Psychology determines the two main human psychotype: introvert and extrovert. After conducting various surveys, observations and experiments, the view has developed that most of the population of our planet is an extrovert.
But in this article we are not talking about them, on the contrary, we will talk about introverts, we will deal with those who are Men-introverts. We will learn to recognize them, we will study the character, behavior, we will understand what approach to them to choose, and be sure to learn what they are in love.
General
First, it is necessary to determine who is an introvert, from the point of view of psychology. This is a person who is focused on its inner world and is completely shipped into it. For introvert, their thoughts and experiences are important, they rarely come out of the comfort zone, trust people little and prefer proud loneliness.
The introvert has the following features of character:
- All its actions thinks in detail;
- Communication rarely is spontaneous, most likely, he pursues a certain goal, so the conversation with him may seem intense;
- does not need constant communication;
- An unpleasant situation leaves a huge trail on an emotional state and for a long time he does not let his thoughts;
- Fantasy is pretty well developed;
- very purposeful personality;
- always controls its emotions, and rarely show them;
- Patient, observed, inclined to analyze everything that happened.
The theme of the relationship between a man and a woman is relevant worldwide. We are so often arguing about how much we are different and incompatible with the characters that it becomes the cause of relationships and various painful situations. It's fine when a woman knows what kind of man is suitable for - an introvert or extrovert, that's just to be able to recognize it in the crowd, so as not to waste time back!
Signs of Men-introvert:
- loves a quiet and peaceful time;
- conservative in views and judgments;
- Many introvert men love books and consider them the best gift;
- His appreciation is expressed by actions, words for them mean nothing;
- Entrovert husband - everything that can only wish, they have no equal in the marital life;
- love to reflect and talk on deep topics;
- Empty conversations are not for them, in conversation brief and concise;
- Means on the manifestation of emotions.
How to build communication?
Such a type of personality is very closed in itself, hidden, lives in his own world, and prefers to no one there. When communicating with this man, you are unlikely to be able to knock him off and confuse, as he is confident in himself and in his values.
All these characteristics may even more scare a woman. When meeting with the introvert, you need to act correctly and know several basic rules that will help to meet and begin to communicate.
- Introverts do not like false and inexpensive. Be extremely frank and sincere.
- Be sure to listen to the man, they love it.
- Do not affect when conversing those that can remind the introvert about their own failures.
- Help and support him verbly. Male-introvert this will appreciate it.
- Do not be too assertive. The introvert you need time to get to know you and evaluate your positive qualities.
- Forget about moral pressure. It will not lead to anything good. Show softness and politeness, then he will answer you the same. And do not impose your opinion. You can express him, but if he wants to stay at his own, albeit it will be.
Stick up these rules, and most likely, another conversation will follow.
Features of relationships
We have already sorted out that this psychotype of men is quite difficult. The same they are in relationships, and in love. Very often, its secrecy and indifference can be crazy and provoke not very pleasant thoughts.
If your satellite refers to such a type, be prepared for a certain behavior in relationships, and learn how to quietly take what is happening. Let us dwell on the main features, as well as the problems of relationships.
- Ignore your call. They do not like telephone conversations. This man will find many reasons to not answer. Be smarter - write a message.
- Work and only work. Sometimes the impression arises that it is in the first place for them. This is not quite so, just if something began to do, then you must bring to the end. Do not even think to make you choose between work and you. Understand and accept the situation. For this you, no doubt, will be rewarded.
- Responsible in two words. Does not love long and senseless conversations, very brief in conversation.
- Loses in noisy companies. The company of strangers, parties - not for introvert. He would prefer loneliness. Help him pass it.
- Does not apply to its problems. He decides to his own problems and thinks himself. He will never tell you about them. If you see that your man has become sad and understand, do not try to pull out information from it. Just ask if it considers it necessary, he will tell himself.
- Very loves animals. And if you are visiting, and your man preferred to play with a dog, rather sit down with everyone at the table, do not scold him, let him play.
- Apathy. You can plan some event for a long time, and at the last moment he wants to cancel everything and lie on the sofa. Observe calm. Offer to transfer everything to another day.
- Slowness. Very painstaking in making decisions, committing actions. You will need to sometimes take the initiative. But do not forget to ask his opinion.
- Fear of criticism. Never criticize your Men-introvert and do not compare it with others. He is very offended, but to make a hard one with such a guy.
Be careful, because any rash step or a rapid word can push your boyfriend and make him doubt you.
In love
We all nice to know and hear what they love us. You're so long try to fall in love with a man-introvert, and everything seems to be fine, but how to understand, is he in love or not? By virtue of the qualities of character and misfortune in the manifestation of emotions, it is very difficult to recognize the attitude of the introvert to you.
Let's look at how the introvertists behave themselves.
- If in order to spend time with you, the introvert leaves its comfort zone, it means something exactly. He can go to the club, to a party, a picnic for you, at least before was not a supporter of such entertainment.
- He is silent all the time, does not answer questions, and you start thinking that he is just not interested. It's not like that at all. The introvert loves and respects silence, and it was you who became the one who won the right to divide it with him.
- The introverts have an excellent sense of humor, but not all of them demonstrate it. Rather, on the contrary, they prefer to seem sarcastic. And if he is joking with you, laughs, then you are no longer a stranger.
- If you are already in relations with the introvert, you have nothing to worry about. Before agreeing to a serious relationship, the introvert will think for a long time, thinking, to evaluate the situation itself, which is going to become part of his world.
The most unpleasant thing you can even not notice that feelings are crumbling and everything is not like before. The introvert never says and does not apply that there is no love, it will disappear. And he will go to leave, and not to be returned.
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