Zosangalatsa (Zithunzi 80): Kodi ndi njira ziti, mitundu yamakono yamakono, lingaliro ndi kutsimikiza mtima ndi kutsimikiza mtima

Munthu wamakono amakumana ndi moyo wokhwima komanso zovuta zosiyanasiyana zomwe zimafuna nthawi yomweyo, ndipo koposa zonse - zoyenera kuchita. Banja, chikhalidwe, bizinesi, zachuma, zachuma, zimadalira chidziwitso cha machitidwe omwe avomerezedwa. Ngati munthu sadziwa kuchita moyenera, mogwirizana ndi umbuli, mosazindikira - mbiri yake ya bizinesi imavutika ndi seams.

Ediquette ndi lamulo la machitidwe omwe amakhudza magawo osiyanasiyana a ubale wa anthu (Kulankhulana, chikhalidwe, miyambo yadziko, kulumikizana kwa bizinesi).

Ndi chiyani?

Ediquette monga wolemba mbiri yakale amagwirizanitsa mbali yosangalatsa komanso yokopa yomwe ilipo.

Monga gulu loyambirira, panali zochitika za gulu lililonse la gulu: Amuna anali kuchita chakudya komanso kuteteza adani, amayi anaba mwatsopano, napeza ana atsopano. Nambala Yakale ya Khalidwe Litha Kutchedwa Chinese "Buku la mbiri yakale" Zomwe zimasimba za mikhalidwe yayikulu ya anthu: Kulimba mtima, kukhulupirika, nzeru, anthu, kupembedza akulu.

Tinayenda zaka mazana ambiri, miyambo yonse yatsopano yaimirira, chikhalidwe chasintha. Zonsezi zidaphatikizidwa kukhala lingaliro lofananalo la "edeliquette". Pali matanthauzidwe ambiri a lingaliro ili. Zodziwika bwino zimasonyeza kuti odekha ndi mndandanda wa malamulo ochita zinthu.

Chosangalatsa ndichakuti, zamakhalidwe "komanso" ulemu "malingaliro ndi ofanana. Mwambiri, izi ndi zowona, tanthauzo la mawu limalumikizidwa kwambiri. Komabe, liwu loti "ulemu" (ulemu) - chiyambi cha ku France, ndi "Makhalidwe" (Ethiki "(Ethika kuchokera ku Ethos ndi chizolowezi, kutentha) - Mkwiyo) - Mkwiyo) - Mkwiyo) - Mkwiyo) - Mgiriki. "Equeette" amatanthauziridwa kuti "cholembera, chibele". Ku France, liwuli limatanthawuza cholembera - protocol ya zochita za uvemo.

Ku Russia, utsogoleri woyamba kubanja kwawonekera pansi pa Peter I, amene anawotcha zenera ku Europe. Iye anali wolunjika, sanachite mwambo ndi kanyani, motero anali kutolera malamulo pabwalo pabwalo loyimirira. Mwa kuyambitsa mkhalidwe wakumadzulo, kuwoneka ngati zovala, maonekedwe ake, Mfumuyo yokha ndipo mosalekeza adatsatira kukhazikitsa malamulowa.

Ndikokwanira kukumbukira lamulo lake lolimba lokhudza ndevu. Ndipo mu 1709, Petro ndidapatsidwa lamulo, malinga ndi momwe munthu aliyense wosweka amalangidwa. Pambuyo pake, alamula kuti Elizabeti ndi Katherine II adayandikira kwambiri kubwalo lamilandu, kusankha malamulo oterewa ndi kukoma kwa dziko la ku Russia. Popeza ufumuwu waukuluwu unasonkhana Eurasia, Otsutsa akumadzulo ndi Kum'mawa kudasokonekera. Panali kale zaka zopitilira 30, ndipo kusiyana kumeneku kumapitilirabe mpaka lero.

Emakono ndi zomveka bwino za miyambo ya mayiko onse okhala ndi zakale komanso lero. Tsopano popeza tili ndi mwayi wolankhulana ndi alendo kapena kukhala kunja, ndikofunikira kuti tisakhale ndi chilankhulo chokha, komanso kusanja miyambo ya dziko lapansi, moyenera kuti musakhale opusa wonyoza umbuli.

Ndikofunikira kukumbukira lingaliro lodziwika bwino komanso kulemekeza ena, mosasamala mtundu wa khungu kapena kusagwirizana ndi anthu.

Pezulia

Makono osintha ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pachikhalidwe chakunja cha umunthu wapadera komanso gulu lonse. Komabe, pali ntchito zomwe malingaliro awa amakhala olamulira. Izi zimakhudza antchito am'mudzi, andale, ogwira ntchito zachikhalidwe, komanso amalonda, asayansi.

Lero kudziko lamakono la matekinoloje ndi ntchito zogwirira ntchito, mawu aliwonse olakwika kapena olephera nthawi yomweyo amakhala pagulu osati mayiko okha, komanso dziko lapansi.

Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kwambiri kukweza chikhalidwe chanu ndikumvetsetsa zobisika za ulemu.

Malamulo ambiri olemekezeka omwe timachita zokha. Munthu, sekondi iliyonse, ndikuganiza za momwe angakorere, adzakhala ndi vuto la bambo wachikulire, yemwe kale adafunsapo funso kuti: "Mukubisa ndevu zanu mukagona? " Osakhudzidwa konse ndi funsoli Dootolo, osokonekera osatsukidwa osagona, osankha, kuti ndibise ndevu zake. Chifukwa chake, sikofunikira kukumbukira mphindi iliyonse yokhudza malamulo a ulemu, koma kuwadziwa bwino kuti azilankhulana popanda kuganizira molondola pazomwe amachita ndi mawu.

Ediquette ali ndi zinthu zina:

• Ili ndi malamulo a dziko lapansi amalowerera m'zaka za zana lino. Ndipo nzika yophunzitsidwa imadziwa malamulo wamba aulemu.
• Ediquette akuwonetsa mawonekedwe a ethnos iliyonse: miyambo, miyambo, miyambo.
• Eriquette ndi dongosolo lovuta la zizindikiro ndi manja omwe amapereka chidziwitso ndikufotokozera adilesi ya owonjezera. Mutha kuyika pa phewa bwenzi labwino, koma osati wolamulira wamkulu. Munthu amadzuka ngati mkazi alowa, kumulemekeza. Manja, mayendedwe a mutu, maso ndi ofunikira panthawi yokambirana zamalonda kapena maulendo ochezera.
• Malamulo a Khalidwe apanga mbiri yakale kwambiri, siali wamtheradi, koma makamaka. Ngati m'dziko limodzi, pamsonkhano wachilendo, limalandiridwa mwaulemu kuti mugwadire pansi, kenako kumpsompsona kwina. Onsewa adzaonedwa ngati chizolowezi chotengera m'derali.

• Emaniquette amadziwika bwino dongosolo la mfundo zamikhalidwe mdziko muno. Ndi izi, ndizotheka kudziwa ubale pakati pa anthu (pafupi komanso osachezeka kapena odana). Malo omwe anthu amachita zinthu zosiyanasiyana (modekha, maliro) amapereka lingaliro la kufanana (kapena kalankhulidwe). Mwachitsanzo, anthu okwera mtengo kwambiri anali malo "apamwamba" (abwino). "Potsika" ali ndi alendo ocheperako. Ndikokwanira kukumbukira misonkhano iliyonse, msonkhano: alendo ofunika amakhala pamalo awo mu Preuridium, atakhala pansi kumaso.

Koma chizolowezi chimasonkhanitsidwa patebulo lozungulira, chomwe chimapangitsa kuti mayanjano a Arrica ndi Mfumu a Artimar ndi azungu ake, ndi njira yamaganizidwe omwe amawonetsa kufanana kwa onse omwe ali pa seminar, msonkhano, kukumana.

• Zochita bwino ndizotheka, zikhalidwe zake zimapereka zosankha zotere zomwe zingapangitse kulumikizana kwabwino komanso kuwonjezera kumvetsetsa. Kuphatikiza apo, ichi ndiye mawonekedwe a chikhalidwe cha anthu. Dziko lamkati la munthu lili ndi chinthu chokongola, nzosadabwitsa kuti: "mawu okongola, mawonekedwe okongola."

Sizofunikira kugwiritsa ntchito malamulo a machitidwe azikhalidwe, koma ndizotheka, chifukwa ndizotheka kwa inu ndi anthu ena.

Ediquette amasinthidwa mothandizidwa ndi nthawi yatsopano, zofunika zatsopano. Sizosatheka kukumbukira malamulo onse a chikhalidwe, koma, mwamwayi, izi sizofunikira. Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa mfundo zazikuluzikulu za ulemu ndikukhazikitsa muzochita:

• Mfundo ya anthu.
• Mfundo ya kuthekera kwa zochita.
• Khalidwe labwino.
• Lemekezani miyambo ya dziko lawo komanso mayiko ena.

Mfundo ya anthu imakhudza mbali ya ulemu ndipo imaphatikizaponso zofunikira zina pachikhalidwe cha kulumikizana kwa pakatikati: kudekha, kudziletsa, kulekerera.

Ulemu - lingaliro la mithunzi yambiri ndi mitundu yambiri: Izi ndi zolondola, komanso zokoma, ulemu. "Kulondola ndi ulemu wa mafumu", komanso chinthu chofunikira kwambiri kwa odekha a mayiko ambiri.

Mfundo yotsatirayi imadziwika kuti kuthekera kochita zinthu mwanjira yatsopano, yosadziwika kapena yopanda malire. Aliyense akhoza kukhala kuti sakudziwa malamulo apadera. Pano pa ndalamazi zibwera, chikhalidwe, nthabwala zokondweretsa, kuthekera kopirira chidziwitso chatsopano.

Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti ziyenera kukhala zosavuta osati kwa inu okha, komanso ena.

Khalidwe labwino ndi mfundo inanso yofunika kwambiri yomwe Eyaette imachokera. Munthu wopsa mtima, ndi fungo la mowa, wokhala ndi chindapusa cha nkhope kapena chopunthwitsa chopunthwitsa, ndipo mofuula kwambiri ndi masheya kuchokera ku zisudzo chimayambitsa kukwiya komanso mantha.

Anthu aliwonse amasunga miyambo yawo mosamalitsa, ndipo ali ogwirizana ndi mwambo wawo. Makhalidwe abwino kwambiri komanso mawonekedwe abwino sadzapulumutsa kuchokera ku chitsutso cha munthu yemwe samasiya wolandayo, omwe aperekedwa kuti awoneke.

Kuphatikiza apo, pali mfundo zina zokhudzana ndi ulemu waukulu, koma chidziwitso cha zomwe sizingalepheretse aliyense:

• Mfundo ya kugwedezeka kumathetsa machitidwe a ogwira ntchito momwe ayenera kulumikizana ndi ma oyang'anira apamwamba, awalandire. M'zaka zaposachedwa, wafooketsa kwambiri kumbuyo kwa kalembedwe katsopano manejaline - gawo limodzi (kuchokera ku English adatenga nawo mbali - kutenga nawo mbali);
• Mfundo ya payity ndikukwaniritsa kufanana, mosasamala kanthu.

Maonedwe

Mitundu yamitundu yosiyanasiyana yamitundu yamakono ndi yosangalatsa. Nawa ena a iwo:

General ndi malamulo ofunikira kuti nzika ziziwonedwa, kulankhulana wina ndi mnzake. Lagawidwa:

• mawu olankhula;
• chikondwerero;
• Kuyankhulana ndi eyaette;
• tebulo;
• akatswiri.

• Chipembedzo - chimawonetsa momwe angakhalire m'malo azipembedzo ndikulankhulana ndi atumiki a miyambo.
• Etiquette "Loweruka" Loweruka ndi Zachikhalidwe M'madera Athu: Museum, zisudzo, malo odyera, zowonetsera.
• Malamulo a tsiku ndi tsiku (osavomerezeka) amawukitsa momwe angakhalire mu moyo wamba, kulankhulana ndi anthu mumsewu, mumayendedwe.
• Ukwati - Malamulo okhudzana ndi mwambo waukwati, zovala, zokongoletsera, zokongoletsera, mitundu, phwando la chikondwerero. Mkwatibwi, mkwatibwi ndi Mboni amakhala pansi nthawi zonse m'mavidiyo ndi makamera, motero amayenera kuyang'ana ndi kukhalamo. Koma alendo ayenera kutsatira malamulo omwe adatsata patebulo laukwati.

• Banja - limazindikira mgwirizano pakati pa okwatirana, ana, abale apafupi kwambiri.
• Maliro (achisoni) - miyambo ndi miyambo ya mwambo wa botiyo ndi akufa. Mwanjira iyi ya ulemu, pali chiwerengero chachikulu cha anthu, ndipo anthu onse ali ndi miyambo yawo yapadera. A Slavs kulira kumawonedwa kuti ndizakuda, ndipo achijapani ali oyera. Chitata choyika anthu mu carpet kapena nsalu, pomwe azungu ambiri ali m'bokosi.
• Masewera - malamulo okhudzana ndi ma akochi, othamanga, mafani, komanso maubwenzi mkati mwa gululi komanso pakati pa magulu.
• Ochenjera aulendo ndi chizolowezi cha mayendedwe akunja kudziko lachilendo, ndikuwonetsetsa chitetezo chake, kusungidwa kwa chithunzi chabwino cha dziko lake komanso kuwonetsa ulemu kwa miyambo yadziko lonse lapansi.

• Kudzikongoletsa kwadziko ndi malamulo omwe amawonetsa kuti ali ndi ulemu pagulu, ulemu wake kwa ena, kuwonetsa zabwino zake.
• Khothi - limayang'anira machitidwe kunyumba yachifumu m'maiko achifumu.
• Asitikali ndi gulu la malamulo ogwiritsira ntchito malamulo ndi malamulo wamba kwa ogwiritsa ntchito m'mitundu yonse yazomwe amachita ndi malo, sitima yapamtunda.
• Amuna pakati pa amuna kapena akazi amatsimikizira malamulo a machitidwe chifukwa chosiyanitsa gulu la amuna ndi akazi.

• Mabizinesi abizinesi amayang'ana zoyambira zamabizinesi: Kupanga misonkhano yabizinesi, makalata, kugwiritsa ntchito makadi azamalonda, mawonekedwe a makalata abizinesi ndi zokambirana za mafoni.
• Ortictic orteidete amapereka mndandanda wa malamulo omwe amatsatiridwa ndi antchito a kampani imodzi molumikizana pakati pawo ndi mabungwe ena.
• . Ntchito ya kazembe 90% imakhala ndi chidziwitso cha ulemu, ayenera kudziwa momwe angakhalire molondola pamaphwando osiyanasiyana, zochitika zapadera, zimayenda, misonkhanoyi imayendera miyambo ya dziko lomwe lilipo.

• Ntchito. Chimatsimikizira machitidwe a omwe ali mu gawo lautumiki: iwo omwe amawapatsa, ndi omwe alandira.
• Network (netrict kapena netiquette) - malamulo a machitidwe oyankhulirana omwe akutenga nawo mbali zamagetsi pogwiritsa ntchito zida zamagetsi pa netiweki. Pali malamulo angapo agolide olankhulana kudzera mu netwo, makamaka, musaiwale kuti kulumikizana ndi munthu wamoyo, motero muyenera kutsatira mfundo zomwezo monga zenizeni. Mwachitsanzo, musalembe zomwe sindingathe kunena kumaso. Osati kuti tisamakambitse ndi kusamvana motsutsana nawo - lamulo limasokonezedwa ndi "ma troll" omwe amatchedwa "Troll", koma akhanda sadzachita izi.
• Chifukwa chake malamulo opezeka makalata amagetsi - bizinesi ndi zachinsinsi.

Nyumbayo ikanafuna kuyika ediquette ndi mpira. Ma vailt olamulidwawa adapangidwa zaka zambiri zapitazo, sanasinthe kwambiri, koma m'makono amagwiritsidwa ntchito mozungulira.

Nanipion, yomwe idatulukira mu zaka za XI, idakhudza kwambiri miyoyo ya ku Europe ndi ulemu. Achichepere odziwika omwe anadzipereka anaperekedwa kwa manidzi, omwe anapatsidwa miyambo yambiri yachilendo: kusankha kwa azimayi a mtima ndi kupembedza Senor, kukhazikitsidwa kwa ma genight, kukhazikitsidwa kwa inu. Code of the Knight adafuna kuti atsatire malamulo onse, chifukwa kubwezera pang'ono kumene kwa iwowo kunaopseza kutaya ulemu. Nzosadabwitsa kuti mu Mbewu ya Knight's panali mawu akuti: "Moyo - mfumu ... ulemu - kwa aliyense! "

Zakudya za zojambulazo zinali kuteteza ofooka, kulemekeza ena onse, kuti azimenyera ndi wotsutsa wolimba, kupewa mantha ngakhale m'malingaliro, kudzakhala ndi chitsulo. Tsopano pamasewera osiyanasiyana osewera ndi masewera omanganso, ophunzira, akubwereza nthawi ya middle a middle, nawonso amatumizidwa ku Esiquette ya Knight.

Kupuma kwamitengo ndi njira zapadera zomwe sizinasinthe zaka zambiri. Zimaphatikizira zovala zapamtunda zokhazokha (diresi lalitali ndi mapewa otseguka kwa madona, tuxedo (FAXEE) ndi nsapato zakuda - zokhala ndi ziwonetsero za kuvina, komanso kapangidwe ka zikwangwani, buffet. Kupeza kofunika kumawonedwa magolovesi oyera-oyera omwe sanapangidwe: kwa azimayi - silika, pamwamba pa chikono, kwa abambo - monga suede.

Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri cha mayi wa chimbudzi chinali ndi fan. Ngakhale chilankhulo chachinsinsi cha zizindikilo kwa okonda kudali opangidwa, zizindikirozo zidatumizidwa ndi zokongola zokongola. Mwachitsanzo, mayi wokwatiwa sanasonyeze: "Ndakwatirana! ", Kuwulula zokupizikira ndikuwafuula ku UCHAGer. Ndipo fanizo lotseguka kwathunthu linati: "Inu ndinu fano langa! "

Nchito

Ediquette ngati malamulo achita ntchito zina:

• Tamani - kulimbikitsa anthu kuti azilankhulana.
• Kupitiliza kulumikizana - munthu wobweretsedwa adzapeza nthawi zonse, polankhula za gulu linalake, kupatula nyengo. Mitu yoletsedwa yokambirana ndi alendo: banja ndi zachuma, zochitika zandale komanso zachipembedzo, zovuta zakuthupi za intloctor.
• Kupanga mawonekedwe aulemu komanso omasuka oyankhulana.
• Ntchito yowongolera, kapena kupatukana ndi caustamu, magawo omwe ali pagulu. Makamaka zimagwiridwa ndi malamulo ngati awa ku East.
• Kudzitchinjiriza - Kutsatira malamulo a Erieste kumakupatsani mwayi woletsa mikangano.
• Zambiri - malamulo a machitidwe a machitidwe apangitse anthu momwe angakhalire muzochitika zina.
• Kukhazikika - izi ndizoyenera kuntchito zamabizinesi ndipo ndikuti malamulo akhazikitsidwa pamakhalidwe a onse gulu.
• Chidziwitso chozungulira - kudziwa momwe ambiri adzachitira muzochitika zina achite, sikusokonezedwa ndipo sikungamve ngati mlendo.
• Phunziro - kubweretsa mikhalidwe yabwino mwa ana ndi achinyamata.
• Kuchulukana ndi kufalitsa chidziwitso - munthu amaphunzira ndikusinthana ndi mibadwo mibadwo.

Malamulo Ofunika

NKHANI YA NKHANI YA NKHANI YA NKHANI YA NKHANI YA NKHANI YA NKHANI YA NKHANI YA NKHANI YA NKHANI YA IMODZA YOSAVUTA KWAMBIRI KUTI AKHALITSE KUSINTHA KWA ZINSINSI ZOSAVUTA, chifukwa cha cholinga chawo chachikulu ndikuti moyo wathu ukhale womasuka.

Zowonadi, munthu wobwera amawoneka wokongola kwambiri kwa iye amene amapukuta mphuno yake ndi nkhonya, kuthamangitsa pagulu kapena kuyankhula pafoni pakati pa seweroli.

Ndi infinity yonse yowoneka bwino, malamulo azosavuta: Amadera nkhawa maonekedwe aulemu, machitidwe aulemu, kuyankhula chikhalidwe komanso kuthekera kokhala okha.

Ganizirani malamulo oyamba a kamvekedwe ka jini ya Russia, komanso mayiko achilendo:

• Kuyambira ndili mwana, aliyense amaphunzitsa lamulo lofunika - osati lopweteka pamphuno, osafuula mokweza mawu kwambiri, kuti asachotsedwe.
• Kulumikizana ndi anthu osadziwika pa "inu".
• Gwiritsani ntchito mawu olankhula mwaulemu.
• Osayang'ana pa nthawi yomwe akuthandizira kapena kusintha.
• Osanenanso zinthu zakumbuyo kwa munthu yemwe sangathe kunena kumaso.
• Khalani osunga nthawi.
• Kutha kudziletsa komanso kosangalatsa, ndi kuwononga mkwiyo.
• Nthawi zonse amachita zolonjezedwa.

• Zovala ndi nsapato zizikhala zoyera nthawi zonse.
• Sichikhalidwe chothamangitsa mafashoni, ngati mukuyika pachiwopsezo chopusa komanso moyenera.
• Simungathe kuyika foni yam'manja patebulo m'malo opezeka anthu ambiri - mukamawonetsa kuti mumalemekeza ena, kuwonetsa kufunikira kwa chida ichi ndikofunikira kwa inu.
• Kumbukirani za chinsinsi cha makalata! Ngakhale ndinu kholo, mulibe ufulu wowerenga nkhani za mwana. Zomwezi zimagwiranso ntchito kwa okwatirana.
• Mu sinema, circus nthawi zonse zimasandulika nkhope kukhala, kudutsa malo ake.
• Tinaganiza zochezera abwenzi - onetsetsani kuti ayitanira! Makamaka malamulo awa amalemekezedwa ku Western Europe. Mwachitsanzo, ku Germany muyenera kuyimbira sabata, ndikufalitsa alendo. Ndipo simuyenera kuwerengera patebulo lophimbidwa kwambiri (mwachizolowezi nafe, Slavs) - Operation ndi Itape amawerengedwa kuti amachiritsidwa kolondola kuchokera ku Germantic Germant.
• Ngati mupita ndi mnzanga, ndipo anapatsa moni mlendo, ndiye kuti muyenera kukupatsani moni.

• Ndi odziwana, woyamba wamkulu amafukula dzanja lake kwa achichepere. Ndi dona yemwe ali ndi moni, pokhapokha ngati sanayambitse izi.
• Kulowa m'chipindacho, nthawi zonse ndikulonjezani woyamba.
• Mwamuna nthawi zonse amalemekeza mkazi.
• Onani malamulo a machitidwe patebulo.

Zitsanzo za Khalidwe

Popeza ulemuwo umayang'anira malamulo a machitidwe ndi kulumikizana, ndikofunikira kudziwa momwe angadziwire. Mwamuna akuimiridwa ndi mkazi woyamba, wachichepere akuimira wamkuluyo. Ngati mukudziwa bwino pakali pano, muyenera kutumiza nokha munthu aliyense.

Pakakumana ndi makolo, muyenera kufotokozerana wina watsopano.

Malamulo a chikhalidwe pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kudziwa ndikuwona onse amuna:

• Malo a Kavalera pamsewu - kumanzere kwa mnzake. Asitikali okha ndi omwe amaloledwa kupita kumanja, kuti apereke ulemu nthawi iliyonse. Msozi wamkazi amakhala ndi alendo.
• Woyamba ku malo odyera nawonso amaphatikiza bambo, kumvetsetsa kumvetsetsa zitsulo zomwe adzalipira.
• Mwamunayo ayenera kuyima ngati mkaziyo atuluka patebulo.
• Mwamuna nthawi zonse amathandiza mayi atakhala pagome, mgalimoto.
• Ngati mukufuna kusuta pamaso pa mayiyu, muyenera kufunsa chilolezo.
• Mwamuna amasowa mnzanga mtsogolo. Kupatula kuli kochokera pamasitepe, okwezeka, apansi.

Tebulo limatanthawuza kutsatira malamulo awa:

• Khalani patebulo bwino ndipo osayika manja ake pa Iwo. Wololedwa kumanga makhlando a m'mphepete mwa tebulo.
• Ndikofunikira ndi kamwa yotsekedwa, osati gulu.
• Zokambirana ndizoyenera munthawi yopuma pakati pa chakudya.
• Ndikakudya zokha zokha zomwe zimadya manja, kuziphwanya panthawi ya zidutswa zazing'ono.
• Gwiritsani ntchito mpeni ndi foloko, mpeni umasunthidwa kudzanja lamanja kuti mudule zinthuzo. Osadulidwa ndi mpeni wa tebulo pokhapokha popata, omelet.
• Ngati mukuyitanidwa ku chochitika chilichonse, sichovuta kwathunthu.

• Malamulo a chikhalidwe cha chilengedwe akuti: Onetsetsani kuchotsa zinyalala, komanso zinyalala za wina, ngati pali wina pafupi. Onani malamulo osungira moto, musawononge zisa za mbalame, zokhumudwitsa, sizimaswa nthambi ndipo osazimitsa maluwa. Mwachidule, mukuchezera chilengedwe, choncho mumusamalire!

Makhalidwe Adziko Lonse

Mosasamala za dziko lomwe mwafika, malamulo otsatirawa ayenera kutsatira:

• Kulemekeza Chipembedzo, utsogoleri wa dziko lonse, miyambo, kuphika.
• Palibenso chifukwa chojambulira kufanana ndi kwawo.
• Palibe kutsutsidwa.
• Nthawi yayikulu.
• Ndikofunika kuphunzira zizindikiro za ndalamazo zomwe apita, komanso kuti sadzalemekeza ndalama zawo.
• Nthawi zonse muzidzuka pamawu a dziko la dziko. Ndikofunika kubwereza zochita za okhalamo.
• Osavala zovala zamtundu, osadzidziwa kuti ndi miyambo yawo.
• Tandani mayina molondola.

• Nthawi zonse muzilemekeza wamkulu kwa iye.
• Mukamatenga chakudya chosadziwika, si chizolowezi kukana ndi kudziwa kuti ndi chiyani. Ndikwabwino kukulitsa gawo ndikuyesera.
• Osagwiritsa ntchito zodziwika bwino (mwachitsanzo, adakweza chala), m'dziko linanso lomwe lingatanthauze zinthu zomvetsa chisoni.

Kapangidwe ka dziko la National News ali ndi mwayi wake m'maiko osiyanasiyana - miyambo, malamulo apadera amikhalidwe. Kodi muyenera kudziwa chiyani:

• England. Britain yoyambirira imakonda kuthana ndi amayi pakati pa omwe akukhudzidwa ndikuwona matebulo.
• USA . Kufa kwa aku America ndi kutseguka komanso ulemu. Kumwetulira nthawi zambiri ndikupatsa moni nthawi zonse, ngakhale mutalandira munthu mphindi 15 zapitazo.
• France. Anthu akumaloko sakhala opusitsa komanso osonyeza chidwi, amalimbitsa kwambiri. Madame, mosheir - adpels amalandira anthu osadziwika.
• Spain. Salta - kusangalatsa masana - kumayang'anira nyimbo za ku Spain: Amakhala ndi chakudya cham'mawa maola 13, ndipo misonkhano yamabizinesi imatha nthawi yayitali, kokha ndi kachitatu. Sungani Spaniard - Pamwamba pa kupanda ulemu.
• Mayiko a Arab . Aarabs amakonda misonkhano yayitali komanso kugwirana ndi kugwirana ndi kugwiranso ntchito, koma mowa ndi nkhumba sizidandaula. Sichingakhale chizolowezi chotamanda zinthu mnyumba, chifukwa cha miyambo, mwini wakeyo ayenera kuupereka kwa mlendo wake.

• Mmwenye . Monga chizindikiro cha moni, Ahindu amaweramidwa pokakamiza dzanja lamanzere kumtima. Sichikhalidwe chokhudza interloor. Pamisonkhano yabizinesi muyenera kuvala zinthu zowala.
• Mbale . Mphatso kwa Chitchaina zimaperekedwa musanachoke, ndikuwoloka chakudya chodulira ndi kamvedwe koyipa. Kudzichepetsa kumayamikiridwa pano, manganira ndi koyenera pokhapokha pantchito.
• Jachin . Zalandiridwa pano ndikuyikidwa ndi kugawana moni wopepuka mu moni. Osachedwa konse ndipo osawonera omwe akuthandizira mwachindunji m'maso! Nthawi zonse muzichotsa nsapatozo, kubwera kudzacheza kapena malo odyera. Ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti ngati achijapani adagwirizana m'mawu, sizitanthauza kuti zilidi.

Tikapita kukaona dziko lakunja, musakhale aulesi kuphunzira zambiri za miyambo yake. Izi zikupulumutseni ku zochitika zambiri zovuta.

Kuyankhulana kopanda mawu

Mawu ndi kulankhulana (polankhula, kumva, kulemba, kuwerenga) komanso mawu, mawonekedwe, manja, pa). Asayansi adazindikira kuti uthenga wotumizidwa m'chinenedwe kake umakhala wokhutira. Mwachitsanzo, ngati munthu amangomwetulira pokhapokha milomo, ndikusunga nkhope yamiyala ndikuwoneka bwino, nkukhulupirira kuti zotsimikizika zake moona mtima.

Ngati simukulankhula malamulo oyambira osayankhula pakamwa, omwe akuikirerawo sangakwiye kuti ndikumvereni, kukayikira zolinga zabwino kapena ngakhale kutonza (izi zikuwanyozedwa (izi zikugwira ntchito kwa oyimilira kum'mawa).

Monga mukudziwa, simudzakhala ndi mwayi wachiwiri wopanga chithunzi choyamba. Akatswiri amisala amawerengera kuti kutsanzikana malingaliro ena okhudza mlendo, ndi wokwanira kwa ife kuchokera mphindi ziwiri kapena zinayi. Chifukwa chake, malamulo angapo ofunika ayenera kudziwika kuti nthawi zonse mumadziwonetsa nokha, osanena mawu:

• Mukamalankhulana ndi munthu, makamaka mlendo, yesani kukwapula pang'ono. Ndizotheka kuti anthu a ku Italiya ndi Spaniard adzayamika mayendedwe okhazikika, koma akufunikabe kudziletsa.
• Osapinda manja anu pachifuwa chanu ndipo musadutse miyendo - iyi ndi njira yotetezera zamaganizidwe, kuyesa kutseka kwa ena. Cholinga cha nsidze, mapewa otsika ndi mutu wa mutu, wopsinjika, nawonso ndi zisonyezo za zipinda.

• Gait iyenera kukhala yotanuka komanso yolimba mtima, kumbuyo - molunjika.
• Kuyambira akumwetulira kumasanduka Sveley - ndi inu, ndi anzanu. Tsoka ilo, kufalikira kwa nyumba yathu, kumwetulira kwathu komwe kumayang'aniridwa kumadziwika bwino ngati mini. Ndipo kwa azungu ndipo makamaka aku America ndi chinthu chovomerezeka.
• Kuti muike mthandiziro yekhayo kwa Iye, zimangofuna mutu wa uthengawo, koperani.
• Atakhala pampando, simungathe kugwera pa iyo, kukoka maarlats, kuthamangitsa miyendo. Sichikhalidwe choponyera pansi pa mwendo, kwa akazi choyenera kwambiri - miyendo idawoloka m'miyendo.

• Dziwani - Kodi bwanji kwa ophunzira ndi antchito wamba: okonza kapena abwana, akuyenda pang'ono mawu ake. Posachedwa mudzapeza kuti kuyankhula kumakusangalatsani. Ukadaulo uwu umathandiza kuti omvera ena.
• Maso - misala yamagalasi, komanso gawo lowonekera kwambiri la nkhope. Mawonekedwe amatha kuwonetsedwa kuposa mawu. Ngakhale ophunzira amatha kunena zambiri za malingaliro ndi zokumana nazo: chikukula ndi chisangalalo, chidwi, chopapatiza - chokhala ndi kusokonekera, kuyesa kunama.
• Mawu osonyeza kulumikizana pakamwa komanso osalankhula mobwerezabwereza ndipo amafotokoza mwachindunji malingaliro a wokamba nkhani ku zomwe zimagonjera.

Chikhalidwe

Chikhalidwe chovala ndichofunika monga chikhalidwe chamakhalidwe. Chida chofunikira kwambiri chokhudzana ndi zovala ndi kukhala woyera komanso waukhondo. Mukamasankha zovala, munthu amatsogozedwa ndi zomwe amakonda, kuthekera kwachuma ndi zomwe zimachitika.

Mafashoni amakhudza kwambiri zovala, koma sayenera kutsata mwakhungu. Zikuwoneka zokongola kukhala zowoneka bwino komanso mokoma, koma osati fano. Mwachitsanzo, mtsikana amawoneka ngati mtsikana wokongola kwambiri, atavala suti yokhala ndi jekete pa chanel ya lanel ndi siketi mu "tsekwe" kuposa zomwe zimavala suti yamasewera.

Kusankha zovala, kuyang'ana zosankha zoyenera kwa anthu omwe akubwera.

Mu zovala za amuna, ziwerengero zazikulu kwambiri zimayang'aniridwa mogwirizana ndi jekete. Suti iliyonse iyenera kukhala bwino pa chithunzi. Samalani ndi mtundu wa nkhaniyo, osati zochitika zamafashoni, chifukwa suti yabwino ndiyopanda nthawi. Munthawi yovomerezeka, zovalazo nthawi zonse zimakhazikika pamabatani onse, imaloledwa ku Sautity, mwachitsanzo, patebulo.

Mukamasankha mtundu, samalani ndi mitundu yolimba kapena khungu lalikulu. Malaya akuyenera kuyang'ana pa 1.5 masentimita kuchokera pansi pa jekete. Chinero chimayenera kukhala malaya amdima, koma mtundu wopepuka wa zovala. Masokosi amasankhidwa ndi mtundu wa nsapato, koma ayi ayi chifukwa chosayera.

Kamvekedwe koyipa ndikudzaza matumba a thalauza kuti agawidwe. Pomwepo pamutunga, makiyi, kirediti kadi. Malo omwe zinthu zina zonse zofunika zimapezeka m'matumba a kuchakunja ndi thumba lapadera la anthu.

M'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, zofuna za ulemu sizovuta, kugwiritsa ntchito mawonekedwe a semi-mawonekedwe a aphunzitsi a amuna, oyang'anira amaloledwa. Achinyamata amatsogozedwa ndi zokonda zawo ndipo ali m'thumba kameneka.

Komabe, nthawi zonse ndikofunikira kukumbukira za kudzichepetsa komanso nzeru wamba. Ndikwabwino kuvala stricter kwambiri kuposa kutanthauzira kuposa momwe zingakhalire.

Akazi adapatsa ufulu wambiri posankha nsalu, masitaelo. Komabe, zovalazo ziyenera kufanana ndi zinthu! Dy dona wamkulu kwambiri amawoneka ngati mkate m'sitolo yapafupi mu malaya a ubweya ndikusintha chidendene. Monga dona wachichepere, yemwe anali mu opera mu suti yamasewera ndi opikisana nawo.

Malamulo a General Malamulo osankhidwa amafunika kuganizira za nkhope ndi mtundu wa tsitsi, Mikwingwirima pa zovala sioyenera aliyense (Zotchinga zidzamalizira, kutalika - kokerani silhouette). Kwa mayi wamabizinesi (Office Office, mphunzitsi, wophunzira), mphunzitsiyo saloledwa sketi yafupifupi kwambiri ndi silndy silhouettes. Mitundu yoyenera kusankha pastel, sutiyo iyenera kukhala zidutswa zingapo - siketi + chovala, bulawuti, mathalauza + jekete lansembe.

Nsapato zosavuta, zokongola, pa chidendene chochepa. Matauni amafunikira nthawi iliyonse pachaka! Hallyle ndi zodzoladzola zimatsindika kukongola kwachilengedwe, zonunkhira - zimasiya chitoliro chowala, osati chithunzi cha shopu yamafuta.

Mulimonsemo, zovala ziyenera kukhala zomasuka ndikuwoneka bwino pa munthuyo, kutsindika chikhalidwe chake ndi luptiction.

Zolankhula pang'onopang'ono

Kukambirana si kukambirana kosavuta. Uku ndikusinthana kwatanthauzo pakati pa otenga nawo mbali kwa ophunzira, kumafuna luso lapadera. Wosachedwa ndi womasuka komanso bizinesi, pamene funso linalake likuchitika.

Mu zaluso zomanga, ndikofunikira kuchitapo kanthu, kuti mufikire chithunzi cha yemwe akudziwa bwino zomwe akudziwa ndikuyankhula pamutuwu.

Lamulo loyamba lochititsa kuti azilankhula ndi ulemu limakhala lokhudza mnzake. Kwa anthu onse osadziwika zaka 18 pitani "inu", ngakhale munthuyu ndi wamng'ono. Pa "inu" mutha kusunthidwa ndikudziwa kuti mukuvomereza.

Malamulo a kamvekedwe abwino amafunikira kuti asatulukire polankhulana "Ine", ngakhale mutakhala anzeru m'makampani anu. Zimatengera chidwi kwa onse olumikizirana, kupatsa mwayi wolankhula kwa aliyense.

Yang'anirani zolankhula zanu, mawonekedwe ake ampompo. Mosamveka bwino kwambiri, zimapangitsa kuti zisathetse zinthu zofunikira kuchokera ku mutu wachangu. Kulankhula pang'onopang'ono ndi malo opuma komanso otopa msanga. Ndikofunikira kutsatira golide pakati: Lankhulani momveka bwino, momveka bwino. Chosangalatsa ndichakuti, Britain akuti ndendende ndi bukuli kuti munthu m'modzi mchipindamo athawamve:

• Sichikhalidwe choyenera kukambirana mu mitu ya mutuwo, osamveka kwa ambiri, komanso mwaulere komanso umunthu wake.
• Osamadziyerekeza kapena kudzikweza nokha wokondedwa, kuyesera kuwononganso zokambirana - ngakhale pali maziko onse.
• Ngakhale mutu wa zokambiranawu suli wosangalatsa, sikofunikira kuwonetsa ndi mphamvu zonse: Chingwe cha m'thumba, chofuula, ndikuponya mutu wanu m'mbali, lingalirani foni yam'manja.
• Simungathe kusokoneza wolemba nkhaniyo ndi ndemanga zamwano. Munthu wolera adzamvetsera kumapeto, ngakhale amva nkhani ya nthawi zana.
• Ndikwabwino kuyambitsa kukambirana pamitu yosavuta: Pafupifupi tchuthi, polemekeza zomwe zidasonkhana, tiuzeni nkhani yosangalatsa (osati nthabwala!) Kapena fanizo.
• Ndipo malizani kukambirana ndikofunikira pa zabwino kuti mupitilizenso kubereka.

Kutha kuyenda m'mavuto a malamulo olemekezeka omwe sangakhale ndi chikhalidwe chanu, koma chimakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi chidaliro chilichonse m'dziko lililonse.

Kalasi la Master Pazolowera kuchokera ku Countess Marie d, onani kanema wotsatira.