarangamutima.
- Icyiciro cyambere cyiterambere cyumwana kirangwa no kubona ubushobozi bwo kugirira impuhwe no kutiba. Kroki ashobora kwisuzumisha kurubuga rwabantu ba hafi.
- Icyiciro cya kabiri kijyanye no kumenya ibyiyumvo n'amarangamutima. Mu bwana, umwana yumva afite ububabare mu kugwa cyangwa guhungabana, iyo nyina agiye ahantu, ariko ntashobora kumva amarangamutima na bimwe bibasobanurira.
- Ubwanyuma, kumenya birimo gushingwa ko indi mico ivugwa. Muri iki gihe, birasabwa gusenya imanza zitandukanye zabaye hamwe no kuvanga cyangwa gucukura imigani, inkuru, ibisigo, ibisigo, amakarito. Birakenewe kuganira kubyabaye, ababyeyi be ni ababyeyi cyangwa umwana ubwe.
Ni ngombwa cyane ku kwinjiza kwinjiza impuhwe, bitabaye ibyo azakura numuntu wikunda, wikunda. Kuba hari impuhwe zabana zemerera umwana neza mu itsinda ryurungano, kora mumatsinda amwe no kwiteza imbere mubwenge. Umuntu ufite impuhwe yumva ibibera hamwe nabandi muriki gihe. Niba umwana runaka arira cyangwa ubwoba, impuhwe zishaka kubimenya mubihe bye, hanyuma ufashe abarwaye. Gushiraho impuhwe biterwa nuburambe bwungutse nabakuze bafite uburambe, uruhare rwamarangamutima yumwana ubwayo, ndetse no mumiterere yacyo.
Guhuza imiterere hamwe nimpuhwe zivugwa cyane mu bwangavu. Imyitwarire ikaze yingimbi yubahirizwa ahanini kuri choleric na melancholic hamwe nurwego rwo hasi rwimpuhwe.
Ingaruka z'uburezi
Iterambere ryibitabira abana biterwa nibikorwa bifatika byababyeyi. Umwuka wa psychologiya mumuryango ugaragarira kumarangamutima yumwana. Kugaragaza urukundo, ineza, ubwuzu no gukundana ntibihagije kugirango gutsimbataza impuhwe impuhwe. Mu mibanire yumuryango, birakenewe kwerekana icyitegererezo cyigaragaza. Umwana agomba kureba ubwitonzi no kumva ingo.Kubura igisubizo gihagije cyumubyeyi cyangwa se gishobora gufatanya ndetse no guhagarika uburyo bukora bwimpuhwe. Abantu bakuru bagomba kwitondera abana kumarangamutima yabandi. Mubikorwa byo gusabana, ababyeyi ni bo baha umwana amabwiriza ya mbere yerekeye impuhwe: "Kuki wasunitse umuhungu? Wowe ubwawe ubabaye igihe waguye! Gusaba imbabazi umuhungu. "
Nigute wamenya urwego?
Hariho tekiniki zitandukanye zo kumenya urwego rwo gushiraho impuhwe mubana. Ku mashuri abanza, abatekinisiye baremwe na G. A. SURTAEV na Yu. Aphonkna ikoreshwa. Imwe mu tekinike zabo zisobanura kubyara amashusho. Ubwa mbere, abana bagomba kwerekana ibintu bitandukanye. Noneho bavuze ko yumva ari intwari iyo nkuru. Ku cyiciro cya kabiri, abahugurwa kwerekana amarangamutima atandukanye. Inzobere ikurikirana ibisubizo byabonetse, itamenya urugero rwo gushiraho impuhwe kuri buri mwana.
Isuzuma ry'abanyeshuri bo mu ishuri rito ririmo ubufasha bwa N. E. UBURENGANZIRA, Prass w'ubwoko "iyo umuntu yababajwe imbere yanjye, I ..." cyangwa "Urashobora guhamagara umuntu ...". Umunyeshuri wishuri ufite igitekerezo kitari cyo cyujuje ubuziranenge, yakira amanota 1. Umwana ufite imyumvire ituzuye yinjiza amanota 2. Abana bafite igitekerezo gisobanutse kandi gisobanutse cyigitekerezo cyahawe amanota 3.
Kumenya urwego rwibitekerezo byo mumutwe byingimbi, ibibazo bisaba ibisubizo byukuri birakoreshwa. Express tekinike I. Yusukova, V. Boyko birazwi.
Nigute ushobora gutera imbere?
Kugirango hashizwemo ibyiyumvo byimpuhwe, abahanga mu bya psychologue inama bakoresheje imyitozo itandukanye. Mu mwaka wa mbere w'ubuzima bw'umuntu, akazi k'ingirakamaro ni umukino wo guhisha no gushaka. Kroki buri gihe ihura n'amarangamutima meza abona mumaso itunguranye yumubyeyi nyuma yigihe cyo kubura kwayo. Umukino muri "Ku-Ku" ufasha uruhinja kumenya ko ababyeyi bazagaragara rwose mugihe gikwiye. Kuva kumyaka kugeza kumyaka 3, birasabwa guterura umwana gushaka igikinisho cyatakaye. Muri icyo gihe, inama zimwe na zimwe zigomba guhabwa umwana: "Birashoboka, idubu yawe yicaye munsi yigitanda cyangwa munsi yameza, ariko ntishobora kubona umuhanda uva aho." Noneho umwana yibanda ku marangamutima yayo gusa, ahubwo no gufasha abantu bakuru, bayobowe na bo bahanganye no kutizerana ku isi.
Byakozwe kuva mu mashuri abanza, kwisubiraho birashobora gushyirwaho kugirango hashyizweho umubano nabahagarariye Fauna. Amatungo afasha gutsimbataza imbaraga nimpuhwe kuva kumwana. Kuva mumyaka itanu, umwana arashobora kumwenyura muburyo butandukanye. Hifashishijwe inseko, ugomba kwerekana umunezero mu nama yinshuti, kugirango ugaragaze inkunga yinshuti yaguye mubibazo, garagaza impuhwe umuntu urwaye. Abaterankunga ba psychologue barasaba kwitoza indamutso yumwimerere. Kurugero, bihabwa umwana mugihe uhuye na mama ngo agisome mu itama, hamwe na papa - kunyeganyeza ukuboko, hamwe n'umuvandimwe - guta amazuru. Inshuti zirashobora kuba umururumba ukoresheje ibimenyetso "Reka bitanu" cyangwa gusomana kw'ikirere. Ku bana bafite imyaka yishuri, ni ngombwa gusoma imigani yubahiriza ibyiyumvo bitandukanye, muganire ku biranga ibintu n'imiterere yintwari. Birakenewe hamwe numwana kugirango ubone ibisobanuro byumugani ufata kandi uze kumusozo. Guma mugihe usoma, baza ibibazo nka "Ivanushka bituka, ni iki cyitwa umuswa?" Cyangwa "Ni ibihe byiyumvo byageragejwe na Cinderella igihe yateraga igihingwa?"
Imyitozo ngororamubiri "Tanga ijambo ryuje urukundo" yerekana mugusubiza ishimwe kuvuga interuro nziza kubanyamiye. Hamwe niki gikorwa, abana biga kwerekana igisubizo no kubigaburira nkimpano kubantu. Bwira umwana kubyerekeye abana basigaye nta ababyeyi. Twese hamwe gukusanya parcelle kubanyeshuri b'imfubyi. Iterambere ryimpuhwe mumungizi zibaho nimibanire itaryarya nababyeyi. Niba iyi mibare yacitse, ibi bigira ingaruka mbi kumiterere yumwuka yumuntu.
Abangavu barashobora kwigishwa no kumva bafite impuhwe no gusobanukirwa isi yumwuka yundi muntu gusa babifashijwemo no guhura na we. Muri iki gihe, birashoboka gushinga urufatiro rukomeye rwo gutunga impuhwe ubuzima bwawe bwose.
