Mawu akuti "Wolimba" achitapo kanthu. Ena a nsanje ena amalemba mawu awa, ena - ndi zonyansa komanso zosamveka. Chowonadi ndi chakuti azimayi olimba amayambitsa mayanjano osiyanasiyana. Momwe mungachitire lingaliro ili ndi momwe mungalimbikitse akazi amoyo, nkhaniyo ifotokoza.
Zoyambira Zodzidalira
Akatswiri azamisala akhala akusangalatsidwa ndi lingaliro lamphamvu ya akazi. Mavoti adachitika, ndipo azimayi ambiri adatsimikiza kuti akufuna kukhala amphamvu, chifukwa adzakhala ntchito ndi zovuta zilizonse paphewa. Koma amuna ambiri akamagwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "mkazi wamphamvu" wolongosola mayanjano akale, a Nekrasovsky, omwe adzaimitse akavalo pa liwiro, ndipo mahatchi oyaka amaphatikizidwa mosavuta. Mwambiri, azimayi ali ndi chiyembekezo, ndipo amuna alibe zoipa.
Kuchokera kwa ankhondo omwe ali ndi lupanga amaliseche kwambiri mwa oimira mwamphamvu amayesa kugwiritsitsa mozama momwe tingathere.
Komabe Pali chithunzithunzi chomwe chimafotokoza chithunzi cha mkazi wamphamvu popanda mtundu - monga momwe ziliri. Chifukwa chake, ngati timalankhula za maziko a lingaliroli, ndikofunikira kuti chikhale cholimba, choyamba, osalimba, ndipo mayi wachikulire komanso wodziyimira pawokha amene amadziwa kupanga zolinga, Kudziwa momveka bwino zomwe akufuna kuchokera kwa iye ndi anthu ena, kuchokera ku maubale pamodzi.
Ufulu ulibe mitengo yonyamula mitengo pamapewa pomwe amuna ayang'aniridwa pafupi. Mayi wodziyimira pawokha amangodziwa zomwe angathe kuchita, koma ndi chiyani - satha kupirira. Ndipo ichi ndi chizindikiro cha mphamvu. Ndi masomphenya omveka bwino a malire ndi zoletsa zomwe zimalola mkazi ngati ameneyo kukhala chifukwa choyenera malo ake abwino m'moyo.
Mkazi wamphamvu amaperekedwa ndi malingaliro ake, chifukwa umakhala wopanda makikisoni osati kuvutika kwambiri komanso mwano, koma pano, pano. Izi ndizomwe zimapereka maziko a kudziletsa komanso kudziletsa.
Mphamvu za mayiyo zimasankha ntchito mosadziwa ntchito, maphunziro omwe amachititsa, zikhale zazing'ono, koma nsanja yokhazikika, yomwe ingathe kudziletsa, popanda thandizo.
Momwe mungakhalire mwamphamvu zamaganizidwe?
Mphamvu zamaganizidwe opangidwa ndi ubwana, Mulimonsemo, ndi nthawi imeneyi yomwe maziko achilengedwe aikidwa. Zinthu zanu, kuchuluka, maphunziro a banja ndi miyambo imakhudza. Zinthu zonse "zopeza" zimatsimikizira ngati mayiyo amakhala wotsimikiza mtima wodziyimira pawokha, wolimba mtima. Koma - pang'ono. Ndipo ili ndiye mfundo yayikulu. Ena onse ndi ntchito yodziyimira pawokha, ndipo ngati mukufuna kukhala mtsikana wamphamvu kapena mkazi, palibe chosatheka. Chinthu chachikulu ndikukhala munthu wokhwima, ndipo izi sizidalira zaka kapena zachipembedzo kapena chikhalidwe chomwe mayi adalikulira.
Kuphatikiza pa kufotokozera kwa chithunzi cha mayi wamphamvu, akatswiri amagwiranso ntchito pa zomwe zimadziwika bwino za azimayi ofooka, ndipo kuyerekezera mitundu iwiriyi ithandiza kudziwa mwatsatanetsatane momwe angapangire kufooka ndikupeza mphamvu yachikazi mumvetsetse bwino Mawu.
Dona wamphamvu sangawonekere kakhalidwe. Imayang'ana kwambiri pankhani inayake kapena kudalirika, sizimadzilola kugonjera, kudziphwanya, kuphwanya mpata wake, kutsanulira zofuna zake, kutsanulira. Kukomera mnzako sikubwera ndi zofuna zake, koma adzakhala wonyengerera.
Akazi, olimba pamaganizidwe, Nthawi zambiri amadzikumbutsa kuti adabwera padziko lapansi kuti asamathetse manyazi, koma osathamangira ku Holsterics kapena nkhondo, amaganiza kuti ali ndi vuto lililonse. Ngati alephera kupewetsa, mayi wolimba samachoka pamaso pa mdani, ali kale ndi zisankho zingapo - adakwanitsa kuganizira pasadakhale.
Maganizo a zozungulira zozungulira zimapweteketsa akazi olimba . Liwu la malingaliro ake ndizofunikira kwambiri kwa iwo, ndipo amamumvera, ngakhale ofooka amakumana nawo chifukwa cha zomwe amaganiza kapena kunena ena. Chifukwa cha zamtendere za anthu, oimira amphamvu a theka lokongola la umunthu ndizosatheka kukakamira zikhulupiriro, ziweruzo, kuchokera kunja. Wina amatsatira zigawenga imodzi yaulemu, ndipo ngati chikakamizo chikhala ndi zovuta, ndiye kuti kukana sikungakhale ulemu kwambiri.
Mkazi wamphamvu sadzadziyika yekha kapena wotsika kuposa ena. . Amazindikiranso ufulu wake komanso ufulu wa ena pa malingaliro apadera, malire ndi mafulu, malingaliro ndi malingaliro.
Ngati wina sakugwirizana, ndiye, adzakhumudwa, koma tsoka silidzakhala lolondola. Ndipo koposa chomwecho, "kugonana" kwa munthu wina sadzakhala chifukwa cha ma hoytedics, achidzudzulo mu adilesi yake, kuposa momwe nthawi zambiri amachimwa akazi amanyada komanso ofooka.
Mphamvu ya Akazi Amkati - Kutha kuvomera m'malingaliro anu, ngakhale zitakhala kuti ndi mkazi woyamba . Kutha kuthokoza kumeneku ndikuthokoza. Mkazi wotere samathana ndi "anthu oopsa", popanda kunong'oneza bondo, kusiya umunthu wowononga, gulu, kampani, amatsatira "zachilengedwe" za moyo wake womwe, banja, ana.
Mkazi wamphamvu amatha kukonzekera, kuwerengera zochita ndi mwayi wake. . Ngati mwadzidzidzi adzafunika kuti apereke banja lomwe likuchitika, mutha kukayikira kuti adzathana nazo, ngakhale atakhalapo. Kuwerengera, kusankha njira zokonzekera, masomphenya owoneka bwino.
Mwa amuna, azimayi olimba amayamika Kuthekera kulemekeza umunthu wake, kuwunika ndi malingaliro ndi zokhumba zake, kuwona mtima . Banja ndi misonkhano yokhala ndi zovuta zambiri, amuna ofooka nthawi zambiri samatha kuchita bwino, ndipo azimayi olimba nthawi yoyamba amathetsedwa. Ndiwolondola ndi abwenzi olimba, ofanana omwe sadzakhala akazi okha, komanso othandizira, atsikana okhulupirika
MALANGIZO OTHANDIZA
Amayi omwe akufuna kupeza mphamvu, akatswiri azamisala amapereka malingaliro angapo othandiza.
Osatukula zolakwika zilizonse za ena. Osamamanga zithunzi zopeka za atsikana, abwenzi, ogwira nawo ntchito. Pindani malingaliro anu popanda kuyembekezera kosafunikira, lingalirani mawu ndi malonjezo, koma ntchito zenizeni za munthu aliyense. Izi zithandiza kuti musamamve zokhumudwitsa, ndizosavuta kuchita.
Bola mudzipeze nokha. Lankhulani nokha moona mtima, tsegulani zofuna zanu zenizeni, kuphatikizapo kuyankha, ndipo mukufunika bwanji mphamvu. Ngati uku ndikuyika, kubwereka kwa amayi, moyo wonse wopempha ndi uchidakwa, ndiye kuti ndi waukulu kwambiri. Ndikofunikira kutumiza nyongolotsi ku chilengedwe chokha, chifukwa cha cholinga chabwino chomwe mzimu umagona moona.
Khalani okonda. Mphamvu siuma ndipo osadandaula. Mkazi ayenera kuwonetsa bwino kwambiri, chikondi, kumva kumva kukhala omasuka, musachite manyazi ndi chifundo. Zimamuthandiza kumanga ubale woonamtima ndi nthawi yayitali ndi anthu.
Ilosureni motsimikiza. Luso ili lithandizanso kuthawa cholinga ndi cholinga, komanso kutsatira njira yosankhidwa molimba mtima, kumvetsetsa kuthekera kwake ndi malo ake m'moyo. Pofuna kukhala ndi chidaliro, mwamakhalidwe komanso wamakhalidwe abwino komanso wamphamvu komanso wamphamvu, muyenera kuyesa kuchotsa katswiri wa kakhalidwe. Ngati apeza zochuluka kwambiri, ndibwino kutembenukira kwa psychotherapist, luso lazina kapena katswiri wazamisala kapena wamisala. Akatswiri awa adzakuthandizani kupeza zoyambitsa zokayika ndi mantha, kuthana nawo, ndipo mphamvu yeniyeni yamkati zidzabwera m'malo amenewo.
