To live 10 years in marriage - is it a lot or a little? In fact, this is the first big anniversary of living together, but, on the other hand, ahead of the big way of spouses. Let's talk about what is customary to give the 10th anniversary of the marriage to emphasize the features of the Union.
What is the name of the anniversary?
Ten years of wedding is one of the "round" dates in the life of spouses. This anniversary is called "tin", in some sources it is called "pink". Each of these names has a symbolic explanation.
A ten-year marriage is a relationship, where the spouses were pretty flexible and tolerant. In relation to each other, learned to make compromises. Tin has similar properties - this is a dusting and plastic material, which, however, is not afraid of fire.
However, a 10-year-old family is a relatively young union, where romance reigns, tenderness. Roses are associated with this, pink shade.
Ideas of original gifts spouses
Surprises of spouses usually begin in the morning. As a rule, a man congratulates the first, presenting a bouquet of roses in the morning. In Russian tradition, it is not customary to give an even number of colors, so the bouquet consists of 11 roses. Ten of them symbolize the happily lived 10 years of marriage, and one - the hope of a bright collaborative future. Shades of colors - pink, red. The first symbolize tenderness, admiration, romance of relationships, the second is a passionate and deep feeling, respect.
Another traditional gift of spouses to each other is the sharing of tin rings. On the day of the anniversary, they can be put in place instead of familiar wraps, and then store as a souvenir. Typically, such rings have engraving, carrying a special meaning for spouses. They can be exchanged both in the morning, being alone and the guest, for example, on a solemn dinner.
In the latter case, you can beat this moment beautifully, uttering an oath or recognition to each other in a symbolic place accompanied by music, which is of particular importance for both spouses.
Another tradition on this day is associated with tin spoons. It is believed that if we carry them on the day of anniversary in your pocket, it will bring success and good. For the night, cutlery are put under the pillow, and the next morning is removed into the box where the family amulet is caught. On another version, a spoon should be alone. All day she is brideged in a bad pocket, in the fact that near the heart. At night, she "moves" under the pillow to the spouse.
However, one of the most expensive and important gifts is special attention and tenderness. who give spouses to each other on this day. If you understand that there have been everyday problems recently, and life has become ordinary, there is a reason to arrange a romantic date. You can invite guests the day after the anniversary, and if it falls on a weekday, then in the weekend.
Dedote the holiday to each other - choose a restaurant or countryside, repeat the most romantic date, which only was for 10 years of your life in marriage or a trunk period.
Another option is to arrange a surprise one of the spouses. It can be a home evening in the spirit of spas care, the eastern night or a fascinating quest in the "combat" places of glory - the place where they met, the streets where they walked, and so on. It is necessary to repel on the nature of your "halves", his lifestyle, hobbies.
You can embody the wedding day, and this will be a surprise for the second "newlywed". Sign up for a festive ceremony in the registry office (you can agree with its employees), or organize the exit registration, where they say an oath in love. You need to take care of many ways - to invite guests in advance, order tin rings, consider car walk route, hire a photographer, book a restaurant.
If you make a similar surprise for a spouse, remember that on this day she wants to look especially good. Write down in advance (and pay) Her visit to the makeup artist and cosmetologist, get the dress (then it will turn out a real surprise) or give a certificate to the clothing store (do not forget to supply my wife with tipping prompts about what style should be her outfit, but open about the preparing surprise is not Speak).
Apotheosis of this day-surprise will be a presented gift - a holiday ticket. Bold and eccentric can even collect suitcases in advance for themselves and their half and go to the airport immediately from the banquet.
Female
Excellent gift for most women - jewelry. Earrings, pendant, ring with pink stone - this is the symbolic present that will delight the spouse. You can add a casket for jewels from tin or upholstered from the inside with pink velvet to this gift.
"Women's" gifts can be called cosmetics, perfumery, beautiful underwear. If you are afraid not to guess with dimensions, smells and brands, it is more logical to give certificates to these stores. Do not forget about the beautiful design of the gift - certificates are better to invest in gift envelopes or pink packages.
"Modern" gift is a technique, such as a new phone or accessories to it. Today, there are smartphones with pink enclosures, and find for your phone in the same shade - not a problem. However, in pursuit of the symbolism of the offer, do not forget about the taste preferences of the spouses, the features of the technique itself. In other words, the shade of the phone is a completely unmarked selection criterion. As we said, to beat a "pink" wedding can be made of a gift in the appropriate style.
The pink wedding is the ability to refresh relationships, fill them with romance and tenderness, so a frying pan and pans are not the best choice as a gift for a spouse. Even if she is fond of cooking and herself is not averse to get a hood kitchen gadget. Leave such a present for another, more prosaic occasion or present simply so, completely without it.
Male
A gift to my husband can also be purchased in a jewelry store - a ring, cufflinks, the chain will make most male representatives no less than a woman ring or earrings. It is believed that it is impossible to give watches, but expensive and stylish wrist options are one of the most desirable presents.
If your spouse smokes, you can present a tin ashtray or cigarette. Another option is a flask for alcohol. Do not forget that such presents do not bring "empty." They should be accompanied by high-quality cigarettes or cigars, brandy or wine.
Almost all men in the soul are children, so presented controlled helicopters, cars and yachts will be delighted. It will be interesting if you can pick up a toy typewriter of the same brand or shade as the four-wheeled friend of your husband. Similar option - collectible machine.
To emphasize the masculinity and the strength of the spirit of his chosen one will help presented weapons, for example. Set of knives or dagger. It is not necessary that the spouse is fond of hunting or hikes, because such presents can simply become his pride, replenish the collection or decorate the interior.
Intellectual can be given a set of chess with tin figures, and a serious business person - a folder or a purse of genuine leather. Most men approve a beautiful shirt, leather belt.
Various gadgets are another version of the present for the spouse. Telephone, laptop, devices for the car, if you do not understand - certificate in the appropriate store.
How to congratulate friends?
To friends who invited you to a tin wedding, you can also give gifts associated with this material or roses, a pink tint. Do not forget that they should be designed immediately for both newlyweds, ideally, they must use the present together.
In the first case, the gift can be a tin vase, a frame for photo from tin or stylized under it, a mirror in tin frame, cutlery.
Gifts close to pink theme, of course, find easier. For families, such presents are always relevant, such as table or bed linen, a set of towels, a pair of bathrobes. They may have a pink shade (remember that it can be different in saturation - more gentle, to pink - for a woman close to peach, powder - for a man) or a floral ornament.
However, even if a gift cannot be attributed to pink-tin topics, it is easy to fix it. It is enough to pack it into a pink packaging box or appreciate to the main one for a couple of tin spoons. Now you can even find spoons with names.
Useful gifts include small household appliances - a food processor, an electric kettle, an iron, a coffee maker, as well as the sets of a saucepan, pan. Such gifts please most spouses, because they are always necessary in the economy. If you acquire something from household appliances, make sure that the "newlyweds" did not make a similar gift for itself quite recently.
The output from the situation can be a present in the form of a certificate in a household appliances store, dishes, home textiles. In this case, that the gift looked solid and turned out to be, indeed, useful, his amount should not be too small. It is assumed that "young" will be able to buy useful things without adding personal funds to the certificate. Often, gift cards become a collective gift.
A highly symbolic gift can be a lamp or sconce with a pink lamp. It is associated with a home comfort and a lot of contributes to making a special family atmosphere to the interior.
The lamp with lampsure can be replaced with a lamp of rose quartz. It will help to get rid of the room from viruses and bacteria, and when working is radiating a warm pink shade. In addition, thanks to the characteristics of the material, it looks very authentic.
A symbolic and cute gift will be a tin bell at the front door. It can carry both decorative and practical function. Finish the gift of undercover, which you need to hang "horns" down.
Now people are photographing a lot, but rarely print photos. Close friends and relatives can fix it, giving "young" their photos of different years. Make it will not be difficult if you often spend time with the "newlyweds", together relax, or they lead pages in social networks. It is enough to think about the theme or design of the album, pick up photos, print and place them in the album.
You can make the last in the spirit of "Love Stori" the perpetrators of the celebration, or take motifs from a beautiful book or film of the bride and groom. By the way, as a supplement, you can prevent these the most book or film, as well as tickets to the theater or cinema based on this story.
A pleasant gift will be a campaign certificate in a restaurant, a concert tickets or a theater. You will show yourself with real friends, if you also offer newlyweds to sit with their children, while they enjoy a concert or communication in the restaurant.
A rose bouquet of the appropriate shade can also be a symbolic addition to a gift. You can stop the choice on pot roses, if the owners of the house have the opportunity and the desire to care for him. However, remember that according to the etiquette rules, you can present flowers in pots only the ladies with which you are in fairly close relationships. If the bride is your close friend or relative, then boldly acquire roses in the pots, if a colleague or familiar, better limit to the traditional bouquet.
Do not seek to buy a luxurious and bulk composition of colors. It is believed that roses on this day the bride "will present" the spouse, so the rest of the pink bouquets in no way should eclipte his compositions. If the holiday passes in a cafe or restaurant, it is better to restrict ourselves to the composition in a basket or equipped with a special portboot, in which the flowers can not be put into the water, of course, the flowers at too high legs will also be inappropriate. If you put them on the table, they will interfere with communicating guests.
To the table, if the holiday is celebrated at home, you can bring a cake, sweets. Let the first have a symbolic design, for example, decorated with alive or oil, marshmallow roses. Instead of a cake, you can bring pink (from rose petals) jam or wine. They are easy to find in the appropriate stores, but there are few people who tried such delicacies. Both treats have a gentle taste and pleasant ease.
When choosing a gift, there should always be taken into account the tastes and lifestyle "newlyweds". Often in various sources among the recommended gifts you can find tin figurines. Of course, this is a good and symbolic present, but he will delight only collectors and lovers of such things. For most modern people, such statuettes are no more than "dust collectors". Similar in most cases can be said about the boxes.
Surprises for parents
Children should think about gifts that are emphasized and love and respect for parents celebrating a 10-year-old wedding. If, by virtue of age, it is still difficult for them to organize congratulations, then grandparents should help the guys in this matter.
Perhaps the most pleasant and memorable for "newlyweds" will be a gift made by their own hands. You can organize the day of surprises, which will begin in the morning. Inflate a lot of balls (beautifully, if they are filled with helium), draw a big poster postcard, buy paper garlands - congratulations or make them with your own hands.
For mom you should cook a bouquet, for both parents - a festive breakfast. Under the leadership of grandmother or other close relatives, you can bake a festive cake or cake. And let him be far from confectionery masterpieces, it is this cake that parents will be eaten with great pleasure.
The tin cutlery cannot be called too expensive, if you wish, you can even accumulate for children for 10-12 years. As a last resort, adult relatives can finance a gift. The guys can choose not a complete set of devices, but to limit all the same tin spoons with the names of the parents or purchase such nominal spoons for all family members.
If you know the story of parents dating, you can make small stages about it, and in general, "highlight" the most significant milestones of their family life.
The day of surprises can be done even more pleasant if you take most of the parent workers to yourself - to get into the house on the eve, wash the dishes all day, walk the dog.
About how to note and what to give to a pink wedding, see the next video.