Zopinga sizimatha, sasankha mfundo ya "nthawi zambiri, ozizira kwambiri," sachotsa. Ngati simunasinthe malingaliro anu achipembedzo, ngati simunakhale osangalala ndi chikhulupiriro ndipo simukhulupirira kuti ali okonzeka kutenga mistam achipembedzo, mwina yosayenera kuvala mtanda. Pokhapokha ngati malingaliro akakhala owona mtima, akudziwa kuti ndiokhota.
Kodi mphatsoyo ivomerezedwa?
Mphatso zachipembedzo nthawi zonse zimawonedwa mozama kuposa mitundu iliyonse kapena zinthu zodula, koma popanda tanthauzo loyera. Ndipo izi zitha kumvedwa: Mphatso yachipembedzo sizachipembedzo chokhudza kukongola ndi chothandiza, zimakhudza kutengapo gawo lachipembedzo komwe mukuyesera kuyandikira pafupi. Kuvala mtanda womwe Mkristu aliyense ayenera kukhala. Ichi ndi chizindikiro cha chikhulupiriro, mwanjira ya kukongola, zomwe zimawonetsa malingaliro a wokhulupirira, kudzipereka kwa chipembedzo chachikhristu.
Malinga ndi miyambo ya amuna omwe amasankhidwa malinga ndi abambo, amapereka chisonyezo chawo cha Mulungu, pamtanda.
Ngati mayi ndi abambo adachitira ndi mtima wonse kholo la Mulungu, ngati ali ndi chidaliro mwa anthu awa, ndiye kuti mphatso imeneyi idzapangidwa ndi moyo, ndi malingaliro ndi zolinga zabwino. Mutha kupereka ma crossbar patsiku lofalikira, koma muyenera kuonetsetsa kuti ali odzipereka.
Chosangalatsa ndichakuti, opembedza Mulungu amathanso kupereka mphatso yotereyi. Mwana akamakula, ndizotheka kusintha chinthu chosavuta chokhazikika, mwachitsanzo, kuchokera pazitsulo zamtengo wapatali. Ndizabwinobwino, zovomerezeka, ndikupeza nthawi yachiwiri yobadwa yobadwa mphatso kapena tchuthi china.
Zizindikiro
Zizindikiro zomwe zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi zopereka sizimaphatikizika nthawi zonse ndi chikhulupiriro chachikhristu. Sikuvomereza zikhulupiriro ndi malingaliro omwe amachokera ku zoyipa kapena kungodziwa bwino. Apanso, zizindikiro zina zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi esoteric, komanso ngati ali okhazikika pa iwo - aliyense.
Pali chiweruziro: Ngati mutenga mtanda kuchokera kwa munthu yemwe ali ndi tsoka loipa - chikhumbo chake chidzakhala gawo lako.
Koma ndikosavuta kutsutsa. Zachidziwikire, ngati wina wachotsa mtanda wake ndikukupatsani, mphatsoyi yokhala nditambasuliratu kwambiri. Ngakhale iwo amene adzatengere aliyense, angaoneke ngati wodetsedwa. Pali zizindikiro zina zodziwika bwino.
- Katundu wazitsulo amapulumutsa mphamvu za anthu, kotero ngakhale munthu amene amangogwira m'manja mwake, amamupatsa gawo la mphamvu zake. Izi ndi zotsutsana. Malinga ndi iye, munthu amene ali ndi mphamvu zoyipa, amangokhudza ndi dzanja lamanja la zitsulo m'sitolo, limakulolani mphamvu zake mwachisawawa, ndipo mwina tsoka. Ngati mumakhulupirira izi, m'chikhulupiriro cha pernoid yanu yambiri, osati nzeru wamba.
- Ngati mwana wowonda agula Baye, Amamupatsa chiyembekezo chake. Ingoganizirani ngati mwakumana ndi nkhani zotere m'moyo. Kumbukirani abambo anu ndikuwunikira ngati magawo anu ndi ofanana. Matembenuzidwe abwera.
Zokwanira kunena kuti atumiki a mpingo amakhudzana ndi tsankho. Pasayenera kukhala mtanda, chizindikiro choyera cha chikhulupiriro, mkangano, zikhulupiriro, zitenga.
Pa tchuthi
Magawo nthawi zambiri amawoneka funsoli ngati mkazi adzapatsidwa kwa mwamuna wake wokondedwa chifukwa chobadwa kwa mtanda. Komabe, ndi zosamveka bwino kwathunthu chifukwa chake amayambitsa mikangano yambiri. Inde, chabwino, ngati mphatso yamtanda imagwera pa tchuthi chachikulu chachipembedzo, koma osati chilichonse chomwe chingagwirizane ndi mtima wonse.
Ngati munthu akhulupirira, koma mtanda wake watayika kapena sanavale kwa nthawi yayitali, mkazi wake amatha kupatsa mtanda ndi mwamuna wake. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuchita izi ndi malingaliro abwino, gulani zopereka zopatulikitsa osayesa katunduyo ndi kukula kwake.
Mtanda wamitundu isafunika kuyikidwa. Ngati simuli m'busa, koma patsiku wamba, simuyenera kuwonetsa mtanda, atavala malaya anu, ma t-shir. Ngati mubweretsa mtanda kuchokera paulendo wina kudutsa m'malo oyera ndikudziwa kuti munthu pafupi ndi inu monga momwe mungafunire kukhala ndi mtanda, udzakhala mphatso yabwino.
Mutha kupereka mtanda wa Khrisimasi chifukwa cha Khrisimasi, perekani mphatso pa Eva ya Isitala ndiyabwino. Mfundo ina yofunika: Sizingatheke chifukwa chofuna kuchokera kwa makolo a Mulungu kuti agule kupatula unyolo. Izi ndizowonjezera: mwana wocheperako alibe chochita.
Kuchokera ku thupi la munthu wina
Zoposa nthawi ina panali milandu yomwe mtanda udachotsa munthuyo ndikudutsa wina. Izi zimafuna kusankhidwa. Mwinanso mumawerenga momwe mitanda imathandizira ana kunkhondo. Mwina adawapulumutsa, mwayi, malingaliro, koma amakana kuti adapereka nkhani yapadera, ndipo zidawathandiza, ndizosatheka.
Ndichifukwa chake, Ngati mwakonzeka kutenga mtanda, womwe uli bwino, payenera kukhala mkangano wabwino kwambiri . Titha kunena kuti muyenera kukhulupilira ndikukhulupirira munthu uyu muyenera kukhala wopanda mangawa.
Nthawi zambiri, yesetsani kuti musachite izi. Ndipo chinthu cholakwika ndi chakuti munthu wina akadakhala wanu. Ngati ndinu munthu woti musinthe, ndiye kuti mudzatchedwa lingaliro loti "munayeseza" tsoka la munthu wina. Chifukwa chake mayanjano osavomerezeka, kukayikira, mantha ndi nkhawa. Chifukwa chake, aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi mtanda, chifukwa mawu akuti "aliyense amanyamula mtanda wake" sakhala mwangozi.
Kodi sakanatengedwa kuchokera kwa ndani?
Zimachitikanso kuti munthu sangakane kulandira mphatso: amanyazi, amawopa kukhumudwitsa.
Koma musachite mantha kuti "ayi" pazomwe muli osasangalatsa.
Nthawi zina, simuyenera kutenga mtanda ngati mphatso.
- Kuchokera kwa munthu wosazindikira. Izi ndizosayenera, ndipo mutha kumuuza kuti mtanda ndi wofunikira kwambiri kwa inu, ndipo simungamuvomereze ngati mphatso.
- Kuchokera kwa munthu wosakhulupirira. Ngati munthu wina pamtanda si kanthu kuposa chowonjezera, ndipo amakupatsirani popanda lonjezo lililonse lachikhristu, musiye mphatso yotere.
- Kuchokera kwa munthu yemwe amachita ndi cholinga chadyera . Mtanda ukhoza kuperekedwa ndi malingaliro abwino, kuchokera mu mtima wangwiro.
Pomaliza, anthu opanda pake okha, osazindikira okha amapereka pamtanda popanda chenjezo lililonse. Mphatso yamtengo wapatali, yapadera, ndipo zopereka zake zizigwirizana nthawi zonse ndi anthu. Izi sizili choncho ngati zodabwitsa zikadzachita zakunja.
Kupita, mwachitsanzo, paulendo wopita ku Yerusalemu, pemphani okondedwa anu kuti adzaukitsidwa. Ndipo ngati mtanda udzakhala mndandanda wa mphatso, mumagula popanda oscillations.
Mutu wa mtundu wa mwalawo suli m'magulu, ndipo poletsedwa kwa nthawi zambiri zovomerezeka ndizotheka. Ngati mukusinthana mitanda ndi bwenzi kuti mukhale abale auzimu (omwe kale anali akuchokera ku Slav), mumatsatira malingaliro anu, chosankha changa. Ngati siziyambitsa kukayikira, palibe chikalata kapena lamulo lomwe lingakulepheretseni kuchita izi.
Chikhulupiriro sichinthu chokhudza zizindikiro, zinthu, malamulo omveka bwino, omwe ndi ochimwa kuti asokere. Mtanda sukupanga iwe Mkristu, koma ulemekezeni nthawi zonse amalemekeza.
Pa malamulo ovala mtanda wa mwiniwake ndi wotchi ya munthu wina mu kanema wotsatira.