The sense of humor can be called a good gift of fate, since not every person from nature has such quality. And many very much I would like to learn to joke. After all, a person with a sense of humor is always in the center of attention, it is easy for him to find contact with others, to achieve the sympathy of the opposite sex. But if there is a big desire to become a humorist, at least for your loved ones and friends, you need to learn more, how to develop a sense of humor and learn to joke.
Fundamental rules
Immediately it is worth noting that to learn how funny joke in one day will not work. This is a long work requiring an integrated approach. To develop a sense of humor, you need to change the attitude towards yourself and the world around you, first of all increase your self-esteem. It will take time, patience, training. Consider the items that should include change.
- If you are a sociable person, already good. Otherwise, you need to start developing the ability to communicate with people. Without it in any way. You need to learn how to ask questions, support a dialogue, do not be afraid to join the conversation, do not avoid companies. You should listen to the moods of others, to understand them, to react correctly and try to determine how others treat you - whether it is nice to communicate or maybe not very much. All these nuances are extremely important. Gradually succeeds in improving their communicative qualities.
- Each joke is not just foolish words released into space. It must necessarily mean. You can joke and need to have different topics, while all sayings should be appropriate, only then humor will be organic and find a response from the interlocutors. For this you need to be an erudite person. So, it is necessary to read a lot (it will contribute to the expansion of the vocabulary), visit the theater, exhibitions and other cultural events, communicate with interesting people.
- The one who wants to combat the sounds surrounding with his jokes must first be able to laugh at himself. Stories about funny situations from personal experience are always perceived positively, this is a sure way to place an interlocutor to yourself and conquer the attention of the whole company. If you are a jewelful person, not like to expose the appearance of his feelings and emotions, it will be dealt with. This psychological barrier will have to overcome.
- You need to be able to see the face between a funny and stupid joke. It happens that the joke can sound no time to offend someone or pour out. You need to be able to feel the moment when you can joke, and when it is not worth doing this. In addition, the mood of people should be captured, listen to intuition. Jokes jokes, but no one has canceled the tact and worthy behavior. It is enough to joke enough several times so that later in the company of such a person perceived as not able to behave adequately.
- To get some experience, you need to look more high-quality comedy show of a different plan - on television channels, on the Internet, read books, watch comedies. All this will definitely benefit. This will allow you to learn how to understand where a good humor, and where is not very.
- To let the humor in your life, you need to be positive, in any situation to find positive moments. And even on trouble looking through the prism of humor. You need to smile more often and be able to distract from problems. Of course, it will not immediately work immediately, but over time, with permanent training, the process will definitely go more successfully.
- There is another important point - you should not imitate anyone and copy anyone. Value is to be individuality, to work out your own style. But this does not mean that at first, and even after, someone's jokes cannot be retelling. Sure. Just need to try to do it really ridiculous and not to announce yourself by the author of someone else's story.
- Never despair at the first failures. If you think the joke is ridiculous, but no one laughs, it does not mean that your humor is not suitable anywhere.
Perhaps today your friends have no way or you are in the company where people have a feeling of humor. After all, it is all different.
What is a joke about?
The joke is not just a set of words. There are people who are engaged in writing funny monologues, and every time it is born just a fireworks of jokes. But it is talent and a certain experience. To begin with, it should be understood that the joke is also very small, but the literary work. Therefore, it also has a tie, the development of the plot and the omission, although it happens all very quickly. But the most important thing in the joke is an unexpected turn. From this and it happens ridiculous. The joke can be divided into such components:
- zinc, code is a description of the situation;
- The so-called trap, which forces the listener to prepare for a certain development of events;
- Surprise is a sudden turn with an unexpected ending, which no one could even think about.
The meaning is that it seems to be a standard situation with which anyone in life may face, has a completely non-standard junction, to which no one is ready and does not expect such a hear. Accordingly, it causes a reaction in the form of laughter.
Receivers
Wit - valuable quality in everyday life. In any situation, you can answer a sparkling joke, smooth the conflict, discharge the tense situation. But not everyone is given to have such a talent, and therefore some will have to start from scratch, studying cool to answer any attacks, be able to keep themselves in society, to be fun and cause interest in adults and in children.You need to find your own style and do exercises every day, study examples of other people's jokes, invent funny phrases. Only so it will be possible to work out your own sense of humor and gain self-confidence. The development of its abilities is to start with the consideration of the receptions that exist when creating jokes.
False opposition
The principle of such a construction of the joke is that the end of the joke does not fully correspond to the beginning, but this is precisely this is a strengthening. As an example, here you can bring such a phrase from the work of Ch. Dickens: "She had a yellow-pale color, which compensated for a bright blush on the nose." Such a description gives the author of the girl, and everything would be fine if the pale color compensated for the blush on the cheeks, but the nose unexpectedly arises, and it is already funny.
False amplification
In this case, everything is built on the fact that the end is a confirmation of the beginning, but this is at first glance. In fact, further follows the refutation. As an example, you can consider the case when Heine shared his opinion about one friend, comparing the lady with Venus Milos, but at the same time she noticed that she was the same old and toothless. Thus, due to such an end, the meaning of this phrase is given completely different.Contact absurd
The name speaks for itself. Any statement can be brought to the absurd. The main thing is to answer cool and topic. For example, a person expressed a thought, one can pretend to agree with him, but then turn it over it so that the meaning will be reverse. In such a reception, various options for expressive means, exaggeration or understatement are often used. Well, for example, it is absurd to sound the comparison: "Light, like at night."
You can train in the process of communication every day.
Unexpected comparisons
This technique is very simple. You can choose absolutely any words and compare them with objects that are not at all expected in this case. You can, for example, say, the hands are cold, like frozen dumplings, or imagination is developed, like a tree. So it turns out different items and phenomena, you can come up with something really funny.
Reliable
In this case, you need to use mutually exclusive concepts that no logic will connect together. An example is such a sentence: "In some kingdom, some state, there was a dead princess." Or you can use the word in one value, and then in the other: "One scientist said that the Earth is not a round, it is black and dirty."Style mixing
This technique involves combining an important with secondary, high with everyday. Use appropriate in any situations in the circle of friends. As an example, the "Harch Gods" expression can be brought.
Hint
The meaning is that not directly express your attitude towards the situation, but with the help of other words, but so that it is clear. You can consider this situation. Two people are sitting at the table, suddenly one of them puts on the foot table. Another can say on it: "Feel free to put all four legs on the table", thus hinting at the similarity of a person with a man and a painline animal.
Double interpretation of the word.
This method is based on the use of homonyms. One word may have several values. For example, Spit is a hairstyle and a labor tool, a handle is a subject for writing, door fittings and a diminutive form of the word "hand". And there are a lot of such words in Russian.Irony
We use such jokes quite often. So, you can call a stupid act called smart, a cowardly person called bold, dirty - clean. Based on this principle, it is easy to compose jokes.
Comparison by random sign
Such a comparison occurs between objects that are not interconnected in any way or are associated very remotely. For example, how can I associate the law and post. It seems to be common. But even then, it is impossible to cross, but you can get around.Paradox
It is important to collect together conflicting things and do it so that it was funny. For example, we can say that the hardest in the world is lying on the sofa and idle. And paradoxically, and funny. Whatever the method for a joke is chosen, should always be remembered that humor should be to the place. Not everyone perceive, for example, black humor.
In addition, it is worth understanding that sometimes to make fun of the shortcomings of people or situations may be inappropriate. You need to try this thin face to catch.
Exercises
To learn how to joke, you need to train your sense of humor, even if it is not too much. You can pump any famous joke or simply to return the friend who is upset by something, good location of the Spirit. Try to please the woman, raise the mood to colleagues - this is all the good training, which will help increase the chances of success. To begin with, it is recommended to use some exercises.
- You need to come up with as many words as possible on one letter, and then from these words to draw up proposals. Such an exercise expands the vocabulary (and this is very important), it allows you to think flexible thinking every day. For example, took the letter "B". Invented words: fork, wizard, stuck, took, collar, culprit. You can make a proposal: "The wizard took the plug, stuck in the collar the culprit."
- In a short period of time you need to pick up as many associations as possible. The more unusual and brighter they will, the better. In addition, you can come up with such words that, on the contrary, can not be associated with these concepts. All this is perfectly trains associative thinking. For example, we take the word "summer". What are the associations? Sea, sun, seagulls, flowers, warmth, vacation, rest. And what can not be completely associated with the summer? Sadness, cold, skates, ice, boredom.
- We are looking for words that have several meanings. We try to do it quickly and invent as much words as possible. For example, the key is a door, a wrench, the key in the value of the stream, the key in the value of the "Ripping".
- Find any item, for example, a jar, come up with ten ways to use it.
- Recall the two subjects that are not connected with each other. Try to find these similarities.
- Review the humorous transfer, try to classify all jokes: paradox, irony, hint and so on.
- Open any log or newspaper, come up with all photos your signatures.
All these exercises will help work out the speed of the reaction, develop a sense of logic, make thinking flexible. This is what is necessary to develop a sense of humor and learn how funny and brightly joke.
