Family life fills our daily warmth of close people, different concerns, moments of happiness and many more interesting things. Time flies unnoticed. Only a ten-year anniversary was celebrated, then twenty years, did not have time to blink, and not a round on the nose, but no less important date - 21 years from the day of the wedding. With this date, a large number of interesting facts and traditions is connected.
Date feature and her symbol
It is a marriage for 21 years - a lot of work, because during this time the married couple is experiencing many as excellent moments and not bringing special joy. It is opal, being a solid natural material, has become a symbol of this date. Primary this stone carries a negative energy that is able to bring a detachment in family relationships. However, in appropriate conditions, it can become a fastening component in the family, make spouses more condescending to each other so that in quarrels to be able to quickly come to a compromise.
Most often, after the twenty-year-old anniversary of a shared life, which is customary to celebrate the magnificent and loud, the opal wedding prefer to celebrate in a close family circle with the most close relatives and friends. At the same time they love something small, but memorable.
Historical reference
Almost everyone wonder about why it was opal became a symbol of this anniversary, because he does not like a person by nature. In accordance with the beliefs, he brings only hands and trouble. But in family life, he carries quite another - the hardness of intentions, the transparency of thoughts, empathy. That is what happens in the family of people who together for 21 years: the spouses are hard in their relationship, do not hide anything from each other and in difficult moments in every way support each other.
In the beliefs it was said that, only falling into the hands of people who sincerely love each other, this mineral changes his negative focus on the opposite. In principle, it may also occur in life: a relationship either will be even stronger, or they will completely come to no. It is said that it is for the course of 21 days there is a conventional stone into a precious. The same thing happens with love, which in 21 years from love turns into a strong family relationship.
Customs and traditions
With this date, there are many interesting traditions. "Newlyweds," celebrating twenty-one year of living together, should be purchased by this gem. On the day of the celebration, the white color scarf should wipe, which should be hushed into vegetable oil: It blends all negative energy from stone. It is believed that each of the spouses should acquire a feet that he wanted despite the cost. Even if the purchase is very expensive (jewelry, car), it will become a symbol of strong relationships in everyday life.
On the festive day, the husband and wife should write assurances of devotion to each other in the future. This is something like the updates of the oaths that are pronounced newlyweds at the conclusion of marriage. If the warranties were set forth in orally, you should invite at least one witness.
In order for happiness to do not leave the house, you need to wear something with Opal over the day (earrings, ring, suspension) or in your clothes pocket to put a small fragment of the stone.
How to spend this day?
Twenty-one wedding comes after a bright porcelain jubilee, which takes a lot of friends and relatives to collect. Opal wedding - a good reason to spend time with your second half.
- Restaurant or cafe. This option is the most popular, but not as interesting as the rest. However, any woman at least occasionally wants to "walk" their most beautiful outfits and high-heeled shoes, which cannot be worn every day. Why not do it in such a significant day as the 21th anniversary.
- Joint training. Today, the so-called paired master classes are gaining their popularity at a rapid pace, on whom lovers or simply friends can create something interesting together (it all depends on the orientation). It may be to create any craft, preparation of a delicious dish or just a dance master class. In any case, only positive memories will remain from such a pastime.
- Homemade comfort. Since most of the family time is held in the same four walls, many simply do not consider this option to spend a holiday. And in vain, because a quiet family evening can be supplemented with appetizing dishes and delicious drinks, as well as pleasant music and soft light aromasuals, after which you can reconsider the home video archive or just enjoy watching a good movie.
- A small trip. One of the most interesting gift options as a husband's wife and the opposite is a journey. If the financial side allows, it can be a vacation for two abroad, a tour of Europe or simply departure to the cottage. Whatever it was, such a gift will remember for a long time. The main thing is to prepare in advance: buy tickets, take the weekend at work.
- Walk to nature. If the street is not minus 25, then this option is no less interesting among the others, and most importantly - it is budget. Spouses can go to the nature of the kebab, and just go to the park and admire the surrounding nature, taking a basket with food and covered.
- Theatre. In an endless everyday bustle, people rarely think about their spiritual enrichment. Therefore, such an event, as the wedding anniversary, is a great reason to visit the cultural event, and even together. Depending on preference, this can be like a visit to theatrical performance and opera, ballet. Under any circumstances, you need to get acquainted in advance with the repertoire and purchase tickets.
What is the present gift to choose?
Such a significant event, as a platoon wedding, in any case will not cost no gifts. And most often the presentation of the presentation is not limited to the spouses that congratulate each other. Everyone is perfectly understood that children, as well as families of families, will not be able to ignore such an event.
For children, such an event, as the anniversary of the wedding of the parents, is no less important than for themselves. Everyone I want to present my native not just a bauble, but a truly memorable thing. For example, you can:
- make a collage of family photos in chronological order, starting with joint photos of parents, where they are still very young;
- recreate the moment of parents entry into marriage with the help of a script that you can both develop yourself and find ready-made online;
- To make a dinner for two in a cozy restaurant, ordering a table in advance and paying it, you can also order musicians to order, which will only build an evening.
For those who are not a commitment of creative gifts, you can consider simpler options that are suitable not only to children, but also families of families:
- Decoration with opal for each of the spouses: steam rings, earrings - for spouses, cufflinks - for a spouse;
- Tickets for any cultural event: ballet or opera performance, concert of symphonic music, exhibition;
- filled with family pictures photo album;
- a bottle of weathered wine;
- A set of dear bed linen;
- anything from electrical engineering;
- A set of high quality dishes.
Husband wife can present:
- Jewelry with precious stone, in this case with opal;
- chic bouquet of flowers;
- Handmade chocolate products;
- Certificate of SPA;
- hike in a restaurant;
- The set associated with the passion of the spouse.
Wife husband can give:
- Cufflinks with opal inserts;
- The set associated with the hobby of the beloved;
- a good set of tools;
- brazier;
- Any sports equipment.
In any case, whatever the gift is chosen, the main thing on this day is to pay attention to each other. It will be held this day in nature, in a restaurant or in a family circle - it does not matter, the main thing is unforgettable memories that will remain with spouses throughout their family life.
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