In modern medicine, various kinds of psychological disorders are described in detail, with which one or another person may encounter. These disorders include recurrence narcissism. The state when a person does not notice anyone, besides himself, sometimes can go beyond the scope and, in this case, it can already be considered pathology. Diagnose this psychological disease is difficult, because it is impossible to give a person a diagnosis, without relevant knowledge in psychology and psychiatry. This article will describe the features of this disease, its signs and methods of treatment.
Peculiarities
PERVICE Narcissism is a specific personality disorder and some manner of behavior, which can manifest itself in the same volume in women, and in men. The people of people with such a disorder are called "Narcissus". However, the person is not worth named after each of the overly loving person, because this disease is difficult to determine, without being a professional physician. Moreover, this disease has different forms when a person suffering from this ailment does not bear any danger to society. The peculiarities of permaritable narcissism also include:
- unreasonable high personality self-esteem;
- the absence of a sense of regret or experience towards other people;
- The feeling of superiority over all other members of society.
Speaking of a man "Narcissue", which suffers from severe pathology, you can mention that such individuals "play" in their own games against the opposite sex. What, in turn, often negatively affects the second. Women begin to suffer from depressions, and sometimes more serious psychological injuries are also received.
Persongenic daffodils have a peculiar and even specific behavior manner that they produce not in one year. Such people very often deny their actions and often do not make what they promise. These people are almost always trying to subjugate their will of their interlocutor or partner.
Persened daffodils love to manipulate the feelings of others without experiencing true experiences. They are just unusual for them. Such people never take into account the opinions of others. Many doctors believe that people with launched pathology are absolutely cold-blooded and insensitive.
Causes of the emergence and formation of pathology
To date, there is no clear answer from specialists, why this disorder arises. But, like many other disorders and complexes, it can have roots in childhood. This one can also be connected with an inferiority complex, discontent with its appearance or position in society. Provocation of this disease can be caused by incorrect education or insufficient attention paid to the child.
Sometimes specialists even talk about the genetic predisposition of this type of disorders. And sometimes this disorder can be a symptom of even more dangerous diseases, for example, it may well be schizophrenia.
Signs
It is quite difficult to list all the signs of "Narcissa", because every person is very individual in essence, and therefore the disease can be in one way or another in different ways. Nevertheless, to the most significant general moments, due to which you can recognize Narcissus, refer to:
- Very strong fantasies about great success, which the alleged daffodil is constantly spent;
- The presence of desires about the reverence from specific people and society as a whole;
- arrogance and excessive ambitiousness, not supported by any actions;
- Outdoor negative on any criticism in your direction;
- all kinds of disguise complexes;
- Use other people for their own mercenary purposes.
Men and women with this pathology are never interested in the successes of other people, including those relatives. They are often talking about idols, and after which they prisigate them in every way. There are certain signs that have a gender nature. So, men-daffodss are always very arrogant, have wishes to become very rich and famous in whatever.
Such men, as a rule, do not refuse themselves, even if they do not allow them. They are very often neglected by the attitude of the representatives of the beautiful sex. Moreover, men are very demanding and proud. Typical daffodilous men financially depend on their parents or ladies of the heart. As a rule, the family thinks at the last moment or do not think at all, putting out yourself to the fore. As for women, they have a pathology of pereversny narcissism manifests itself in the following:
- They are overly followed their appearance, reaching the absurd;
- Looking for rich and secured partners, even if they understand that they are not a couple;
- admire with each possibility, in every way glowing themselves;
- Very often, in the desire for the ideal appearance, women-Narcissus resort to plastic operations, other surgical interventions and too abundant use of decorative cosmetics.
Despite the fact that the lady can have the pathology of this type, it is quite difficult to identify it. It seems that such well-groomed persons do not seem to be mentally unhealthy and seeking their benefits, on the contrary, they are often admired. Such girls, like men, Narcissus, do not prefer to earn independently, most often they are on financing parents. In any case, some people can just have an overwhelmed self-esteem and it does not mean at all that they are sick.
Therefore, it is worth noting that it is easy to diagnose your neighbor, a relative or some strange person, even despite the knowledge of certain features of this pathologue.
Development of relations with daffodil
Many personalities, calling the conversation with the interlocutors, cannot immediately recognize Narcissa. It is also very difficult to reveal it, just looking at him. People with pathology are very gallant and often produce a good impression at first glance, as a result of which they are quite nice to communicate with them. It is almost impossible to suspect anything until a certain time.
The first stages of relationships with a man or a woman suffering from perpetuational narcissism may seem very "sweet." Many researchers are even called their "honeymoon", but then all in the root changes and relationships begin to be absolutely different. Since people with narcissistic perversions have a serious personality disorder, they very often feel dissatisfied, although they do not show it. But when their partner is bored with them, they cease to hide it, showing their real essence. Then the relationship in the literal sense can turn into a real nightmare.
There is no friendly relationship with such people - it's hard to say, it all depends on the form of the disease and on how neither the behavior itself is. But if we talk about serious pathology and directly about the relationship of the pair, then these relationships are a dead end. If they are developing a certain time and bring some pleasure, then in the future they will not bring anything good.
Of course, there may be exceptions in pairs, especially if the "narcissistic nature" will still have a desire to cure.
Characteristic techniques of moral violence
Despite the fact that the behavior of Narcissa is difficult to predict, experts note certain cliches and specific techniques that people with this pathology skillfully use. So, the reception is referred to.
- Exaggerating any problems, the embellishment of situations in their favor.
- Unwillingness to listen to the partner, understand his feelings and emotions. Frequent "switching" of full attention to itself, while the partner discusses something important and urgent. At the same time, Narcissus can use ridicule, dramatically changing the topic of conversation.
- Anxious bell can be the fact that the part-to-Narcissus will transfer the words of his interlocutor.
- Also, people with such ailment can simply just boycott those with whom they communicate without explaining the reasons for them.
- And finally, they can show sudden attacks of aggression, even in relation to loved ones and relatives. They can very often be in anger, when something went wrong.
Perevosny Narcissus will always try to destroy another person in order to get over it all power. And many weak personalities, unfortunately, are amenable to such an influence.
Treatment methods
The diagnosis and any therapeutic measures should be appointed by a professional. This disease, as a rule, is not detected at the very beginning of its occurrence, and therefore it becomes chronic, as a result of which the therapy sessions can be given problematic. As a rule, experts develop a certain course of treatment, trying to interest the patient and push it to self-esteem. The best parameters in cure show that psychotherapy sessions are shown, and not treatment with medical drugs. It is advisable to appoint the latter if, in addition to one disorder, a person has depressed, panic attacks or any phobias, all this requires mandatory adjustment.
In any particular situations with mixed disorders, a specialist may prescribe a patient tranquilizers, antidepressants, other sedatives and phytopreparations. However, medical drugs are more dulling the symptoms of one or another disorder, without neglecting the disease. In order to achieve the best result, comprehensive therapy should be applied, which necessarily includes meetings with a psychotherapist.
Tips Sacrifice
Of course, the best option to avoid problems is not to contact with such people at all, since it is very difficult to resist them. Persened daffodils as if feeding the energy of those whom they aimed, it's hard to do with it. As a rule, if a man-Narcissus negligently refers to his woman in everyday life and in many things, as for the family, it is difficult to do anything here. Most often, specialists and family psychologists solve problems more simple situations related to household quarrels.
But if we are talking about Narcissa, then there will be no longer therapy, or people will have to disperse . Sometimes women choose humility, but again, they lack them for a long time. It should be realized that if it happened that her chosen one suffers from this pathology and is tyrant, then this is not his fault. So it has already happened. But this is not at all reason to endure and allow you to mock yourself in every way.
In rare cases, the correction of behavior with a specialist gives fruit, but only if the narcissistic pervert himself is interested in this, and not his victim. It is also worth understanding that people-Narcissus very often suffer from sensations that destroy them from the inside. Some of them even suffer from loneliness, because they cannot cope with themselves.
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