Mu mankhwala amakono, mitundu yamitundu yosiyanasiyana ya malingaliro amisala imafotokozedwa mwatsatanetsatane, ndipo munthu wina angakumane nawo. Zovuta izi zimaphatikizaponso kubwerezanso kwa Narcissism. Boma pomwe munthu sazindikira aliyense, kupatula yekha, nthawi zina amatha kupitirira pang'ono pang'ono ndipo, pankhaniyi, amatha kuwerengedwa kale. Dziwani kuti matenda a m'maganizo ndi ovuta, chifukwa ndizosatheka kupatsa munthu matenda, popanda chidziwitso choyenera mu psychology ndi psychologry. Nkhaniyi ifotokoza mbali za matendawa, zizindikiro zake ndi njira zamankhwala.
Pezulia
Pervice Narcissism ndi vuto linalake ndi mawonekedwe ena, omwe amatha kudzionetsera mu azimayi omwewo, komanso amuna. Anthu a anthu omwe ali ndi vuto lotere amatchedwa "Narcissus". Komabe, munthuyo sayenera kulemekezedwa pambuyo pa munthu aliyense wachikondi kwambiri, chifukwa matendawa ndi ovuta kudziwa, osakhala dokotala waluso. Kuphatikiza apo, matendawa ali ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana ngati munthu amene akudwala matendawa sakhala pachiwopsezo cha anthu. Zizindikiro za Narcississim yovomerezeka ikuphatikizanso:
- Khalidwe losafunikira kwambiri;
- kusakhalapo kwa chisoni kapena kukhudzidwa kwa anthu ena;
- Kumverera kwapamwamba kuposa anthu ena onse.
Kulankhula za munthu "mwachidule", komwe kumabweretsa matenda oopsa, mumatha kutchula kuti anthu oterewa "amasewera" m'masewera awo motsutsana ndi anyamata kapena atsikana. Nanga, nthawi zambiri, chimakhudza chiyani chachiwiri. Amayi amayamba kudwala nkhawa, ndipo nthawi zina kuvulala kwambiri m'maganizo mwamphamvu kumalandiridwanso.
Ma dafornic daffodils ali ndi zachilendo komanso njira zachikhalidwe zomwe amabala mchaka chimodzi. Anthu otere nthawi zambiri amakana zomwe amachita ndipo nthawi zambiri samapanga zomwe amalonjeza. Anthu awa nthawi zonse amayesera kuti abweze zofuna zawo kapena mnzawo.
Kupirira daffodils chikondi popewa malingaliro a ena osakumana ndi zokumana nazo zenizeni. Iwo ndi achilendo chabe kwa iwo. Anthu otere saganizira malingaliro a ena. Madokotala ambiri amakhulupirira kuti anthu omwe ali ndi matenda oyambilira amakhala ozizira kwambiri - magazi owuma komanso osamvera chisoni.
Zomwe zimayambitsa kutuluka ndi mapangidwe a matenda
Mpaka pano, palibe yankho lomveka bwino kuchokera kwa akatswiri, chifukwa chiyani vutoli limabuka. Koma, monga zovuta zina zambiri ndi zovuta zina, zitha kukhala ndi mizu yaubwana. Uyu amathanso kulumikizananso ndi kuwoneka ngati wotsika, wosakhutira ndi mawonekedwe ake kapena malo omwe ali pagulu. Kukhumudwa ndi matendawa kumatha chifukwa cha maphunziro olakwika kapena kusakwanira kwa mwana.
Nthawi zina akatswiri azamandapusa amalankhula za kuchuluka kwa majini amtunduwu. Ndipo nthawi zina matendawa atha kukhala chizindikiro cha matenda owopsa kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, mwina ndi matenda a schizophresia.
Zizindikiro
Zimakhala zovuta kutchula zizindikiro zonse za "narcissa", chifukwa munthu aliyense amakhala payekhapayekha, motero matendawa amatha kukhala mwanjira ina iliyonse mwanjira zosiyanasiyana. Komabe, kwa nthawi yayitali kwambiri, chifukwa chomwe mungazindikire Narcissus, fotokozerani:
- Malingaliro olimba kwambiri okhudza kupambana kwakukulu, omwe Daffodil amagwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zonse;
- Kukhalapo kwa zikhumbo za anthu ena ndi anthu onse;
- Kudzikuza ndi Kukakamiza Kwambiri, osathandizidwa ndi zochita zilizonse;
- Kunja konse kutsutsidwa kulikonse komwe mungayende;
- Mitundu yonse yonyansa;
- Gwiritsani ntchito anthu ena pazolinga zawo.
Amuna ndi akazi omwe ali ndi matendawa sakondanso kuchita zopambana za anthu ena, kuphatikiza abalewo. Nthawi zambiri amalankhula za mafano, ndipo nthawi zambiri amawasunga m'njira zonse. Pali zizindikiro zina zomwe zimakhala ndi mtundu wina. Chifukwa chake, amuna-daffods amakhala odzikuza kwambiri, ali ndi zabwino kuti akhale wolemera komanso wotchuka mulimonse.
Amuna, monga lamulo, usadzikane, ngakhale sawalola. Amanyalanyazidwa nthawi zambiri ndi malingaliro a nthumwi za kugonana kokongola. Komanso, amuna amafunika kwambiri komanso onyada. Anthu wamba a Daffoodial azachuma amadalira makolo awo kapena azimayi a mtima wawo. Monga lamulo, banjali limaganiza pa nthawi yomaliza kapena osaganiza konse, kudzipatula. Koma kwa akazi, ali ndi matenda a perecissism a narcissism amadziwonetsa motere:
- Amatsata maonekedwe awo koposa kufika kwa Abicurde;
- Kufunafuna abwenzi olemera ndi otetezedwa, ngakhale atamvetsetsa kuti siabanja;
- Kusilira ndi kuthekera kulikonse, munjira iliyonse kudzikoka;
- Nthawi zambiri, pofuna kuoneka ngati mawonekedwe abwino, amayi-narcissus amagwiritsa ntchito maofesi apulasitiki, opaleshoni ena opangira opaleshoni komanso kugwiritsa ntchito kwambiri zodzikongoletsera zodzikongoletsera.
Ngakhale kuti mayiyo angakhale ndi matenda amtunduwu, zimakhala zovuta kuzizindikira. Zikuwoneka kuti anthu odzozedwa bwino amenewa samawoneka kuti alibe thanzi komanso osafuna zabwino zawo, m'malo mwake, nthawi zambiri amasilira. Atsikana oterowo, monga amuna, Narcissus, sakonda kupereka pawokha, nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi makolo opeza ndalama. Mulimonsemo, anthu ena amatha kudzidalira kwambiri ndipo sizitanthauza konsekonse omwe akudwala.
Chifukwa chake, nkofunika kudziwa kuti ndizosavuta kuzindikira kuti mnzanuyo ndi wovuta, wachibale kapena munthu wachilendo, ngakhale wina wachilendo, ngakhale ngakhale amadziwa zinthu zina zangono.
Kukula kwa maubale ndi daffodil
Makhalidwe ambiri, kuimbanso kukambirana ndi anthu wamba, sikungazindikirepo narcissa nthawi yomweyo. Ndizovuta kwambiri kuwulula izi, kungoyang'ana pa Iye. Anthu omwe ali ndi matenda a matendawa amakhala olimba ndipo nthawi zambiri amabweretsa chidwi poyamba, chifukwa chake ndiabwino kuti mulumikizane nawo. Zili ngati zosatheka kuti zikayikire chilichonse mpaka nthawi.
Gawo loyamba la maubale ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi akudwala matenda a percissism angaoneke ngati "zotsekemera." Ofufuza ambiri amatchedwa "holide" wawo, koma kenako zonse muzu zimasintha ndipo ubale umayamba kukhala wosiyana. Popeza anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la Narciscisstic ali ndi vuto lalikulu la umunthu, nthawi zambiri amakhala osakhutira, ngakhale sakuwonetsa. Koma pamene mnzawo amakhala wotopa nawo, amasiya kubisala, kuwonetsa kuti ndiwo weniweni. Kenako ubale womwe uli mu lingaliro lenileni ungasanduke kukhala choopsa chenicheni.
Palibe ubale wabwino ndi anthu otere - ndizovuta kunena, zonse zimatengera mtundu wa matendawa komanso momwe machitidwewo alire. Koma tikalankhula za matenda ofunikira komanso mwachindunji pankhani ya awiriwo, maubalewa ndi mathero akufa. Ngati akupanga nthawi yina ndipo abweretse chisangalalo, ndiye kuti sadzabweretsa chilichonse chabwino.
Zachidziwikire, mwina pamakhala mitundu iwiriawiri, makamaka ngati "narcisciscies" ingakhalebe ndi chidwi chochiritsa.
Njira Zodziwika Za Ziwawa Zamakhalidwe
Ngakhale kuti machitidwe a Narcissa ndizovuta kuneneratu, akatswiri amawona zokhala ndi njira zina zomwe anthu omwe ali ndi matendawa amagwiritsa ntchito mwaluso. Chifukwa chake, phwandoli likutchulidwa.
- Kukokomeza mavuto aliwonse, kuphatikizidwa kwa zochitika zomwe amakondera.
- Kusafunitsitsa kumvera mnzanuyo, kumvetsetsa momwe akumvera komanso momwe akumvera. Nthawi zambiri "kusinthana ndi chidwi chonse chokha, pomwe wokondedwayo akufotokoza kena kake kofunika komanso mwachangu. Nthawi yomweyo, narcissus amatha kugwiritsa ntchito chipongwe, kusintha modabwitsa mutu wazokambirana.
- Belu lodetsa nkhawa limatha kukhala kuti gawo-la-torcisus lisamutsa mawu a mnzake.
- Komanso anthu omwe ali ndi matenda omwe amadwala amangongokopa iwo omwe amalankhulana osawafotokozera zifukwa zomwe iwo amawafotokozera.
- Ndipo pamapeto pake, amatha kuwonetsa kuzunzidwa mwadzidzidzi, ngakhale pokhudzana ndi okondedwa ndi abale. Nthawi zambiri amatha kupsa mtima, pomwe china chake chasokonekera.
Perevosny Narcisus nthawi zonse amayesetsa kuwononga munthu wina kuti athetse mphamvu zonse. Ndipo zinthu zambiri zofooka, mwatsoka, ndizovuta izi.
Njira zochizira
Matendawa ndi njira zilizonse zochizira ziyenera kusankhidwa ndi akatswiri. Matendawa, monga lamulo, sichimadziwika pachiyambipo cha kupezeka kwake, chifukwa chake zimakhala osachiritsika, chifukwa cha omwe othandizira magawo akhoza kuperekedwa kovuta. Monga lamulo, akatswiri amayamba kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwalawa, kuyesera kuti athetse mtima wodwalayo komanso kukankha kuti adzidzitayire. Magawo abwino kwambiri pakuchiritsa akuwonetsa kuti magawo a psyherapy akuwonetsedwa, osatinso kuchiritsa mankhwala azachipatala. Ndikofunika kusankha omaliza ngati, kuwonjezera pa vuto limodzi, munthu amakhala ndi nkhawa, powopseza kapena phobias ali ndi vuto lililonse, izi zimafuna kusintha kovomerezeka.
Munthawi iliyonse yokhala ndi zovuta zosakanikirana, katswiri amagwiritsa ntchito bata, antidepressants, ena osemphana ndi phytopreations. Komabe, mankhwala azachipatala amangokhalira kusokonezeka kwa mmodzi kapena vuto lina, popanda kunyalanyaza matendawa. Kuti mukwaniritse zotsatira zabwino, mankhwala okwanira kuyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito, zomwe zimaphatikizapo misonkhano yomwe ili ndi psychothepist.
MALANGIZO OTHANDIZA
Inde, njira yabwino kwambiri yopewera mavuto sikuyenera kulumikizana ndi anthu oterowo, chifukwa ndizovuta kuzikana nawo. Kupirira daffodils ngati kuti ikudyetsa mphamvu za omwe amamufuna, zimavuta kuchita nazo. Monga lamulo, ngati munthu-Narcisy mosasamala amatanthauza mkazi wake pamoyo wake ndi zinthu zambiri, monga banja, nkovuta kuchita chilichonse apa. Nthawi zambiri, akatswiri ndi akatswiri azachipembedzo amathetsa mavuto ofananira ndi mikangano yanyumba.
Koma ngati tikulankhula za Narcissa, ndiye kuti sipadzakhalanso chithandizo, kapena anthu adzabereka . Nthawi zina azimayi amasankha kudzichepetsa, koma, amasowa kwa nthawi yayitali. Tiyenera kuzindikira kuti zikachitika kuti wosankhidwa wake amavutika ndi matendawa ndipo ndi wankhanza, ndiye kuti uku si vuto lake. Chifukwa chake zachitika kale. Koma izi si zifukwa zonse zopirira ndikuloleza kuti mudzisenze munjira iliyonse.
Nthawi zina, kuwongolera machitidwe ndi katswiri kumapereka zipatso, koma pokhapokha ngati naripayekha ngati ali ndi chidwi ndi izi, ndipo osati mnzake. Ndizofunikanso kumvetsetsa kuti anthu - Narcissus nthawi zambiri amadwala matenda omwe amawawononga mkati. Ena aiwo amavutika ndi kusungulumwa, chifukwa sangathe kupirira.
Ndi ziti ndi zizindikiro za percississism, onani vidiyo yotsatirayi.