Kuti mulimbitse ubale wake ndikutsimikizira malingaliro anu ndi zolinga zanu, ukwati wa mkazi, banja, pa tsiku lokondwerera tsiku lofunika ili. Ndipo pakati pa okwatirana, osati masiku okumbukira okhawo omwe ndi otchuka. Chifukwa chake, zaka zokumbukira zaka 11 zimalipiranso mwapadera.
Dzina
Mosakayikira, gawo lililonse la moyo, lomwe limakhala limodzi, ndizothandiza kwa amuna, zomwe ndi chifukwa cha mabanja amakondwerera tsiku laukwati chaka chilichonse, osayembekezera kukumbukira. Komabe, sikuti mabanja onse amadziwa momwe amatchedwa tsiku lililonse. Ponena za chikondwerero cha khumi ndi chimodzi cha ukwati wa ukwati, ukwatiwu umatchedwa chitsulo.
Tsikuli ndilofunika kwambiri kwa mwamuna wake ndi mkazi wake, monga banja linalake lidapambana bwino zaka khumi ndipo amalowa munthawi yatsopano ya ubale wake. Ndipo kuti alimbikitse mgwirizano wake, ndikofunikira kukonzekera tsiku lofunikira kuti mumvetsetse miyambo yonse yomwe ilipo.
Chizindikiro cha zaka 11 zokhala limodzi limadziwika kuti ndi chitsulo ngati chitsulo. Ndipo kusankha kwa iwowo sikunali mwangozi, ndipo popepuka za mikhalidwe ya chinthu ichi. Kuyerekezera kwa moyo wabanja ndi zitsulo kumachitika chifukwa cha kukongola ndi kulimba kwa zitsulo, ndipo zitatha zaka 11, malingaliro awo amangokhala okwatirana, amakakamizidwa ndi zolimba.
Chiwerengero cha 11 chomwe chimawonetsa ubale wa ubale, womwe umawonetsa kufanana m'banjamo, komwe 1 ndi 1 ndi zinthu ziwiri zokhazikika komanso zofanana. Ponena za manambala, nambala 11 ndi chizindikiro cha chisamaliro komanso kusinthasintha mu ubale mu banja la muukwati. Mayeso akuluakulu kwa zaka za zaka za zaka 11 zapitatsedwa, ndipo moyo wopuma komanso womasuka umayembekezera kubanja.
Komabe, zitsulo sizachitsulo zachilengedwe, motero imasungunuka, ndipo, pochititsa fanizo laukwati wachitsulo, kufalitsa kumatha. Izi ziyenera kukhala chikumbutso kwa okwatirana kuti maukwati azifunikira ntchito yopitilira kuchokera kwa aliyense mwa okwatirana, omwe angathandize kuti ateteze mphamvu ya mgwirizano.
Miyambo
Monga chikondwerero china chilichonse, chikondwerero cha chikondwerero cha 11 chaukwati chili ndi miyambo ndi zizindikiro. Ndipo kutsatira miyambo yokhazikitsidwa idzathandiza kukhala okwatirana kuyandikira kwa wina ndi mnzake, mwakutero amalimbikitsa ukwati wawo.
Miyambo yayikulu yomwe imakakamizidwa kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi pano Ziphuphu. Ngati ukwati udagwera chilimwe komanso miyezi yotentha, okwatirana amapita kumtsinje kapena wotsalira ndipo adatsuka komanso kusilira. M'nyengo yozizira, ndichikhalidwe choyendera malo osambira kapena saunas. Pambuyo pake, okwatirana amavala zovala zoyera mpweya, zomwe zinali zowonetsera zakukhosi kwawo komanso malingaliro athunthu kwa wina ndi mnzake.
Mu roti yokhudzana ndi chikondwerero cha ukwati wachitsulo, mabanja osenda amatenganso gawo. Wina wochokera kwa achibale ayenera kupatsa mwamuna wake ndi mkazi wake kusankha chinthu chimodzi pazinthu zitatuzi. Kusankha kwa akazi kunapereka mpeni, chingwe kapena mtanda, ndipo chilichonse chimakhala ndi mtengo wake. Chomaliza cholozera kusiyanasiyana pakati pa okwatirana, chingwe chikusonyeza kuti malingaliro sanaperekebe mayeso oyenera kuti athe kupikisana ndi mkazi ndi bambo.
Zomwe Mungalimbikitsire Maganizo Anu, achinyamatawo adalandiridwa kuphika mkate, ndipo chingwe chosankhidwa chidayikidwa pansi pa khonde ndipo lidasinthidwa pakati kuti pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi wake sichinafooketse.
Ponena za mwambowo pa tsiku lino, monga mwa miyambo, ndi chizolowezi kusonkhanitsidwa zosangalatsa ndi makampani akuluakulu patebulo lalikulu. Mkaziyo asadafikeko ndi mkazi wake kwa alendowo, amamupatsa maluwa opangidwa ndi mitundu khumi ndi imodzi, iliyonse yomwe ndi chizindikiro cha chaka chimodzi, chilichonse chomwe ndichachizindikiro cha chaka chimodzi chokhala limodzi.
Boweli loperekedwanso ndi zizindikiro zina - ngati maluwa asungidwa ndipo sanafumbiridwe pakatha masiku 11 kuchokera tsiku la chikondwererochi, zaka zotsalazo zimagwira ntchito nthawi zonse zimayamba kukhala zotukuka komanso zachimwemwe.
Gawo lofunikira pakukondwerera ukwati wachitsulo zimaperekedwa kwa zipinda zabanja. Kudzuka, amuna anga ayenera kuyimitsidwa ndi alonda amphamvu ngati khomo la akavalo. Ndikofunikira kuti itumizidwe ndi nyanga mpaka kumwamba. Mzimayi ayeneranso kutenga nawo mbali pa izi, kuthandiza mwamuna wake kuteteza mtima wokhala ndi vuto lokhala ndi makolo. Mahatchi achitsulo akhala akuwoneka kuti anali ndi chikhulupiriro champhamvu kwambiri chifukwa cha mizimu yoipa, motero zingathandize kuti usalowe mnyumbamo, komanso amachititsanso nsanje ya adani.
Miyambo yomwe yatchulidwa pamwambapa yokondwerera ukwati wachitsulo iyenera kuphatikizapo kufunikira kosintha nyumba pokonzekera chikondwerero. Pankhaniyi, mwamunayo ndi mkaziyo anayesa kutaya zinyalala zakale mnyumbamo, kuchita zinthu zakale, komanso zimapangitsanso chitonthozo komanso kuyeretsa mkati mwa nyumba yawo.
Mphatso
Ponena za mphatso mpaka lero, kugula zinthu zikuluzikulu zanyumba m'nyumba ndi m'banjamo kumakhala mtundu wabwino kwambiri wa mphatso yolumikizana. Ngati zopeza izi zidakonzedwa ndi okwatirana, koma pazifukwa zina zidasinthidwanso, kugula kumeneku kuyenera kupangidwira chikondwerero cha khumi ndi chimodzi. Kapenanso, mutha kulingaliranso za kugula kwa galimoto. Pakati pa zokonda za momwe zidagulira zinthu, ndikofunikira kuwunikira Mtundu wachitsulo monga chizindikiro cha chikondwerero chobwera.
Mphatso yabwino kwa bwenzi lake ku mkazi wake idzakhala zikhomo kapena zitsulo zomangirira kapena chikwama, chopangidwa mu mtundu wa chitsulo ichi. Ma cufflinks a malaya, lanja kapena chiphaso chitha kukhala mtundu wabwino kwambiri wa mphatso yaukwati wachitsulo.
Kutengera ndi zochitika za mwamunayo, mutha kuyimitsa chisankho pa statering stativery kapena ndudu. Magetsi, ma thermos kapena nyali zonyamula zikhala zoyenera patsikuli, malinga ndi kuti mwamunayo asangalale mtsogolo.
Ponena za mphatso ya mkazi wokondedwa, mwamunayo angakondweretse mkazi wake ndi zokongoletsera zachitsulo, kutsanzira mtundu wa chitsulo. M'magazini ino, mitundu ino ikhoza kukhala yosiyanasiyana kwambiri, zonse zimatengera kukoma kwa munthu wokondedwa ndi zachuma. Kapenanso, zikondwerero zachitsulo zimatha kugula mphete, chibangiri, wotchi kapena mphete ya siliva, platinamu kapena golide woyera.
Monga mphatso yothandiza m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, mutha kuganizira zida zazing'ono zanyumba, zida zamagalimoto, mbale, zowonjezera zaupangiri kapena kalirole pachimake. Amuna ena amakonda kupereka mphatso mu ndalama zofanana, ziyenera kuperekedwa pabokosi lachitsulo.
Achibale atayitanidwa kukakondwerera anzawo, abwenzi ndi ogwira ntchito ayeneranso kuganiziranso za mphatso kuti zikhale chikumbutso. Chofunikabe sichimakhala mtundu wa zinthu zomwe ziyenera kufanana ndi chizindikiro cha chikondwererochi. Pankhaniyi, mutha kusankha zinthu zambiri:
- Zipangizo Zanyumba - Steamer, ketulo, makina a khofi, etc.;
- Zakudya zachitsulo zophika mu uvuni;
- Secepan kapena zinthu zina zofunika kukhitchini, mwachitsanzo, whisk kapena kunyamula kuchokera pachitsulo, thireyi ndi zojambula kapena bolodi yodula;
- Zinthu zamkati - nyali, mipata yokongoletsa, zojambula mu chitsulo chachitsulo, mafelemu a zithunzi;
- Khazikitsani kukhazikika pa pikiniki;
- Wotchi yopangidwa ndi chitsulo;
- Mphatso yopanda tanthauzo idzakhala kuyitanidwa kwa mphero yachitsulo paulendowu.
Mphatso yopambana ya okwatirana idzakhala chithunzi pachimake chomata, okhala ndi zithunzi za "kumene" m'masiku osiyanasiyana. Zosungidwa zoterezi zitha kupitiliza ndikudzaza zithunzi zina. Pali mphatso zoyambirira zaukwati wachitsulo, mwachitsanzo, bukuli lakuti limakhala lotetezeka, lomwe limapangidwa ngati kusindikiza kwachilendo, motero amatayika mosavuta pashefu ndi ena onse.
Monga nthabwala, koma ndi lingaliro lina, mutha kupereka nzimbe ndi maambungula achitsulo, zomwe zidzakhala chizindikiro cha kuperewera kwa kuperewera ndi umodzi wa anthu awiri. M'madipatimenti apadera, mphatso zambiri zosangalatsa zaukwati, mwachitsanzo, maswiti okhala ndi dzina "mapiritsi a chisangalalo", etc. Mphatso Zosiyanasiyana.
Kuloza chilichonse ndikofunikira kuphatikiza maluwa. Lonjezo labwino limawerengedwa kuti "zokolola" muukwati wachitsulo zidzakhala ndi maluwa ambiri.
Mitundu yayikulu ya tsiku ino idzakhala chrysanthemums, maluwa kapena gladioli, omwe angabwezeretse bwino kwa nthawi yayitali mu mawonekedwe odulidwa.
Ndikofunika kulabadira kuchuluka kwa mitundu yomwe ili pachimake, iyenera kufanana ndi tsiku lodziwika.
Chifukwa tsiku lokumbukira limakondwerera ndi alendo ambiri oyitanidwa, muyenera kukonzekera zolankhula zabwino pasadakhale. Zosemera zitha kukhala mu mavesi kapena pa ma vesi, abwenzi apamtima amatha kukonzekera kukomoka kwakamwa pa mawonekedwe.
Momwe mungakondwerere chikondwererochi?
Kukula kwabwino kudzakhala kuitanira chikondwerero cha okwatirana, omwe alipo kale chaka chopitilira chimodzi. Ana ndi okakamiza alendo, chifukwa adzakhala chizindikiro cha kupitiriza kwamtunduwu, komanso maulalo omwe amakhala kumangiriza kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Pofuna kuti mwambowu usungidwe osati m'mitima yokha, ndikofunikira kutengera ntchito za wojambula waluso, zomwe zingapangitse zithunzi zamphamvu kapena kuphika zithunzi zingapo malinga ndi zokondweretsa zomwe zidachitika kale.
Kukongoletsa kwakukulu kwa tebulo ndipo, zoona, mbale yayikulu iyenera kukhala keke. Ubwino ndi woyenera kuyitanitsa wamkulu, wokhala ndi tchuthi chamakono. Kekeyo imapanganso fanizo la mgwirizano komanso lokongola la amuna ndi akazi ake kukondwerera chikondwerero cha ukwati. Monga zokongoletsera, ndikofunikira kugwiritsa ntchito ziwonetsero zachikhalidwe za mkwatibwi ndi mkwatibwi, zolembedwazo zikuwonetsa kuchuluka kwa zaka kukhala muukwati. Monga yankho, keke ikhoza kupangidwa, kukongoletsedwa ndi misomali yokhazikika kapena mtedza wachitsulo.
Ponena za bwalo la alendo, tchuthi chimatha kuchitika mu banja lopapatiza lopapatiza komanso okonda kwambiri. Mwa njira yachiwiri, holo yaddzereet nthawi zambiri imabwereka ku malo odyera kapena kukonza chochitika cha dziko. Nthawi zina, okwatirana akamakonda lero kuti azigwirizanitsa limodzi pachimake, mwachitsanzo, popita paulendo kapena kunangoyitanitsa chakudya chodyera.
Lingaliro labwino la chikondwerero chobisika polemekeza chaka cha khumi ndi chimodzi chimatha kuchezera malo oyanjikira, komanso madzulo a kukumbukira okha.
Mabanja ambiri amatsatira malingaliro ake kuti masiku osaiwalika kuyambira tsiku la ukwati ayenera kukondwerera pamodzi kapena ndi ana awo. Chifukwa chake, njira ya tchuthi itha kukhala:
- Tiyi yolumikizana pagulu pafupi ndi banja;
- Kuyenda kapena kusanja chilengedwe pamodzi ndi ana;
- ndege ya baluon;
- Ulendo wapabanja kupita kumzinda wina kapena dziko lina.
Tchuthi chomwe chili ndi chiwerengero chachikulu cha oyitanidwa chikuyenera kukonzedwa mu chitsulo. Pachifukwa ichi, zokongoletsera zachitsulo zimagwiritsidwa ntchito, kukhazikitsa malo ndikofunikira kuti mtundu wa chitsulo. Kuchulukitsa kopambana kotumizira kuchokera ku chitsulo kudzakhala galasi.
Makanema akuluakulu a tchuthi chikhala chosangalatsa komanso chisangalalo, zomera zenizeni komanso chisangalalo, chifukwa okwatirana amapita kutali ndikukonzekera kukhalabe pafupi. Komabe, Tamada salandiridwa pa chikondwerero cha chikondwerero cha 11 chaukwati, nthawi zambiri gulu la mpikisano kapena zosangalatsa zina zimakhulupirira banja kapena bwenzi lanu.
Monga mgwirizano wapadera patchuthi, mutha kukonza zosinthana pakati pa okwatirana ndi mphete zachitsulo pakutsimikizira zakukhosi kwawo ndikulumbira, zomwe zidafotokozedwazo.
Pa chikondwerero cha chikumbutso, mutha kukonza nkhomaliro yachilengedwe mu chilengedwe kapena mdziko, ndi madzulo kukwaniritsa mbiri yaubwenzi ndi zokumbukira zosiyanasiyana za moyo wogwirizana. Mabwenzi apamtima a abale ndi abale angakhale ndi chinthu chimodzi chosangalatsa chomwe akazi amatenga nawo mbali. Ndipo pachimake pamadzulo chitha kukhala mgwirizano wachikondi wa mwamuna ndi mkazi wake.
Kwa chikumbutso chaukwati ndi mayina aukwati wa Jubinev Jubileev, onani vidiyo yotsatirayi.