Zopatsa Mtsikana? Chithunzi chophika chophika Mphatso ndi manja anu pakubadwa kwa mwana kwa bwenzi kapena wachibale. Kodi mungasankhe chiyani?

Maonekedwe a khandalo m'banja ndi chochitika chomwe chimabweretsa chisangalalo, chimayambitsa chisangalalo chokha pakati pa achibale, komanso pamalo achilendo. Nthawi zambiri, anthu achibale ndi abwenzi amanyalanyazidwa: aliyense akufuna kukuthokozani kwambiri ndi chochitika chosangalatsa chotere. Funso ndi momwe mungathokozere? Mwachitsanzo, ndi chiyani, ngati mtsikana adabadwa m'banja?

Malamulo Osankhidwa

Kodi pali ulemu pankhaniyi, malamulo a malamulo abwino? M'malo mwake, m'malo mwake, omangidwa pamalingaliro a mphatso, mwaulemu, etc. Choyamba, muyenera kusankha ndi mtsikana yemwe mungafune mwana zomwe mungafune Tsogolo. Zosankha zonsezi ndioyenera kulingaliridwa.

Ili patsogolo pa malingaliro enanso enanso. FUNSO: Mwinanso kufunsa mwachindunji makolo anu, kodi mwana amafuna chiyani? Kapena, kodi mukufunikira chiyani za mwana wakhandayo? Mwana wamkazi akabadwa kuchokera kwa munthu wapamtima, funso lotere ndiloyenera komanso lothandiza. Koma, ziyenera kudziwika, nthawi zambiri, ngakhale makolo achichepere amakonda zodabwitsa.

Nthawi yomweyo, imachitika mwanjira: Mwachitsanzo, mumapanga macheza onse kwa onse omwe adayitanidwa kuti adzachezere pa nthawi ya kubadwa kwa mwana ndikunena kuti atenga kale kugula.

Poopa kuti mphatsoyo idzakhala yobwerezedwa, ambiri ndikusankha zomwe angapereke m'tsogolo ndizothandiza. Zida Zonse Zotsatira "Pa nthawi yoyamba" pamafunika miyezi ingapo, mipando yambiri yogwedeza, ma rugs, omwe akupanga ma rug amapita kwa makolo ndi abwenzi.

Chifukwa chake, algorithm zilinso.

• Ngati mwaphunzira za kubadwa kwa mwana pafupi ndi mwana amayi akakhala ndi chipatala cha amayi, zikhala zopanda ntchito kuti zitheke m'thumba laling'ono lokhala ndi zopangidwa ndi moni. Pakadali pano, chizindikiro cha chisamaliro ichi ndikwanira.
• Makolo makolo aja akafuna kufunitsitsa kukuonani mukuyendera, kudziwana ndi Niece mwana wakhanda (Wokongola, wamkazi), ndi nthawi yosangalatsa banja.
• Ngati makolo amvetsetsa za yankho, mulinso ndi zosankha ziwiri kuti muchitenso kanthu. Mutha kugwirizana ndi ena oitanidwa, mugule mphatso yayikulu. Ngati onse pamodzi asankha kuti mphatso yabwino kwambiri ndi ndalama, ndibwino. Kuyendera mipira (yomwe siyidzakhala m'chipinda cha mwana, chabwino), ndi maluwa a amayi ndi envelopu - chinthu chabwino kwambiri.

Funso linanso ndi mtengo wa mphatso. Palibe mapangano onse apadziko lapansi pano. Nthawi zambiri, ngati mupita kwa mlongo wanga, m'bale (abale apamtima), ndalamazo ndizoposa mukamakuthokozani bwenzi.

Mphatso zoyambirira

Kodi simukufuna kupereka china chovomerezeka, chokhazikika? Ayi, musaganize za kubadwa kwa mwana wakhanda. Izi ndi zomwe mphatso zoyambirira zitha kukhala.

• Miyala yamtengo wapatali. Zachidziwikire, izi ndi zomwe zilipo mtsogolo, adakhala woyambirira zaka makumi angapo zapitazi. Nthawi ina inali yachikhalidwe - kupereka chuma chamtengo wapatali chatsopano. Mphepo zazing'ono zagolide kapena mtanda (mwa mgwirizano ndi makolo), pendant siyoposa mphatso yabwino. Mwa njira, ngati amayi a amayi ali pafupi nanu, miyala yamtengo wapatali imatha kumuwonjezera. Mwachitsanzo, kuyimitsidwa pa chibanga kapena unyolo ndi mawu oti "mayi" ndi chizindikiro cha chidwi cha mayi wachichepere.

• Ballet, masewera olimbitsa thupi, racket, etc. Ngati mwana wamkazi adabadwa kuchokera ku ovina kapena osewera, nthawi zambiri okondedwa amayesa kupereka kwa mwana watsopano. Zimakhudza, kuphiphiritsa ndipo nthawi zonse zimapangitsa misozi kuti ife mwa mayi wachichepere. Zachidziwikire, itha kukhala nsapato za msuzi wa solulet kapena racket.

• Kutumiza kwa masiku obadwa. Mutha kukambirana ndi kampani yomwe imapangitsa t-shirts kapena demo, kuti patsiku lina la mwezi uliwonse lidzatumizidwa ku T-Shirt Omwe Amalemba "Ino Ndine Woyamba Kuchita Umodzi ", etc. ndi kotero - mpaka chaka. Ndizosangalatsa, zachilendo, komanso zosavuta kwa mphukira: M'chaka choyamba, khandalo limatenga zithunzi za masiku ake onse akubadwa. Mwa njira, lingaliro la kutumiza pastes kumatha kukhala kosavuta.

Gulani zovala zosiyanasiyana (kuti kusokonekera kwatha chaka), kutenga zokambirana zosindikiza, adzasindikiza. Mutha kuwapulumutsa kudzera muimelo mwina mothandizidwa ndi opita.

• Satifiketi ya Photo Yatsopano ya Newborne . Masiku ano pali ojambula omwe mwapadera ndi gawo la zithunzi ndi akhanda. Amachotsa ana omwe sanasinthe masiku 28, pomwe zithunzizo zikukhudza kwambiri.

Kumbukirani kuti kuthekera kwa mphatso si mtengo waukulu wa mtengo wake. Mutha kuyang'ana chidwi ndi malingaliro. Ndiwofunika kwambiri, nthawi yayitali yopita, yomwe imadziwika kuti ingafotokozere, zindikirani zokhala ndi mphatso zosayembekezeka komanso zosayembekezereka.

Mphatso zothandiza

Si makolo onse achichepere omwe adakonzedwa kuti ali ndi mphatso zophiphiritsa: Wina amafuna zothandiza kwambiri. Palibe cholakwika ndi izi. Chinthu chodziwikiratu ndi bokosi la mphatso. Ili ndi bokosi lalikulu (Basket, Chithunzi), momwe mumaonjezera zonse zomwe mukufuna pakali pano: mabotolo a ana, plathi yakale, ndi malingaliro abwino - kukweza zonsezi pakusamba , nsanja nthiti ndi kupereka. Kodi mungapereke chiyani:

• chomangira - Chinthucho ndichofunikira, chamafashoni, chothandiza ngati amayi akonzedwa kuti azitha kuyitanitsa;
• Zakudya za Ana - Mu theka la chaka amafunikira mwana, matumba okhala ndi makapu oyamwa, komanso ziyembekezo zidzafananso;
• chosema - Popanda iwo ndizovuta kulingalira za kukula kwa mwana wamakono, chitukuko "chofunikira;
• malaya -Ndiko sikofunikira kuchita izi, koma monga momwe mungakhalire pachifuwa, pali nyumba, milu, kudumpha, zipewa, zipewa, zipewa;
• zitsamba - Ngakhale makolo atachisamalira kale, sipadzakhalanso kanthu;
• Mayz - Kopanda pake, sankhani mtundu wosavuta;
• Ma ekito - Koma ndikofunikira kuvomerezedwa chifukwa cha zosowa zawo ndi makolo (musangogula oyenda ndi jumpers popanda malingaliro a makolo okhudzana ndi makolo awo).

Zothandiza kwambiri, ndizothandiza kwambiri kwa amayi amatha kukhala osakhazikika. Khalidwe lazithunzi pamagudumu, limagwiritsidwa ntchito pokhapokha ngati khandalo laphunzira kukhala. Mukufuna kaleka kwa theka chabe pachaka, koma ngati amayi osavuta, pititsani bedi ili pa mawilo pawokha mozungulira nyumbayo, kupirira pa khonde, etc.

Mphatso Yothandiza Adzakhala Radioni, ndi chipangizo chothira mabotolo, ndi autoo . Ngati makolo achichepere sanapezeke inchi yodyetsa Apatseni iwo - mphatsoyo idzafunikira kwenikweni ndipo ikufuna nthawi yayitali. Mwa mphatso zothandiza ndipo Wozungulira woyamba kusambira, ndipo malo opanda chinyezi mu crib, ndi akuluakulu a diacki.

Kodi chingachitike ndi chiyani ndi manja anu?

Ngati mukuganiza kuti makolo achichepere angayamikire mphatso yakunyumba, ndi yangwiro - chinthu chabwino kwambiri chidzakhalabe, kupangitsa mayanjano abwino. Kodi chingachitike ndi chiyani ndi manja anu?

• Cask "Mamina Chuma" . Ili ndi bokosi la Redy, pomwe amayi azisunga chipatala chochokera ku chipatala cha Maylars, Tsitsi loyamba, dzino loyamba, masokosi, ma scrapbook, etc. Chosiyananso, chimodzi mwazomwe mungafune - Shebbi Chic.

• Album "ine Rasta". Ndizovuta kwambiri kuzipanga, koma ngati mukugwira ntchito bwino mu stofic komanso zikwangwani, mutha kuganizira za madera, ndipo ma tragogy a Tragraphy adzakusindikizani nyimbo.

• Keke kuchokera ku diacki . Zodziwika bwino za mtundu, inde, zitha kulumikizana naye.

• Nsalu zagona . Dziwani Kusoka, Lamulani nsalu yokhala ndi mawonekedwe okoma ndi zitsanzo kuchokera pa intaneti, zida loyamba la bedi la atsikana. Pangani chidole mkati mwa bonasi wosangalatsa.

• Kutsekedwa . Ndipo ngati mukulumikizana, ndiye kuti intaneti yomweyo iperekere nyanja ya mapiritsi odabwitsa a ana - ndizofunikira kuyenda.

• Kujambula . Ngati ndinu olimba pa chithunzi, pemphani makolo achichepere kupanga gawo loyamba ndi mwana. Kenako kusindikiza bwino zithunzi, kuyikapo envelopu yokongola yosangalatsa ndikupatsa mwana woyamba kubadwa (kapena tsiku lina).

• Zipewa zoluka. Masiku ano, zipewa zokhudzana ndi mawonekedwe a "gnome" yaying'ono ndi yotchuka kwambiri. Ngati mukuwoneka, ndiye yikani mtundu wosavuta. Kupanga zipewa zingapo - 4-5, mitundu yosiyanasiyana.

• Mikanda ya pacifier. Komanso chinthu chofunikira: ngati dummy atayika, ndi sewero la banja lonse. Mikanda imathandiza mwana kuti azisunga nanu.

Koma choyamba, dzindikirani nokha njira yoteteza - yomwe mikanda yotere imayenera kuchita kuti mwana asavulazidwe.

• Chikwama choyenda. Mutha kupanga chikwama kapena chikwama cha amayi anu, pomwe chilichonse chitha kukhala chete, kuti ngakhale mukungobwera.

• Octupive otunga. Mphatso ndiyofunikira kwa makolo amene anathamanga ndi kubereka. Ndipo mphatso yotere yomwe mungakhaleko, osadikirira kuyitanidwa kuti mukacheze (mwana akadali kuchipatala, nthawi zambiri madokotala amafunsa kuti abweretse zoseweretsa zapamwamba kwambiri). Zowawa zoterezi zimathandiza mwana, chilichonse chomwe chidzagona pansi (chomwe chimakhala chowopsa chosakhalitsa).

Chinthu chachikulu ndikuzindikira kuti mavuto onsewa ndi mphatso zatsopano ndi zokoma kwambiri, kukhudza, ndikofunikira . Musaiwale kuleka mayi wachichepere, onetsetsani kuti amamupatsa maluwa, ndikuthandizira, ndikusangalala, komanso amasamalira mawonekedwe osavuta.

Momwe mungapangire keke kuchokera diacki, imauza vidiyo yotsatirayi.