Zaka zisanu zoyambirira zokhala limodzi, kwa tsiku loyamba, okwatirana amayesa kukondwerera tsiku lililonse. Zaka ziwiri zitatha ukwati, ana amakondwerera ukwati. Ndikofunika kuilingalira kuti miyambo ndi miyambo ndi miyambo iti yomwe ipatsa amuna aukwati.
Kodi tsiku lokumbukira ndi ndani?
Zaka 2 muukwati ndiye gawo loyamba la zaka zambiri kwa zaka zambiri za banja. Tsiku lachiwiri laukwati limatchedwa anthu apepala. Dzinalo laukwati wazaka ziwiri ndi chophiphiritsa kwambiri. Pambuyo pa zaka ziwiri zokha, ubale pakati pa okwatirana sanakhale wolimba, ndi osalimba komanso osavuta kuthyola, ngati pepala.
M'mbuyomu, chikondwerero ichi chimatchedwa thonje, chifukwa ubale pakati pa okwatirana umakali wankhanza, mapapu ndi nsalu ya thonje ndiosavuta kuthamanga.
Atakhala limodzi kwa zaka ziwiri, okwatirana amayamba kuzolowera gulu la wina ndi mnzake, amayamba kudziwa zizolowezi komanso zomwe amakonda. Achinyamata achichepere si anzeru kwambiri kupewa mikangano yaying'ono komanso mikangano, kotero maso ocheperako amachitika pakati pawo. Ndipo ngakhale mkangano wawung'ono ungaswe ubale wawo wosalimba. Okwatirana amayesetsa kupewa mikangano, kuphunzira kuletsedwa kwambiri, opirira komanso anzeru. Kukondana ndi kulemekeza kumathandiza okwatirana osati kukondwerera mwachikondwerero lachiwiri laukwati wawo, komanso kupeza mphamvu ndi mphamvu kuti akhale ndi moyo wautali komanso wachimwemwe. Chikumbutso chachiwiri cha moyo wogwirizana chimatchedwa pepala chifukwa achinyamata amatha kuyamba kukhala nawo limodzi, monga akunenera, ndi "pepala lapamwamba".
Chifukwa chake, patsiku la chikondwerero ichi, okwatirana ayenera kufunsana wina ndi mnzake kuti akhululukire, siyani mikangano ndi mikangano yonse, pitirirani - kukakumana ndi moyo wawo wachimwemwe.
Miyambo ndi miyambo
Pali miyambo ingapo yosangalatsa yomwe iyenera kuwuzidwa mwatsatanetsatane. Patsikuli, achinyamata achinyamata ayenera kulemba papepala langwiro mikhalidwe yonse ya theka lawo lachiwiri, lomwe sakonda konse. Mwamuna wake ndi mkazi wake akusinthana zolemba ndi kuziwerenga mokweza. Mwa miyambo, imayenera kuchitika patebulo la zikondwerero kapena osachepera makolo anu. Oyimira m'badwo wachikulire uyenera kuthandiza okwatirana kuti amvetsetse vutoli, afotokozereni momwe angakhalire kuti apewe mikangano munthawi ina. Achichepere ayenera kumvera malangizo a akulu a akulu, ndipo atatha kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro onse pamoyo.
Ngati achinyamata safuna kukhala odzipereka pamavuto awo, ndiye kuti, chikhalidwe china, chamakono. Apanso, mwamuna wake ndi mkazi wake ayenera kulemba zovuta zonse, zomwe zimawoneka kuti ndizovuta kwambiri za theka lawo lachiwiri. Mukatha kupanga pepala kuchokera pamapepala awa, ndege wamba kwambiri zomwe tonsefe tidakali mwana. Ndipo pitani limodzi. Ndikofunika kuti muchite izi kuyambira m'mawa kuti tsiku lonse litakhazikika. Chifukwa chake, okwatirana amamasulidwa ku moyo wawo wonse ndikungosiya chisangalalo, chikondi ndi chisangalalo.
Pachikhalidwe, chikondwerero cha chikumbutso chimayenera kukhala chokongoletsedwa ndi mapepala kapena mitundu. Mutha kuyitanitsa mapepala okongola kapena maluwa osiyanasiyana amapepala. Ndipo ndizothekanso kugwiritsa ntchito ziwerengero zoyambira zoyambira zokongoletsa, zilizonse zomwe zili ndi kufunikira kwake. Atakondwerera chikondwererochi, onetsetsani kuti mukutenga nanu ndalama zochepa kapena mitundu ngati chikumbutso cha chikondwerero cha pepalali komanso ngati chizindikiritso chanu ndi chikondi chanu. Sungani zokondweretsa zoterezi ndi chikondwerero m'bokosi lokongola kapena bokosi.
Pachikhalidwe, patsikuli, abwenzi achichepere ayenera kuvala zovala za thonje la mithunzi yowala. Mkazi amatha kusankha kavalidwe kopepuka komanso bwino ku Beige kapena mthunzi uliwonse wowala. Ndipo wokwatirana naye akuyika malaya a mthunzi womwewo monga kavalidwe ka mkazi wake. Kuphatikiza apo, okwatirana amayesa kumvera okhulupirira akale. Chinthu chimodzi chimati mkazi ayenera kukhala patchuthi mu nsapato zakale. Ndiye kuti, simuyenera kuvala nsapato zatsopano. Nsapato Zakale, Mphamvuyo idzakhala moyo wolumikizana.
Mphatso
Ndi bienomu wa moyo wabanja, mwamuna wina ndi mkazi wake ayenera kukonzekera mphatso. Zachidziwikire, tchuthi chilichonse sichikhala ndi mitundu. Kuchita chikondwerero cha banja, mnzanuyo akhoza kubweretsa maluwa osasangalala. Itha kukhala maluwa oyambirira a pepala. Koma kuti inali yachilendo kwambiri, mutha kuyitanitsa maluwa apadera a chokoleti chonunkhira. Ngati mukufuna kupatsa maluwa omwe timakonda kwambiri, ndiye kuti maluwa akhale mu kukolola kwachilendo. Mutha kupeza pepala lokutidwa mosavuta lomwe limafanana ndi nyuzipepala kapena gumbwa wakale.
Okwatirana patsikuli angalepheretse wina aliyense wofafanizira, komanso ngakhale mphatso yoseketsa. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kuyitanitsa ma t-shirts ndi zolemba "zabwino" komanso "mkazi wabwino kwambiri". Ndikotheka kusinthira ma gapulomas kapena ma dipuloma omwe ali ndi malingaliro abwino kwambiri a mwamuna wake ndi mkazi wake adzawonetsedwa. Ndikotheka kuyitanitsa zigawo zophatikizika ndi zolemba zoyambirira komanso chithunzi chawo.
M'mawa uliwonse, okwatirana adzamwa khofi kapena tiyi ndipo amakumbukira chikondwerero cham'mbuyomu.
Ngati timalankhula za mphatso zothandiza, mutha kupatsa mwamuna wanga diary yokwera mtengo. Katundu wotere ndi wothandiza kwa munthu aliyense, ndipo masiku ano adzakhala ophiphiritsa kwambiri ukwati. Ngati mukufuna, mutha kuyitanitsa zolemba kapena zolembedwa. Kuti mkazi akhale mphatso, mutha kusankha zolemba, koma osati mwachizolowezi. Tsopano mutha kupeza zojambula zosiyanasiyana zogulitsa, patsamba lililonse lomwe muli zolembedwa zozizira. Mutha kusankha diary "kwa mayi wina", "kuti akhale wokongola", "chifukwa cha maphikidwe abwino" ndi ena. Kusankha ndi kwakukulu ndipo mutha kupeza china chake choyambirira komanso choyenera.
Kuphatikiza apo, mutha kupatsa utoto wina aliyense wachilendo. Tsopano amagulitsa zosankha makamaka kwa akuluakulu omwe ali kale ndi mapensulo amtundu wamtundu. Utoto wotere umathandizira kuthana ndi chisangalalo, pumulani komanso kudekha. Ndipo pali utoto wapadera ndi madabwa amatsenga kwa osiyanasiyana omwe amasila zilako zabwino kwambiri. Mothandizidwa ndi utoto wachilendo woterewu, aliyense mwa okwatirana sangakhale okhazikika pamitsempha, komanso kuyandikira maloto ake.
Anzathu ndi abale amatha kupatsa aulemu kwa aunireza achinyamata ngati mphatso zophiphiritsa. Zachidziwikire, mphatso yachikhalidwe kwambiri yaukwati ndi ndalama. Yesetsani kuwapatsa mwanjira inayake. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kugula chisa chachikulu komanso ndalama iliyonse. Ndipo mutha kuyika ndalama zambiri kukhala envulopu yachilendo, mwachitsanzo, mu mawonekedwe a Oritiomi kapena Mtima wokongola.
Komanso abwenzi amatha kupatsa banja labanja la makolo. Zachidziwikire, patsamba lililonse la kalendara payenera kukhala zithunzi zolumikizirana za okwatirana. Mutha kupatsa anthu oyambitsa chikondwerero chokondweretsa cha mabanja. Ndipo monga chowonjezera cha ulalikiwo, mutha kupatsa satifiketi ya amuna aukwati owombera. Kwa mphatso zoterezi iwo adzakhale osangalala.
Popeza okwatirana akungoyamba kumene njira yawo yayitali komanso yachimwemwe ya banja, ndizotheka kuwapatsa kena kake kuchokera ku zida zachifundo. Koma zokhazo zomwe mukudziwa kuti chipangizocho chilibe chiyani. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kupereka makina a khofi. Ndipo mutha kuwonjezera mphatso yotere ndi zikho zoweta za okwatirana kapena buku lomwe lili ndi maphikidwe a khofi. Kapena mutha kupereka mpweya wa mpweya ndi buku la maupangiri oyambira kapena mafuta a mafuta onunkhira.
Mutha kuyitanitsa nyuzipepala yapadera kapena magazini yapadera ya moyo wa okwatirana. Padzakhala nkhani zosangalatsa za omwe amadziwa bwino anzawo. Mutha kuwonjezera maphikidwe anu omwe mumakonda komanso maupangiri a banja losangalala. Tsamba lililonse lomwe nyuzipepala kapena magaziniyi limayenera kukongoletsa chithunzi cha zokondweretsazi. Ndipo mutha kuperekanso chithunzi chokongola, zojambula za banja, mabuku osowa kapena matikiti a gawo latsopano mu zisudzo.
Makolo angapatse ana awo mphatso zodula. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kusangalatsa maulendo achichepere osachepera kunyumba ya tchuthi chadziko. Pambuyo pazaka ziwiri zokhala limodzi, achinyamata, omwe mwina angafune masiku angapo okhaokha, kutali ndi ntchito ndi moyo. Kuphatikiza apo, mutha kupatsa ana zina zingapo zomwe amagwiritsa ntchito, mwachitsanzo, kugula zida zambiri zapanyumba. Mutha kupatsa mwamuna wake ndi mkazi wake mphatso. Mnzanuyo ndikupereka zolembetsa ku masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndipo mkazi ali pamalo olimba. Zoyenera, ndibwino kupatsa zolembetsa kuchokera ku bungwe lina kuti okwatirana aziyenda limodzi. Ndipo makolo amatha kudabwitsa ana awo chakudya chachikondi kwa awiri.
Momwe mungakondwerere?
Ndikotheka kukondwerera chikondwererochi chomwe chili mu hozy kapena holo yodyera limodzi ndi abale ndi abale onse. Zonse zimatengera chikhumbo ndi kuthekera kwa okwatirana. Kulikonse komwe mwazindikira ukwati wanu, chipindacho chiyenera kukongoletsedwa. Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, zithunzi za pepala, maluwa ndi zigawo zina ziyenera kupezeka monga zokongoletsera zazikulu. Komanso akhoza kupemphedwa kuti apange pepala lopangidwa ndi zizolowezi. Kuwona ziwerengero zachuma zambiri ndi zachilendo kwambiri komanso zokongola, ayenera kuyimirira pagome a okwatirana.
Palibe miyambo ndi malingaliro enieni okhudzana ndi kusankha mtundu. Chifukwa chake, achinyamata achinyamata amatha kukongoletsa mkati mwa omwe amawakonda ndi mithunzi. Mwa njira, kusankha mtundu umodzi kapena mtundu wina pachikondwerero, kumbukirani kuti aliyense wa iwo ali ndi mphamvu zotsimikizika, zomwe zimakhudza mwachindunji mlengalenga. Mwachitsanzo, utoto woyera umakopa chisangalalo komanso chabwino, ofiira amawonjezera chidwi, mphamvu ndi mphamvu, koma mtundu wowala uwu suyenera kukhala wochuluka mkati, apo ayi amakopa zinthu zoopsa. Buluu ndi chizindikiro cha ubwenzi ndi kudzipereka. Green ndi mtundu wa mphamvu zazikulu, zabwino komanso zodekha.
Mutha kusankha mitundu ingapo nthawi imodzi. Mwachitsanzo, tebulo la piritsi ndi napkins ikhoza kukhala mbale zobiriwira, zoyera, ndi makandulo ndi ofiira. Zonse zimatengera zomwe amakonda pabanjali komanso chifukwa amafuna kugwiritsa ntchito tchuthi chawo madzulo omwe ali.
Pachikhalidwe, zopukupepala za mapepala zimayikidwa pagome usiku wokhazikika. Amawoneka okongola komanso ophiphiritsa.
Monga kuchitira chithandizo, mutha kusankha zakudya zomwe zimakonda kwambiri. Musaiwale kuti payenera kukhala mbale zosiyanasiyana zosiyanasiyana patchuthi. Monga akunena, chifukwa cha kukoma kulikonse. Zipatso zatsopano ndi zonenepa patebulo lachikondwerero zidzasandulika chizindikiritso cha unyamata ndi chikondi. Nthawi zambiri, tsiku lokumbukira likuyesera kusankha zipatso, zipatso zofiira monga chizindikiro cha chikondi ndi kudzipereka.
Zachidziwikire, zokongoletsera za tebulo la chikondwerero ziyenera kukhala zapamwamba komanso keke ya kukoma. Mutha kusankha njira yachilendo ndi miinjiro kapena nkhunda. Ndipo mutha kuwonetsa zongopeka ndikuyitanitsa keke yachilendo yomwe idzaimira chikondwerero cha pepalalo. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kufunsa kuti confectices azikongoletsa ndi "chellloin" nyuzipepala wokoma. Ndipo mutha kufunsanso kuti mupange mpukutu wopangidwa kuchokera ku mastic zotsekemera zomwe zidzakongoletsa keke. Mutha kupanga moni wokondweretsedwa pampukutu. Kuphatikiza apo, mkate wokondweretsa ukhoza kukongoletsedwa ndi ziwerengero zomwe zimafanana ndi ziwerengero za mapepala.
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