Titakhala zaka makumi awiri, okwatirana amakondwerera mwambo wapadera wokhala limodzi. Zaka 18 kuchokera ku ukwati ndi chifukwa chabwino chotolera onse apamtima onse, onani tsiku lotsatira. Ndikofunika kuganizira zomwe zikondwerero zimatchedwa, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimaperekedwa kwa okwatirana.
Zili bwino
MUNTHU WA 18 wa ogwirizana ndi nthawi yofunika kwambiri yomwe iyenera kudziwitsidwa. Izi ndi mtundu wambiri wokhala limodzi. Kupatula apo, kwa zaka zaukwati, mwamuna wake mwamuna wake adakumananso pamodzi, zambiri zidapindula, kuphunzira zambiri. Mwa anthu, chikondwererochi chimatchedwa ukwati wa turquoise. Monga mwachizolowezi, kujambula kwa chikumbutso kwatuluka mwangozi. Palibe amene anganene kuti chifukwa chake chikondwerero cha 18 cha banja chimatchedwa ukwati wa turquoise.
Koma pali mtundu umodzi wosangalatsa kwambiri. Liwu loti "Turquoise" lotembenuzidwa kuchokera ku chilankhulo cha Chiarabu limatanthawuza "chigonjetso". Chifukwa chake, zikondwerero za 18 za moyo umodzi zitha kuonedwa kuti zingagonjetse mavuto ndi mavuto, omwe amakwanitsa kukhala ndi moyo limodzi. Kwa zaka zambiri, mwamuna wake ndi mkazi wake aphunzira kukhalira limodzi kumvetsetsa kwathunthu komanso kulemekezana. Kuphatikiza apo, adakwanitsa kuchita zachikondi komanso mwachikondi mogwirizana. Komanso mwala wa turquoise umagwirizanitsidwa ndi kukhulupirika ndi kudzipereka.
Pali miyambo yotere yokhudza ukwati wa Turcooise, yomwe ndiyofunika kuilingalira mwatsatanetsatane. Kumaso kwa tsiku lokumbukira mkaziyo, mabedi a banja ayenera kuwoneka kuti akubisalira ma turquooise, omwe angawathandize kulimbitsa ubale ndikuwonjezeranso mphamvu. Patsiku la chikondwerero cha chikondwerero, nyumbayo imakongoletsedwa mu turquoise. Okwatirana amathanso kuvala zovala zamtunduwu kapena osachepera zigawo zing'onozing'ono, zowonjezera zachilengedwe.
Monga lamulo, chikondwererochi chimachitika kunyumba mu banja. Koma ngati angafune, ndizotheka kukondwerera mwambo woyambira mu malo odyera omwe ali pachibwenzi ndi abale ndi abwenzi.
Pa chikondwerero chotere, okwatirana ambiri adalamulira zakudya zapadera zokhala ndi nsomba zam'nyanja. Muyeneranso kuyitanitsa keke yayikulu ndi yokoma, yomwe idzakongoledwe ndi mitundu yokongola ndi zigawo zina. Mwa njira, ndizotheka kuyitanitsa keke mu mtundu wa bokosi lalikulu ndi miyala yamtengo wapatali.
Pa chikondwererochi, okwatirana ayenera kukhala ndi chinthu kapena chowonjezera cha mtundu wa turquoise. Mwachitsanzo, itha kukhala lamba, lamba, mikangano ya mkomedwe, nsapato. Ngati padzakhala tsatanetsatane wina wamtunduwu zovala za anthu okwatirana, zimakopa chisangalalo chochuluka, zabwino zonse, kukhala bwino m'banjamo.
Mphatso ziwiri
Pachikhalidwe, patsikuli, okwatirana amapereka zokongoletsera wina ndi mnzake ndi turquoise. Mkazi amatha kupatsa ndowa, chibangili, pendant kapena mphete yokhala ndi mwala uwu. Mwamuna wanu akhoza kuperekedwa ndi Rosary, pena pakeni taye, mphete kapena cufflinks. Mphatso yokhala ndi mwala wotere tsiku lokumbukira sipakangokhala chophiphiritsa chabe.
Zokongoletsera zotere ndi miyala zimatenga mphamvu yapadera, motero amathanso kukhudza moyo ndi tsoka la okwatirana.
Nthawi zonse, bongo limawonedwa ngati mwala womwe umabweretsa chisangalalo komanso moyo wabwino. Ndiye chifukwa chake, okwatirana ayenera kusamala ndi zodzikongoletsera ndi turquoise. Kuphatikiza apo, mcherewo umatha kulimbikitsa chidwi, kukopa thanzi labwino, kuteteza ku diso loipa ndi zoyipa. Pali chikhulupiliro chotere chakuti ngati okwatirana asinthana ndi mwala, malingaliro awo amakhala olimba mtima. Komanso mwala umatha kukhala ndi thanzi labwino.
Monga mphatso ya mkazi wake, bulawuti, zovala zamkati, maonekedwe a peakedoir amakhalanso angwiro. Mphatso zoterezi zimafanana ndendende monga mkazi. Koma pokhapokha ngati simukudziwa kuti mungaganize ndi kukula, ndiye kuti ndibwino kupatsa mnzanu satifiketi ya sitolo iyi. Ndipo muthanso kupatsa mkazi wanga bokosi lokongola lokhala ndi miyala yosiyanasiyana. Kwa mwamuna wanu wokondedwa, mutha kusankha zida zamakono zamakono kapena chowonjezera chagalimoto. Koma pokhapokha ngati mwamunayo ali ndi galimoto kapena ngati amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi pakompyuta. Ndikothekanso kupatsa mnzanuyo malaya kapena chingwe cha mthunzi wa turquoise, pepala lokongola la foni yake, malo okongola a makiyi okhala ndi makiyi, omwenso angatumikire monga chithumwa.
Mphatso kuchokera kwa abwenzi
Kwa abwenzi ndi anzathu omwe adzaitanidwa ku nthawi yokumbukira ukwati, ayeneranso kusamaliranso mphatso kuti zikhale zothandiza komanso zosaiwalika. Chikumbutso cha 18 cha maukwati ogwirizana ndi tsiku lalikulu, chifukwa chake kuli koyenera awiriwa chinthu chothandiza komanso chosaiwalika. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kupewa bafuta wogona monga mphatso monga mphatso, m'kati mwake, tebulo lokongola kapena matawulo okongola a turquoise.
Mphatso zoterezi zimathandiza nthawi zonse moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo tsiku lililonse zimakumbutsa okwatirana onena za chikondwerero chomaliza.
Ndizoyenera monga mphatso zokongola. Tsopano mutha kupeza zosankha ndi zovomerezeka ku turquoise. Ngati mumapereka zoyikapo nyali, kumbukirani kuti mphatso zoterezi ziyenera kukhala ziwiri, ngati misempha. Monga chowonjezera, mutha kugula makandulo okongola, ndipo mutha kuperekanso mipata yokongola, tiyi yokongola, mafinya okongola, magalasi ndi zina zambiri.
Utoto wokongola mu chimango chokwera mtengo nthawi zonse chimakhala mphatso yayikulu. Popeza kuti chithunzicho chimakonzedwa kuti chikhale cha ukwati wa turquoise, ndizotheka kusankha mitu yam'madzi. Kusankha chithunzi, ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti Chiwembucho chizikhala wodekha. Ndiye kuti, siziyenera kukhala chithunzi cha mkuntho kapena ngalawa. Mitundu yolakwika yotereyi idzasokoneza mphamvu m'nyumba ya okwatirana. Kuchokera pachithunzichi ayenera kukhala bata komanso mtendere.
Ngati okwatirana akusangalala ndipo akamawachitira nthabwala komanso nthabwala, mutha kuwaletsa kuti akhale ndi mphatso yachiyene. Mwachitsanzo, itha kukhala zojambula zopangidwa ndi zolembedwa zokhala ndi zolembedwa zosangalatsa kapena quatirain polemekeza ukwati wa turquoise. Itha kukhala malo osambira kapena matayala amtundu wamtundu wokhala ndi zolembedwa zokongola komanso zowonjezera. Pa chikondwerero cha 18 chokhala limodzi, ndichikhalidwe chopatsa mphatso zamatenthedwe. Ndiye kuti, ngati mungapereke maambulera, ndiye kuti ayenera kukhala mtundu umodzi. Ngati mukufuna kupatsa macheza, ayeneranso kukhala ochokera mu mndandanda wina. Mwa njira, mu zotchinga mutha kuyika chithumwa cha nthawi yomweyo ndi mwala kuchokera kukwerero.
Chofunika! Simungapereke chikumbutso chagalasi, mipeni kapena mafoloko, maola, magolovesi, zithunzi ndi chithunzi cha chinthu chimodzi. Mphatso zonsezi zimangobweretsa zoipa zokha.
Ndi chiyani china chomwe chimaperekedwa pa chikondwerero chaukwati, onani kanema wotsatira.
Zodabwitsa makolo
Monga lamulo, pa tsiku lofunika kwambiri, makolo amapereka china chochokera ku mipando kapena zida zapanyumba. Ngati simukudziwa bwino zomwe mungapatse makolo kudzera muukadaulo, kenako apatseni satifiketi ya kuchuluka kwako, ndipo iwo eni adzasankha zida zofunika pabanja. Monga mphatso, ndizotheka kulepheretsa makolo kuti azitha kukonza banja lawo. Zachidziwikire, kutsindika kuyenera kuchitidwa tsatanetsatane wa mthunzi wa turquoise. Pafupifupi mphatso yotere ayenera kusamala pasadakhale.
Ngati mukufuna kungosintha pepala, lembani makatani atsopano, chandeliers, nyali zogona mu makolo, zitenga masiku angapo. Kuti mphatsoyo idadabwitsidwa kwambiri, mutha kutumiza makolo kuti mupumule masiku angapo kupita ku tchuthi tchuthi tchuthi. Pomwe angasangalale ndi chilengedwe, mpweya wabwino ndi kampani ya wina ndi mnzake, mungokhala ndi nthawi yosintha mkati mwa chikondwerero cha 18.
Monga mphatso ndi tikiti yopita kunyanja ya makolo. Mutha kutumiza makolo ku mzinda wa maloto awo kapena mzinda wa unyamata wawo. Ulendo uliwonse uzifuna, mosakayika. Onetsetsani kuti mwalamula filimu yokhudza banja lanu, yomwe iphatikizani nthawi zowala ndi makolo anu. Mphatso yosaiwalika ngati imeneyi ikufunika kutero. Ndipo mutha kuyitanitsanso gawo la pabanja, ndipo atapereka album yokongola yomwe zithunzi izi zimabwera. Onetsetsani kuti mwasankha chithunzi cha chivundikiro chokongola komanso chokwera kwambiri, chomwe mungayitanitse zolemba zokumbukira.
