Zaka makumi anayi ndi zitatu za moyo m'mipingo si onse okwatirana. Si aliyense amene angathe kupulumutsa mogwirizana ndi kumvetsetsa munthawi imeneyi. Koma kwa iwo omwe adakwanitsa, tsikulo likuwoneka lofunika komanso lofunikira.
Monga chikondwerero chilichonse, chibadwa cha 43 chimakhala ndi dzina lapadera, lofunika komanso chiphiphiritso. Ukwatiwu umatchedwa Flannel. Zikuwoneka kuti ndi dzina losavuta, chifukwa zaka zambiri m'banjamo zimayenera kukhala ndi chidwi ndichabechabe, koma chisonyezo cha ukwati, chomwe chimatembenuza zaka makumi anayi ndi zaka zitatu.
Mtengo wa Chikumbutso
Flannel ndi zinthu zofewa kwambiri, zowopsa. Zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi chitonthozo chanyumba, kutentha, kumapangitsa chidwi chosangalatsa. Palibe chodabwitsa kuti ma diapers a makanda ndi zovala zamkati, bulangeti ndi ma pajamas atagona.
Ichi ndiye fanizo loyenera kwambiri dzina la banjali, lomwe kwa zaka 43 linaphunzira kukhala lofalikira, wankhondo, adapanga chidaliro mu banja ndi nyumba, mogwirizana. Kwa zaka zambiri, mgwirizano umatenga kale ana okha, komanso zidzukulu. Ndipo chuma chotere sichifuna kusintha china chilichonse padziko lapansi.
Ngati okwatirana mwa awiriwo adafika tsiku lokhazikika ngati lotere, ali ndi kena kodzikuza ndi kukondwerera. Ukwati wa Wapamwamba sungachotsere nzika ndi abwenzi a banjali. Kupatula apo, mphatso ya zaka makumi anayi ndi yayikulu osati yonse. Zochepa kuti tisunge chikondi ndi ulemu, kumvetsetsa ndi chisamaliro, banjali liyenera kutamandidwa ndi mtima wonse.
Momwe mungakondwerere?
Kwa zaka 43 muukwati, okwatirana ali ndi madeti ambiri achisangalalo. Pakuganiza, safunanso kukonza zikondwerero zaphokoso. M'malo mwake, adzakonda atheeningu mu banja.
Koma ana amatha kuthandizana ndi gulu la zochitika mwachikondwerero chenicheni. Zochita zoterezi zingakhale mphatso yabwino kwambiri pa tsiku lokumbukira papa ndi mayi kuchokera kwa ana akuluakulu. Ngakhale nthawi zina ana amapatsa makolo mwayi wopumula mu mzimu ndi thupi kwinakwake pafupi ndi nyanja, kutali ndi mavuto apakhomo komanso mavuto achangu. Kudabwitsika kumeneku kudzakumbukiridwa pa moyo ndipo udzangokhala pa chithunzicho m'banjamo, komanso m'mitima ya okalamba.
Zowonadi, bwanji osazindikira kuti chikumbutso chotsatira kunyumba kwanu? Zachitika zaka zambiri pakhoma lake. Yakwana nthawi yowonjezera malirewo ndikupeza gawo lazinthu zatsopano, kubwezeretsanso mphamvu zomwe zagwiritsidwa ntchito pophunzitsa ana ndi zidzukulu, kasamalidwe kachuma, zaka zambiri pantchito.
Ngati mupita ku gombe sikuti ndi bajeti kapena thanzi, mutha kugwera kanyumba kapena pa mtsinje ndi banja lonse. Koma kotero kuti amayi sayenera kuyimirira pachitofu, kuphimba magome ndikuwaganizira pamenyu. Lolani kuti ikhale chakudya chamadzulo momasuka.
Mutha kubwerekanso kukhazikika kwabwino kwambiri ndi nyama mwachangu pamakala. Masamba atsopano, zakumwa zopepuka komanso kukumbukira kosangalatsa kumapangitsa kukhala ndi chikondwerero cha Flacknel ndi chochitika chosangalatsa komanso chokhudza chidwi. Zachidziwikire, ngati makolo ali ndi thanzi labwino ndipo adzakhala bwino ndi kukwera.
Mukamayenda ku chilengedwe, muyenera kusamalira chitonthozo kwa onse omwe alipo kuti palibe amene atopa kufikira komwe mukukhala bwino patebulo. Magawo ofunda madzulo ndi ma thermos akuluakulu okhala ndi tiyi wotentha amakhala wothandiza pakachitika kusintha kwanyengo. Ndi bungwe labwino la pikiniki, chodabwitsa chidzakhala chosangalatsa komanso chosaiwalika.
Ngati nyengo sizilola kukondwerera ukwati wa makolo a makolo mlengalenga, ndizotheka kuchita mwachikondi. Kunyumba kapena mu cafe yaying'ono - ziribe kanthu komwe tebulo lidzakutidwa, kutsatiridwa ndi alendo okwera mtengo kwambiri a chikondwerero cha chikondwerero cha chikondwererochi.
Ngakhale maluwa osavuta a tiyi ndi maluwa odzichepetsa amasangalatsa mwamuna wake ndi mkazi wake, kuthana ndi zaka 43 za chikondwerero cha ukwati.
Kusankha Mphatso
Ukwati Wapamwamba - mwambo wokumbukira ndi mbiri yayikulu, koma simafunikira mphatso zodula. Patsikuli, sizachikhalidwe choyendera maenvulopu, kubweretsa mphatso yamagetsi ndi mipando. Kwa zaka ziwiri izi pambuyo pake, padzakhala chifukwa chochuluka - zaka 45 zaukwati.
Paukwati wa Flannel, mphatso zauzimu zipitilirabe. Choyamba, izi ndi zinthu kuchokera ku Flown. Koma chikumbutso chaching'ono chimakhala chosangalatsa kwa okwatirana onse awiri. Zosankha zina zabwino monga mphatso za tsiku lokumbukira:
- Ma pajamas kapena masamba opumira;
- Mafelemu a zithunzi ndi banja Album;
- Chitumbuwa;
- Tebulo la zikondwerero patebulo;
- bulangete kapena mapilo;
- zitsulo;
- kuphimba;
- Zizindikiro zakunyumba ndi zaluso kuchokera kwa adzukulu;
- Maluwa m'mabotolo ndi miphika;
Zingakhale zothandiza kubweretsa mbale iliyonse patebulo. Mweziwo adzayamikila chidwi chotere komanso kumuyankha mosangalala, amangokumbukira zaka zosangalatsa. Ndipo pa chochitika choterechi akuyesera.
MUNTHU WOYAMBIRA MWA Mkazi
Kukhala ndi moyo zaka zambiri, Mkwatibwi nthawi zambiri amapatsa munthu wachikhalidwe komanso mphatso zothandiza komanso zothandiza. Itha kukhala chilichonse kuchokera ku zovala kapena zida zapanyumba. Zizindikiro sizilinso zogwirizana kwambiri monga kalelo. Zachiwerewere zidasintha homuweki yabwino. Mwamunayo angasangalale ndikusangalala ngati apeza kena kake kuchokera pa izi:
- kumeta kwamagetsi kapena seti yamitundu yosiyanasiyana ya leza;
- Train Paramas kapena bafa;
- oterera;
- Buku laluso;
- Chiyero chofewa;
- wamkulu;
- Chiwonetsero cha zamanja kapena ogulidwa m'sitolo;
- Shati yotulutsa;
- Keke yomwe mumakonda yochitidwa ndi mnzake.
Mwambiri, banja lirilonse lili ndi miyambo yake yokhudza chikondwerero cha masiku ofunika ndi mikhalidwe yopanda pake. Ataphunzira zizolowezi komanso zomwe amuna amakondera kuti adziwe zomwe zingamukondweretse.
Ponena za Mnzanu
Ngakhale pamalingaliro, mkazi aliyense amasangalala ndi zodzikongoletsera ndi mitundu. Mwamuna sayenera kukakamiza makamaka, amatembenukira njira zomwe zingatheke. Aliyense amadziwa za zokoma za wokondedwa wake kwa nthawi yayitali. Chifukwa chake, china chake kuchokera m'njira zotsatirazi adzapatsa mkazi wake kukhala wokhutira ndi kudzoza:
- Basala yamphamvu;
- Kukongoletsa;
- Mphete ndi miyala yoyenera ndi chizindikiro cha zodiac;
- Zonunkhira za ku Franch;
- Mawonekedwe okongola;
- ambulera yophukira ikuyenda paki;
- Zodzikongoletsera za kusamalira manja;
- Suti yokongola yakunyumba;
- usiku.
Simungapatse zojambula zokha zokhazokha ndi zimbudzi, komanso zomwe zimachitika. Gawo la zithunzi ndi adzukulu ndi ana zimadabwitsa kwa banja lopenga. Ndipatseni mafelemu achikumbutso - yankho loyambirira. Matikiti a konsati ya nyimbo za symphony orchestra, a Philpharomonic, opera, makalata a ballet, sinema - zosankha zonse zimalandiridwa ndipo zidzatheka kwambiri banja lililonse lacheza. Maulendo ogwirizana pazikhalidwe zachikhalidwe zimabweretsa palimodzi ndikupereka mitu yatsopano yokambirana, kusiya moyo kukhala zikumbutso zosangalatsa.
Sikofunikira kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zambiri kudabwitsa anthu omwe ali okwera mtengo. Ngakhale madongosolo a patebulo awiri pazalambiri yotsika mtengo, mumawonetsa kufunika kochita zabwino.
Chiganizo chilichonse chosangalatsa ndichokwera mtengo kuposa maenvulopu. Lolani chikumbutso cha okwatirana ndi tsiku losangalatsa kwambiri pachaka, ndipo amaganizira ukwati wawo wamtengo wapatali wa tsoka latsoka!
Onaninso zambiri za ukwati wa Flannel muvidiyo yotsatirayi.