Maonekedwe a munthu amakonda kwambiri, koma machitidwe ake ndiofunika kwambiri. Kuyambira kuchuluka kwa momwe mukumvera komanso mwaulemu ndi ena, kupambana kwanu kumadalira kapena kuthandizirana ndi ntchitoyo. Munkhaniyi, tikambirana mfundo zoyenera zomwe ziyenera kutsatiridwa.
Pezulia
Zachikhalidwe zamakhalidwe ndi njira inayake yomwe imatsimikizira kuti mumasankhana ndi anthu oyandikana nawo. Cholinga chachikulu ndikupanga kulumikizana kwabwino komanso koyenera kwa aliyense. Ngati sichoncho kuyitsatira ndi ulemu, sizingakupangitseni zilango zilizonse momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mlandu kapena udindo. Komabe, machitidwe oterowo adzagulidwa ndi ena. Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti zochita zathu zonse zimatipanga kukhala munthu.
Sayansi yamakhalidwe tsopano imaphunzitsidwa m'mabungwe onse ophunzitsa. Ichi ndichifukwa chake achinyamata ambiri ndiopanda tsankho, sadziwa momwe angakhalire muzochitika zosiyanasiyana. Ndikofunikira kuphunzitsa achinyamata amakono mogwirizana ndi mfundo zoyenera.
Kuchita Malamulo a Ethics kumatheka kuti aliyense apereke chitsanzo chabwino. Kumbukirani kuti kulumikizana ndi munthu waulemu ndikosangalatsa. Kukambirana ndi Grubian, m'malo mwake, kumverera kwa kukanidwa, ngakhalenso zovuta.
Palibe malamulo ambiri ogwirizana ndi mfundo za kulumikizana: Osachulukitsa kamvekedwe kaanthu, musamveke kwa omwe amamuthandiza kuti azimvetsera mwachidwi komanso kumvetsera kwa anthu ena.
Mayambiriro omwe amapezeka pakupezeka mu ntchito za Aristotle, yemwe adagwiritsa ntchito mawu akuti mawu, komanso adazindikiranso zamakhalidwe monga dongosolo la mabungwe. Masiku amenewo m'masiku amenewo, anthu amamvetsetsa kufunikira komanso kufunika kwa miyezo ndi malamulo a machitidwe a ntchito yofunika.
Mfundo Zoyambirira:
- kuthekera kupereka china china china;
- Khazikitsani kuyanjana ndi ena m'miyambo yabwino;
- Kudzitsutsa: kutanthauza kuti udindo ndi ntchito yaufulu zamakhalidwe;
- mawonekedwe abwino kwa bwenzi lanu komanso mkhalidwe uliwonse;
- Kufanana pakati pa anthu: Munthu amene amasunga mfundo zoyenera sangakhale wamkulu kuposa yemwe amamuthandiza.
Pokhapokha ndi kutseguka kwa kuwona mtima komanso kutseguka kumatha kudalira kudalira anthu, kenako kulumikizana kumapita kale pamlingo wina wabwino.
Ndizomanga bwino kukambirana kwanu, simungangowoneka okongola m'maso mwa anthu ena, komanso kulandira ulemu ndi chidaliro, komanso kukhazikitsa mayanjano oyenera.
Zofunikira
Tazindikira kale kuti mikhalidwe yabwino ndiyosatheka popanda zinthu zofunikira monga makhalidwe, malingaliro, nambala yodziwika (mogwirizana ndi akatswiri osiyanasiyana).
Apa muthanso kudziwa Lamulo la Chikhalidwe: Osachita kalikonse, monga mukufuna kubwera nanu. Lingaliro ili ndiye maziko a mfundo zonse zamakhalidwe.
Pali mitundu ina ya kulumikizana kofunikira kutengera gawo: mankhwala, atolankhani, ntchito ya ofesi ndi ena. Onsewa ali ndi zomwe zili zokha. Komabe, Lamulo la Chikhalidwe ndi dongosolo limodzi lomwe limadutsa malamulo ndi mfundo zonse.
Chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe zimapangitsa kuti miyezo ya malingaliro azikhalidwe ndi njira yamabizinesi. Kuchokera kwa iye kuti kupambana kwa bizinesi iliyonse kumadalira. Kugwiritsa ntchito moyenera komanso koyenera kwa anthu ku bizinesi kumapangitsa kuti zikhale zosavuta kukhazikitsa macheza azamalonda, kukambirana, chifukwa, lowetsani mapangano ofunikira. Chinthu chachikulu ndikutsatira malamulo oyambira.
Munthawi iliyonse, muyenera kukhala aulemu. Mosasamala kanthu za malingaliro ndi momwe mukumvera, ndikofunikira kukhalabe okhazikika popewa kuti musalowe mu vutolo ndipo pambuyo pake musatanong'oneza bondo. Mabizinesi amabizinesi amatanthauza kutsatira malamulo ena mu zovala, komanso kupangidwa kwa mawonekedwe amoyo.
Miyezo yamitundu ndiyofunika komanso m'magulu osiyanasiyana, mwachitsanzo, mu mankhwala. Chifukwa cha zochita za unamwino, ndizotheka kusiyanitsa mfundo ngati anthu, chifundo, kukoma, kukoma mtima, kulimbikira komanso zina. Amangoyang'aniridwa ndi zigawo izi, mutha kuchita ntchito zothandiza.
Zikhalidwe zamakhalidwe
Mikhalidwe yaubwenzi yathu sialamulo. Komabe, izi sizitanthauza kuti atha kuphwanya mosavuta. Ngati aliyense achita zochokera kwa iwo, pozindikira ndi kusintha kwa machitidwe awo, njira yomanga gulu logwirizanitsa lingatheke.
Cholinga chachikulu cha malamulowo ndikuwonetsedwa kwa kukoma mtima mwa munthu. Ndikofunikira kuona kuti mzimu umafunikira kuti mukhale ndi nyengo yabwino yamkati. Malamulo ngati amenewa ndi ofunikira pa chilichonse cha anthu, kuphwanya kwawo kumabweretsa zotsatira zoyipa. Mwachitsanzo, ndi chidziwitso chogwira ntchito zamakono, pakakhala pofika pa intaneti ndipo mukapeza chidziwitso chilichonse. Zochitika zina zopanda pake, zomwe zimawonedwa ndi wachinyamata, zitha kutanthauziridwa molakwika ndipo zimatengedwa ngati maziko a machitidwe.
Kukambirana pafupipafupi ndi ana awo kuyenera kuchitika pochiritsa njira zochizira. Kuphatikiza apo, zingakhale zothandiza kuyambitsa zinthu m'masukulu omwe angathandizire kumbali ya mwanayo, kugwira ntchito moyenera komanso nthawi yomweyo potsatira machitidwe.
Miyezo yamitundu ndi njira yodziwika bwino ndi malamulo a malingaliro omwe anthu amatsatira. Utsi waukulu uyenera kukhala waulemu, kulondola, kusamala, kudzichepetsa polankhulana, kulondola kwa kulankhulana.
Kusonyeza ulemu kwa omwe mumathandizira - mumadzilemekeza. Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti munthu aliyense ndi munthu yemwe amayenera kusamaliridwa, kumvetsetsa kuvomereza.
Malamulo a Ethics Akulamulira
Mutha kukonzekera kuyanjana nokha mothandizidwa ndi mchitidwe wabwino komanso chikhalidwe chodalirika. Kutsatira malamulo ndi malamulo a mafirics kungatithandize kungopanga lingaliro lofunikira mukamangoyamba kumene, komanso amakhala ndi mbiri yobweretsedwa ndi chikhalidwe. Kenako, tidzakambirana malamulo oyambira oyenera.
- Kusamala kapena kuzindikira. Muyenera kudziwa zoyenera kunena kapena kuchita muzochitika zina, zomwe zimaletsa zikhalidwe zamakhalidwe. Pankhaniyi, kudzichepetsa kwanu kudzatenga gawo lofunikira. Palibe chinsinsi kuti anthu a Egomentric akufuna kukopa chidwi, kutenga nawo mbali pazokambirana zonse. Ndizofunikira kudziwa kuti maluso sakuphunzira, komabe, ndizotheka kukulitsa kumverera kumeneku. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho chikhumbo ndi maphunziro.
- Ndikofunika kudziwa komanso kusamala mu zovala. Sikofunikira kutsatira njira zam'madzi zaposachedwa. Ndikofunikira kuvala ndi kukoma ndi kukhala oyera. Izi zikutanthauza chisamaliro chanu ku intlocor. Anthu nthawi zambiri amachepetsa kulumikizana ndi munthu wopanda pake.
- Sinthani njira yanu. Ndikofunika kukhala tcheru komanso kumverera kwa omwe amathandizira kuti azikambirana, musamupweteketse nthabwala zosayenera. Komanso sayenera kukhala wonyoza munthu. Ionana ndi kusayenerera kwa khutu la woyandikana nawo. Pa zokambirana zokangana, ndizosatheka kukhala ndi seti, utsi wopopera.
- Ndikofunikira kukhala nthawi iliyonse molondola, pewani kunyalanyaza . Osayang'ana ndikulimba mtima kwambiri. Kumbukirani kuti kudzakhala koyipa ngati mungayang'ane zolemba za anthu ena kapena kuthana ndi anthu ena. Sikoyenera munthu kuti afotokozere zolakwa zake mu zovala kapena machitidwe. Ngati china chake chimakusangalatsani, ndiye kuti muyenera kufotokoza nokha. Ngati mudathandizidwa kapena ntchito yomwe mwakupatsani, ndiye kuti muyenera kuthokoza munthuyo.
- Ndikofunikira kuti mukhale nokha. Khalidwe loyenera limaphatikizapo kukhazikitsa bata munthawi iliyonse. Sikofunikira kuti muwonetsere momveka bwino kapena kusakhumudwitsidwa panthawi inayake. Palibenso chifukwa chosiyirira ngati munthu sangayankhe. Komanso samalani anthu ena ndikukumbukira kuti mwayi uli ndi akazi patsogolo pa amuna, anthu okalamba pamaso pa achinyamata, odwala omwe ali kutsogolo kwa anthu athanzi.
Anthu amalimbikitsa mitundu ya ulemu amenewa, yomwe imakhazikitsa njira zolankhulirana zabwino mosiyana ndi chikhalidwe chosayenera. Izi zikugwira ntchito mwanjira yoti mulankhule, khalani, kusuntha, etc.
Malamulo otsatirawa amagwiritsa ntchito bwino. Sosaises anali ndi chidwi chotsatira. Zimakhala chifukwa cha malamulo oyang'anira omwe amagwirira ntchito bwino amapanga, kulumikizana koyenera kwambiri mu gulu la ogwira ntchito, ophunzira, amapereka kukhazikitsa ntchito zonse.
Chifukwa chake, Zachikhalidwe zamakhalidwe zimawongolera machitidwe omwe amalola munthu aliyense kutenga munthu wina kuti akhale bwino pagulu, kuti akwaniritse zolinga.
Zitsanzo za Khalidwe
Kukana zikhalidwe za ulemu kumakhala kosiyana ndi chikhalidwe cha achinyamata. Zachidziwikire, mtundu woterewu uli ndi kuphwanya malamulo osaloledwa, komwe kumatanthauza kuti sikulangika kapena ndi thandizo la mafinya olamulira. Nthawi yomweyo, nthawi zambiri mu mabungwe ophunzitsa amayamba kulabadira nkhani yokhudza chikhalidwe chamakhalidwe.
Ubwana uyenera kutengera zomwe akulu akulu amafalikira ndi chitsanzo chawo. Ndiye chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kuchita mogwirizana ndi zikhalidwe ndi akulu ndi ana. Zitsanzo za machitidwe amadziwika ndi mitundu yayikulu.
- Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti ngati mungakhale chifukwa cha munthu, ndiye kuti mupepesekani pafupifupi, kunena mawu oti "pepani" kapena "Pepani, chonde." Ngati mukufuna kufunsa ntchitoyo, ndiye kuti muyenera kuchita mwaulemu komanso mwaulemu. Mutha kunena kuti "pepani chifukwa cha nkhawa" kapena "khalani okoma mtima".
- Kusuntha, aloleni akhale achilengedwe kwambiri momwe angathere. Ndife olimba mtima, kuyezedwa motheratu. Onetsetsani kuti manja sakhumudwitsidwa. Asuntheni mosavuta komanso osavuta. Sikofunikira kuvomera mbali za iwo kapena kuzisunga m'matumba anu. Khalidweli silovomerezeka.
- Ndi momwe munthu amakhala, mutha kuyankhula za kuleredwa. Simuyenera kuchita izi chofatsa, mosasamala mopanda kumbuyo kumbuyo kwa mpando. Osataya mapazi anu patebulo, musasunthire pampando, musakhale patali. Mukufuna kuyika mwendo ku mwendo - ndizovomerezeka, koma ndizosatheka kuti phewa limafika pa bondo lina.
- Chinthu cha anthu ena ndichikhalidwe choyipa chotsuka mphuno, okhazikika. Makamaka izi ndizoyenera kuchita m'malo omwe anthu ambiri.
- Osapereka malo anu oyipa a Mzimu. Kumwetulira bwino. Komanso sayenera kupanga chida. Siziwona kuti palibe aliyense komanso wosasangalatsa kwa ena. Mukamalankhula ndi munthu - onani yemwe amamuthandiza. Simuyenera kuchita mosamala kapena mwamwambo, ndibwino kukhala ochezeka komanso odzichepetsa.
- Sichabwino kwambiri kapena wamphamvu. Lankhulani mwamphamvu komanso motsimikiza, osati mokweza kwambiri, koma osakhala chete kuti mawu anu onse ndi omveka. Nthawi zambiri, azimayi amafuna kuwonetsa umunthu wawo, amatchulirana modekha. Iyenera kuchitidwa kokha kampani yochezeka.
- Chidwi chapadera - kuseka. Sayenera kukhala wogontha. Komanso, musatseke nkhope ndi manja. Zimawoneka zosatheka.
Inde, mutha kubweretsa zitsanzo zina zambiri zomwe zingafotokozere za chikhalidwe choyenera kapena chosayenera. Mfundo yofunika ndi yomveka. Nthawi zonse yesetsani kudziyika nokha m'malo mwa munthu wina musananene china kapena kuchita. Ndikuthokoza mfundo zoyenera komanso malamulo a malamulo omwe sangangotukuka, komanso kukwanitsa kukwaniritsa zolinga.
Kukoma mtima kudzapulumutsa dziko lapansi, ndipo miyambo yabwino idzathandiza dziko lino kukhala lokongola, pangani kulumikizana kwa anthu othandiza komanso osangalatsa.
Za momwe ziliri zolondola komanso zabwino kulumikizana, yang'anani vidiyo yotsatirayi.