Someone does not like a specific person. Someone annoy the neighbors or colleagues directly. Some hate all of humanity. One want to hide from people to retire. Others wish to openly express their dissatisfaction with the society and the world as a whole.
Features of manifestation of hatred
Man hated people called Misanthropom . It is distant. Hate can spread to society and the world as a whole. Sometimes, the misanthropy becomes the vital personality philosophy, and sometimes transforms into illness - Sociopathy . Dislike for others and dissatisfaction with society is often accompanied by malice, irritation and anger. A hostile individual takes everything in the bayonets because of its psychological problems, including insecurity. It strongly depends on the opinions of other people. Criticizing in your address perceives extremely painful, so it tries to avoid all contacts with the outside world.
Often, Misanthropes most others hate himself, projecting this dislike for society . He does not accept folk traditions, morals, lifestyle, religion, culture. Misanthrop does not like all humanity and social order. His annoying any weaknesses of people, their missing. Most mansmanship are in normal relations with others, they know how to be good to be friends, but filter the circle of communication. Such people do not try to completely get rid of contacts, but simply limit them. The mansman can envy beauty, the mind, the consistency of others.
Envy provokes hatred, disrespect and anger to the owners of good qualities. Sometimes the feeling of envy arises to the material well-being of familiar or relatives.
Hate to human genus can manifest in different ways. Some are trying to isolate themselves from society and enjoy their own loneliness. Others suffer from privacy. There are subjects that are very loved by animals, but hate people. They are ready to keep dozens of pets in their apartment, but they face society. The reason to become treason of loved ones, betrayal, disappointment in humans, personal philosophy. However, not all animal lovers are misanthrops.
Some cannot endure in the elevator with someone. One does not like that people are sitting too close. Others annoying a loud conversation of the companions present nearby. Thirdians do not like stopping on the floors and waiting for foreign elevators. The person who should go before, causes a storm of indignation from mansmanship. Someone does not like to sit next to a stranger in public transport. Special irritation causes the opportunity to be in place in the passage or sit between two people. Displeasure arises due to violation of personal space. Man wants to ride alone.
In most Misanthropov, with the abolition of some joint plans, an incredible sense of joy appears, which disappeared the need for dialogue and interaction with another person. A person has a load from the shoulders falls. Now you can stay alone with yourself, go to your business. When the opportunity to choose a society of friends or watching the film alone, the choice is made in favor of the film.
There are people who tolerate cannot communicate by phone. If necessary, they prescribe the time of the call with sadness, take the phone, they type the room and the sneaks lead a conversation. Such personalities are much easier to send SMS or write a Message in one of the messengers. However, participation in group chats is strongly annoying and tired.
If required to overpay for lunch in a closer place, then preference is given by posting extra money. Dining in a crowded place do not want because of noise and crowding. Queues lead to panic state. The surrounding annoying are forced to be nervous and do not give normally dine. Sometimes the Mizanthpus has to be resettled from a good place in a secluded corner, just to be away from people and not to be on the universal ferris. When you meet an unconscious search for disadvantages. Mizanthpore immediately mentally noted: a new acquaintance is unintelligible pronounces words, dressed immediately, during the conversation too waving his hands. Initially created negative attitude causes a long-term adaptation to communicating with a newcomer.
Dislike can only be directed on children, men or women. Hate for the ladies can manifest itself in the failure of their promises, an acute response to the success of representatives of weak gender, late for business meetings with them in punctuality in relation to the male surrounding.
Sentenavidniks Easily cause soulful pain to girls, they are released into their address different baffles and offensive jokes. They relate to disrespect and disregard for their partner, it easily change it.
Varieties
Most of the Misanthrops are striving for loneliness. They are characteristic of an incredulous attitude towards others, excessive suspicion, alienation, dislike and pessimism. Such people face noisy companies, but have their own narrow circle of communication. Misanthrop is a person with overpriced requirements for a separate person and society. The man demonstor does not want to forgive human mistakes, vices, inaccuracies to anyone, including himself.
Among the Misanthropes there are very clever people. They are so passionate about their business that their environment is perceived as an obstacle arising in the way to achieving goals. Such ingenious people refer to the type of techy-mizantropov. This mitantropic view can be found among technical specialists, silently digging in various devices and not paying any attention to others.
Sometimes a talented person, making himself a genius, expresses contempt for others. Man looks down on their imperfection. Foreign people are perceived by him as mediocre and stupid subjects.
There are misanthropes-losers. They are due to their inaccurability or weakness cannot take a high position in society, to achieve the location of others to achieve success. As a result, dissatisfaction with his own person will develop in hatred of others and to the whole world. There are misanthropes, consciously rejecting social foundations. They do not digest miserable people and try to rise above the gray mass. For this purpose, they are engaged in self-development, try to increase their own erudition.
Similar mansmen do not need to communicate with others. They maintain relationships with a limited number of people.
Delivens are disgusted with the female sex. The most dangerous woman is Hidden type. In this case, a man shows courtesy and restraint. He makes a pleasant impression on the ladies. But his true person opens only after the marriage procedure. The open type of women's laminate people include people, publicly insulting, degrading and ridicuing female representatives. They negatively respond about the mental abilities of the ladies, support any negative statements towards women.
Misanthropes Buntari dream of changing the world by reform . They seriously perceive any injustice. Arrange rallies in defense of animals and ecology. Their hostility applies not to the world as a whole, but for some groups of persons, parties, specific individuals who have any attitude to the wrongness. This type of mansmanship is not isolated from society, and openly joins the fight against injustice.
Sociopaths suffer from dangerous personality disorder. They do not have a sense of empathy, they differ in aggressiveness and the ability to hurt another. Often resort to violence. Inability to control your own fear of society turns sociopaths into murderers, robbers and rapists. But not all sociopaths demonstrate deviant behavior. Sociopathy is a mental deflection requiring treatment.
Xenophobes Believe with dislike not to all people. They hate individuals belonging to a certain race, nationality or religion. They are annoyed by subjects with a certain appearance, character, manners and behavior. Xenophobes are categorically against interracial and interethnic marriages.
Nationalism and racism are varieties of xenophobia. Nationalists do not digest people of another nationality. Some peacefully and quietly hate representatives of some nation, others aggressively show their dislike. Mass intolerance often leads to extremism. Racists are irreconcilable to people with other skin color. They divide society on the lowest and the highest race. There are racists, in every possible way avoiding and denying contacts with representatives of another race. Some tolerantly behave in relation to the lower race, but do not recognize marriages and hide their relationship with people belonging to her.
Main reasons
Hate to humanity and the whole world begins to develop in childhood, and in adolescence, the feeling is enhanced. The teenagers exacerbate critical thinking and the desire to defend their own "I". Resentment on parents sometimes lead to the rejection of the whole human race and the world as a whole. Sociopathy belongs to hereditary and acquired pathology. It can develop during the formation of the personality due to excessive criticism and overestimated requirements imposed by the baby with strict parents. Cruel treatment of the child, violence, corporal punishment suppress the person and contribute to the development of hatred.
Too strict and domineering mother may affect the development of the rejection of all women. The lack of emotional contact with the mother or the lack of her attention is sometimes the cause of dislike for the female floor. In-family religious views form a special worldview. In some families, the female role is depreciated. Often parents, leading immoral and asocial lifestyle, raise evil and cruel people. The child is very important to feel in complete safety, otherwise the persistent negative perception of the world is formed.
The kid must trust mother and father. Their emotional coldness and tense relations with each other provoke the development of internal complexes. Over time, uncertainty appears.
In some families, the opinions of the mother and the Father in the issue of education of the child are much diverged. The opposite parent opinion is reflected in the formation of a person. It develops a negative attitude towards individuals and society. Misanthropy can lead mockery of classmates and peers. Constant humiliation from the surrounding people contribute to the development of hatred for a certain group of peers. Subsequently, dislike can spread to the whole society.
There are romantic nature that perceive the world in pink color. Any disappointment lead them to coexpension from society. After betrayals and add romantics, they are no longer imparted in their lives of foreign people. Inability to establish contact with the opposite floor can cause severe mental pain. A person who expects for honest and stable relationships, faces a lie, treason of the second half, duplex. He is experiencing deep suffering, offended by his partner, and as a result ceases to trust everyone.
The presence of physical defects in appearance may cause fear of a woman or a man. Unsuccessful first sex life experience, open ridiculous girls sometimes lead to the rejection of other people. Many Mizanthropov has a protective projection mechanism. Displeased by himself provokes the rejection of other personalities. When people do not share the point of view of such a person, he begins to hate their society throughout the soul. He is unpleasant among subjects who do not take his views.
What to do?
First you need to deal with your negative feelings. Try to find an answer to the question of what the reason for your hatred to people is lick. Maybe it's all about your character? Or is you not satisfied with the financial situation? It is necessary to decide whether you want to live further with the rejection of individual individuals, society and the world as a whole. Or came the time of farewell to a peculiar shell, protecting your thin soul. After all, mitanthropy is a protective reaction to the manifestation of depreciation and aggression. It may indicate low self-esteem.
The first step towards mental cleansing is the exemption from the feeling of guilt, the forgiveness of himself. After that, you should take all those surrounding as they are. Hummifier needs to be transformed negative in positive. Admit features of the nature of another personality. Try to find a common language with the subject, and do not strive to cause sympathy to it with artificial way.
It is necessary to try to make the first step towards people. If you can't take it and love another person, try at least stopping yourself at the moments of anger. An effective exercise is a mental score of up to twenty during the approximation of this destructive feeling. While a person believes in the mind, angiveness subsides. Do not demonstrate your negative emotions in public. Support with people a normal dialogue in a calm and structural manner. It is necessary to stop looking at the interlocutor with dislike.
Destroy hatred in your heart. Put yourself on someone else's place. Look at the situation on the part.
If you are annoyed by the stupidity of the interlocutor, then understand that every person is a specialist in his nearby sphere and can not be completely unreasoned in another area. If you have several languages, your interlocutor is not obliged to know them. But it can be a magnificent programmer and a large connoisseur modeling of computer games. You may not be available to his knowledge. Treat around with respect.
Try to do charity, assist in need. Participate the territory adjacent to your home. Landscape along with neighbors playgrounds and park zone. Hummifier will surely feel that it is very nice to bring pleasure to others. The worldview will gradually begin to change. Over time, a more tolerant attitude to the insincerity of others and injustice will appear.
If difficulties arise in an independent attempt to eradicate misentropy, contact a specialist for help. The psychologist will reveal the reason for the appearance of mansion and help you learn to love. Overcome the internal painful protests is best under the supervision of a specialist.
